

Focus on the Family Strengthening Marriage Podcast
Focus on the Family
If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.
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Dec 29, 2022 • 11min
Sex from Your Spouse's Perspective
When it comes to sex, it's good to consider what your spouse wants as more important than what you want. John talks to the Smalley's about why it's not good for the marriage if you respond poorly after your spouse turns down a request for sex. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas and Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-06?refcd=1589804Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/sex-from-your-spouses-perspective/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/improving-your-sex-life-to-improve-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1589804If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 27, 2022 • 9min
Common Misconceptions About Sex
Many couples struggle to talk about sex because they fear being vulnerable. John speaks with Greg and Erin about common struggles and misconceptions couples have about sex. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas and Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-06?refcd=1589804Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/common-misconceptions-about-sex/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/improving-your-sex-life-to-improve-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1589804If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 22, 2022 • 8min
When Your Parent's Marriage Wasn't Good
How can you be a good spouse if your parents didn't model a healthy marriage for you? John, Greg and Erin offer hope to those who didn't come from a good family. Featuring Mr. Bob Lepine.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Love Like You Mean It" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-25?refcd=1587502Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-your-parents-marriage-wasnt-good/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/showing-true-love-to-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1587502If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 20, 2022 • 13min
Love Like a Bulldog
The wedding vows are a significant part of the ceremony, and a sign of true commitment. John talks with Greg and Erin about the importance of wedding vows, and how to stay filled with God's love in your marriage. Featuring Mr. Bob Lepine.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Love Like You Mean It" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-25?refcd=1587502Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/love-like-a-bulldog/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/showing-true-love-to-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1587502If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 15, 2022 • 10min
Praying Through Marital Struggles
Prayer is a powerful tool to help you and your spouse get closer. John speaks with Greg and Erin about the ways they've seen prayer make a difference in a marriage, and how to be honest in your prayers. Featuring Mr. Ryan and Mrs. Selena Frederick.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet the "40 Prayers for my Husband; 40 Prayers for my Wife" bundle with your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-11-17?refcd=1583006Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/praying-through-marital-struggles/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/making-prayer-a-priority-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1583006If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 13, 2022 • 11min
"Lord, Please Fix My Spouse."
When you're annoyed at your spouse, it's easy to pray, "God, please change my mate!" Yet, a more mature approach is learning to recognize your own flaws first. John chats with Greg and Erin about more effective ways to pray for your spouse. Featuring Mr. Ryan and Mrs. Selena Frederick.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYGet the "40 Prayers for my Husband; 40 Prayers for my Wife" bundle with your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-11-17?refcd=1583006Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/lord-please-fix-my-spouse/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/making-prayer-a-priority-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1583006If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 8, 2022 • 9min
5 Tips for Blended Families
In a blended family, the dynamics of learning to get along can be very tricky. However, with God's help, a relationship can work out in the long run. John, Greg and Erin share how a blended family can survive some of the storms they go through. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1581501Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/5-tips-for-blended-families/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cultivating-love-in-blended-families-digital-download/?refcd=1581501If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 6, 2022 • 12min
When a Kid is Rejecting Your Spouse
If a child is struggling to get along with your spouse, it can put quite a strain on your marriage. John, Greg and Erin offer some hope for people who are in between a conflict with their mate and a child. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1581501Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-a-kid-is-rejecting-your-spouse/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cultivating-love-in-blended-families-digital-download/?refcd=1581501If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Dec 1, 2022 • 8min
Sex and Healthy Expectations
Almost every disappointment in marriage can be traced to an unmet expectation. The same is true about sex. John, Greg and Erin offer some hope to wives who are struggling to enjoy sex. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta, and Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-06?refcd=1521502Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/sex-and-healthy-expectations/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/improving-your-sex-life-to-improve-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1492001If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Nov 29, 2022 • 11min
Designed for Mutual Pleasure
Almost every disappointment in marriage can be traced to an unmet expectation. The same is true about sex. John, Greg and Erin offer some hope to wives who are struggling to enjoy sex. Featuring Mrs. Debra Fileta, and Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-06?refcd=1521502Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/designed-for-mutual-pleasure/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/improving-your-sex-life-to-improve-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1492001If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/


