Accidental Swingers

A few months ago, Myrina and Tristan met and chatted with a couple at Caliente. Fascinated with their journey and story, Myrina and Tristan asked to interview them for the podcast.  Rob and Trudy are living their best life, together. They met as swingers, eventually started dating as swingers, and then got married and are still swinging! You can find them often as nightclub hosts at Caliente, or perhaps in one of their new endeavors, adult films. Rob and Trudy share some of their stories, their insights into the swinger lifestyle, how they told their families about their lifestyle choices and how they've made this all work! 

When Myrina and Tristan met Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins in 2019, little did they know that their lives would be changed forever. The instant connection the two couples experienced, certainly was too good to be true. But as time went on, and the couples grew closer, they found themselves on yet another unexpected, dare we say "accidental", leg of their journey.  Listen as Myrina and Tristan meet Phoenix and Crimson for the first time in New Orleans and then end up being one of the couples in Myrina and Tristan's first group playroom orgy. But beyond the sex and the love that was growing within the foursome, another passion emerged; educating swingers about kink and kinksters about non-monogamy. Through that passion, the quad created Swinky Life -  life at the intersection of swinging and kink. With Swinky Life, the two couples teach and educate the swinger and kink communities about each others' worlds. They encourage safe exploration of all alternative loves and lifestyles so that others can also enjoy living the Swinky Life.

Kink was the scary unknown, and was a hard limit for Myrina and Tristan. Then they met "The Captain". He slowly, purposefully and methodically introduced them to the spectrum of kink and BDSM. Starting with the sensual, softer side of kink then moving into sensation play, then impact play.  Myrina was skeptical and anxious but all of that faded away when she began to experience pleasure in ways she did not know her body could handle. The Captain also spent time teaching Tristan even more about this style of play and how to use it to create even more intense experiences with his playmates.

Kink and BDSM were the two things that Myrina and Tristan said were a "hard no" when they entered the lifestyle. Naivete, ignorance, and unfamiliarity with this new world led to a lot of apprehension and fear. So much so, that those were the only things they specifically called attention to in their swinger profiles that they would not explore. Then they met "The Captain". Deciding to open their minds and gently push their boundaries, they agreed to meet a single man who was clearly active in the kink and BDSM realm. Little did they know, meeting The Captain would change their lives and become a pivotal step in their lifestyle journey.

Myrina and Tristan interview 7-year lifestyle veterans Michelle and Scott in what turns out to be one of the most thought-provoking, honest, and open interviews to date.  Michelle and Scott share the stories of their own struggles and challenges to maneuver through their lifestyle journey. The naked foursome (yes, everyone was naked for this interview) discuss acknowledged double standards, retraining your brain, and why they feel the most important thing is having faith in your love. Riddled with laughter, fun and sexy vibes, this interview offers solid advice and a comprehensive look at the obstacles facing anyone living, or interested in living a non-monogamous lifestyle.

After a short hiatus, Myrina and Tristan return and share a dual celebration of anniversaries. The recap of their first year in the swinger lifestyle, their Swingerversary, was recorded on the two year anniversary of the release of episode one. Tristan gives his thoughts on their first year of ethical non-monogamy. Myrina and Tristan celebrate their Swingerversary at what has become their "go to" lifestyle club and resort. Myrina has a particularly orgasmic night!

Myrina turns a new corner in her exploration of being a Hotwife when Tristan and Myrina go on a playdate that was completely orchestrated and organized by Myrina and their date.  Before then, Tristan was generally the communicator with possible playmates. But when Myrina saw "A" at a swinger club, she decided to make the first move. When they could not play that night, Myrina decided when, where, and how their playdate with "A" would go. She took total control of the entire experience. Thus beginning yet another chapter in the Accidental Swingers ever-growing dynamic of their non-monogamous lifestyle!

When Myrina and Tristan's swinger lifestyle journey began, they thought they had a clear picture of what their swinger play would be. Then things changed. Myrina began exploring the Hot Wife side of her personality and desires. This exploration led to increased meet and greets, playdates, and willingness to expand boundaries and shed some of her inhibitions. Tristan and Myrina were happy and willing participants in this new dynamic that was being created between them and they were primed and ready to explore what came next.

Myrina and Tristan are ready to get back to swinging and are anxious to ring in the new year with a bang, literally! The couple, along with Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre, spend a sexy, hot, fun weekend at Caliente as they all prepare to resume their swinger activities. The quad talk about their hilarious conversations with other couples, steamy fun in the conversation pool and hot tub and sexy playtime in the playrooms. Myrina and Tristan also interview a hysterically funny and amazing couple, KC and Johanna. Longtime members at Caliente, Johanna and KC share some of their wildly funny lifestyle stories and give us some exciting information about a major upgrade coming to Caliente! Hint: we can't wait!

Myrina and Tristan continue to expand their boundaries as they get more comfortable in their play. The couple finally has their long-awaited, first official Meet and Greet and F*@k. And Myrina experiences a new sensation. Tristan and Myrina then meet a lover at a bar and push their exhibitionist boundaries a little further.