

Focus on Marriage Podcast
Focus on the Family
If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.
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Oct 6, 2022 • 13min
When You Don't Have the Talk
Physical intimacy is a very significant part of your marriage. Yet, it's a topic that many couples are uncomfortable discussing. John, Erin and Greg explain how you can show your spouse grace, when a sexual problem is happening in the marriage. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas and Mrs. Debra Fileta.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Married Sex" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-10-06?refcd=1492001Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-you-dont-have-the-talk/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/improving-your-sex-life-to-improve-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1492001If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Oct 4, 2022 • 9min
An Eternal Perspective for Your Marriage
One day, the story of your marriage on earth will come to an end. While that may seem sad, recognizing that reality can be a huge motivator for treating your spouse well. John, Erin and Greg discuss how having an eternal perspective has influenced the ways they interact with their spouse. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1491901Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/an-eternal-perspective-for-your-marriage/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1468805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 29, 2022 • 11min
Looking Back to Go Forward
Your love story is unique. Reflecting on how you fell in love can bring joy to your relationship now. John, Greg and Erin share about their own love stories and tips for going the distance in your marriage. Featuring Pastor Kevin Thompson. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Friends, Partners and Lover" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-30?refcd=1457004Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/looking-back-to-go-forward/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/embracing-your-role-as-a-spouse-digital/?refcd=1457004If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 27, 2022 • 11min
A Few Minute Adjustment
It can be frustrating when it feels like you're the one doing all of the work in your marriage. How do you get unstuck from those scenarios? John, Greg and Erin share how simple adjustments can make the biggest differences in the relationship with your spouse. Featuring Dr. Randy Schroeder. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Simple Habits for Marital Happiness" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-07-05?recd=1487703Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcasst/a-few-minute-adjustment/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 22, 2022 • 12min
Submitting to God When It's Hard
The Bible says that wives should submit to their husbands, but that Scripture should never be used in an abusive way. This is especially true if trust in the relationship has been harmed by a pornography addiction. John, Greg and Erin address when biblical submission is misused and how community can help a marriage that's been shaken by a porn struggle. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1483601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/submitting-to-god-when-its-hard/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 20, 2022 • 12min
Shame & Pornography Addiction
A pornography struggle leads to a lot of shame. To help offer hope to those caught in a cycle of shame, John, Greg and Erin discuss how God's grace can help lead to freedom. Featuring Mrs. Rosie Makinney. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Fight For Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-23?refcd=1483601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/shame-pornography-addiction/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/rescuing-your-marriage-from-pornography-digital-download/?refcd=1453806If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 15, 2022 • 13min
Love Languages & Blended Families
Knowing and learning to speak your spouse's love language can revolutionize your marriage. The same is also true for those in blended families. John, Greg, and Erin share about ways they've seen how applying the love language principles can positively impact marriages. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1468603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/love-languages-blended-families/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 13, 2022 • 9min
Crockpot Expectations
Some things in life take time. For blended families, the challenges may be difficult, but it's possible to make it work with God's help. John, Erin and Greg offer hope to those in blended families who are wondering if their relationship can thrive. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mr. Ron Deal.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Building Love Together in Blended Families" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-09-13?refcd=1468603Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/crockpot-expectations/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/simple-habits-to-embrace-in-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1460508If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 8, 2022 • 12min
The Small Things That Add Up
Small decisions that add up over time can lead to big results. The same principle applies to the investments you make in your marriage. John, Greg and Erin share how you can get started with making little changes to better your relationship. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1468805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/the-small-things-that-add-up/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1468805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Sep 6, 2022 • 14min
How Can I Bless You?
Seeking to bless your spouse without expecting anything in return takes maturity. Sometimes, being a blessing might also need to be having a tough conversation. John, Erin and Greg share how to confront your mate in a loving way. Featuring Mr. Gary Thomas.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "A Lifelong Love" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-06-14?refcd=1468805Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/how-can-i-bless-you/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/breathe-spiritual-life-into-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1468805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/