My Pastor Called It An “Emotional Affair,” But It Was Abuse

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Introduction

00:00 • 2min

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Mariah Smothers Speaks Publicly for the First Time About Clergy Sexual Abuse by Patrick Garcia

02:22 • 6min

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Why Patrick Garcia Was Fired by Crossroads

08:03 • 3min

4

The Unteachable Character of Patrick Garcia

11:23 • 3min

5

Crossroads: A Difficult Situation

14:20 • 5min

6

The Leadership Failure of Pastor Bergen

19:50 • 2min

7

How to Evaluate a Church

22:12 • 4min

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The Importance of Texting Communication

26:39 • 5min

9

How to Deal With a Targeted Marriage

31:13 • 2min

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How to Manage the Tension of Being in Communication but It Is Not Being Romantic

33:26 • 5min

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The Devastation of a Relationship That Didn't Go

38:27 • 2min

12

The Sexting Process

40:07 • 3min

13

The Police Report on a Parking Lot

43:04 • 4min

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The Importance of Asking More Questions

46:51 • 3min

15

The Consequences of a Pastor's Study Break

50:12 • 5min

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The Last Time I Met Patrick

54:59 • 4min

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The Power of Consent

58:33 • 5min