

Focus on Marriage Podcast
Focus on the Family
If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.
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Sep 1, 2022 • 11min
Forgiving the Spouse Who Hurt You
When you've been hurt by your spouse, it's easy to either hold a grudge or not deal with it at all. Is there hope to move on after your mate has wounded you? John, Erin and Greg describe the power of choosing forgiveness, and how to do it, even when your spouse isn't changing. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1460508Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/forgiving-the-spouse-who-hurt-you#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 30, 2022 • 12min
Gentleness for the Conflict
What you say in the middle of a conflict with your spouse can help resolve the tension or make things worse. Greg and Erin talk with John about how they've learned to get better at handling conflict in their relationship. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1460508Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/gentleness-for-the-conflict/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 25, 2022 • 9min
100% Commitment
A good marriage is built on a foundation where both spouses are giving their best effort. However, what do you do when it feels like you're the only one doing all the work? John, Greg and Erin discuss how to respond when it seems like your spouse isn't doing his or her job. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1457004Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/100-commitment/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1457004If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 23, 2022 • 12min
Developing a Strong Partnership
Your marriage needs a strong partnership to function well. Encouraging each other can go a long way to strengthening your relationship. John speaks with Greg and Erin about how they've learned to encourage each other's strengths. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1457004Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/developing-a-strong-partnership/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1457004If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 18, 2022 • 12min
Porn Doesn't Mean Your Marriage is Over
When it's discovered that a spouse is addicted to pornography, it's heartbreaking because trust has been severed. If this is something that's impacted your marriage or a couple you know, it doesn't have to be the end of the relationship. John, Greg and Erin discuss how having community around you can make a big difference in the fight against pornography. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1453806Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/porn-doesnt-mean-your-marriage-is-over/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 16, 2022 • 11min
Grace and Justice for a Porn Addict
A small bit of curiosity regarding pornography can lead to a dangerous cycle of addiction. John, Erin and Greg share ways that a wife can show her husband grace, while also not putting up with the problem. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1453806Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/grace-and-justice-for-a-porn-addict/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 11, 2022 • 16min
Paying Attention to What Your Spouse Doesn't Like
All of us have annoying habits that get on our spouse's nerves. Rather than sweeping them under the rug, it's better to see those habits as opportunities to work through annoyances together. John talks with Greg and Erin about aggravations they've worked through in their relationship. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1436104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/paying-attention-to-what-your-spouse-doesnt-like/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450404If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 9, 2022 • 12min
A Magnificent Obsession for Your Marriage
Scripture commands to seek God above anything else. But how do you stay focused on the Lord when life gets busy in your marriage? Greg, Erin and John provide some insights on how to stay focused on your purpose as a couple. Featuring Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1436104Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/a-magnificent-obsession-for-your-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450404If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 4, 2022 • 16min
Stay Inside the 9s
One of the worst things you can do is try to have a serious conversation with your spouse when one or both of you is tired. It might be that you need to set some rules for when you discuss heavy topics. John, Greg and Erin share how setting boundaries on when to have difficult conversations is beneficial to a marriage. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1450401Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/stay-inside-the-9s/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450401If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Aug 2, 2022 • 10min
Wise Habits for Results You Want
When you and your spouse were first dating, you naturally did things to make each other feel happy. As time goes on in marriage, it can be easy to neglect doing those things that drew you together. John, Erin and Greg offer some ideas for how simple habits can actually get better with time and practice in your relationship. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1450401Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/wise-habits-for-results-you-want/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1450401If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/