
Fierce Marriage
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
Latest episodes

Oct 15, 2024 • 32min
7 Ways to Have Better Conflict In Your Marriage
There’s no avoiding it; we all encounter conflict in our marriages. The real question is: how well do you handle it? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 8, 2024 • 30min
4 Massive Lessons Learned on Communication
By God's grace, we just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary, and it got us thinking about the many lessons we have learned together over the years. This week, we're starting off strong with communication and discussing how essential it is to a thriving marriage.P.S. This is the start of a new series, so stay tuned each week as we go through different aspects of marriage and the lessons we've learned.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Sep 25, 2024 • 27min
The Greatest Adultery Repellant Known to Man
We must never assume that we are beyond the grasp of adultery. "Affairs rarely happen out of the blue; they start small and progress subtly over time. Every affair begins in the imagination, takes root in the heart, and slowly turns to action." Tune in to hear how to guard your heart and honor your spouse well.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Sep 17, 2024 • 32min
20+ Creative Date Ideas to Stay Connected
Different seasons of life can leave you and your spouse feeling more like roommates rather than husband and wife. If you need creative date ideas to spark some fun and intentional engagement with your spouse, this episode is for you!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Sep 10, 2024 • 31min
Why Even Stay Married? What's the Point?
Have you ever questioned the value of staying married, or do you know someone who could use some marital encouragement? Join us to be reminded of God's beautiful design for marriage!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Sep 3, 2024 • 54min
Q & A: Rebuilding Trust After It's Been Lost (Trust and Betrayal, 5 of 5)
Explore the intricate journey of rebuilding trust after betrayal in marriage. The importance of open communication and mutual understanding takes center stage, while addressing the challenges of trust issues and defensive behaviors. Discover how faith can bring hope during difficult times and the significance of community support in healing. Learn about maintaining boundaries and compassion in relationships, especially when dealing with faith differences and past traumas. This insightful conversation emphasizes active participation in restoring intimacy and integrity.

Aug 14, 2024 • 37min
Creating Healthy Boundaries Around Tech in Marriage (Part 2 of 2)
Nathan and Anna Sutherland, advocates for healthy tech use and champions of marital communication, dive deep into the impact of technology on relationships. They share personal stories and insights on navigating tech boundaries, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue and self-awareness. Listeners will learn effective strategies for fostering genuine connections and managing device use in the home. With their new books and thoughtful reflections, they inspire couples to assess their tech habits and strengthen their marriages.

Aug 7, 2024 • 42min
Phones, Video Games, Tech, and How They Affect Your Marriage (w/ Guests Nathan and Anna Sutherland, Part 1 of 2)
Nathan and Anna Sutherland, authors focused on technology's influence on marriage, join the conversation. They humorously discuss how phones and video games can create marital strife. Reflecting on their journey together, they highlight the importance of intentional tech use to foster better communication. The Sutherlands differentiate between 'tool tech' and 'drool tech,' emphasizing setting boundaries and promoting open dialogues about technology in relationships. Their insights bridge faith and modern challenges, advocating for a values-aligned approach in marriage.

Jul 30, 2024 • 33min
Maintaining Strong Trust in Marriage (Trust and Betrayal 4 of 5)
Our hope for this series is that you and your spouse can learn to mend areas of your marriage that have experienced broken trust. Once you have placed your complete and utter trust in the Lord, and in turn your spouse, we pray that you can KEEP consistent trust in your marriage. That's what this episode is all about. We hope you'll join us!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

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Jul 23, 2024 • 48min
Repairing Trust After It's Broken (Trust and Betrayal 3 of 5)
Trust can be rebuilt in marriage, but couples often struggle with where to start. This discussion covers practical steps for restoring trust, emphasizing humility, honesty, and clear communication. The importance of intentional dialogue and transparency is highlighted, alongside the significance of patience in the healing journey. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their roles and commit to mutual reconciliation, fostering deeper connections through intimacy and spiritual support.