
Focus on Marriage Podcast
If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.
Latest episodes

Jun 14, 2022 • 12min
Don't Become a Spider Spouse
Gary Thomas, author of 'A Lifelong Love,' discusses adjusting expectations in marriage with John, Greg, and Erin. They explore selfish motivations, prioritizing love, navigating expectations, communication, and growth in marriage.

Jun 9, 2022 • 15min
After the Storm Has Passed
Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs, authors of 'I Do Again', discuss recovering from past hurts in marriage. They emphasize the importance of honesty without dwelling on the past. Topics include vulnerability, growth, faith, empathy, and caring in relationships.

Jun 7, 2022 • 11min
Reconciliation is Still Possible
When there's been a betrayal in a marriage, healing can take a long time. While waiting for restoration isn't easy, God is willing to send you some help. John, Greg and Erin discuss how you can be patient in your marriage, when you're hoping for reconciliation. Featuring Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "I Do Again" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-08?refcd=1423502Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/reconciliation-is-still-possible/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/hope-for-every-marriage-digital-product/?refcd=1423502If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Jun 2, 2022 • 13min
Replacing Selfishness & Control
If we're honest, we all struggle with selfishness in marriage. However, a good dose of gratitude can be the best solution for selfishness. John and Greg share how being thankful can greatly benefit your marriage. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1416601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/replacing-selfishness-control/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1416601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

May 31, 2022 • 14min
When Little Irritations Meet Grace
All of us can find something annoying about our spouse. But, you can choose to show grace even when you don't feel like doing so. Greg talks with John about how he and Erin have worked through irritations in their relationship. Featuring Bill and Pam Farrel.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive Bill and Pam Farrel's book "The First Five Years: Make the Love Investment That Lasts a Lifetime " for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-01?refcd=1416601Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/when-little-irritations-meet-grace/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-in-the-early-years-of-marriage-digital-product?refcd=1416601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

May 26, 2022 • 11min
Community in the Fight
You and your spouse weren't meant to do life alone. Having other couples around you is key to a healthy relationship. John and Greg discuss how their marriages have been helped by having friends and share where you can go to find community. Featuring Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1413406Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/community-in-the-fight/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1413406If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

May 24, 2022 • 12min
Deal with Technology Distractions
While technology is a great tool, spending too much time on a screen can distract you from quality time with your spouse. John talks with Greg, who shares about how he and his wife have had to cut back on screen time in their relationship. Featuring Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYReceive the book "Defending Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-29?refcd=1413406Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/deal-with-technology-distractions/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/the-spiritual-battle-for-your-marriage-digital/?refcd=1413406If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

May 19, 2022 • 12min
What We Long For—Connection
Sadly, many married couples report feeling lonely. Sometimes, it might even take a third-party to help you reconnect. John and Greg share how counseling can help you bridge a gap of loneliness between you and your spouse. Featuring Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive Greg and Erin's book "Reconnected: Moving from Roommates to Soulmates in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2022-03-22?refcd=1410602Get more episode resources: https://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-marriage-podcast/what-we-long-for-connection/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/sharing-the-load-with-your-spouse-digital-download/?refcd=1410602If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

May 17, 2022 • 11min
When Your Spouse Needs Empathy
Marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley discuss the importance of empathy in relationships and how it can strengthen marriages. They explore topics such as emotional and physical intimacy, showing empathy towards a spouse, and the significance of empathy and repair in communication. Learn how cultivating empathy can lead to a deeper emotional connection and enhance marital satisfaction.

May 12, 2022 • 15min
Doing it God's Way
Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs share practical ways to focus relationships on Christ. They discuss integrating spiritual practices, hope and humility after divorce, love and reconciliation, keeping God at the center through practical ways, and revitalizing marriage through spiritual disciplines and programs.
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