Behavior Gap Radio

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a powerful takeaway from his conversation with Dr. Gina Gorlin, a psychologist and coach for founders. Exploring the concept of "success porn," they discuss the hollowness of chasing success without substance. Dr. Gorlin's poignant question—"What good is success without substance?"—leads Carl to reflect on the quiet desperation many feel despite outward achievements.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/ 

Discover the intriguing idea of three great addictions: heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary. Dive into a discussion on how our dependence on comfort and security might obstruct our paths to what truly matters. Reflect on how today's choices influence who we aspire to be in the future. Are we trading long-term fulfillment for short-term pleasure? This thought-provoking conversation challenges listeners to rethink their priorities and seek deeper meaning in their lives.

Explore the art of simplifying your learning process. High-performing individuals are encouraged to ditch perfectionism and embrace efficiency through straightforward tools like voice memos. Discover how a minimalist approach can unlock creative progress. Tune in for insights on how to make sharing ideas smaller, simpler, and more consistent, ultimately enhancing personal development.

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the reasons behind his habit of turning personal learning into public artifacts. He delves into the value of creating tangible outputs—not for the format, but for the impact on his thinking and growth. Carl shares three key insights: how creating sharpens his ideas, how feedback enriches his understanding, and how these artifacts build intellectual property over time. It’s not about outcomes but about leaving a meaningful trail.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/ 

Dive into the emotional rollercoaster of sharing your creativity. Explore how rejection can impact self-worth and identity among artists. This discussion encourages reflection on personal experiences with risk in creative pursuits, reminding us that vulnerability can lead to profound growth.

Explore the challenge of authenticity in creative pursuits, navigating societal pressures while staying true to oneself. Discover the power of immersing in nature to spark genuine insights and foster self-expression. Learn about a unique approach called 'Dancing with Dragons,' which offers a refreshing alternative to traditional consulting methods.

Dive into the emotional dynamics of parenting, exploring how a child's sense of safety shapes their development. Discover the profound impact of parental moods on children and why emotional connections can outweigh material wealth. This conversation highlights the essential need for creating a secure home environment, emphasizing that comfort is hollow without emotional safety.

Explore the evolving definition of masculinity, focusing on the vital roles of protection and provision. The conversation challenges outdated cultural expectations, highlighting the significance of emotional support and deep connections. Discover how rethinking these roles can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling perspective on what it means to be a provider.

Explore the intriguing metaphor of khaki pants as a symbol of the struggle between stability and creativity. Personal stories reflect on the tension between living a secure life and taking creative risks. Listeners are encouraged to evaluate whether they are truly pursuing their desired lifestyle amidst societal expectations. This thought-provoking discussion invites you to consider the balance between security and adventure in your own life.

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on a powerful question posed by writer and ultra-runner Katie Arnold during a recent conversation: “I don’t know how to be with money.” Exploring the idea of money as a relationship rather than a mere resource, Carl delves into themes of presence, acceptance, and the discomfort many feel when confronting their connection to money. How do we treat money—something to control, chase, or avoid? And what would it mean to simply be with it?Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/