Snake on the Table

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, explore The Role of Fathers in Guiding Relationships—but this isn’t just about fathers. Pastors also play a crucial role in shepherding young men and women toward godly marriage.We discuss how Christian men should pursue relationships with confidence, leadership, and spiritual maturity, and how young women can present themselves in a way that aligns with biblical femininity—without falling into worldly distortions. But where do young believers meet a godly spouse? That’s where fathers, pastors, and the local church come in.Should pastors be more proactive in helping young people find a faithful spouse? What role does the church community play in fostering biblical relationships? We tackle these questions and more, offering practical, scriptural insights drawn from years of pastoral ministry.Whether you’re a parent, a single believer looking for direction, or a pastor wondering how to encourage godly marriages in your church, this episode has something for you.📩 Have questions or topics you want us to address? Reach out through the form at snakeonthetable.com. Don’t forget to subscribe and check out Snake on the Table on Spotify and Apple Podcasts to stay connected. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:01 - Finding a Christian Man for Women07:56 - Attracting a Godly Man: Key Traits12:33 - Importance of Weight in Relationships16:48 - Traits Men Are Attracted To18:01 - Where to Meet Good Men21:06 - Tanner and Laura's Meeting Story24:05 - Involving Friends in Relationships25:50 - Singleness vs. Divorce: A Perspective28:12 - Reformed Singles Mixer Event32:23 - Tips for Finding a Christian Man36:08 - Submitting Questions for the Show36:16 - Closing Remarks

Can Christians speak like Jesus did? In this episode, we explore that question by examining the bold, loving, and often confrontational way Jesus spoke.Join Reformation Church pastors Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, along with special guest Jon Harris, as we discuss how Christians today can follow Christ’s example in speech and action. This conversation is built on Jon’s new book, Against the Waves—a deep dive into biblical communication, standing firm in truth, and challenging cultural compromise. You can get your copy here: https://amzn.to/4bpZ3dvFrom biblical masculinity to parenting with wisdom, we cover the principles of effective communication, the necessity of godly confrontation, and the misconceptions about love in today’s culture. Whether it’s engaging with opponents, leading your family, or fostering spiritual growth, this discussion will challenge and encourage you.Got questions or topics you’d like us to cover? Send them our way, and don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes of Snake on the Table. Listen now on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and join the conversation today!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:30 - Speaking Like Jesus: Christian Perspectives07:55 - John MacArthur’s Upcoming Book Insights11:17 - Addressing Women's Roles in the Church17:00 - Understanding the Concept of a Nation17:54 - Perspectives on Paul Washer's Teachings18:20 - Church's Distance from the Community20:00 - Defining a Masculine Church25:20 - Emulating Jesus: Actions We Should Take26:13 - Immigration: A Christian Perspective30:18 - Book Recommendations and Insights32:53 - Submit Your Questions for Discussion33:27 - John Harris Podcast Overview33:39 - Engaging Conversations That Matter

When should you leave your church? 🚶‍♂️ In this episode, we tackle this important question from a biblical and practical perspective, exploring when it’s time to move on and how to do so with grace. From concerns about shallow teachings to doctrinal issues and cultural pressures, we share personal experiences and offer insights into maintaining unity, pursuing reconciliation, and prioritizing covenant membership. We also discuss the pitfalls of church hopping, bad reasons to leave a church, and the key qualities to look for when joining a new one, including confessional beliefs, cultural engagement, and a heart for evangelism. Does your pastor’s teaching align with Scripture? Are you feeling called to re-evaluate your role in your church? Let’s dive into these tough but necessary conversations. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we share wisdom from our own journeys and encourage you to take a thoughtful, gospel-centered approach to your church decisions. Got questions or topics you’d like us to explore? Send them our way, and let’s keep the dialogue going!#membershipcontracts #churchmembership #thelocalchurch #gracecommunitychurch #whatischurchmembershipCHAPTERS:00:00 - Jerry’s Church Experience01:07 - Introduction to Church Dynamics01:36 - Importance of Church Community06:10 - Leaving a Church: A Serious Decision10:38 - Valid Reasons to Leave a Church18:25 - Invalid Reasons for Leaving a Church24:41 - Joining a Church: What to Know29:45 - Finding the Right Church for You32:20 - Steps to Join a Church33:19 - Initiating Conversations in Church

In this episode, we discuss our fight for equal protection under Kentucky law, focusing on HB523—the Equal Protection Act for unborn children. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we navigate the challenges of advocating for justice while exposing the political games that stall meaningful change. We tackle questions like: Why do our laws value some lives differently? How can Christians stand firm in faith while engaging with the political process? Together, we unpack how HB523 aims to defend the most vulnerable, protect women from coercion, and uphold a consistent biblical ethic. Your voice matters! Contact your representatives and demand action. Let’s hold our leaders accountable for protecting life and ensuring justice. Have thoughts or questions? Reach out to us on Twitter or Facebook. Don’t forget to follow us for more discussions on Christianity, spirituality, and biblical values. Let’s fight for truth together!#legislativepriorities #kentuckylegislation #publicsafety #whas11news #legislativeagendaCHAPTERS:00:00 - Introduction00:50 - HB 523 Overview03:20 - Fearmongering Tactics07:20 - The Mother as a Victim09:33 - Contact Your Representative10:42 - Exposing the Legislative Game16:38 - Adjacent Political Pressure19:14 - Closing Remarks

When does life begin, and how do faith, law, and hard choices shape our understanding of this pivotal question? In this special edition of Snake on the Table, Pastor Jerry Dorris of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, is joined by three women from the church to share their powerful testimonies and discuss the urgent need for legislation that upholds equal protection and equal justice for the pre-born.This episode dives deep into one of the most challenging and emotional topics of our time: the sanctity of life in the womb, the transformative power of Christ, and the role of legislation in shaping cultural values. Through raw, heartfelt testimonies, we explore how personal struggles, societal pressures, and faith intersect. From stories of redemption after abortion to the strength found in God's grace, these conversations expose the realities of sin, the hope of forgiveness, and the lasting impact of the gospel.We also confront cultural norms that have long misled the pro-life movement—challenging the false idea that mothers who abort their children are always victims, addressing the biblical view of justice, and discussing how faith-based legislation must reflect the truth that all human life is equally valuable.Join us for this crucial discussion, grounded in Scripture and framed by the hope of Christ. Share your thoughts and questions—your voice matters in this fight for justice. Don’t forget to subscribe for more candid conversations on faith, morality, and biblical truth. Let’s keep the conversation going!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:30 - What is Snake on the Table06:38 - Wendy’s Story11:41 - Katie’s Story15:47 - Sins of Women20:37 - Delane’s Story24:40 - Processing Trauma Over 30 Years25:55 - Impact of Pastor Keeler's Preaching29:38 - Disassociating that the preborn have value29:58 - Suppressing the Truth32:29 - Navigating Pastoral Teachings on Abortion41:10 - Church Support for Single Mothers42:18 - Miscarriage and Gospel Hope44:50 - Final Thoughts and Reflections45:16 - Submit Your Questions

ATTN: Looks like we failed to change the question on the video overlay from Snake 47. Doh! We should hire professionals. In this episode of Snake on the Table, we tackle the complex question: Should Christians support mass deportations? Join Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Doris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we explore the intersection of Christianity, immigration, and national identity. Are mass deportations un-Christian? How should believers balance compassion with the rule of law? What does the Bible say about nationhood, assimilation, and justice?We dive deep into these pressing issues, sharing biblical insights, personal convictions, and practical perspectives on how to approach this hot-button topic as faithful Christians. Should Christians prioritize helping illegal immigrants, or does stewardship of national resources take precedence? How do we navigate the tension between extending grace and upholding the law? We also discuss the role of the church in ministering to immigrant communities while respecting legal frameworks.Got questions or thoughts? We’d love to hear from you! Send us your topics and questions through the anonymous form at snakeonthetable.com. Don’t forget to check out the podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions about Christianity, biblical masculinity, spirituality, and more. Let’s wrestle with the tough questions together. God bless!#donaldtrump #news #deportation #presidenttrump #trumpimmigrationCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:41 - Christian Perspectives on Mass Deportations04:41 - Immigrants' Intentions: Becoming Americans08:15 - Global Responsibility: Taking in the Needy13:41 - Worship Rights for Illegal Immigrants19:00 - Misusing Proverbs 21:13 in Christian Context21:06 - Balancing Personal Compassion and National Policy25:36 - Consequences of Deportation28:37 - Natural Segregation of People Groups33:03 - Governance: National Self-Regulation34:53 - Q&A Session

What does true biblical servant leadership look like? In this episode, we tackle the misconceptions surrounding servant leadership in Christianity and discuss how leaders can serve while maintaining authority. Drawing insights from Mark 10:42-45, Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright explore the balance between humility and strong, Christ-centered leadership. Is modern servant leadership too passive, or have we lost the essence of what Jesus modeled? We reflect on biblical masculinity, gender roles, and the importance of setting a vision in the home, church, and beyond. How can husbands, pastors, and leaders serve best without forfeiting their God-given responsibility to lead? With real-life examples and scripture, we challenge the cultural shift away from biblical principles.Have questions or thoughts? Share them with us at SnakeOnTheTable.com, where you can also submit topics anonymously. Tune into the "Snake on the Table" podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more discussions on Christianity, parenting, and spiritual growth. Join us as we seek to lead with integrity and follow Christ’s example of servant leadership.#faithfamilyfinance #servantleadership #examplesofservantleaders #principlesofservantleadership #servantleadershiptenprinciplesCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:40 - What’s the Snake01:37 - Mark 10:42-45 Analysis04:08 - Exegeting Off the Top Insights05:39 - Understanding Servant Leadership09:56 - The Lazy Husband Explained10:36 - Characteristics of a Domineering Husband12:33 - Leading by Serving Principles19:43 - Elders Leading by Example21:55 - Transitioning to Once a Week

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris dive into the cultural and spiritual implications of tattoos and redemption. What do tattoos signal about identity, past decisions, and faith? From personal anecdotes to exploring biblical masculinity and cultural norms, we tackle tough questions about how outward choices, like tattoos or piercings, might reflect inner beliefs or rebellion.Are tattoos a good idea? How do they tie into themes of faith, gender roles, and parenting? Join us as we share honest thoughts, including the perspective that tattoos can mark a past life redeemed by God's grace. As pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we bring a biblical lens to these conversations, reminding viewers of God’s transformative power.We want to hear from you! What’s your take on tattoos and their meaning in today's culture? Share your thoughts or send questions to us—we’d love to continue the conversation. Don’t forget to check out Snake on the Table on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more episodes like this. God bless!#tattooexpressions #snugpiercing #daithpiercing #tattoo #piercingjewelryCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:05 - Septum Ring Controversy06:34 - Tattoo Trends and Culture11:32 - Tattoo Art and Expression17:33 - Meaning Behind Tattoos22:09 - Comment Context and Interpretation23:11 - Personal Transformation26:42 - Risks of Tattoos for Youth29:23 - Light Infantry Uniforms29:55 - Tattoo Choices and Consequences

Should women be allowed to vote? In this episode of "Snake on the Table," Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, tackle this hotly debated question with an honest, thought-provoking discussion. We explore societal responsibility, biblical masculinity, gender roles, and the historical context of voting rights, sparking a conversation that challenges modern perspectives. From the idea of household voting to the importance of vested interest in society, we dive into what it means to lead a well-ordered home and nation.Do you agree that voting should be tied to responsibility and contribution, or is it a fundamental right for all? We want to hear your thoughts! Send us your questions or topics to discuss at snakeonthetable.com. Don’t forget, you can also catch our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more in-depth conversations on Christianity, spirituality, and parenting. Join the dialogue and let’s explore these challenging issues together!#studyiq #usnews #politicalscience #votingrightsactof1965 #votingrightsactCHAPTERS:00:00 - INTRO00:58 - Women's Voting Rights07:01 - Women's Suffrage Debate11:51 - Women's Vote Impact13:49 - Criminals and Voting Rights15:35 - Final Thoughts

In this episode of Snake On The Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris tackle the question: Can Christians be freed from homosexual desire? We dive into the complexities of biblical masculinity, spiritual struggles, and the process of mortifying sin through Christ. What does scripture teach about disordered desires? How can believers fight temptation and reorder their hearts in line with God's word? We discuss practical steps like confession, transparency, and accountability, while exploring the hope and transformation found in the gospel.As pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we approach this topic with both grace and truth, offering encouragement and guidance to those battling sin. Whether you're struggling with lust, seeking spiritual growth, or simply curious about Christian perspectives on these issues, this discussion is for you. Got a question or topic you'd like us to address? Send it our way! Don't forget to check out our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more thought-provoking conversations. Join us in the fight for faithfulness and freedom in Christ.#josephprince #howtoovercomelust #overcominghomosexualdesire #pornaddiction #pornCHAPTERS:00:00 - Introduction to Lust and Sin00:27 - Viewer Questions on Lust01:08 - Understanding Lust and Its Implications05:43 - Personal Confession About Lust07:53 - Discussion on Male Sexual Orientation12:39 - Meaning of Being Exposed in Sin18:09 - Bringing Sin to Light: Importance20:05 - Consequences of Being Exposed for Sin22:35 - The Process of Repentance and Restoration23:20 - Submit Your Questions for Discussion25:27 - The Gospel Message: Christ's Sacrifice for Sin