Snake on the Table

Jerry Dorris & Tanner Cartwright
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May 20, 2025 • 58min

SNAKE 61: Why Can’t We Express Natural Affection for Being White?

In this episode of Snake on the Table, we tackle the provocative question: "Is loving your heritage now racist?" Join hosts Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as they dive into the complexities of identity, biblical natural affection, and cultural heritage. Why has expressing love for your ancestry become such a divisive issue? Should Christians feel guilty about valuing their heritage? And how does this fit within the broader conversation about race, culture, and faith?We discuss the biblical perspective on natural affection, the impact of modern cultural narratives, and how Christians can navigate these challenging topics with wisdom and grace. From exploring kinism to addressing common misconceptions about racism and identity, this conversation is both thought-provoking and deeply rooted in scripture.What do you think? Is it wrong to express gratitude for your cultural and familial legacy? We’d love to hear your thoughts! Write to us at snakeonthetable.com. Let us know in the comments, and don’t forget to subscribe for more discussions on faith, culture, and biblical truth. You can also find our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts—tune in and join the conversation!#naturalaffection #heritageidentity #withoutnaturalaffection #christianhedonism #biblicalnaturalaffections#racialidentitychristianity #faithandjustice #culturalheritagechristianity #racialidentityinchristianity #socialjusticeCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:04 - Natural Affection and White Identity05:02 - Race and Ethnicity Categories Explained11:26 - Understanding Kinism18:05 - Defining Racism21:00 - Exploring Biblical Racism22:06 - Concept of Biblical Natural Affection26:25 - Celebrating Ancestry and Culture31:02 - Rejecting Racial Superiority and Ethnic Guilt34:13 - Interracial Marriage Discussion42:47 - Understanding Race47:07 - Exploring Ethnicity49:20 - Impact on Gospel Witness53:39 - Metaphor of the Beanbag Chair55:59 - Conversation Recap56:18 - Recommended Books57:58 - Outro
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May 13, 2025 • 26min

SNAKE 60: Can You Describe What Transparency Among Church Leaders Looks Like? JOSH BUICE LESSONS

In this episode, we tackle the critical topic of transparency in leadership, reflecting on lessons from Josh Buice's recent controversy. What does accountability among pastors and elders look like? Why is transparency essential in the church, and how do we address moral failings when they arise? Join us as we explore these pressing questions, share personal stories, and discuss the broader implications for Christian leadership and spirituality.From The Paddock, a great Shelbyville coffee shop, we dive into the importance of confession, humility, and building trust within the church. Drawing from our experiences at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we highlight practical steps for fostering transparency and maintaining biblical integrity in ministry.We want to hear from you! Send us your questions or topics, and let’s keep this conversation going. Don’t forget to check out the Snake on the Table podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more thought-provoking discussions.#leadershiptransparency #johnmaxwell #wrongfultermination #nycemploymentlawyer #freelawyerconsultation#ascensionpresents #eldershiptransparency #accountabilityinthechurch #christianaccountability #churchresponsibility #joshbuiceCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:10 - Josh Buice Transparency05:46 - Accountability Confession10:24 - Anonymous Accounts15:14 - Praying for Josh Buice17:37 - Strategic Approaches20:00 - Josh Buice Discussion22:10 - Forgiving Repentant Brothers22:48 - G3 Conference Highlights25:40 - Contact Information
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May 6, 2025 • 20min

SNAKE 59: What Do I Do If One of My Brothers or Sisters Is Transgender?

In this episode, we discuss how to handle a transgender sibling biblically while navigating the complexities of family, faith, and culture. Tackling questions like how to protect your children, maintain biblical masculinity, and show Christlike love, we provide practical guidance rooted in scripture. Can you love a sibling while rejecting their lifestyle? How do you balance truth and grace in difficult family dynamics? As pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we bring biblical wisdom to these pressing questions, offering insights into parenting, gender roles, and spiritual leadership. Join us as we explore how to stand firm in faith while extending love and compassion. Have a question or topic you'd like us to address? Email us at snakeonthetable.com. Don’t forget to subscribe and listen to our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more discussions on Christianity, family, and living faithfully in today’s world. We’d love to hear from you!#genderdysphoria #christianfamilydynamics #transgender #apologetics #familysystemstheoryCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:34 - Sibling Transgender Support00:53 - Safeguards for Children01:15 - Boundaries for Family Protection02:45 - Actions to Avoid05:52 - Family Protection Responsibilities06:42 - Respectful Disagreement11:00 - Communicating with LGBTQ Family18:00 - Creating an Inclusive Home19:06 - Understanding Gender Dysphoria19:53 - Closing Remarks
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Apr 29, 2025 • 46min

SNAKE 58: How to Cultivate a Masculine Culture in Your Church

How do you cultivate a truly masculine church culture? In this episode, we discuss how Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, creates an environment where biblical masculinity thrives. From leading worship to teaching young men the importance of courage, leadership, and godly responsibility, we tackle the practical ways churches can foster a culture that honors divine design for gender roles. We explore how leading, providing, and protecting are central to spiritual masculinity, the importance of men setting the tone in worship, and how engaging in open dialogue strengthens brotherhood. Can a church truly stand firm on scripture without caving to cultural pressures? How does a focus on teaching, accountability, and real-life application of biblical truths elevate both men and families?Join us as we examine the role of pastors, the impact of strong male leadership, and why challenging men to step up in their homes and communities is essential. Got questions or topics you'd like us to explore? Send them our way, and let’s keep the conversation going!#authenticmanhood #masculineenergy #biblicalleadership #biblicalmasculinity #men'sministryCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:44 - Cultivating Masculine Culture in Church01:42 - Masculine Worship Practices06:10 - Preparing Men for Spiritual Warfare08:01 - The Role of Worship in Masculinity09:18 - Biblical Distinction of Gender10:39 - Church's Offensive Approach18:00 - Defining Our Masculine Identity22:20 - Bivocational Pastoring Insights25:14 - Building a Culture of Masculinity28:15 - Foundations in Scripture33:16 - Strategies for Cultivating Masculinity34:40 - Monday Night Bible Study Overview38:58 - Jay Adams Case Studies Explained39:35 - Understanding Masculinity44:55 - Closing Thoughts on Masculinity
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Apr 22, 2025 • 23min

SNAKE 57: What Changes Would You Like to See Among The Pastors of Your County?

Why must pastors choose boldness over popularity in today's culture? In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, tackle the challenges pastors face in balancing courage, truth, and cultural pressures. We discuss the dangers of compromising biblical principles, the importance of standing for righteousness in the public square, and how pastors can resist the temptation to prioritize approval over truth.We react to the growing "winsome to woke" mindset among church leaders and explore the concept of biblical masculinity, as highlighted in books like "Masculine Christianity" by Zachary Garris. Are pastors too often steered by fear or by the most sensitive voices in their congregations? What does it truly mean to shepherd boldly while fostering unity among churches?Join us as we share personal experiences, address the realities of pastoral struggles, and call for a renewed commitment to biblical truth and community impact. Have a question or topic for us? Reach out at snakeonthetable.com or email refurchpastor@gmail.com. Don’t forget to find Snake on the Table on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more!Let’s connect and work together for a stronger, Christ-centered community.#unityofthespirit #spiritualgrowth #pastoralboldness #graceoverguilt #unityinthechurchCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:53 - Pastoral Changes in County12:18 - Understanding Cancel Culture17:44 - Issues Hierarchy Explained19:07 - Collaboration Strategies21:04 - Strategies to Combat Evil22:08 - Get in Touch with Us
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Apr 15, 2025 • 31min

SNAKE 56: Do You Believe That Muslims Are Having Dreams of Jesus?

Do Muslim dreams lead to salvation? In this episode, we tackle this fascinating question from a reformed perspective. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we discuss powerful stories of divine providence, biblical truths, and how dreams might play a role in leading individuals to hear the gospel. Can God use extraordinary means, such as dreams or impressions, to draw people to Himself? How do we discern His will through scripture, prayer, and the work of the church?We also share real-life examples, explore cessationism versus continuationism, and reflect on the ultimate authority of God's Word in salvation. This is a thought-provoking conversation about faith, spiritual encounters, and how God moves through His messengers to transform lives. What are your thoughts on this topic? Have questions or reactions? Send them to us at Snake on the Table, and let’s keep the conversation going!#spiritualawakening #spiritualgrowth #islamiclectures #chosenones #darknightofthesoul#israel #reformedtheology #voddiebauchamtruegospel #reformedtheologyexplained #voddiebauchamCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:50 - Snake on the Table02:16 - Salvation in Dreams for Muslims05:36 - Identifying Jesus in Dreams11:02 - Spiritual Guidance Through Dreams14:12 - Understanding Providence17:30 - Discerning God's Will22:10 - Normative Practices in Faith23:35 - Understanding Labels in Religion25:28 - What Are We Missing in Spirituality28:16 - Exploring Miracles29:40 - Contact Us for More Information
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Apr 8, 2025 • 21min

SNAKE 55: Should Women Seek Public Office and Government Positions?

In this episode of Snake on the Table, we discuss a thought-provoking question: Should women hold public offices? Exploring this topic from a biblical perspective, we dive into the roles of men and women in leadership, government, and the church, unpacking scriptural truths and societal challenges. Are men abdicating their responsibilities? What does the Bible say about gender roles and leadership? How can we, as Christians, navigate these complex issues in today’s world?Join hosts Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we tackle these important questions and share practical insights on biblical masculinity, parenting, and the created order. Whether addressing the story of Deborah or discussing the call for men to step up, this episode is packed with candid, engaging conversation designed to challenge and inspire.We also reflect on how parenting can shape the next generation of leaders, raising resilient sons and supportive daughters to fulfill God’s design. Tune in to hear our take on the intersection of faith, feminism, and societal norms, and don’t miss our thoughts on how Christians can faithfully engage in today’s political and cultural landscape.Have a question or topic for us? Email snake@snakeonthetable.com—we’d love to hear from you! Don’t forget to check out our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more discussions like this. Let’s grow together in understanding God’s Word and its application to every area of life.#femaleleadershipstyles #womeninleadershipquestions #christianmotivation #bible #tedtalkCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:41 - Women in Public Office: Pros and Cons04:51 - Deborah: A Biblical Leader09:49 - The Sin of Empathy: Understanding Its Impact12:32 - Women in Politics: Challenges and Triumphs17:44 - Raising Future Leaders: Parenting Perspectives19:37 - Raising Sons and Daughters: Different Approaches20:28 - Should Women Resign from Public Office?21:06 - Contact Us
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Apr 1, 2025 • 25min

SNAKE 54: Should A Man Have His Wife Work So He Can Attend Seminary?

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, tackle a hard-hitting question: Is it biblical for a man to hand off his duty to provide while he pursues ministry training?We confront the theological, practical, and pastoral fallout of this trend head-on. Can a man be trusted to shepherd a church if he neglects to shepherd his own home? Does seminary culture sometimes encourage men to abandon biblical masculinity in the name of ministry preparation?We break down what it means for a man to provide, lead, and protect—starting in his own house. Along the way, you'll hear critiques of modern seminary systems, real-life experiences, and practical alternatives for those seeking theological education without compromising their calling as husbands and fathers.👉 Available now on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.Have a question or topic? Drop it on the table—we're not afraid to deal with the snakes.CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:29 - Overview of Topics02:13 - Seminary is Defunct07:01 - Balancing Work and Ministry10:49 - Education Resources11:14 - Pathways to Ministry14:12 - Entering the Ministry Field20:03 - Ethical Considerations in Ministry22:14 - Importance of Responsibilities24:33 - Final Thoughts and Contact Information
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Mar 25, 2025 • 17min

SNAKE 53: Should Men Call Each Other Names? Like: Gay, Pansy, Sissy, Nancy

In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we tackle whether Christians should use phrases that mean "man up" to challenge one another. Is it biblical to rib your brothers in Christ, or does it cross the line into sin? We dive into the balance between good-natured teasing, biblical masculinity, and the feminization of culture and the church. Can true Christian friendship include tough love and honest rebukes, or should kindness always rule the day?Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we discuss the role of gender roles, spiritual accountability, and how men can build real, meaningful friendships rooted in faith and strength. We react to cultural trends, reflect on personal experiences, and share what Scripture reveals about authentic Christian masculinity.We want to hear from you! What are your thoughts on this topic? Send us your questions or ideas for future episodes—we’re building this conversation together. Catch the full podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or right here as we continue exploring faith, relationships, and life through a biblical lens.#redpill #toxicchurchculture #culturalrevival #churchimpact #masculineresponsibilityCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:59 - Male Name-Calling: Gay, Pansy, Sissy02:06 - Context of Ribbing Among Friends08:15 - Friendship Dynamics: True Friends and Name-Calling11:02 - Understanding the Term Pantywaist17:00 - Outro
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Mar 18, 2025 • 16min

SNAKE 52: Is it Biblical for a Married Couple to Purposely Avoid Children?

Is avoiding kids unbiblical? In this episode, we tackle this tough and thought-provoking question head-on. Join us as Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, discuss the biblical purpose of marriage, the command to be fruitful and multiply, and the modern cultural trends like "dinks" (dual income, no kids). We dive into topics such as Christianity, biblical masculinity, parenting, gender roles, and how faithfully raising children impacts the next generation and brings glory to God.We also explore the challenges of family planning, biblical perspectives on contraception, and the sovereignty of God for couples struggling with infertility. Are children a blessing or a burden? Can Christian couples purposefully avoid children and still honor God? Let’s unpack these deep truths together.Got questions or topics for us? Send them through the form at snakeonthetable.com—we’d love to hear from you! Don’t forget to check out our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions. God bless!#theologyofthebody #naturalfamilyplanning #christianfamilyplanning #familyplanning #biblicalmarriage #dink CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:02 - Biblical Perspective on Avoiding Children05:09 - Spacing Children: Is It Acceptable?09:54 - Financial Considerations for Avoiding Children10:32 - Children as an Asset: Understanding Wealth12:31 - Building Generational Wealth Through Family15:02 - Contact Us

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