Change Academy

What if the pursuit of happiness is NOT the path to greater life satisfaction? What if being more productive and getting more done isn’t actually the way to get ahead?In this episode, I'm revisiting my conversation with author Oliver Burkeman about some of the ways in which we might want to re-examine our relationship to goals, happiness, and the things that are most important to us.This is sometimes a bit painful. because so much of it has to do with confronting some of the hard limits that we like to pretend don’t exist. But, as you’ll hear, there is ultimately a profound relief and freedom to be found in facing finitude. Key TakeawaysTry to find satisfaction in the journey toward your goals, rather than postponing fulfillment until they are achieved​​.Cultivating your ability to be present to everyday, even mundane, moments can lead to a deeper appreciation of life as it unfolds.Understand that every choice has its consequences, and it’s impossible to avoid negative outcomes entirely.Some of the most meaningful experiences in life are not the result of meticulous planning or pursuit but unexpected and unplanned.Being present is a skill that can be practiced in everyday situations like waiting in line or working in the office​​–and not just on the meditation cushion or yoga mat.Mentioned in this EpisodeUpcoming Live Events for Meditations for MortalsThe Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking4,000 Weeks: Time Management for Mortals50K Mile Tune-up Listening Guide and Workbook Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Dive into the fascinating world of time travel as your Current Self reflects on the Future Self's aspirations. Explore how emotional connections influence our motivation to make better choices for tomorrow. Discover techniques to visualize your future self and the importance of writing letters to align with your true values. A unique time capsule challenge awaits, encouraging you to ponder how your past intentions have influenced your present actions. It’s a journey of self-discovery and legacy building—don’t miss the insights!

In this final episode of our Business of Being Well series, wellness strategist and speaker Cassie Christopher joins me to explore how insights from the world of business—especially sales and marketing—can help wellness professionals become more effective, persuasive, and impactful.HighlightsHow the "what" isn’t nearly as important as the "why"A simple messaging shift that can dramatically boost participationHow to build authority and credibility in skeptical or high-stress environmentsHow to reframe selling as an act of service, not manipulationThe one business skill every wellness pro should master (hint: it’s not spreadsheets)Mentioned in this EpisodeYou Can't Pour from an Empty Cup: Self-Compassion for a Thriving Workforce (Cassie's upcoming session at HERO Forum II)Cassie Christopher, Corporate Wellness Speaker The Business of Being Well: a Special SeriesJoin our mailing list Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

What if your values weren’t just something you thought about once during a journaling workshop, but a real-time compass for how you show up—especially when things get complicated? In this episode, we’re going to talk about how to turn your values into a functional operating system.Key Takeaways:- A personal mission statement isn’t a slogan—it’s an operating system. When used well, it helps guide daily actions, not just big decisions.- Misalignment between values and actions is a valuable signal that it might be time to recommit to your goals…or to revise them entirely.- “Would this be on-brand for me?” is a useful question to test alignment between choices and core identity.- When you're stuck, your values can help you move from indecision to clarity.- Mission statements don’t have to be perfect; they just have to feel true. The goal is not to impress others, but to steer you toward decisions you can stand behind, especially when things get tough.MentionedEp 33: Aligned Actions Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Sometimes, the system isn’t broken—it’s just bottlenecked.In this episode, we’re continuing our series on translating business strategies into personal growth tools by looking at bottlenecks: those hidden chokepoints where progress stalls and good intentions quietly fall apart.You’ll learn how to spot these sneaky sources of friction, and explore simple ways to loosen them—so your habits feel easier, not harder, to follow through on.Key TakeawaysBottlenecks aren’t failures—they’re leverage points. Identifying them gives you a clearer sense of where to focus your attention for the biggest impact.Look for where things consistently stall—not where you 'fail.'  Troubleshooting your routines can be more productive than judging them.Delegate when you can—share the load.  You don’t have to be the sole operator of your entire life.Automate where possible—to reduce friction and decision fatigue.  If it can be made simpler or more predictable, that’s often the difference between doing it and skipping it.Simplify or eliminate what's no longer serving you.  A habit doesn't have to be perfect to be worth doing. The more repeatable it is, the more reliable it becomes. Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

When the economy gets rocky, smart businesses don’t panic—they prepare. They focus on what really matters, streamline what they can, and make sure they’re flexible enough to weather the storm. In this episode, we’re borrowing that same mindset and translating it into the way we think about our own self-care routines and health habits. Because whether it’s travel, stress, a challenging diagnosis, or just a really busy season, life will test your systems.We’ll explore six ways businesses recession-proof themselves—and translate them into strategies you can use to build more resilience into your own routines. Not to control every variable, but to stay steady when things get wobbly.Key TakeawaysIdentify your non-negotiables--the routines, supports, and boundaries that keep you grounded and functional.Once your essentials are clear, you can consciously pause or scale back the “nice-to-haves” without guilt. This prevents burnout and preserves energy for what really matters.Don't rely on just one strategy. Have multiple ways to meet your needs so you’re not derailed by a single point of failure.Build your reserves--whether it’s food in the freezer, margin in your calendar, or emotional stamina. In a pinch, shift from growth to resilience mode. Maintenance is a win when your capacity is limited.Strengthen your relationships with the people, tools, and systems that support your follow-through. Don’t wait until things get rocky to realize how much you depend on those connections. Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Discover the powerful distinction between leading and lagging indicators that can transform your approach to success. Stop chasing results and start tracking controllable actions that move you forward. Learn how to define progress by daily wins to boost motivation and create momentum. Monica shares personal experiments and examples from various goals, highlighting the importance of regular feedback and discipline. Embrace a mindset shift that values consistent behaviors over elusive outcomes to maintain your drive and clarity.

If you feel like your progress (or your motivation) has stalled, you have options. You can redouble your efforts. You can take an entirely different approach. Or, you might even decide to walk away. In this episode, we’ll talk about figuring out which route serves you best. Key Takeaways1. Taking a break can help protect the quality of our work, create space for creative insights, and ensure that we’re using our time and energy in the most meaningful way.2. The urge to step away can sometimes be a form of avoidance. When something feels hard or tedious, pushing through may be the key to progress. The challenge is knowing when persistence serves us and when it doesn’t.3. Just because something was valuable or necessary in the past doesn’t mean it still is. We can get stuck in commitments out of habit, sunk costs, or fear of change. It’s important to ask: Would I choose this again today?4. Unplanned breaks can still serve us. When life forces us to pause, we can reframe it as an opportunity for reflection, skill-building, or re-evaluating our direction. 5. Clarity comes from asking the right questions. 1.  What would taking a break or stepping back make possible? Would you use that freed-up time and energy to do something else that is important and meaningful to you? 2. Are there clear benefits to continuing? Are you willing to give those up, or would you regret it?3. Are you seeing the results you had hoped to see? If not, why not?4. Might you be better off pursuing the same goal but in a different way? 5. Is this goal still meaningful to you?6. Am I continuing in this effort because it still makes sense, or because I’m having trouble cutting bait on the time or effort I’ve already invested? 7. Has my objective changed? Is this goal still aligned with my current objective?8. If I were starting from scratch today, would I still commit to this?MentionedEp 488 of the What Works podcast with Tara McMullinThe Change Academy will be on hiatus for the next several weeks. We plan to be back later in the Spring with some exciting new content. If you’re not already on our mailing list, sign up here, and we’ll send you a quick announcement when our next episodes are ready!  Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Are you guilty of holding yourself (or others) to impossibly high standards?In this episode, we're exploring the concept of Ought implies can—the notion that we can only be obligated to do what we’re actually capable of. But how do we know where the limits of ability really are?Are we being too hard on ourselves (or others)? Or are we making excuses?Learning how to tell the difference can help you set fair, realistic, and empowering expectations—for yourself and everyone around you.Key Takeaways-  Capacity includes more than just your physical ability to do something—cognitive, emotional, and situational factors also shape what’s truly possible.-  There's an important difference between "I can't" and "I can't yet."-  Acknowledging barriers or limitations is not an excuse, it's an invitation. -  When setting expectations—of yourself or others—check your assumptions. Are you asking for something that’s actually within reach? Or are you expecting the impossible? Interested in having Monica present at your next live or virtual event?  Learn more. ★ Support this podcast ★

Dr. Jessica Grossmeier, a senior fellow at HERO and author of 'Reimagining Workplace Well-Being', dives into how to thrive in your current job. She discusses how small mindset shifts can reignite purpose and job satisfaction. The importance of fostering workplace connections is emphasized as a means to enhance well-being and performance. Jessica highlights actionable, science-backed techniques to cultivate transcendence and meaningful relationships at work, proving there's more to a job than just tasks.