For this last week of the calendar year, we're departing from our usual format to bring you a special 5-day series called the Weighless Mindset Reset. The New Year is a time when many people resolve to eat healthier. Unfortunately, those resolutions have typically crashed and burned by the second week of January.  By taking a little time to tune up our mindset, I think we can greatly improve our chances of converting our New Year resolutions into more lasting behavior change. This series was originally developed to give people who were interested in the Weighless Program a taste of the kind of work we do in that program. (Mindset of course is only one aspect of that program, but it’s an important one.) We'll be sharing a new Mindset Reset every day between now and New Year’s Eve. If this series resonates with you and you're ready to take the next step,  our next group program begins on January 1st. Learn more about the Weighless Program  Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

There are apps and devices that help us what we eat, weigh, spend, save, how much water we drink, how many steps we take. But what is all of this tracking doing for us? Are we using these tools and this information to improve our wellbeing or have we succumbed to the tyranny of tracking? Joining me on the podcast is registered dietitian and workplace wellness consultant Cassie Christopher. Tracking is a a topic that comes up a lot for each of us in the coaching work that we do and in this episode, we explore what tracking offers, where it often goes wrong, and how we can leverage the benefits without it becoming an unhealthy or unhelpful practice.  I’m also excited to share that the Weighless Program is once again accepting new members! The next group begins on January 1st. All the details are at weighless.life/enroll.MentionedLearn more about the Weighless ProgramLearn more about Cassie Christopher’s work Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

If anyone is telling you they can guarantee that you will succeed (as long as you follow their method or their strategy or whatever), they are not being upfront with you. Here’s the hard truth: If you want to succeed, you have to be willing to risk failing. In fact, if there is anything that actually does guarantee success, it’s being willing to fail–repeatedly if necessary.But let’s not make this harder than it needs to be. In this episode, I (and a bunch of former clients) talk about how to make this easier.Key Takeaways- It’s easy to see our past failures as evidence that we can’t succeed. But failure is the foundation for virtually every success.- We never know ahead of time which attempt will be the one that actually works. - Instead of asking yourself “What if I fail?, ” ask yourself “What if this works?” - Your willingness to learn and grow is ultimately more powerful than your determination to reach a certain specific goal or outcome. MentionedAttend Weighless Program Info Session (Dec 14th, 2023)Molly Watts (Alcohol Minimalist podcast)Zahra’s storyAndrew’s storyErika’s storyMarieka’s story ★ Support this podcast ★

Today, I’m sharing a bit about my circle of support and inviting you to evaluate your own network. Who are you grateful for? Where might your support network need a little building out? Whose support network are you a part of and how do you support them?Many of us have bigger and more varied support networks than we even realize–or fully take advantage of.And for those whose networks are a little threadbare, I have some ideas on how to shore those up.Key Takeaways- A more effective gratitude practice is to reflect not just on the things that we’re grateful for but the people and circumstances that make them possible.- There may be people in your support network that you've never actually met. But they've contributed to your growth through their work or example.- Feeling gratitude is good for you; Expressing gratitude multiplies the good.- Thinking of ways you can support others is a great way to build your own circle of support.AcknowledgedBurnout by Emily and Amelia NagoskiCultivate BrandsQuick and Dirty Tips networkCassie Christopher, MS, RDNBethy Campbell, PhDMolly Watts, Alcohol Minimalist podcastEncore RetreatsFood We Need to Talk with Juna GjataFit is Freedom with Kelly HowardTiny Leaps, Big Changes with Gregg ClunisTicora Davis, Creator’s Law FirmStacey Harris, Uncommonly MoreTara McMullin, What WorksOliver Burkeman Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Exploring the nuances of the Stages of Change and how behavior change happens. The intersection between the Life Raft Model and the Trans-Theoretical Model. Navigating the messiness of change and the value of support. The development of a course, assessment, and playlist for supporting change. Key takeaways include matching helping strategies with readiness, non-linear stages of change, and internal transformation before external action.

Hedonic self-care involves activities that we find pleasurable. A massage or a nap or time spent with dear friends. Eudaimonic self-care includes those things we do not necessarily because they are pleasurable in the moment, but because they support our goals and objectives.  Things like getting our teeth cleaned, or doing meal prep ahead of a busy week, or spending time and money on a therapist or hiring a health coach. You could easily get the impression that eudaimonic self-care is better or more virtuous than hedonic self-care. But this is not the case. And I don’t want you to forsake hedonic self-care as lesser than.Key TakeawaysTry to maintain a balance between those things you do because they make you feel good in the moment and those things you do because they contribute to your long term well-being. Both are important to a fulfilling life.Cramming in a lot of peak experiences doesn’t guarantee that you’ll look back on your life and feel it was well-lived. One way to waste time is to spend it doing things that don’t really matter. But another way to waste time is to spend it living for an imaginary future. Whether hedonic or eudaimonic, if it comes at the expense of your mental, physical, or financial wellbeing, it doesn’t qualify as true self-care.MentionedEpisode 80: Rescuing Self-care from Consumer Culture4000 Weeks, by Oliver Burkeman30 Day Nutrition Upgrade Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Earlier this month, I sat down with Kelly Howard of the Fit is Freedom podcast. You may remember Kelly from a Change Academy episode on how incorporating more fun and adventure can help you be more consistent about your fitness practice. Kelly invited me back to the Fit is Freedom podcast to share some tips with her listeners on how to enjoy the upcoming the holiday season without throwing all of our healthy habits and progress under the bus.  I thought you would be interested in hearing this conversation as well. So, with Kelly’s permission, I’m sharing that episode here with you. I share a couple of specific strategies that I find useful at this time of year…one is a mindset shift. The other is straight up tactical. We also talk a bit about the 30 Day nutrition upgrade that’s coming up on November 8th—because that program is part of my answer to the question of how to stay on track even with all the disruption and opportunities to indulge that come with the holidays. If you haven’t yet registered for the 30 Day Nutrition Upgrade, you can do that at changeacademhypodcast.com/upgrade (or just click on the link in the show notes).  Mentioned: Fit is Freedom podcast30 Day Nutrition Upgrade (starts November 8th) ★ Support this podcast ★

In the previous episode, I talked about some of the things that can go wrong when we put corporations in charge of our wellbeing. In this episode, I share an example of what it looks like when it goes right, and how corporate-sponsored wellbeing programs can actually have a very positive impact on individuals and workers as well as on the company’s bottom line. Lindsey Soroka is a registered dietitian and works as a health promotion specialist for a major national corporation, where she’s in charge of (among other things) engaging the employees in wellness education, services, and programming.  Lindsey and I first worked together when her company brought me in to offer the 30-Day Nutrition Upgrade program to their employees, Afterward, we sat down to talk about what she’s learned about motivating people and why major corporations want to invest in wellbeing programming. But there are valuable lessons for all of us in this conversation. In particular, I hope you catch the ways in which our efforts to enhance our own wellbeing can ripple out into our families, workplaces, and communities. Key TakeawaysCompanies are in business to be profitable, but the smart ones recognize that in order to thrive as a company, they need a healthy, stable and well-resourced workforce. If you are feeling burned out or overwhelmed at work, you may not feel like you have the bandwidth to explore your employers’ wellness resources but this is actually the time they may be most valuable (and your employer really does want you to use them).When trying to establish new behaviors, a short-term commitment can make it feel more doable.  But a good short-term challenge will be designed with the long tail in mind. Doing something as part of a group really helps to foster a sense of wellbeing and connection. And it helps you stick with it.Reaching out to someone who’s had a positive impact on you not only means the world to them but can also benefit your own mental and physical health.  Be on the lookout for opportunities to do that.Mentioned30 Day Nutrition Upgrade (starts November 8th)Contact Monica to discuss corporate wellness programming ★ Support this podcast ★

A lot of employers and health insurers are now offering wellbeing apps and portals. They're obviously hoping that giving people tools to help them manage their health conditions and nudge them toward healthy behaviors will reduce health care costs. I recently checked out the wellbeing app offered by my own health insurance company. I actually think that some of the well-meaning but poorly-conceived prompts could be doing more harm than good. To be fair, figuring out how to nudge people to adopt healthier habits is a hard nut to crack. In this episode, I share five ideas on how we can design behavioral interventions that are more effective as well as more inclusive, accessible, and sustainable. I also have an opportunity for you to see these principles in action. Key TakeawaysPeople not only need to believe that what you’re asking them to do will benefit them, they also need to feel confident that they can actually do it.People cannot pay attention to everything. Therefore, you need to help them pay attention to the right things.Don’t just discourage the negative; promote positive behaviors.All-or-nothing approaches (or mindsets) rarely lead to long-term change. We tend to over-estimate the impact of our most extreme behaviors. In fact, it is your most typical behavior that determines your results. Focus on those.MentionedNutrition GPA appRegister for the 30-Day Nutrition UpgradeMore info for Coaching Partners ★ Support this podcast ★

The podcast discusses the habit of using food as a treat or reward and the potential harm it can cause. It highlights the importance of being intentional and thoughtful about treats, planning them in advance for increased enjoyment and improved restraint. The episode also explores the concept of reward systems, breaking old habit cycles, and discovering new rewarding activities. It emphasizes enhancing the experience of treating oneself and choosing better treats. Additionally, it mentions a program on Body Image Repair and Resilience and provides support options for listeners in need.