Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Marriage is a two-way street and requires both partners to be committed to building a strong foundation. But when life happens, and you're no longer in the honeymoon phase, what fuels your marriage? What keeps the fire burning? And no, it's not just sex. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co And that's on both sides. But honestly, there is more to a marriage than sex. What fuels your marriage? What keeps the flame burning? Think about an oil candle. Without fuel (the oil), the wick cannot burn. The flame goes out. Same with marriage. If you don't give your marriage the right fuel, the flame goes out. The K.I.S.S. ~ Add the right fuel to your marriage every day! 1. COMMUNICATION - One of the most important things that fuels a marriage is communication. When you and your spouse can communicate effectively, you're able to understand each other's needs and wants, then you can work together to find solutions to problems that arise. And remember that part of communicating is listening. 2. TRUST - Another important factor is trust. Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship, and it is crucial in a marriage. When you trust your spouse, you believe in their integrity and reliability, and you know that they have your best interests at heart. A marriage cannot survive without trust. 3. RESPECT - A third important factor is respect. Respect is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, and it's essential in marriage. When you treat your spouse with kindness, consideration, and compassion, and value their opinions and feelings, you are exhibiting respect. And with respect, you're able to build a strong foundation of mutual understanding and support (compromise). PRAYER: May your thoughts, words, and actions lead with kindness and love toward your spouse. Even in the midst of challenges, remember the reason you fell in love. May your calendar reflect the daily commitment to spending time with your spouse. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Success, Entrepreneur, LifeHack, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect in our Community - Women Of IMPACT https://createyournow.mn.co 2. Listen to the Create Your Now Podcast on iHeart Radio, Apple, Spotify, Samsung, Pandora, Amazon, and Audible. 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 8. Create Your Now Archive 6 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 9. Create Your Now Archive 7 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 10. NEW Website! Please check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com 11. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2 12. Schedule a Discovery Call. It's a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about gaining insight and ready to take AIM. 13. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

What do you do when your children drive you crazy? Don't fall into the traps of misplaced hurt and blame. Spill over with grace. I'm sure you've experienced a few frustrations that have led you down the road of yelling and screaming, proclaiming how you're right, and your children are wrong. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Guilty as charged. As parents, it's easy to get caught up in the idea of right and wrong, especially when it comes to our children. We want them to make good choices, behave well, and do well in school. We want them to find their career, a great spouse, and make a beautiful life for themselves. But it's important to remember that they are human and will make mistakes. When they do, rather than getting angry or punishing them, some circumstances call for a response of grace and understanding. The K.I.S.S. ~ Spill over with grace! Now, if it's a blood or flood moment, then you may have to be a little more direct in your discipline and response to their actions. However, I want to challenge you to think outside the box. What if you were cool, calm, and collected? A Poem from My Grandma, Jan Bass (By K.J. Ramsey, The Book of Common Courage) I searched and search And could not find A single place for rest Until the hand of Jesus Drew me close unto His breast. He said, My little child, I see in you no blame. You are of My choosing. You're the very reason I came. I said, My Father God, What with me would you then do? And He said, Child, child of mine, I want only to love you. If there was only you And I knew of no other, Still I would come, That I could be your brother. You must begin with your own life-giving lives. It's who you are, not what you say and do, that counts. Your true being brims over into true words and deeds. — Luke 6:34 MSG You want to train up your child to know that regardless of what they do, you will still love them. Now, you also need to make it clear that it doesn't mean you approve of everything they do. But mom, dad... You are called to love unconditionally. To extend the grace that was extended to you by God. There are moments in life when you need to just sit with your child. You need to let them feel their emotions and wrestle with the feelings, knowing that you are always going to love them. But if your response to their mishaps and failures is all about what they did wrong, how will they ever feel they did right in your eyes? Spill over with grace. My daughter shared with me a story back in the day when she was in middle school. I don't remember the details specifically, but she knew that I would not be happy with what happened. So instead of hiding whatever it was, she told me about it. And then her life was changed. I remained very calm and approached her with a hug, holding her in the moment. "Mom -- I thought you were going to be so mad. You scared me to death." Her thinking was that I would lay into her and get really mad. And when I didn't, she was more scared. Sometimes the sting of the event is worse than your disappointment in them. Spill over with grace. PRAYER: May your words carry wisdom to the hearts of your children, while you're steadfast in your love for them. Hold tight to what you know is true. Serve with kindness, love with compassion, and stand firm in peace. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Success, Entrepreneur, LifeHack, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect in our Community - Women Of IMPACT https://createyournow.mn.co 2. Listen to the Create Your Now Podcast on iHeart Radio, Apple, Spotify, Samsung, Pandora, Amazon, and Audible. 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 8. Create Your Now Archive 6 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 9. Create Your Now Archive 7 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 10. NEW Website! Please check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com 11. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! 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You determine how your day will go from your commitments to yourself and to others. Stop pleasing and start living. Prioritize what matters most in your life. One of the greatest letdowns in life is not living out our dreams. We strive for everyone else's success (kids, big business, community, etc.), but leave ourselves stranded on the sidelines. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co We think about our dreams and revisit them once in a while, almost as if they have been sentenced to life in prison without parole. Now, that may sound a little harsh. But let's stop dancing around the subject. Life throws you curve balls every day. And it's in those moments where you make a split-second decision on what to do next. What if you were to change your decisions to focus more on what you want out of life? That doesn't mean you are leaving those you love behind. In fact, you will be able to give them more as you move forward with clarity. The K.I.S.S. ~ Prioritize what matters most in your life! Give an honest review of how you are living currently. Don't get all down on yourself, but do allow yourself to feel your emotions. Then, click your heels three times and declare what you want for this season of your life. "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." ~ Ecclesiastes 3:1 So what are those activities for you, your spouse, and your family? What does a beautiful, productive day look like when you unshackle your dreams and give your mind permission to fly? "When you remove the restrictions, you gain resolutions." ~ Kristianne Wargo God made you on purpose for a purpose. Look at your day with passion in your step and hope for brighter moments. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo PRAYER: May your energy expand as you ponder God-size dreams. Let the unknown spark the adventurous soul within, making way for dreaming again. As your emotions move up and down and all around, cling to the talents and gifts God gave you. You are a beautiful soul. Create your now and go impact the world you touch! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Success, Entrepreneur, LifeHack, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect in our Community - Women Of IMPACT https://createyournow.mn.co 2. Listen to the Create Your Now Podcast on iHeart Radio, Apple, Spotify, Samsung, Pandora, Amazon, and Audible. 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! 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Consistency is a key aspect of well-being; the foundation on which healthy habits are built and sustained. No matter your focus, consistency is essential for achieving and maintaining good health and happiness. So what are you really good at? Eating? Sleeping? Dodging your new year's resolutions? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co You can have the healthy lifestyle you desire. But you know it doesn't come easy. So stop trying to fool yourself. Instead, sure up your foundation and build consistency every day. The K.I.S.S. ~ Build consistency every day! One of the most important ways to build consistency is creating good habits that work for you, not against you. You want the good habits to stick and the bad habits to be less appealing. Notice I didn't say removed completely. It's hard to teach old dogs new tricks. Habits are hard to break, but they can be stacked. Habit stack a daily routine. Most of us live by habits. Think about it. We barely use 10% of our brains. Scary, but true. So take the time to habit stack. Create what works toward your goals. Do it over a period of time, no rushing, creating a sense of routine that is controlled. And who doesn't want control? Maintenance seals the habit daily. How you choose to show up is how you will continue to care for yourself. Think about how you care for your car. If you never change your car's oil, do you think it will last much beyond 3 years? Probably not. Or it might be with a full engine overhaul. You want to always lean toward caring for and letting go of pushing all the time. Repetition develops consistency. This is the pattern driver. The more often you do something, the more consistent it becomes. If you practice positive thinking and self-talk, do you think that will build your negative talk muscle? NO! "What you practice, you progress in. So live out who you want to be." ~ Kristianne Wargo Consistency is a crucial aspect of well-being; the foundation on which healthy habits are built and sustained. When you commit to becoming consistent, you can improve your overall well-being and lead a happier, healthier life. PRAYER: May your mirror reflect your actions that change your heart and health for the better. Don't rush your goals, but stay consistent with your actions. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness! "Train for life. Love your journey!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Success, Entrepreneur, LifeHack, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect in our Community - Women Of IMPACT https://createyournow.mn.co 2. Listen to the Create Your Now Podcast on iHeart Radio, Apple, Spotify, Samsung, Pandora, Amazon, and Audible. 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 8. Create Your Now Archive 6 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 9. Create Your Now Archive 7 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 10. NEW Website! Please check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com 11. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! 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There are always moments in life when you feel overwhelmed. Don't get stuck in regrets, worries, failures, and fears. Fix your eyes forward. Because dwelling on what doesn't serve you, everything in the past, can lead you to have an attitude of status quo. Why try anymore? It's easier to hang out where you are. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co However, you have to be realistic, too. If you want to change where you are in life, you have to change your environment. You have to change your thoughts. You have to change who you hang out with. You have to change what you daily. You can't lose weight if you keep eating what you've been eating. You can't have a better relationship with your spouse if you keep doing what you've been doing. You can't get a better job if you don't improve your skills or even look for one. To out from the shade of failure and disbelief, you gotta fix your eyes forward. The K.I.S.S. ~ Fix your eyes forward! 13 Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus. ~ Philippians 3:13-14 You cannot focus on your past failures and think you can move forward. It's counterintuitive. So instead of striving for what you didn't do, fix your eyes forward on the goal God has set for you. 25 Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. 26 Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways. 27 Do not turn to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil. ~ Proverbs 4:25-27 Stay focused on your goals at hand. Don't get distracted by things that will lead you away from your passion and purpose. When you let go of regrets, worries, failures, and fears, it makes a way for you to hone in on the goals and aspirations God has set for you. And when you do this, you gain the strength and perspective you need to take the next steps. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo PRAYER: May your eyes see the vision God has in store for you. Stay grounded in your next step. Don't waiver when the going gets tough. Lean in and look up. Fix your eyes forward. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! 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Winning is not always about achieving success. Often, it's about understanding how failure is a stepping stone on the path to success. When you feel like you're losing, consider it pure joy. When you aren't seeing the results you desire or feel like you deserve, it can be easy to feel defeated and lose sight of the bigger picture. But intuitively, you know that every failure is an opportunity to learn and grow. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Now, that doesn't make it easier to just pick up where you fell off. You're human. There might be a little wallowing or pity party happening. But what if you could look at your failure from a joyful perspective? What if you could see the bigger picture? What if you could present yourself in a manner that allows you to be in the moment, but not be cemented in the moment? "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." ~ James 1:2-4 The K.I.S.S. ~ Persevere to finish the work! RENEW your mind. One of the most powerful ways to win when all you do is lose is to renew your mind. You've gotta shift your perspective and look at failure in a different light. Instead of viewing it as a setback, see it as a comeback, an opportunity to learn and improve. Those are teachable moments. When you're open to new ideas and ways of thinking, you'll be able to see opportunities that you may have missed before or glanced over. "Even a closed door can be an open door." ~ Kristianne Wargo You "don't want to conform to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. (Romans 12:2)" READY to be UNSETTLED. Comfort is for the weak at heart. Instead, look forward to the unknown and embrace the adventure of pioneering your day in a way that is well-lived. When you're comfortable, you're not pushing yourself to be your best. But when you're challenged and uncomfortable, you're forced to step out of your comfort zone and push yourself to be better. "By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going." ~ Hebrews 11:8 CREATE your now. You want to have a thorough strategy and plan in place. Identifying your goals and create a plan to achieve them. And don't forget to exhaust your "I'm not good enough" silent plea and ready your mind to yell, "the best is yet to come." When you have a clear plan and a positive attitude, you'll be able to see that you can accomplish anything you set your mind to. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and he will direct your paths." ~ Proverbs 3:5-6 Don't fall short because of your failures. Let your failures create your now in leading you to do what God created you to do. Consider it pure joy! PRAYER: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." ~ Philippians 4:13 "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! 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Regardless of where you are today, the situation that confines you, or a circumstance that celebrates you, life is never easy. Proclaim today, "The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. (Psalm 23:1)" The 23rd Psalm is one that has always been a place of refuge from anything happening in my life. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Your refuge might be found in the following examples. Maybe you find yourself as a people-pleaser. You could be living a life of worldly desires, not heavenly-driven. You may react from a scarcity mindset. You are trapped in a corner of loneliness. You're not good enough. You cling more to the flesh and not what God wants for you. You might be running just to run. You could be making decisions based on previous failures. Maybe you fear more than you trust. Your vision is limited compared to God's. And that's when He steps in. The K.I.S.S. ~ Taste the goodness of God! Psalm 23 23 The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. 2 He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. 3 He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. 5 Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. 6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. David knew the responsibilities and the importance of being a shepherd. And that's how he saw God for himself. God was his shepherd; a provider, a protector, a potter. A shepherd cares for his sheep no matter what; good, bad, or ugly. He creates nothing out of something. He feeds and waters the sheep. He fulfills their needs. That is how David saw God; his Shepherd. And even in the darkest times, he knew in his heart that God walked with him. Never did he have to fear. Never did he have to be alone. Draw near to God. He is watching out for you always, regardless of where you are today. PRAYER: May your days be blessed by the power and presence of our Lord. May your flames of greatness grow hotter as the temptations of fears and failures are reduced to ashes. "The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. (Psalm 23:1)" "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! 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Even though life can get a little crazy and you are strapped to busyness, it's important to recognize what is going well in your marriage. Celebrate your love for each other! You've heard me speak about how to build a strong foundation in your marriage, what you can do daily, and strategies and tools to work as a team and not as enemies. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co But what's put on the back burner is what's going well in your marriage. How you are loving on your spouse. The little things you do every day. The kind words you speak. The patience you extend when you really want to get mad. Listening and not talking always. Serving from a selfless posture. As a married couple, you made a commitment to love, honor, and cherish one another. And this is something to be celebrated. The K.I.S.S. ~ Celebrate your love! There are some ways to look at your marriage and genuinely see the beauty even in the ashes (you know, like after a heated discussion). Prioritize your marriage. One of the things you are doing right is prioritizing your marriage. "That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh." (Genesis 2:24) This verse reminds us that marriage is about leaving behind your individual life and becoming one with your spouse. When you put your relationship first, you are demonstrating the depth of your love and commitment to one another. Now you aren't sacrificing your dreams and your individuality. But that doesn't mean there might not be some shifts and pivots in life. Yet, you make those decisions as a team. Build together. Another thing that you are doing right in your marriage is that you are working together to build a strong foundation for your relationship. Building a strong marriage takes effort and hard work, but the rewards are well worth it. Now, that doesn't mean you won't argue. That doesn't mean you won't get mad and want something different at times. But by working together to build that strong foundation for your relationship, you set yourself up for a lifetime of love and happiness. Commit time together. You might understand prioritizing your marriage, but time isn't always on your side. That's where you need to make time. Put date nights on the calendar, even if it's at home. Commit every day. You have to make time to connect, not just in passing but in holding. PRAYER: May your words, thoughts, and actions show the love God has for you by how you love your spouse. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! 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As parents, we have a vital role in shaping our children's self-esteem and sense of identity. However, our actions and words may unintentionally undermine our child's sense of self. Are you stealing your child's identity? Our challenge as parents is that we must be aware of the impact our actions and words have on our children's self-esteem and sense of self. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Now, I believe most of us know this. But when we are faced with everyday craziness, and busyness takes over, we forget what is said or done in the heat of the moment. And sometimes, that means we say things that are hurtful, and even an apology can't take back what was said. The hurt was already done, the stain made. "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." ~ Ephesians 4:29 Mom/Dad -- We need to be building up. Yes, our words we share need to be real. But they need to be appropriate for the matter at hand. And we can't forget how we express our thoughts and words. Are we swinging our hands with a red face using a tone of defeat and disappointment? It's easy to become comfortable with reacting, instead of preparing and then responding. We can't just rely on our defaults to sustain our children. Because our defaults can be hurtful. So if you want to be a builder in your child's identity, then be Intentional about building them up. The K.I.S.S. ~ Be intentional about building! It's like being the contractor for your child. You are constructing their life, giving them opportunities to be who God created them to be. Praise your child's efforts and accomplishments. Encourage them when situations are rough. This helps them to understand it's not always about the end result. This will help your child to understand that their efforts are valued, and so are they. Their self-worth is not dependent on their achievements. In fact, there will be more failures to achieve a few successes. Listen to your child. Take a genuine interest in your child's thoughts and feelings. This will help your child to feel seen, heard, and valued, which is essential for building self-esteem. "You build up your child one sentence at a time." ~ Kristianne Wargo Model positive self-talk in your life. Children learn by example no matter the age. So by practicing positive self-talk teaches your child what to do, and always will continue to build you up. And I don't know about you, but I always can use some extra bricks reminding me I am created on purpose for a purpose. It's important to remember that building self-esteem is an ongoing process, and it takes time and effort. However, by being mindful of the impact of our actions and words on our child's self-esteem, and by using strategies such as those mentioned above, we can help our children to develop a strong sense of self and self-worth. Don't overthink how you're doing as a parent. Take this conversation and let it be a reminder to stay aware of the impact you have on your children. PRAYER: May your actions, words, and thoughts be herbs and spices, a sweet aroma, to your child's day. As you train up your child to be who God created them to be, stay grounded in His word so you can help in building their foundation. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! 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We have been taught to avoid failure at all costs. But what if you were to redefine failure fast and start seeing it as an opportunity for growth? When you take a moment to think about failure itself, we have been conditioned to believe that failure is a sign of weakness. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co But what if you could make it your strength? Think about it, when we make a mistake, we are given the chance to learn from it and to do better next time. Failure is not a dead-end, but a stepping stone on the path to success. It's through your failures that you learn and grow as an individual. Failure is not something to be feared, but embraced. "For a righteous man falls seven times, and rises again." ~ Proverbs 24:16 The verse illustrates that even the most righteous among us will fall, but it is important to rise again. This means that even the most successful people have failed at some point in their lives; it's just a matter of how they handle it. The K.I.S.S. ~ Redefine failure fast! Michael Jordan is known for being one of the best basketball players of all time, but he also missed thousands of shots and lost hundreds of games in his career. Thomas Edison, who is known as one of the greatest inventors of all time, failed over a thousand times before finally inventing the light bulb. These examples show that failure is not a setback, but an opportunity for growth and progress. So, the next time you encounter failure, don't let it hold you back. Embrace it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Remember that failure is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of progress. Watching the Australian Open Round 2, American Jenson Brooksby was ahead of Casper Rudd (2) in the third set. But he dropped his lead when Rudd broke back to win the third set. Now, another set, another fight. But what you didn't see was the battle in his head. He missed the opportunity to finish the match in the third set, by giving up 3 points. It changed everything, especially his mind. Brooksby was caught up in the failure. He couldn't get passed what he didn't complete. So in order to overcome, he had to redefine failure fast, which led him to beat Rudd in the fourth set and head into the third round of the Australian Open. "Failure is a part of the process of life, and without it, you have no success." ~ Kristianne Wargo Redefine failure fast. PRAYER: May your stumbles be stepping stones to what God desires for you. Focus not on the failures at hand, but the action of rising again in the moment of question. God's got you. Walk by faith. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or needing someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Please stop trying to do life by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on Pray.com. Listen to Create Your Now on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here on Apple Podcasts. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Success, Entrepreneur, LifeHack, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect in our Community - Women Of IMPACT https://createyournow.mn.co 2. Listen to the Create Your Now Podcast on iHeart Radio, Apple, Spotify, Samsung, Pandora, Amazon, and Audible. 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 8. Create Your Now Archive 6 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 9. Create Your Now Archive 7 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. https://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 10. NEW Website! Please check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com 11. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2 12. Schedule a Discovery Call. It's a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about gaining insight and ready to take AIM. 13. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.