
Fierce Marriage
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.
Latest episodes

Jan 21, 2025 • 28min
Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage?
Are you living out a gospel-centered marriage? In this video, we explore a common theme we've noticed in some marriages that proclaim to be Christian. Do they truly reflect Christ's life, death, and resurrection? Join us to find out!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Jan 14, 2025 • 28min
How to Pray Together in Marriage (even when it's awkward)
Discover how shared prayer can transform your marriage, even when it feels awkward at first. The hosts share personal stories and biblical insights that emphasize the power of prayer as a vital partnership in faith. They tackle common obstacles couples face and provide practical strategies for integrating prayer into daily routines. Learn how sincere conversations with God can deepen intimacy and alignment, and explore the added dimension of scripture in prayer for a richer spiritual connection.

Jan 3, 2025 • 3min
Big Announcement!
Join our January Online Marriage Cohort! Launches January 6th. Learn more and sign up for Gospel-Centered Marriage: https://fiercemarriage.com/gcmGospel-Centered Marriage is our most comprehensive marriage curriculum, experienced by thousands of couples worldwide.The January Cohort includes:• Access to launch and debrief Zoom calls with Ryan and Selena (2 calls)• Two (2) copies of our Gospel-Centered Marriage Participant's Workbook (ships immediately)• Instant access to the online course materials• 6 sessions with 14+ videos totaling 164 minutes of instruction• Instant PDF access to the participant's guide so you can begin while you await your books' arrival!• Additional resources and videosSome spend $1,000s on marriage retreats! We've made our curriculum more affordable than ever.We hope to meet you!

Dec 17, 2024 • 31min
What if I'm in a Sexless Marriage?
We're talking about the elephant in the bedroom... What kind of frequency should you have with your spouse in the bedroom?? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Dec 3, 2024 • 25min
Why You NEED to Join a Good Church for the Good of Your Marriage
It's rare to hear about a couple in perpetual dysfunction who also regularly attends a faithful, solid church. What do we mean by this statement? Tune in to find out.Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Nov 26, 2024 • 39min
GRATITUDE Changes Everything About Marriage
This engaging discussion dives into how practicing gratitude can transform marital relationships. It emphasizes gratitude's ability to reduce negative emotions like resentment, enhancing both individual well-being and connection. The speakers share personal stories highlighting the importance of recognizing everyday blessings and the dangers of ingratitude. They explore gratitude's role in overcoming challenges, nurturing humility, and maintaining trust in God, ultimately encouraging couples to express appreciation for each other and strengthen their bonds.

Nov 20, 2024 • 31min
Learning to Love IN-LAWS Better
As the holiday season approaches, mastering in-law dynamics becomes crucial. Gain practical strategies for improving these often complex relationships. Discover the power of storytelling and meaningful conversations to foster connections. Learn how to set healthy boundaries while practicing humility and understanding. Explore the balance between honoring parents and nurturing your marriage with grace. With shared faith as a foundation, navigate family expectations and build stronger ties this festive season.

Nov 12, 2024 • 30min
5 Lessons Learned to Stop Arguing About MONEY
If you know our story, you've heard about how we started our marriage out in college living hand to mouth with our finances. Since then, the Lord has had lots to teach us, and we would love to share it with you! Join us. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!

Oct 29, 2024 • 25min
5 Ways to FINALLY Get Unity Around Time and Priorities
Explore the significance of aligning personal life priorities with divine guidance. The hosts discuss how clear communication can transform marital challenges, especially in navigating family dynamics. Discover strategies for establishing godly values in relationships and fostering unity in busy lives. The importance of managing expectations and responsibilities is highlighted, alongside the benefits of intentional choices that nurture spiritual growth. All this is wrapped in engaging insights drawn from two decades of marriage.

Oct 22, 2024 • 29min
Lessons Learned about S X in 20ish Years of Marriage
God made s*x for our good and His glory, BUT a thriving intimate life with your spouse doesn't happen by accident. It takes good communication, intentionality, effort, and several other lessons we've learned throughout our marriage. Listen in!Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.comTake the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.comPray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.comTo learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.comThis ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube channel, The Fierce Family. Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCkyO4yVeRdODrpsyXLhEr7w to subscribe and watch. We hope to see you there!