How do time, money, energy, and attention impact our connections with others? Today, Carl explores the key investments we make in relationships. Why is attention, paired with intention, so important? Carl discusses how these resources deepen relationships and create the greatest returns in life.

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the modern obsession with efficiency and questions its place in our personal lives. While metrics and dashboards might drive success in business, Carl humorously points out the absurdity of applying the same logic to human relationships. Carl talks about why he believes efficiency should never be the goal in our connections with loved ones.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

Carl Richards, a financial expert and author, dives into the profound concept of attention as a vital form of capital in building meaningful relationships. He reflects on insights from Simone Weil, emphasizing that offering genuine attention is one of the most generous things we can do for others. Richards also discusses how intentional focus on our relationships can enhance human connections, urging us to consider where we direct our attention in an increasingly distracted world.

Explore how intention shapes our actions and relationships. Discover the transformative power of mindful intention in everyday moments, like gift-giving. Delve into the dual nature of giving, where serving others also fulfills our own needs. Learn why focusing on your intentions can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life.

Carl Richards, a Certified Financial Planner and New York Times columnist, delves into the societal obsession with money. He discusses how this preoccupation can transform money from a useful tool into an ultimate goal. Carl emphasizes the importance of shifting focus from financial concerns to pursuing passion and making an impact. He advocates for valuing personal fulfillment and connections over monetary gains, inspiring listeners to rethink their relationship with wealth.

Carl Richards, a financial expert and New York Times columnist, dives into the quest for meaning in our lives. He examines our tendency as 'meaning-making machines' to seek purpose through enduring elements like relationships, versus fleeting achievements. Money is discussed as a tool for creating meaning, urging listeners to align their financial choices with their true values. Richards poses a thought-provoking question: Where do you find your sense of meaning?

Are you using outdated "maps" in your life? What familiar systems are you clinging to? Do you have the courage to create new paths? Today, Carl explores the idea of navigating life with outdated or inaccurate "maps"—the frameworks we rely on but may no longer serve us. He highlights our tendency to cling to familiar systems, even when they're flawed, and challenges listeners to recognize when it's time to create new paths. Using the analogy of baking cookies with salt instead of sugar, Carl emphasizes the importance of letting go of what doesn't work and drawing new maps.

What does 'enough' truly mean? The discussion navigates the subjective nature of this concept, revealing how personal circumstances shape our definitions. The host encourages listeners to resist comparing themselves to others and highlights the pitfalls of seeking external validation. Instead, it’s about embracing your own version of sufficiency, even amidst societal pressures. Are you ready to redefine your sense of enough?

Have you ever wondered what it takes to truly change your relationship with money? Carl suggests that the key is to stop trying so hard. Instead of forcing yourself to change, he advocates for focusing on simple awareness. By merely noticing your spending habits without judgment, you open the door to natural, stress-free behavior changes. After trying this approach for 30 days, what changes did you notice? Let Carl know by emailing him at hello@behaviorgap.com!Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/

How do you define enough in your life? Carl explores the concept of "having enough" on today's episode of Behavior Gap Radio. He shares a conversation where someone defines it as having enough money so they no longer have to think about it. He reflects on how many people continue to focus on money even when they have plenty and questions whether this focus is a distraction from what truly matters. What would it mean for you to have enough? Carl suggests that when money is no longer the central focus, it can be a tool that operates in the background, allowing more attention to be given to the things that truly matter.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/