

Fierce Marriage
Ryan and Selena Frederick
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
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Mar 25, 2025 • 33min
Advice for Improving a Difficult Marriage
Has your marriage ever been in a rut? Or maybe you're currently in one and have no idea how you'll make it through. We hope to shine some light on wherever you're at today and remind you to never give up—it’s worth the effort to make it to the other side.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Mar 18, 2025 • 38min
The Power of an Admiring Wife
There's no way around it—a wife has power over her husband's heart. She decides whether to use that power for good or evil. We pray she chooses the former and watches her husband flourish. Tune in to discover all the ways an admiring wife can uplift her husband.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Mar 11, 2025 • 39min
Responding to the Gottman's 4 Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse
The Gottman Institute identified "The 4 Horseman of the Apocolypse", which can supposedly predict the end of a relationship. We shed some biblical light on these ideas as well as some helpful antidotes. We pray it blesses you!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

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Mar 4, 2025 • 41min
Fighting Well and Learning Resiliency
Disagreements in marriage can be tough, but they can also lead to growth. The speakers share insights on handling conflict and the importance of mastering communication. They dive into emotional resilience, highlighting forgiveness and the need to confront issues together. Through personal stories and scripture, they stress that tackling challenges can deepen your relationship. Embracing forgiveness and aligning with faith are vital for rebuilding trust and unity, turning rough moments into opportunities for spiritual growth.

Feb 18, 2025 • 46min
12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)
In Part 1, we explored the subtle yet powerful ways the enemy works against marriages in today's culture. In this final part, we dive deeper into the remaining tactics and, more importantly, how to guard against them. Join us for this insightful discussion on strengthening your marriage and family.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Feb 11, 2025 • 33min
12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 1 of 2)
Ryan posed a question to ChatGPT and said, "Imagine you were the devil, how would you strategically go about destroying the family unit?" The response was eerily similar to what we’re witnessing in today’s culture. Don’t miss this eye-opening discussion—stay tuned to equip yourself in the good fight for your marriage and family.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jan 28, 2025 • 22min
3 Ways to Keep a Clean House
The discussion kicks off with a light-hearted look at balancing a tidy home and a thriving marriage. Key insights are shared on addressing marital issues promptly, turning cleanliness into a metaphor for emotional upkeep. Small, thoughtful gestures and the power of gratitude play a vital role in nurturing connections. The focus on building a Christ-centered marriage emphasizes open communication and shared spiritual practices. It wraps up by highlighting the importance of maintaining both a clean spiritual and emotional environment.

Jan 21, 2025 • 28min
Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage?
Are you living out a gospel-centered marriage? In this video, we explore a common theme we've noticed in some marriages that proclaim to be Christian. Do they truly reflect Christ's life, death, and resurrection? Join us to find out!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jan 14, 2025 • 28min
How to Pray Together in Marriage (even when it's awkward)
Discover how shared prayer can transform your marriage, even when it feels awkward at first. The hosts share personal stories and biblical insights that emphasize the power of prayer as a vital partnership in faith. They tackle common obstacles couples face and provide practical strategies for integrating prayer into daily routines. Learn how sincere conversations with God can deepen intimacy and alignment, and explore the added dimension of scripture in prayer for a richer spiritual connection.

Jan 3, 2025 • 3min
Big Announcement!
Join our January Online Marriage Cohort! Launches January 6th. Learn more and sign up for Gospel-Centered Marriage: https://fiercemarriage.com/gcmGospel-Centered Marriage is our most comprehensive marriage curriculum, experienced by thousands of couples worldwide.The January Cohort includes:• Access to launch and debrief Zoom calls with Ryan and Selena (2 calls)• Two (2) copies of our Gospel-Centered Marriage Participant's Workbook (ships immediately)• Instant access to the online course materials• 6 sessions with 14+ videos totaling 164 minutes of instruction• Instant PDF access to the participant's guide so you can begin while you await your books' arrival!• Additional resources and videosSome spend $1,000s on marriage retreats! We've made our curriculum more affordable than ever.We hope to meet you!