

The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging
Kiley ‘Sexyswingerchic’
The Pineapple Express Once a swinger podcast… now a real-time journey through modern love.Hosted by Kiley — queer, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, ex-sex worker turned sex and relationship coach — The Pineapple Express explores the messy, magical, ever-evolving world of love, sex, intimacy, and emotional growth.This podcast is for anyone navigating:Non-monogamy, polyamory, or swingingMonogamy after openness (or vice versa)Relationship transitions, breakups, and rediscovering self-worthADHD, neurodivergence, and nervous system repair in loveSexual empowerment and authentic connectionEach episode blends real-time storytelling, expert interviews, and unfiltered reflections on:Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swingingEmotional intelligence and intimacy and of course SEX Boundaries, communication, and healing attachment woundsQueerness, identity exploration, and sex-positivityNeurodivergent love, pleasure, and partnershipYou’ll laugh, cry, and maybe even journal after. Kiley’s here to stir the cauldron — and remind you that pleasure, connection, and love are allowed to evolve.This isn’t your average relationship podcast. It’s personal. It’s sacred. It’s a little unhinged. And it’s exactly what you’ve been craving.Why Listen?Because you're not looking for perfect love — you’re looking for real love. Because you’re healing, growing, and rewriting the rules — and want company along the way.Subscribe now and ride The Pineapple Express, where we talk about sex, love, and everything in between — with zero judgment, just curiosity, courage, and connection.
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Sep 20, 2024 • 1h 22min
81: Enthusiastic Consent in Swinging, Kink and Non Monogamy Spaces with Susan Wright From NCSF
Send us a textPineapple Express Podcast: Enthusiastic Consent in Swinging, Kink, and Non-Monogamy Spaces with Susan Wright from NCSFIn this impactful episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley is joined by Susan Wright, the founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), to explore the vital role of enthusiastic consent in swinging, kink, and non-monogamy communities. Together, they unpack how consent culture has evolved in these spaces, offering essential guidance for creating safe and respectful environments. Susan shares her extensive knowledge on the importance of clear communication, enthusiastic participation, and protecting boundaries within dynamic, non-traditional relationships.Whether you're curious about non-monogamy, actively involved in the swinging or kink communities, or simply want to deepen your understanding of consent, this episode delivers thoughtful, real-world strategies for building trust and fostering positive, consensual experiences.In this episode, you'll discover:The definition and importance of enthusiastic consent in non-monogamy, swinging, and kink.How to set and respect boundaries in consensual, safe environments.Expert advice from Susan Wright on navigating complex relationship dynamics.🍍🍍 Connect with Us 🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGTikTokCleveland area Non MonogSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Sep 13, 2024 • 1h 10min
80: Empowered Consent In Non Monogamy And Swinging with Ally Iseman
Send us a textPineapple Express Podcast: Empowered Consent in Non-Monogamy and Swinging with Ally IsemanIn this empowering episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley welcomes Ally Iseman, a passionate advocate for ethical non-monogamy and consent-based communication. Together, they unpack the complexities of consent in non-monogamous and swinging communities, offering listeners a deep dive into the principles of empowered consent. Ally shares her expertise on building trust, fostering open dialogue, and setting clear boundaries in dynamic relationship styles, providing invaluable tools for navigating ethical relationships.This episode is a must-listen for anyone exploring non-monogamy or swinging, looking to strengthen their communication skills, or seeking to create safer and more fulfilling relationships. Tune in for thoughtful insights, real-life examples, and actionable advice on how to prioritize consent in your intimate connections.What you'll learn:The importance of empowered consent in non-monogamy and swinging.How to navigate boundaries, desires, and agreements with confidence.Practical tips from Ally Iseman on creating trust and respect in relationships.🍍🍍 Connect with Us 🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGTikTokCleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook groupAffiliateSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Sep 6, 2024 • 1h 21min
79:Embodied Consent with Dr. Hazel Grace Yates
Send us a textOn the Pineapple Express podcast, host Kiley engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Hazel Grace, a trauma-informed sex educator known for their empathetic approach to navigating complex topics surrounding sexuality. In this enlightening episode, they delve into the crucial concept of embodied consent, emphasizing its importance in fostering healthy relationships and self-awareness. Dr. Grace shares their expertise on how understanding one's own body and boundaries can lead to more meaningful connections, ultimately transforming the way individuals approach intimacy. Through candid discussions and relatable anecdotes Dr. Grace creates a warm and empowering atmosphere, encouraging listeners to embrace vulnerability and prioritize consent in their everyday lives.Dr. Hazel Grace Yates (They/Them) is a trauma-informed somatic sex educator and a certified sexological bodywork practitioner.Ph.D. in Human Sexuality (Institute of Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality) Masters in Education (Education for the Blind from Western Michigan University)Certified Sex Coach (Dr. Patti Britton)Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker (Somatic Sex Educators Association)Queer Competency Certification (Embody Emerge)Trauma-Informed Somatic Practitioner (Bridging Soma and Soul Certification)Femme Dom Training (Midori)Certified Circling Facilitator (The Integral Center)Tantra Counselor (Shawn Roop – TantraQuest)Authentic Man Program Facilitator (AMP) Extensive training in Landmark EducationLearn more about Dr Hazel Grace Yates: Dr. Hazel’s Website🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about me Literally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Aug 30, 2024 • 1h 15min
78: The Compersion Connection With Dr. Marie Thouin Author of the book What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships
Send us a text[Welcome to another episode of the Pineapple Express podcast, where we explore the juicy and vibrant world of relationships! Today, we have a special guest with us—Dr. Marie Thouin, author of 'What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships.' In this enlightening episode, we’ll dive into the transformative concept of compersion, a feeling of joy and empathy that arises when we see our partners thrive in other relationships. Dr. Thouin will share her insights on how understanding compersion can deepen connections, enrich our experiences, and foster healthier dynamics in consensually non-monogamous settings.Marie Thouin, PhD is the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, The Times of London, and HuffPost. Marie has also published seminal research studies, the first encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and resources on the topic of compersion. She is the Founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she supports and guides people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives.Find Marie on IG Get a copy of the book 📕🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about me Literally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfans LinktreeSex Coaching Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Aug 23, 2024 • 1h 13min
77: Monogamy? In This Economy? Unpacking Polyamory and Family Relationship Dynamics with Laura Boyle
Send us a textWelcome back to another exciting episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, where we dive into the multifaceted world of relationships, love, and everything in between. I’m your host, Kiley, and today we have an exceptional guest joining us—Laura Boyle, the brilliant mind behind the thought-provoking book *Monogamy? In this Economy?*.In this conversation, Laura shares her insights on polyamory, modern relationships, and the changing dynamics of love in today's society. We'll explore the ideas behind her book, discussing how people can navigate different types of relationships and the challenges and rewards that come with them. It's a must-listen for anyone curious about alternative relationship styles and looking for a fresh perspective.So, grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and join us as we embark on this enlightening journey with Laura Boyle.---Enjoy the episode!Find out more about @readyforpolyamory Here is Laura’s Linktree with all of her information, socials and website Linktree Here’s a link to get a copy of the book🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about me Literally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfans LinktreeSex Coaching Find me on social media IG Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Aug 16, 2024 • 1h 13min
76: Flexing Beyond The Gym: Dealing with Emotions and Jealousy From A Man's Perspective In the Swinger Lifestyle
Send us a textWelcome back to another episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, where we explore the diverse and fascinating world of alternative lifestyles and relationships. I’m your host, Kiley, and today we have a very important discussion lined up for you. Joining us is Matt Turnquist, a swinger and fitness enthusiast who is male identified. In this episode, Matt will chat with us about the emotional intricacies that men face while navigating the swinger lifestyle. We’ll tackle topics like jealousy, communication, and emotional well-being, shedding light on the often-overlooked male perspective. Whether you’re already part of the lifestyle or simply curious, this conversation promises valuable insights and practical advice.So, kick back, relax, and join us for an open and honest discussion about men's emotions and challenges in the swinger community with Matt Turnquist.---Enjoy the episode!Here’s how you can find Matt on IG 🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about me Literally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfans LinktreeSex Coaching Find me on social media IG TikTok Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group Affiliate Shameless Care Promescent Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Jul 19, 2024 • 1h 8min
75: How to Recover From a Bad Swinging Experience with Dr. Rachael Meir
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Jul 12, 2024 • 1h 5min
74: The Week Of Visibility For Non Monogamy With Brett Chamberlin The Co Founder Of OPEN
Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast Kiley talks with Brett Chamberlin the co founder of OPEN about the week of visibility for non monogamy. They talk about how by promoting visibility, challenging stereotypes, and celebrating love in all its forms, we can pave the way for a world where non-monogamous families and relationships are not just accepted but celebrated.To learn more about The Week Of Visibility and OPEN follow these links https://www.weekofvisibility.com/https://www.open-love.org/Book Naughty In Nawlins 2025https://members.naughty-events.com/events/53925/orders/new?promoter_id=534988All My Links To Learn More About Mehttps://sexyswingerchic.net/Onlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicFind me on social media IG https://www.instagram.com/thepineappleexpresspodcast?igsh=MWdhZ2owY3d0dDhlNQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexyswingerchic91?_t=8k7KsW0pvQI&_r=1Cleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzqD9XNXyUFnyEs/?mibextid=K35XfPIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. For a personalized coaching session with me book on my website https://www.consciousloveconnections.com/Don’t forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Jul 5, 2024 • 45min
73: Naughty In Na'wlins 2024: Unpacking Trauma Before I Unpack My Bags and More Juicy Behind the Scenes Details About Naughty In Na'wlins 2024
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Jul 4, 2024 • 47min
72: All The Naughty In Na'wlins Tea and My Emotional Story Leading Up To The Event
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