

The Pineapple Express: A Millennial’s Guide to Love, Sex Positivity, Non-Monogamy, Polyamory & Swinging
Kiley ‘Sexyswingerchic’
The Pineapple Express Once a swinger podcast… now a real-time journey through modern love.Hosted by Kiley — queer, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, ex-sex worker turned sex and relationship coach — The Pineapple Express explores the messy, magical, ever-evolving world of love, sex, intimacy, and emotional growth.This podcast is for anyone navigating:Non-monogamy, polyamory, or swingingMonogamy after openness (or vice versa)Relationship transitions, breakups, and rediscovering self-worthADHD, neurodivergence, and nervous system repair in loveSexual empowerment and authentic connectionEach episode blends real-time storytelling, expert interviews, and unfiltered reflections on:Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swingingEmotional intelligence and intimacy and of course SEX Boundaries, communication, and healing attachment woundsQueerness, identity exploration, and sex-positivityNeurodivergent love, pleasure, and partnershipYou’ll laugh, cry, and maybe even journal after. Kiley’s here to stir the cauldron — and remind you that pleasure, connection, and love are allowed to evolve.This isn’t your average relationship podcast. It’s personal. It’s sacred. It’s a little unhinged. And it’s exactly what you’ve been craving.Why Listen?Because you're not looking for perfect love — you’re looking for real love. Because you’re healing, growing, and rewriting the rules — and want company along the way.Subscribe now and ride The Pineapple Express, where we talk about sex, love, and everything in between — with zero judgment, just curiosity, courage, and connection.
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Dec 6, 2024 • 1h 19min
91:Non-Monogamy, Sex Work, and Challenging Societal Norms with Author Zara Shah
Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, we sit down with Zara Shah, author of Non-Monogamy and Sex Work, published by Thornapple Press. Together, we explore the intersections of sex work and non-monogamy, unpacking topics like intimacy, economics, social rejection, sexual health, and the impact of societal norms on mental health.Zara shares powerful insights into the challenges and triumphs within non-monogamous and sex work communities, offering a fresh perspective on how these lifestyles intersect with larger cultural, religious, and social frameworks.📚 Learn more about Zara's book at Thornapple Press.📸 Follow Zara on Instagram: @big_honking_caboose2.0🎧 Listen now for an eye-opening conversation that challenges taboos and celebrates authenticity. Perfect for anyone curious about non-monogamy, sex work, or breaking down societal norms.🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…❤️Ready to level up your confidence and connection? Check out The Art of Flirting workshop at Conscious Love Connections. Learn how to bring more playfulness and authenticity to your interactions!Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGTikTokCSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Nov 22, 2024 • 1h 19min
90:Non-Monogamy, Mental Health, and Sexual Liberation with Ann Russo
Send us a textWelcome to The Pineapple Express Podcast! In this episode, we talk about the transformative intersection of non-monogamy, mental health, and sexual empowerment with the inspiring Ann Russo. Ann is a radical educator, writer, and activist committed to building liberatory practices rooted in care, accountability, and collective well-being.Together, we explore how embracing non-monogamy can be a path to personal growth and emotional resilience. Ann shares their insights into dismantling societal norms that often suppress sexual agency and how embracing relational diversity can enhance mental health and create more meaningful, empowered connections.Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on:Practical ways to navigate mental health challenges within non-monogamy.The role of community care in sexual liberation.How to build relationships rooted in respect, authenticity, and joy.Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy, a seasoned explorer, or simply looking to expand your understanding of radical relational practices, this episode is packed with wisdom and inspiration. Tune in and let’s reimagine connection and empowerment together!✨ Let’s keep the conversation going: Share your thoughts and follow The Pineapple Express Podcast for more episodes on non-monogamy, intimacy, and sex-positive living.Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Nov 15, 2024 • 48min
89:Protecting Lifestyle Clubs And The Fight for Consensual Adult Spaces in Acadia Parish and Beyond
Send us a textIn this impactful episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley George explores the proposed Acadia Parish ordinance targeting sexually oriented businesses and its potential consequences for lifestyle clubs and consensual adult spaces. Discover why these spaces are essential for people practicing non-monogamy, swinging, and ethical open relationships, and how misconceptions about them drive unfair laws under the guise of "public safety."Kiley shares parallels from The Champagne Club’s legal challenges and explains how ordinances like this threaten sexual freedom and the availability of safe, supportive spaces for adults. Learn why protecting these communities is a fight for personal freedom and how you can take action.Visit ncsfreedom.org for resources and advocacy tools. Subscribe now, share this episode with your community, and help protect consensual adult spaces. Together, we can safeguard the right to explore relationships freely and safely.How to Support NCSF and Their Call to Action:Write a Statement of Opposition:Draft a letter opposing the proposed ordinance and use the https://ncsfreedom.org/2024/11/07/call-to-action-say-no-to-the-proposed-acadia-parish-sexually-oriented-businesses-ordinance/ to find out who to send it to. Share your perspective on why protecting consensual adult spaces is essential for the community.Make Calls to Local Officials:Reach out to Acadia Parish officials to express your opposition to the ordinance. Be respectful but firm in advocating for the rights of consensual adult spaces.Send Emails to Acadia Parish Leadership:Use NCSF’s templates or craft your own email explaining the negative impacts of the proposed ordinance and urging them to vote against it.Leverage Social Media:Share the NCSF’s call to action link and raise awareness about the ordinance. Use hashtags like #ProtectAdultSpaces, #SexualFreedom, and #NCSFActiSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Nov 8, 2024 • 1h 33min
88: Layers of Liberation: Exploring Feminism And Non Monogamy with Mel Cassidy
Send us a textIn this powerful episode of The Pineapple Express, Kiley sits down with Mel Cassidy to dive deep into the intersectionality of feminism. Together, they unpack how feminist values overlap with diverse identities, exploring the unique challenges and triumphs of navigating gender, race, sexuality, and non-monogamy. They’ll discuss the evolution of intersectional feminism, its impact on modern relationships, and how inclusivity in feminist spaces can create a stronger, more resilient movement. Perfect for anyone passionate about social justice, personal empowerment, and inclusive feminism, this conversation will inspire and challenge listeners to rethink their role in creating a more equitable world.Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Nov 1, 2024 • 1h 11min
87: Male Bisexuality And It's Evolution In Non Monogamy with "Boyslut" Zachary Zane
Send us a textGet ready for an eye-opening and no-holds-barred conversation on this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast! We’re joined by Zachary Zane—an acclaimed writer, and the brilliant mind behind Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. We talk all things evolutionary, including the evolution of male bisexuality in the world of swinging and non-monogamy.Zachary shares personal stories and insights on what it’s like to navigate bisexual identity as a man, breaking down outdated stigmas and discussing how the swinging community is becoming more inclusive. We talk openly about the challenges and triumphs of being a bi man in non-monogamous relationships, how sexual fluidity is being embraced, and why representation matters.This episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and some seriously empowering moments. If you’re curious about male bisexuality in the swinging lifestyle or want to learn how non-monogamy is evolving, you won’t want to miss this raw and engaging chat. Tune in and join us for an unfiltered look at sex, sexuality, and everything in between!Follow my favorite ‘BoySlut’ on social media Instagram https://www.zacharyzane.com/Get a copy of Boy Slut 🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGTikTokSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Oct 25, 2024 • 59min
86:Swinger Horror Stories: Avoiding Newbie Nightmares – Vetting Clubs, Dodging Scams, and Protecting Your Privacy
Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, I reveal the secrets to avoiding newbie swinger horror stories and protecting your privacy in the lifestyle. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to refine your experiences, I'll give you the tools you need to vet swinger clubs, avoid scams, and stay safe on social media. Don't let your fantasy turn into a nightmare—swing smarter with our essential tips.I also highlight venues like The Body Shop,https://bodyshopclubs.com/events a trusted space for swingers that prioritizes discretion and safety. From safeguarding your identity to selecting the right events, this episode is your ultimate guide for a smooth, enjoyable swinger experience.Key Takeaways:Vetting swinger clubs: Learn how to research and select trustworthy swinger venues like The Body Shop.Avoiding scams: Spot the red flags and avoid being scammed when navigating the swinger scene.Protecting your privacy: Find out how to safeguard your identity and prevent getting outed on social media.Real-life horror stories: Hear firsthand accounts of swinger mishaps and how to avoid them.Swing with confidence: Gain practical tips to swing smarter, ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience every time.🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGTikTokSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Oct 18, 2024 • 1h 16min
85: Are You Poly-Curious and a Swinger? With DirtyLola
Send us a textThe Pineapple Express Podcast: Polycurious Swinging with DirtyLolaIn this exciting episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley sits down with the unapologetically bold DirtyLola, a sex educator and polyamory advocate, to dive deep into the world of polycurious swinging. Join them as they explore the intersections of non-monogamy, swinging, and curiosity about polyamorous relationships. DirtyLola shares her personal journey of embracing ethical non-monogamy, offering relatable stories and expert insights on how to navigate these dynamic relationship styles. Together, they break down myths, highlight the importance of clear communication, and discuss how to create safer, consent-driven spaces for sexual exploration.Whether you're just beginning to explore non-monogamy or you're a seasoned swinger looking to learn more about polyamory, this episode is packed with practical tips and engaging conversations to inspire your journey. Tune in to hear how curiosity and openness can lead to more fulfilling, connected relationships.Tune in to learn:What it means to be polycurious as a swinger.How to communicate effectively about boundaries and desires.Tips from DirtyLola on balancing multiple relationships.🍍🍍 Connect with Lola🍍🍍https://www.dirtylola.co/[Follow DirtyLola on Social Media]🍍🍍My Turn🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Oct 11, 2024 • 1h 19min
84: The Making Of Open A Journey Through Love and The Real Swingers You Should Be Watching Instead Of Those Mormon Wives With Roderick Stevens
In this engaging discussion, filmmaker Roderick Stevens, known for his documentary "Open: A Journey Through Love," dives into the world of ethical non-monogamy. He highlights the importance of authentic representation in media, contrasting genuine portrayals with sensationalized versions often seen on reality TV. Roderick emphasizes the significance of boundaries and communication in swinging relationships. The conversation also touches on inspiring stories from diverse participants, showcasing the evolving landscape of alternative relationships.

Oct 4, 2024 • 1h 31min
83: The Controversy of Performative Bisexuality In Swinging With Violet Fawkes
Send us a textThe Pineapple Express Podcast: Performative Bisexuality in Swinging and Non-Monogamy Spaces with Violet FawkesIn this thought-provoking episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley is joined by sex writer and educator Violet Fawkes to discuss the concept of performative bisexuality within swinging and non-monogamy spaces. Together, they explore how bisexuality is often misunderstood or exploited for the pleasure of others in non-monogamous settings and the impact this has on genuine sexual expression and identity.Violet shares her insights on how to navigate these dynamics while fostering an environment of authenticity, consent, and self-awareness. This episode offers a deep dive into the complexities of bisexuality, how it intersects with gender and sexual politics, and ways to create more inclusive, respectful communities.What you’ll learn:The meaning of performative bisexuality in non-monogamy and swinging.How to foster authentic bisexual expression in sexual relationships.Violet Fawkes’ expert advice on creating more inclusive and respectful non-monogamous spaces.🍍🍍 Connect with Us 🍍🍍https://violetfawkes.com/[Follow Violet Fawkes on Social Media]Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGTikTokCleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Support the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...

Sep 27, 2024 • 58min
82: Embracing Consent Mistakes In Non Monogamy and Swinging With Consent Educator Mia Schachter
Send us a textPineapple Express Podcast: Embracing Consent Mistakes in Non-Monogamy and Swinging with Consent Educator Mia SchachterIn this insightful episode of the Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley welcomes Mia Schachter, a renowned consent educator, for an open and honest discussion about embracing mistakes in non-monogamy and swinging. Mia shares her unique perspective on how consent is an ongoing learning process, especially in dynamic relationship styles. They talk about the importance of acknowledging mistakes, learning from them, and creating a culture of accountability and growth.Whether you're new to non-monogamy or a seasoned swinger, this episode offers invaluable insights into how to navigate the complexities of consent while maintaining trust, communication, and emotional safety.What you’ll learn:How to handle consent mistakes and turn them into learning opportunities.The importance of ongoing consent and clear communication in non-monogamy and swinging.Practical advice from Mia Schachter on fostering a culture of accountability and growth in your relationships.🍍🍍 Connect with Us 🍍🍍Here’s all the info you’ll ever need to have at any point in time about meLiterally everything is right here…Every single link ever mentioned as a Sponsor and info all about me🚂All My Links To Learn More About MeMy WebsiteOnlyfansLinktreeSex CoachingFind me on social mediaIGTikTokCleveland area Non Monogamous humans join our Facebook groupAffiliateShameless CareSupport the show🎙️ The Pineapple Express PodcastSubscribe to my Substack for exclusive content: The Pineapple Express Substack. 💡 Events & Coaching Coaching sessions: Book time with me. 💜 Advocacy & Community Action Support equity and sexual freedom with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.OPEN's Free Peer Support Group 🛍️ Exclusive Deals Just for You Get The Non Monogamy Card Game and use my exclusive code PINEAPPLE10 for 10% Off https://www.thenonmonogamycardgame.com/products/the-game FirmTech Wearable Tech | Male Enhancement Rings | Shop now and get 15% off with code sexyswingerchick. SENSE Shop | Condoms & Lube | Explore the collection and save 15% with code sexyswingerchic. Sultry Vixen Dancewear | Exotic Outfits | Shop here and enjoy 15% off with code sexyswingerchic. 💬 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me for up...