Scrolling 2 Death

This is the grooming conversation that all parents need to listen to. Anna Sonoda, LCSW, corrects misconceptions about grooming and educates parents on how to prepare, prevent and protect our children from predators (both online and offline). Anna Sonoda, LCSW, graduated from Emory University with a double major in anthropology and French Studies before earning her master’s degree in social work from the University of Georgia in 2006. She became a licensed clinical social worker in 2009. Anna's clinical background includes residential mental health, outpatient anger management, domestic violence intervention, and dual diagnosis treatment. Her most significant work was as a cognitive behavioral therapist for convicted sexual offenders. Becoming a mother of five deepened her commitment to child protection and the importance of recognizing grooming behaviors in adults. In December 2022, she published Duck Duck Groom: Understanding How a Child Becomes a Target, which unpacks the complexities of this issue. In August 2024, she released an accompanying journal Duck Duck Groom: A Guided Journal for survivors. Anna presents to individuals, groups, and organizations about how adults can better protect children by identifying the signs of grooming. Connect with Anna on her website. Resources mentioned in the episode or provided by Anna: atsa.org Cyber Tipline by NCMEC Internet Watch Foundation Internet Matters Hope for Justice Human Trafficking Front ChildHelp Common Sense Media Gaming Sites where grooming is prevalent: Among Us Call of Duty Grand Theft Auto Minecraft Nintendo Switch Roblox Slithr.io Dating Apps where grooming is prevalent: Bumble Grindr OnlyFans Tinder Messaging Apps where grooming is prevalent: Google Hangout/Meet Kik Marco Polo Facebook Messenger Signal Slack Telegram WhatsApp Wickr Live Stream + Social Media Platforms where grooming is prevalent: Amino Byte Discord Facebook Houseparty Instagram Monkey Pinterest Reddit Snapchat Tagged Tiktok Triller Tumble Twitch Twitter VSCO Whisper Wink Wishbone Younow YouTube Predators run on G.A.S. ( Grooming, Access, and Space) Grooming: Flattery Favoritism Forbidden Fruits Fear Prevention: Permission Public use Private settings This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Check out the Bark Watch: https://info.bark.us/bark-watch-s2d

In this conversation, Nicki Reisberg interviews Michael Lawson Neff, a founding partner at Neff Injury Law, about the legal implications of online harms, particularly focusing on the case against Snapchat related to its deadly speed filter. They discuss the challenges of holding tech companies accountable under Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act, the impact of social media on youth, and the importance of parental guidance in navigating these issues. Neff shares insights from his ongoing litigation and emphasizes the need for legislative changes to protect children from online dangers. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark Watch Meet Michael Neff: Michael Neff is the founder of Neff Injury Law, a national litigation firm based in Atlanta, Georgia, specializing in serious injury and wrongful death cases. With over 25 years of experience, Mike has established himself as a dedicated advocate for individuals facing off against large corporations and insurance companies. His firm's track record includes securing over $100 million in jury verdicts and settlements, with notable verdicts in 2013 and 2017 that ranked among the top 100 civil verdicts nationally for those years.

Trigger warning: The following content contains sensitive subject matter, including depictions of suicide and self-harm. Please view or listen with caution.  This is a story that every parent must hear. The future is here, and that includes AI chatbot companions who emulate human relationships. These products are unregulated and unsafe, particularly for children.  I spoke to Megan Garcia, an attorney from Florida. Megan is the mother of Sewell Setzer III, who died by suicide in February 2024 after being emotionally manipulated and abused by an AI chatbot. Megan is filing a lawsuit and sharing her story to warn families of the dangers of this technology and to demand accountability from Character.AI and the tech industry.  Resources mentioned in the episode:  Tech Justice Law Project: https://techjusticelaw.org Social Media Victims Law Center: https://socialmediavictims.org 

Is Roblox safe for kids? The fact that Nickolodeon gave Roblox the 2024 Teen Choice Award for Favorite Video Game would incidate that Roblox is in fact, safe. But the reality is much darker.  A new report by Hindenburg Research labeled Roblox a "pedophile hellscape for kids." In today's episode, Titania Jordan of Bark and Nicki of Scrolling 2 Death break down the report findings and make recommendations for parents. Resources mentioned in the episode: Meta Exposed documentary by Channel 7 News Social Studies documentary on Hulu Interview with Meta whistleblower David Erb Hindenburg Research investigation into Roblox This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies.  Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF  Check out the Bark Phone The Bark Watch is Coming Soon! Join the watlist

The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Can AI be blamed for 14-year-old Sewell Setzer's suicide? Big Tech Spends $51 Million on Lobbying Against Kids Safety Bills Speaker Mike Johnson and Majority Leader Scalise Hold Up Kids Online Safety Act Contact Speaker Johnson Contact Majority Leader Scalise New iMessage Feature Allows Children to Report Nudity to Apple Roblox Makes Parental Control Changes (and takes no responsibilty for harm to children) Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day.

Lenore Skenazy's life completely changed after allowing her child to navigate the New York City subway alone at just 9 years old. She went on to publish a book called Free-Range Kids which grew into a movement. Now, Lenore is the president of Let Grow, the national nonprofit she co-founded with three others, including Jonathan Haidt of "The Anxious Generation." Her mission is to make it easy, normal and legal to give kids back some old-fashioned independence. In this conversation, Lenore discusses the societal shift toward fear-based parenting and the decline of free play. She gives practical strategies for parents to encourage their children to take risks and develop much-needed confidence. Skenazy emphasizes the need for parents to let go and trust their children, highlighting the benefits of independence for both kids and parents. Could the cure to an anxious generation be as easy as letting go? Resources mentioned in the episode: Let Grow: https://letgrow.org/ The Let Grow Experience (a free independence-building curriculum for teachers/schools) The Let Grow Play Club (free implementation guide for schools, YMCAs, churches, synagogues, etc., to create a time and place for kids to play and socialize in a no-phone zone) After Babel by Jonathan Haidt and Zach Rausch The Anxious Generation (NY Times Best Seller)

The average age that kids get a smartphone is nearing 10 years old. Watches are being given closer to 5. Parents primarily make these decisions for safety; to be able to track their children and get ahold of each other in case of an emergency. But do these devices actually keep children safe? Or are we hindering their autonomy and sense of independence while also potentially exposing them to the dangers that come along with a device? I brought in youth advocate Ava Smithing of Young People's Alliance to share her experience as a pre-teen and teen being tracked by her parents. "I didn't start lying to my mother until she started tracking me like that," shares Ava. There are so many takeaways for parents in this conversation where we vulnerably discuss finding a balance between protection and trust.

The Big Tech Gut Check is a super quick, weekly update on all things social media and Big Tech. Social Media & Big Tech highlights for this week: Instagram Announces New Education Campaign to Fight Sextortion Meta Exposed Documentary by Channel 7 News Meta Confirms Layoffs Across Companies Social Media Faces Big Changes in UK Under New Ofcom Rules First UK-US Online Safety Agreement to Keep Kids Safe Online Survey: Colorado Teens use Social media More and at Younger Ages List of end-to-end encrypted apps to block from your child's device:  Signal Whatsapp Telegram Facebook Messenger Wire Element AWS Wickr Briar Pryvate Messenger  SafeChat SafeSwiss Proton Mail SimpleX Chat Confide Delta Chat CoverMe P2P Messenger Olvid xPal TeleGuard Check back on Fridays for everything that parents need to know about the platforms our children are spending hours on every day. This podcast episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2deathbp Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: https://info.bark.us/scrolling2death_bark *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF The Bark Watch is coming soon! Sign up for the waitlist: https://info.bark.us/bark-watch-s2d

I was super eager to catch up with long-time educator Matt Brady about screens at school. We dive deep into phone bans and also school-issued tech. Meet Matt Brady: Matt Brady is a Physics and Chemistry teacher in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. Came in through lateral entry after spending 10 years writing about comic books and pop culture for various outlets. Prior to that, he was in graduate school for a PhD in Physiology & Pharmacology; prior to that, earned a Master’s in Marine Biology, and prior to that, earned a B.S. in Biology. Resources mentioned in the episode: Matt's Substack, Teacher Teacher The one about school shootings School Tech: Know Your Rights (with Julie Liddell) Phone Free Schools Movement (my interview with co-founder Kim Whitman) 7 questions to ask your school destrict about devices This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark Phone Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids. *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Learn about the Bark Watch

For this interview, I brought in Dawn Hawkins, CEO of the National Center on Sexual Exploitation. NCOSE is the leading organization exposing the connections between all forms of sexual exploitation, including sex trafficking, prostitution, pornography, and child sexual abuse. In addition to running NCOSE, Dawn is a mom of 5 and I loved learning about her approach to screens and her decision to homeschool after learning about the reliance on screens at her local public school system. This conversation is all about action and the power of parents' voices. One of the most vital ways parents can use their voices in this moment is to support the Kids Online Safety Act. This bill will give our kids much-needed protection online. This episode is sponsored by Bark Technologies. Learn about the Bark App for iPhones and Androids: *Use code SCROLLING2DEATH FOR 10% OFF Check out the Bark Phone