
It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
Latest episodes

Jan 30, 2025 • 7min
BIANCA DEL RIO'S NMF: Cher With A Front Hemrrhoid
Season Six Drag Race Winner Bianca Del Rio's early days were not so much about the glam. This Nightmare Fuel is all about the time she lipsynced to Cher in a dingy old casino where she ended up EXPOSED... LINKS Check out Bianca's tour dates https://bit.ly/4h7l5Ef Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Bianca Del Rio @thebiancadelrioExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Zoe Panaretos @zoepanaretosIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 29, 2025 • 41min
MAFS WEEK 1 RECAP: PART 2
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. Now that Abbie has introduced you to the contestants, it's time to cover episode 2 and 3 of MAFS this week. Enjoy! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Zoe PanaretosIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Special thanks to Ali Daher @aliidcoollike and Justin Hill @jus_hill Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 29, 2025 • 39min
MAFS WEEK 1 RECAP: PART 1
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. Abbie has taken it upon herself to watch every MAFS episode to give you a recap, tell you her thoughts on the contestants, and rank the top 3 and bottom three. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Zoe PanaretosIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Special thanks to Ali Daher @aliidcoollike and Justin Hill @jus_hill Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 27, 2025 • 46min
BIANCA DEL RIO: "Just Accept That You're Not A Winner"
Winner of Season 6 of Drag Race, Bianca Del Rio, had all of us in stitches with her whitty political commentary, her trolling speech and reflections on her experience on the show Drag Race. LINKS Check out Bianca's tour dates https://bit.ly/4h7l5Ef Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Bianca Del Rio @thebiancadelrioExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Zoe PanaretosIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 23, 2025 • 31min
NMF: Abbie's Holiday Nightmare
First red flag: this man wanted to meet her in person. Second red flag: He was wearing Espadrilles (Abbie will elaborate if you're not a fashion chookie like us). It's the THIRD red flag that deems this as Abbie's ultimate holiday Nightmare Fuel. LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Zoe Panaretos @zoepanaretosIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 20, 2025 • 1h 36min
SOLO: I'm At Rock Bottom
In this episode, there is a mention of suicidal ideation. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Abbie is depressed. The trolls, the public scrutiny, and the trauma from the toxic ex are still issues she's battling with. This one is raw from the heart. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Zoe PanaretosIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 16, 2025 • 40min
ICYMI: JOSH THOMAS' NMF: "I Locked My D*ck in A Cage"
TWO stories from the HILARIOUS Josh Thomas such as how he ended up a d*ck cage and the ultimate 'who smelt it dealt it'. LINKS Find tickets to Josh Thomas' shows https://bit.ly/43lwJVJ Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Josh Thomas @joshthomas87Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 13, 2025 • 1h 7min
ALEXIS FERNANDEZ: If You Have No Idea How To Start 2025...
It's easy to set goals but it's much harder to achieve and maintain new habits. Neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez has written a book about navigating change as you start your new year. Attention ADHD-ers: Lots of neurodivergent-specific advice in this one! LINKS Buy Alexis' 'How to Chase Change' audibook https://bit.ly/3PwsEYH Listen to Alexis' podcast https://bit.ly/4h8jugT Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Alexis Fernandez @alexfernandezpreiksaExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 9, 2025 • 10min
ICYMI: "Picture Kath and Kel Kissing" A Nightmare Fuel with Christian Hull
One of the bloodiest (and sluttiest) Nightmare Fuels you'll ever hear featuring the podcaster planning to steal Abbie's spot; Christian Hull. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Christian Hull @christianhullExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jan 6, 2025 • 55min
ICYMI: It's ACTUALLY Dan Savage!!!
One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage, answers Abbie's burning questions and reveals intimate details about his life with his husband Terry. What does Dan consider the "cancer of a relationship"? What did Abbie do on The Bachelor that Dan is so proud of? What advice does Dan give Abbie about being in open relationships? And what was Dan's reaction when he found out that his ex-boyfriend had cheated on him? All of those questions are answered in this very special episode of It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield. LINKS Listen to Dan's podcast 'Savage Lovecast' https://bit.ly/3NGWvOG Read Dan's book 'Savage Love from A to Z https://bit.ly/42i74M2 Check out Dan's Hump Festival https://www.humpfilmfest.com/ Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Dan Savage @dansavageExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.