Behavior Gap Radio

Explore the evolving definition of masculinity, focusing on the vital roles of protection and provision. The conversation challenges outdated cultural expectations, highlighting the significance of emotional support and deep connections. Discover how rethinking these roles can lead to a more balanced and fulfilling perspective on what it means to be a provider.

Explore the intriguing metaphor of khaki pants as a symbol of the struggle between stability and creativity. Personal stories reflect on the tension between living a secure life and taking creative risks. Listeners are encouraged to evaluate whether they are truly pursuing their desired lifestyle amidst societal expectations. This thought-provoking discussion invites you to consider the balance between security and adventure in your own life.

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on a powerful question posed by writer and ultra-runner Katie Arnold during a recent conversation: “I don’t know how to be with money.” Exploring the idea of money as a relationship rather than a mere resource, Carl delves into themes of presence, acceptance, and the discomfort many feel when confronting their connection to money. How do we treat money—something to control, chase, or avoid? And what would it mean to simply be with it?Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/ 

Dive into the concept of the 'hungry ghost,' a powerful metaphor for our endless cravings and the chase for satisfaction. Discover how defining your own limits of 'enough' can lead to greater happiness. Relationship and experiences take center stage, reminding us that true wealth is not measured in possessions. This thought-provoking discussion encourages listeners to reflect on what really matters in their lives.

Explore the journey of authenticity and self-discovery inspired by Lao Tzu's timeless wisdom. The discussion emphasizes the significance of being true to oneself, especially during transformative moments. It highlights the role of teachers as guides while encouraging listeners to find their own paths. Through personal stories and reflections, the conversation invites you to embrace the adventures of uncovering and living your true self.

Explore the burdens we create through unnecessary worries about the future. Discover how many of our fears are mere projections that tax our happiness. Inspired by Wendell Berry's wisdom, learn to embrace the present moment. Let go of imagined problems and find peace by focusing on what truly matters. Humor from Mark Twain adds a light-hearted touch to this insightful reflection on living fully.

Dive into a unique meditation that transforms a $100 bill into a personal dialogue. Imagine money as a person who knows your dreams and frustrations. Engage in guided journaling that explores what money means to you and invites deeper introspection. Discover the emotional journey behind your beliefs about wealth, and ask yourself: if money could talk, what would it reveal? This thought-provoking approach helps reshape your relationship with finances.

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl dives deeper into the "collective delusion" around money, expanding on his previous discussion about money as a shared story. He explores the powerful beliefs society attaches to money—like money as power, freedom, or influence—and how these narratives can mislead us. While some of these ideas are positive and others negative, Carl argues they are all ultimately illusions that distract us from deeper truths. He challenges listeners to question these collective assumptions and hints at an upcoming episode where he’ll discuss the "$100 bill meditation" as a tool for reframing our relationship with money.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/ 

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl reflects on his conversation with Krista Tippett, host of On Being, which led him to explore the idea of money as a collective story we've all agreed upon. He delves into how money, though just paper or digital numbers, gains power through our collective belief—a useful story that can drive progress but also a dangerous delusion when given too much meaning. Carl introduces the "$100 bill meditation," a thought experiment that encourages listeners to reframe their relationship with money by considering its true nature and the narratives we attach to it.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/ 

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the powerful link between money and fear, reflecting on his own journey to move away from making financial decisions from a place of anxiety. He shares personal stories about rewiring the deep-rooted fear response often triggered by money, a shift that came not from changing his financial situation but from growing awareness and practices like meditation and therapy. Carl invites listeners to consider how fear influences their own financial choices and shares how embracing awareness can lead to profound, lasting change. He welcomes listeners to share their own experiences on this journey away from fear-based decisions.Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the Weekly Letter from Certified Financial Planner™ and New York Times columnist Carl Richards here: https://behaviorgap.com/