

Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
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Dec 17, 2024 • 31min
What if I'm in a Sexless Marriage?
We're talking about the elephant in the bedroom... What kind of frequency should you have with your spouse in the bedroom?? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Dec 3, 2024 • 25min
Why You NEED to Join a Good Church for the Good of Your Marriage
Involvement in a faithful church can transform a struggling marriage. Couples attending regularly often find better communication and support. The dangers of individualism in faith show how disconnecting from community can harm relationships. Understanding the true purpose of the church is crucial for spiritual growth. Being part of a supportive church fosters forgiveness, guidance, and belonging, ultimately strengthening marital bonds. Engaging with a faith community can turn the tide on relationship dysfunction and enrich family dynamics.

Nov 26, 2024 • 39min
GRATITUDE Changes Everything About Marriage
This engaging discussion dives into how practicing gratitude can transform marital relationships. It emphasizes gratitude's ability to reduce negative emotions like resentment, enhancing both individual well-being and connection. The speakers share personal stories highlighting the importance of recognizing everyday blessings and the dangers of ingratitude. They explore gratitude's role in overcoming challenges, nurturing humility, and maintaining trust in God, ultimately encouraging couples to express appreciation for each other and strengthen their bonds.

Nov 20, 2024 • 31min
Learning to Love IN-LAWS Better
As the holiday season approaches, mastering in-law dynamics becomes crucial. Gain practical strategies for improving these often complex relationships. Discover the power of storytelling and meaningful conversations to foster connections. Learn how to set healthy boundaries while practicing humility and understanding. Explore the balance between honoring parents and nurturing your marriage with grace. With shared faith as a foundation, navigate family expectations and build stronger ties this festive season.

Nov 12, 2024 • 30min
5 Lessons Learned to Stop Arguing About MONEY
If you know our story, you've heard about how we started our marriage out in college living hand to mouth with our finances. Since then, the Lord has had lots to teach us, and we would love to share it with you! Join us. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 29, 2024 • 25min
5 Ways to FINALLY Get Unity Around Time and Priorities
Explore the significance of aligning personal life priorities with divine guidance. The hosts discuss how clear communication can transform marital challenges, especially in navigating family dynamics. Discover strategies for establishing godly values in relationships and fostering unity in busy lives. The importance of managing expectations and responsibilities is highlighted, alongside the benefits of intentional choices that nurture spiritual growth. All this is wrapped in engaging insights drawn from two decades of marriage.

Oct 22, 2024 • 29min
Lessons Learned about S X in 20ish Years of Marriage
God made s*x for our good and His glory, BUT a thriving intimate life with your spouse doesn't happen by accident. It takes good communication, intentionality, effort, and several other lessons we've learned throughout our marriage. Listen in!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 15, 2024 • 32min
7 Ways to Have Better Conflict In Your Marriage
There’s no avoiding it; we all encounter conflict in our marriages. The real question is: how well do you handle it? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 8, 2024 • 30min
4 Massive Lessons Learned on Communication
By God's grace, we just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary, and it got us thinking about the many lessons we have learned together over the years. This week, we're starting off strong with communication and discussing how essential it is to a thriving marriage.P.S. This is the start of a new series, so stay tuned each week as we go through different aspects of marriage and the lessons we've learned.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Sep 25, 2024 • 27min
The Greatest Adultery Repellant Known to Man
We must never assume that we are beyond the grasp of adultery. "Affairs rarely happen out of the blue; they start small and progress subtly over time. Every affair begins in the imagination, takes root in the heart, and slowly turns to action." Tune in to hear how to guard your heart and honor your spouse well.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!