

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
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Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
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Apr 27, 2023 • 15min
I Don't Want To Be Pounded Anymore: A Wild Lil Nightmare Fuel
FIRSTLY!!! Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Full Disclosure: Someone, and we're not pointing any fingers, forgot to take their ADHD medication before we recorded this episode so a 4 minute voice note sent us on a LOT of tangents. What starts as an innocent hotel hookup, becomes a very lodged tampon, Abbie finding out her sister met The 1975 WITHOUT HER, and then once we get back to the nightmare fuel it gets WILD. LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 24, 2023 • 51min
A Complicated Queer Love Story with Angel Mia Wray
This episode discusses self harm, disordered eating, depression and anxiety. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you. Musician and angel Mia Wray joins the show to talk the big stuff; her mental health, her music writing, and ending her 7 year relationship because she was falling in love with a woman. On a writing trip overseas she channelled her confusion and heartbreak and love into writing new music; the first track you can hear now 'Monster Brain' dedicated to her ex, and the people in your life that help you through the utter shit you sometimes find yourself in. LINKS Listen to Mia's latest track 'Monster Brain' https://bit.ly/miawray-monsterbrain . Follow @miawray in Instagram https://bit.ly/miawray-instagram . Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Mia Wray @miawray .Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 20, 2023 • 25min
Nightmare Fuel: LIIIIIAARRRRRR + WTF Do Physicists Do?
A sweet angel who deserves the world sent in a Nightmare Fuel with more layers than an onion parfait. And because nothing is sacred we break down trying to figure out what a physicist ACTUALLY does. This episode mentions suicide. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you. LINKS Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 17, 2023 • 46min
FFS Stop Weaponising Boundary Setting with Therapy Speak
This episode briefly touches on Mental Health and addiction. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you. Full resources included in the LINKS section of the episode description. Abbie's two weeks off from radio means she returns with the voice of an angel. Loljks she sounds like crap and we can blame Matty Healy (sorta). Plus there's an article doing the rounds about how Therapy Speak is "Making Us Selfish" and we get into it. Is it good, bad, bullshit? There are opinions to be had and they're definitely formulated before we hit record and not during... LINKS Australian Institute of Family Services 'Alcohol and Drug Information Service' in your state https://bit.ly/aifs-alcohol-druguse-resources . Read the Bustle piece 'Is Therapy-Speak Making Us Selfish' by Rebecca Fishbein https://bit.ly/bustle-therapy-speak . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 13, 2023 • 13min
I Tried To Twerk My Sad Away: Nightmare Fuel with Esme Louise James
What started out as a lil bootie workout twerk tutorial to try and cope with the stresses of everyday life ended up in hospital. And.. well. the real nightmare fuel isn't how Esme got there, it's what happened (or moreover DIDN'T happen) once she was in the hospital. LINKS Listen to Esme's podcast Kinky History Listen to our interview with Esme https://link.chtbl.com/woe2IlTA . Follow @esme.louisee on IG Check out @esme.louisee on TikTok Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Esme Louise James @esme.louisee .Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 10, 2023 • 1h 2min
Kinks, Wooden Dildos & Horny Stories: Unpacking Kinky History with Esme Louise James
What IS a kink? What did we use for dildos before silicone and batteries? And WHY is there a pornography room in The Vatican? Luscious QUEEN and Kinky Historian Esme Louise James joins us to share some of the most fascinating stories about kink, give Abbie some tips on how to f*ck herself with a suctioned dildo on her shower wall, and generally blow our little minds. Like, why do we depict witches riding brooms? Why do we think an obsession with feet is weird? AND Why have we only just found a dildo from Ancient Rome. LINKS Listen to Esme's podcast Kinky History Follow @esme.louisee on IG Check out @esme.louisee on TikTok Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Esme Louise James @esme.louisee .Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 7, 2023 • 10min
That's One Way To Ruin A Wedding: A Solo Nightmare Fuel
Ah newly wedded bliss. There are few things that can derail it, and this Nightmare Fuel might just be the absolute worst, foul, weird, discombobulating way to do it. You better pray that something like this doesn't happen to you on your wedding day. LINKS Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com . For the Trauma Dump Tour send your Nightmare Fuel voice note to traumadumptour@itsalotpodcast.com . Listen to Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital & Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social & Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 3, 2023 • 46min
The Best Orgasm of My Life and Hi I'm a Little Bit Sad
Settle in for a rollercoaster of an episode my sweet little beluga bby. We're orgasming, we're crying, we're lonely, but we're giggly too. Let's debrief and catch up like old times. LINKS Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 30, 2023 • 15min
"Washing Her Hair with Pu$$y Juices" Nightmare Fuel with Producer Elise
Producer Elise brings a nightmare fuel from her corporate girlie era, and then, cause she is a chicken and doesn't want her fcked dating stories on the internet forever she shares a bonus story that a friend sent her. LINKS Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com . Listen to Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Social & Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Digital & Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 27, 2023 • 47min
Look Who Came Crawling Back!
A familiar voice returns to the show, we catch up, we reflect, and.. Abbie might need to go back to therapy (independent of the poddy not because of it!) LINKS Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Listen Abbie's 'Hot Nights' radio show https://bit.ly/3vDRYDw Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Supervising Producer & editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.