It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage, answers Abbie's burning questions and reveals intimate details about his life with his husband Terry. What does Dan consider the "cancer of a relationship"? What did Abbie do on The Bachelor that Dan is so proud of? What advice does Dan give Abbie about being in open relationships? And what was Dan's reaction when he found out that his ex-boyfriend had cheated on him? All of those questions are answered in this very special episode of It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield. LINKS Listen to Dan's podcast 'Savage Lovecast' https://bit.ly/3NGWvOG Read Dan's book 'Savage Love from A to Z https://bit.ly/42i74M2 Check out Dan's Hump Festival https://www.humpfilmfest.com/ Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Dan Savage @dansavageExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Author and Comedian Toni Lodge's flirting attempts at a house party have led to this week's HILARIOUS Nightmare Fuel.  LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can a conversation about a dead parent be so funny? Toni Lodge (of the Toni and Ryan podcast) LEGIT makes Abbie piss herself in this one. If any of the topics discussed are triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. LINKS Listen to Toni's podcast Toni and Ryan http://bit.ly/3JPau2q Buy Toni's book "I Don't Need Therapy" http://bit.ly/400FqCi  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Toni Lodge @tonilodgeExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie's been asking Cherylyn for a NMF for AGES and the time has finally come... LINKS Subscribe to Cherylyn's YT https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3 Follow Cherylyn on IG https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3 Follow Cherylyn on TT https://bit.ly/3ZKBW8a Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why does a sense of danger make us horny? When is it time to leave a relationship? What to do when you feel ambivalent about your partner? Is there anything worse than being cheated on? Abbie chats to her icon (aka her Lord and Saviour): World renowned Psychotherapist, Esther Perel. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie decided to give this positive update and deep dive (lol) into the world of dolphins. It's SCARY how much she knows about them. LINKS Visit Dolphin Swim Australia https://bit.ly/4gGdnQF Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If your family is being transphobic, fatphobic or bigoted, you're allowed to skip Christmas lunch you know. In part one of this episode, Abbie answers many of the questions you sent through. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Part 2 of Xmas Advice is with ADAM!!! We start off by discussing what Christmas is like with divorced parents but by the end of this episode, we're all laughing our asses off about how risk-averse Abbie is. Prepare to be SHOCKED! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Adam aka Keli Holiday @keliholidayExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ew ew ew ew EW! Ginger Doll's NMF is truly horrifying. We wanted a client story though, right? LINKS Follow Ginger Doll on IG https://www.instagram.com/katiaschwartz/?hl=en Follow Ginger Doll on Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@thegingerdoll Visit Ginger Doll's website thegingerdoll.com https://www.instagram.com/katiaschwartz/?hl=en Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Buy tickets to Abbie's national Trauma Dump tour https://bit.ly/3ytG2Id Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: Ginger Doll @katiaschwartz and Dima El-AlamExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What is it like being a deaf sex worker? How does fetishisation and ableism intersect? And what is Whore-archy? Deaf sex worker and disability advocate Katia Schwartz (aka Ginger Doll) is this week's podcast pick. LINKS Follow Ginger Doll on IG Follow Ginger Doll on Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@thegingerdoll Visit Ginger Doll's website thegingerdoll.com https://www.instagram.com/katiaschwartz/?hl=en Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Buy tickets to Abbie's national Trauma Dump tour https://bit.ly/3ytG2Id Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Ginger Doll @katiaschwartz and Dima El-AlamExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.