

unPAUSED with Dr. Mary Claire Haver
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Welcome to unPAUSED, the podcast where bold, unfiltered conversations take place about what it really takes for women to thrive in the second half of life. Every week, Dr. Mary Claire Haver, a board-certified Obstetrician-Gynecologist, Certified Menopause Practitioner, and #1 New York Times best-selling author, tackles the conversations women actually need to hear. Dr. Haver sits down with a variety of medical experts, CEOs, and risk-takers to discuss everything that matters, from hormones and identity to financial power, relationships, and the tools needed to build the life you want. unPAUSED is about reclaiming your healthspan—not just the number of years you live, but the number of years you live well. Tune in every Tuesday for new episodes of unPAUSED. Subscribe now so you don't miss it.
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Jan 20, 2026 • 60min
Menopause, Frozen Shoulder and the Joint Pain Wake Up Call with Dr. Jocelyn Wittstein - Part 1
In a captivating discussion, Dr. Jocelyn Ross Wittstein, an orthopedic surgeon and researcher, sheds light on the surprising connection between frozen shoulder and menopause. With her expertise, she explains how declining estrogen uniquely affects women's joints, particularly in midlife. Dr. Wittstein highlights early detection signs of frozen shoulder and stresses the importance of timely steroid treatments. She also discusses the musculoskeletal syndrome of menopause, urging awareness of osteoporosis as a critical women's health issue. Prepare to rethink joint health!

Jan 17, 2026 • 53min
Sally Wainwright on Riot Women, Identity Theft of Menopause, and Writing Real Female Characters
Sally Wainwright, an award-winning British television writer known for her acclaimed series like Happy Valley and Gentleman Jack, dives into her new BBC series Riot Women, spotlighting midlife women's experiences. She candidly discusses her personal battles with menopause, dubbing it 'identity theft.' Sally emphasizes the importance of portraying authentic female characters who navigate grief and joy. The conversation touches on the creative process, the challenges of funding female-centric stories, and how writing became a therapeutic outlet for understanding midlife transitions.

Jan 13, 2026 • 1h 12min
From Hysteria to Medical Gaslighting and the Path Forward with Dr. Elizabeth Comen
Dr. Elizabeth Comen, a board-certified oncologist and author of "It's All in Her Head," tackles the deep-seated issue of medical gaslighting in women's healthcare. She shares a poignant story of a dying patient apologizing for sweating, highlighting the shame many women feel in medical settings. Comen explores historical biases against women, from cardiac misconceptions to the dismissal of autoimmune diseases. She emphasizes the need for better understanding and addressing women's health issues, urging for systemic change. Her insights pave a hopeful path forward.

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Jan 6, 2026 • 51min
Menopause Masterclass: Hormones, Brain Fog, Weight & Mental Health with Dr. Mary Claire Haver
Delve into the often-overlooked phases of menopause, starting as early as your mid-30s. Discover how brain fog and anxiety might be the first signs of perimenopause, rather than physical symptoms. Learn about the 40-plus potential symptoms of menopause, including unexpected weight gain and joint pain. Dr. Haver highlights crucial hormone therapy options for mental health, and addresses common concerns about vaginal health. Plus, find insights into testosterone's role in libido and overall well-being during this significant life transition.

Dec 30, 2025 • 55min
Midlife Divorce: The Facts, The Finances, and The Fallout with Jenny Hutt
Divorce rates for people over 50 have doubled since the 1990s, and women are initiating the majority of them. What's really driving this shift? In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver sits down with family law attorney and broadcaster Jenny Hutt to discuss the facts, finances, and fallout of midlife divorce.
Jenny Hutt is a family law attorney specializing in divorce and mediation in New York, and she spent two decades as a broadcaster on SiriusXM. She's one of Dr. Haver's earliest supporters, and she brings both personal experience and professional insight to this conversation about a controversial topic relating to women's health: the connection between menopause and divorce.
Dr. Haver and Jenny start with the facts: the statistics behind gray divorce, why women are initiating most of them, and what's really happening beyond the oversimplification of "dry vagina" causing divorces. They discuss feeling unsupported, undervalued, and reaching a breaking point after years of caregiving. They also dive into finances: what every woman should know about her money whether she's thinking about divorce or not, the three things to do if you're considering divorce, the difference between mediation and legal representation, how to protect inheritance, and the details around a postnuptial agreement. They also address the financial reality that women's household income drops 41% on average after divorce compared to 23% for men. Finally, they explore the fallout: the stress on the sandwich generation of caring for aging parents while raising children, how trauma strains marriages, rebuilding identity after a long marriage, the shame women feel, and why the other side of divorce can bring unexpected peace and freedom.
Guest links:
Jennifer Hutt
Just Jenny Podcast (Apple Podcasts)
Jennifer Koppleman Hutt (Wisselman Harounian Family Law)
Jenny Hutt (e-mail)
Jenny Hutt (Instagram)
Other Resources
U.S. Divorce Rates Down, Marriage Rates Stagnant From 2012-2022 (U.S. Census Bureau)
Women More Likely Than Men to Initiate Divorces, But Not Non-Marital Breakups (American Sociological Association)
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Dec 23, 2025 • 1h 8min
Leaving Her Dream Job for Menopause Advocacy: Tamsen Fadal on HRT & Purpose After 50
Tamsen Fadal, an Emmy Award-winning journalist and menopause advocate, shares her transformative journey after experiencing menopause symptoms on live TV. She reveals the struggles of misdiagnoses and her emotional response to finally receiving a menopause diagnosis. Tamsen discusses her groundbreaking PBS documentary, The M Factor, and how the viral trailer led to community support and screenings worldwide. She emphasizes the need for better education on menopause, encourages women to advocate for their health, and highlights the importance of finding purpose after 50.

Dec 18, 2025 • 45min
Orgasm After Menopause: Vibrators, Testosterone & Solutions with Dr. Lauren Streicher (Pt. 2)
Dr. Lauren Streicher, a prominent professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology and sexual medicine expert, joins to discuss the chronic taboos of sexual function post-menopause. She reveals why vibrators often outperform other methods for arousal and dives into the mechanics of arousal creams and CBD oil. The conversation includes insights on the roles of neurotransmitters, FDA-approved libido drugs, and the benefits versus risks of testosterone. Dr. Streicher emphasizes redefining sexual success beyond orgasm and finding qualified specialists in sexual medicine.

Dec 16, 2025 • 56min
Where Did My Orgasm Go? Menopause, SSRIs, and the Science of Pleasure with Dr. Lauren Streicher
Dr. Lauren Streicher, a leading expert in sexual medicine and menopause, joins to tackle the mysteries of orgasms in midlife. They dive into why many women experience changes post-menopause and explore the complexities of orgasm anatomy, debunking myths around penetration. With insights on vaginal and cervical orgasms, the impact of SSRIs, and the benefits of vaginal estrogen, Dr. Streicher offers practical advice. She emphasizes the need for better sexual education and encourages self-exploration as a key to reclaiming pleasure.

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Dec 9, 2025 • 1h 24min
Menopause, Misogyny and the Medical System: Dr Sharon Malone Sets the Record Straight
Dr. Sharon Malone, a dedicated women's health advocate and Chief Medical Advisor at Alloy Women's Health, joins the conversation with insights on reshaping menopause care. She exposes the medical system's historical failures, such as outdated studies that misrepresented hormone therapy risks. Dr. Malone discusses the generational effects of these misconceptions and emphasizes the urgent need for informed menopause treatment. With a focus on advocacy and patient empowerment, she encourages women to seek second opinions and challenge the status quo.

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Dec 2, 2025 • 1h 19min
Can't Take Estrogen? Dr. Corinne Menn on Who Can, Who Can't & What's Changed
In a powerful conversation, Dr. Corinne Menn, a board-certified OB-GYN and breast cancer survivor, delves into the complexities of hormone therapy for women. She highlights who can take estrogen, dispels common myths, and discusses the profound gaps in survivorship care, especially concerning sexual health and mental well-being. Dr. Menn shares her personal journey and emphasizes the importance of individualized care. She also explores non-hormonal strategies and the critical role of support networks for cancer survivors.


