It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

A random balding middle-aged man passes on his wisdom on the history of vibrators to an unwanting uncomfortable spectator. Read the room, mate. LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage, answers Abbie's burning questions and reveals intimate details about his life with his husband Terry. What does Dan consider the "cancer of a relationship"? What did Abbie do on The Bachelor that Dan is so proud of? What advice does Dan give Abbie about being in open relationships? And what was Dan's reaction when he found out that his ex-boyfriend had cheated on him? All of those questions are answered in this very special episode of It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield. LINKS Listen to Dan's podcast 'Savage Lovecast' https://bit.ly/3NGWvOG Read Dan's book 'Savage Love from A to Z https://bit.ly/42i74M2 Check out Dan's Hump Festival https://www.humpfilmfest.com/ Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Dan Savage @dansavageSupervising Producer: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Editor: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

TO-MO-RROW it's DAN SAVAGE on the podcast! LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Supervising Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Nightmare Fuel forced Abbie, Elise and Oscar to go down a hilarious rabbit hole of YouTube tutorials on "How to Kiss Your Crush". Also, yes. Abbie does talk about getting fingered on the dance-floor.  LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Editor: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

FIRSTLY!!! Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Are we witnessing the end of the 'avoidant' era for Abbie? Will somebody finally be able to penetrate her 'non-vaginal walls'? Will she actually drop her long-standing roster and give monogamy a red hot go? Oscar and Elise sit down with Abbie in one of the deepest discussions we've ever had about Abbie's life on It's A Lot. LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Editor: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Imagine getting your period while wearing a squeaky clean white hazmat suit... Host Wendy Zukerman tells us all about her Nightmare of a story while visiting a nuclear reactor in the US.  LINKS Listen to Wendy's podcast Science Vs https://bit.ly/3ALmNYe Follow Wendy on Twitter https://bit.ly/3LM34xZ Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Wendy Zukerman @wendyzukSupervising Producer: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Editor: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Science nerd and one of Australia's OG podcast hosts Wendy Zukerman is here to answer all of Abbie's questions such as: Do men with uncircumcised penises feel less pleasure? Are we monogamous by default? And why should we stop washing our vulvas? LINKS Listen to Wendy's podcast Science Vs https://bit.ly/3ALmNYe Follow Wendy on Twitter https://bit.ly/3LM34xZ Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Wendy Zukerman @wendyzukSupervising Producer: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Editor: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

FIRSTLY!!! Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Full Disclosure: Someone, and we're not pointing any fingers, forgot to take their ADHD medication before we recorded this episode so a 4 minute voice note sent us on a LOT of tangents.  What starts as an innocent hotel hookup, becomes a very lodged tampon, Abbie finding out her sister met The 1975 WITHOUT HER, and then once we get back to the nightmare fuel it gets WILD.  LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com   CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode discusses self harm, disordered eating, depression and anxiety. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you.  Musician and angel Mia Wray joins the show to talk the big stuff; her mental health, her music writing, and ending her 7 year relationship because she was falling in love with a woman. On a writing trip overseas she channelled her confusion and heartbreak and love into writing new music; the first track you can hear now 'Monster Brain' dedicated to her ex, and the people in your life that help you through the utter shit you sometimes find yourself in. LINKS Listen to Mia's latest track 'Monster Brain' https://bit.ly/miawray-monsterbrain .  Follow @miawray in Instagram https://bit.ly/miawray-instagram . Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Mia Wray @miawray .Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Digital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A sweet angel who deserves the world sent in a Nightmare Fuel with more layers than an onion parfait. And because nothing is sacred we break down trying to figure out what a physicist ACTUALLY does.  This episode mentions suicide. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you.  LINKS Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review .  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.