
Accidental Swingers
This podcast chronicles the tales of Myrina and Tristan, a longtime married couple who accidentally stumbled into the swinger lifestyle. They discuss and navigate the topics of consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, sex-positivity, kink, alternative love and lifestyles. Listen to their adventures, learn their lessons, laugh at their misadventures, and enjoy their amazing journey.
Latest episodes

Sep 8, 2023 • 1h 4min
Hotwifing Vs. Hot Flashes: Myrina Gets Her Groove Back
Myrina shares her recent adventures when she traveled without Tristan for a week. Attending a conference where she regularly meets one of her playmates, Myrina knew she would have at least a few beautiful evenings with one of her lovers. She could never have anticipated, or even come close to arranging, how she actually spent her week when she is also able to connect with a previous playmate who lives in the area, and is finally able to make a connection that had eluded her for a few years, which leaves her speechless, breathless and wanting more. A physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting week leaves Myrina feeling that, at least for a little while, she got, at least some, of her groove back! Want to attend events with Myrina and Tristan? The couple also talks about their upcoming travel dates; you can visit the events page on their website to decide which events you would like to attend as well! Watch the raw and uncut video recording of this episode on the Accidental Swingers YouTube Channel!

Jun 26, 2023 • 1h 2min
Overcoming Open Relationship Obstacles: Finding Balance in the Swinger and Hotwife Lifestyle
In this completely raw, uncut, and unedited episode, Myrina and Tristan have a candid, open, and honest conversation about their current personal relationship struggles and how they have learned to process and communicate during these difficult times. They discuss the challenges of navigating the hotwife and ethical non-monogamy lifestyles during times when they are out of sync, especially with each other, and the difficulty of meeting each other's lifestyle needs while in the midst of mental and physical challenges. They talk about the importance of self-care and empathy in their relationship, as well as the need for personal space and time to process emotions. Want to attend events with Myrina and Tristan? The couple also talks about their upcoming travel dates; you can visit the events page on their website to decide which events you would like to attend as well! Watch the raw, uncut and unedited video recording of this episode on the Accidental Swingers YouTube Channel! NOTE: Please be kind to Tristan though, he'd been caught in a rain storm during set-up and never "primped" before they went live. Tristan feels so strongly, however, that viewers be able to watch this episode, and see the reactions and the interactions, that he wants the video to be posted.

May 12, 2023 • 1h 12min
Cannabis and Consenting Adults: Does Cannabis Enhance the Swinger Lifestyle?
Myrina and Tristan talk about the use of recreational cannabis within the swinger community. After a few years of their own "research and development," the couple shares their thoughts and ideas about their own personal cannabis journeys. They discuss how they feel cannabis can enhance intimacy and the many ways they feel helps heighten their sensuality. And find out why they prefer products with higher CBD levels.

Apr 25, 2023 • 1h 9min
Surprise Afternoon Threesome, Sexy MFM Playtime and Myrina Meets A Lady At The Bar
Myrina and Tristan continue their swinger journey as they recount the story of an afternoon threeway which included a little surprise for Myrina as well! They discuss a steamy encounter with a woman at a resort who only had eyes for Myrina and Tristan talks about a brand new experience for him, a somewhat kinky invitation to be a third in a playdate with The Captain and one of his playmates.

Mar 22, 2023 • 45min
Lessons Learned: The Unexpected Upside To Having Sex Without Your Spouse and Be On Our Podcast!
Myrina and Tristan are back at Caliente Resort and Spa in Tampa as they kick off their first "Third Thursday at Caliente". You will be able to find Tristan and Myrina on the third Thursday of every month, which just happens to be Ladies' Night, recording their podcast episode "live" at Caliente! In this episode, Myrina and Tristan celebrate their five-year swingerversary (five years to the day) of their first playdate! The couple discusses what they've learned about THEMSELVES these past five years, how everything has totally surpassed their expectations, and that current reality far exceeds what they thought were their wildest fantasies five years ago! Now it's your turn! Do you have a funny "accidental swinger" story? or just a great lifestyle journey story that you'd like to share? Myrina and Tristan invite you to share your story with them and the world! You can write us your story and we will read it on air OR you can record your story (no longer than 5 minutes) to be played on the podcast! Interested? Send Myrina an email to myrina@accidentalswingers.com and she will let you know how to proceed! Because ... everyone has a story!

Mar 8, 2023 • 1h 30min
Ep 42: Vegas, a Visiting Single Guy, a Possible Five-Way and a Fantasy Fulfilled for Tristan (Plus, be on our podcast!)
Myrina and Tristan review their recent trips to Vegas and the Poconos. (Be sure to visit our website to view our calendar and join us on our next lifestyle event adventure!) Myrina starts messaging with a single from out of state who was coming to Florida for a few days and arranges a play date with him. Myrina and Tristan are invited to play with another couple and single guy. Myrina takes a big risk to make one of Tristan's fantasies come true! Want to hear YOUR story on one of our episodes? At the end of this episode, Tristan and Myrina announce that they will be at Caliente Resort and Spa on the third Thursday of every month, from 6 - 7 pm, to record an episode of their podcast. If you're going to be at Caliente on a third Thursday, reach out and let them know! Myrina and Tristan love meeting listeners, and who knows, maybe your accidental swinger story (or just amazing lifestyle story) will be featured on the podcast!! Send your email to Myrina@AccidentalSwingers.com

Feb 10, 2023 • 1h 26min
Ep 41: Swinging Through ATL Where Things Got HOT
Myrina and Tristan step further out of their comfort zone by going out of town to spend the weekend with play partners they met at Naughty N'awlins the year before. Listen in as they recount the weekend's hot and sexy shenanigans where they basically had sex, ate for nourishment, napped, and then had more sex! The foursome visited the swinger club, Trapeze, in Atlanta where the ladies decided to start the night off together while the guys, and some interested patrons, watched the fun. The ladies practically flooded the room before the guys even jumped in! Tristan talks about his love of women who squirt and what it’s like to play with two prolific squirters in one session. Myrina talks about tapping into a level of sexuality that she didn't know she had. Both Myrina and Tristan describe that evening, still, as one of their top 5 sexy nights of all time!

Dec 9, 2022 • 37min
Ep 40: Where Have You Been?
Myrina and Tristan are BACK and now also on VIDEO! From now on, Accidental Swingers podcast episodes will be audio and video! Find us, right now, on YouTube @TheAccidentalSwingers and eventually on other video podcast platforms! Myrina and Tristan bring everyone up to date on what has been happening with us both personally and professionally, and why we haven't published an episode in a few months. The couple also gives a sneak peek at the year ahead for the Accidental Swingers and Swinky Life! If you get the chance, pop over to YouTube and watch our podcast as well!

Sep 22, 2022 • 1h 10min
Ep 39: Louisville Slugger, Vanilla Strikeouts and Bad Timing
Myrina and Tristan share sexy stories about playdates they had; both together and separately. Find out how Louis got his "name"! After a final return trip to Virginia, Myrina shares a story about the final night with (one of her) Virginia lovers and something she has never talked about before. On her return from Virginia, Myrina stops at one of her favorite hotel chains and meets a lovely gentleman at the bar! Will they or won't they??? And when Myrina gets overserved, she accidentally spoils a couple's date with Amber and Steve.

Sep 7, 2022 • 1h 37min
Ep 38: We Outed Ourselves as Swingers
Myrina and Tristan decide they want to start a podcast but aren't quite sure how to talk to people about their idea. They attend a podcast conference and tell anyone who asks, what their podcast is about! (Spoiler alert: it's THIS podcast!) Myrina meets a vanilla guy who is "all-in" at trying his luck with a swinger hotwife. Tristan and Myrina finally visit Secrets Hideaway and Resort outside of Orlando, Florida with a plan to meet another couple for a night of play. But things don't always go as planned.