The Roys Report

Guest Bios Show Transcript How should you respond when a survivor reveals their story? What does he or she need in that moment? And can we avoid common mistakes that compound a survivor’s pain and trauma? All too often, pastors, Christian leaders, and congregations respond to abuse survivors in the worst way possible. They employ something called DARVO—Denying the abuse, Attacking the truth-tellers, and Reversing the Victim and Offender.  

Guest Bios Show Transcript Does anyone truly recover from spiritual trauma? After being ravaged by the church or a church leader, can a person ever be the same? Those gut-wrenching questions were recently posed by author and speaker, Lina Abujamra, at the Restore Conference—a session featured on this edition of The Roys Report. “It’s been 9 years since I survived my spiritual trauma,” she said.  

Guest Bios Show Transcript It’s perhaps one of the most painful questions that survivors ask: Where is God when there’s abuse? Or, where was God when I was abused? In this powerful message from the Restore Conference, internationally recognized trauma expert and psychologist, Dr. Diane Langberg, seeks to answer this difficult question. But she openly admits, “I don’t know why God allows abuse.  

Paul Coughlin, a best-selling author and nationally recognized anti-bullying expert, discusses the issue of bullying in Christian organizations. He explores the traits of bullies, their deceptive tactics, and offers advice on how to handle bullies in ministry. He also shares insights on combating bullying in various contexts, including adolescence and the workplace. Coughlin highlights the importance of not giving away personal information and pushing back early on against bullies.

Guest Bios Show Transcript How do you heal when you’ve been hurt and traumatized by those who profess Christ—when both Christians and church seem incredibly unsafe? In this episode of The Roys Report featuring a message from the Restore Conference, professional psychologist Dr. Philip Monroe addresses trauma, healing, and barriers to helping others going through the healing process. Maybe you’ve experienced trauma and you feel stuck.  

Guest Bios Show Transcript Abuse has become epidemic in the church—and so has cover-up. But what causes abuse in the church? And how can we stop it? In this special episode of The Roys Report, author, psychologist, and trauma expert, Dr. Diane Langberg, answers these questions with uncommon insight and clarity.  In the opening session of Restore 2022, Dr.  

Guest Bios Show Transcript For years, Ravi Zacharias labeled her a predator and a serial extortionist. And sadly, the world believed him. But now, we know better. Ravi Zacharias was the predator in what was dubbed in 2017 as a “sexting scandal.” And Lori Anne Thompson was not just the victim of clergy sexual abuse—but of a worldwide campaign to smear her name. In this special episode of The Roys Report, you’ll hear what was definitely a highlight of the recent Restore 2022 Conference.   

Guest Bios Show Transcript Should a woman endure abuse by an unbelieving spouse like a missionary endures persecution?  Stunningly, this is the advice offered by Dr. John Street, chair of the graduate program of biblical counseling at John MacArthur’s school — The Master’s University and Seminary (TMUS) — and an elder at Grace Community Church (GCC).  Street also suggests that wife’s failure to “fulfill” her husband can cause the husband to sexually abuse his children!  

Guest Bios Show Transcript Why don’t church leaders believe victims when they report abuse? And why is the victim so often gaslit and abused instead of supported? This episode of The Roys Report presents an in-depth look at abuse recently exposed at John MacArthur’s megachurch in southern California. Survivor advocate and author, Sarah McDugal, joins Julie to unpack MacArthur’s shocking treatment of the wife of a child-abusing husband.  

Guest Bios Show Transcript In 2016, Christian author Carey Scott was the victim of plagiarism by a major celebrity—international speaker and evangelist Christine Caine. Caine reportedly copied entire portions of Scott’s book, forcing Scott to take legal action to settle the issue. Yet for Scott, the negative impact of this event lingers. Meanwhile, Caine, who never apologized, continues to enjoy the spotlight. On this edition of The Roys Report, Carey Scott shares her painful story, involving not just having her work stolen, but also being persistently bullied online.