Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

Dive into the intriguing Dual Control Model of Arousal, which redefines how we understand sexual desire. Balancing turn-ons and turn-offs is crucial, much like managing a car's gas and brake. Explore personal factors that enhance or inhibit arousal, highlighting the importance of environment and communication. Learn how to cultivate erotic spaces, especially for mothers, amidst everyday distractions. The conversation even tackles how to shift focus from past trauma to present pleasure, offering practical strategies for deeper intimacy.

Thinking about a threesome? Discover the emotional dynamics and the importance of open communication to ensure everyone's comfort. The hosts share personal stories, emphasizing the potential for growth and intimacy. They also discuss navigating relationship dynamics, the need for honesty, and the beauty of shared experiences. Plus, learn about aftercare and emotional check-ins to enhance the intimate connections. Don't miss their classic guide on threesomes for more insights!

What creates amazing sexual chemistry, and can we actually cultivate it? Dive into the fascinating world of bed chemistry, where the hosts explore how connections evolve over time. They challenge the myth that initial attraction ensures lasting satisfaction and invite listeners to reflect on their own relationships. With insights on navigating emotional challenges and redefining romantic satisfaction, this discussion encourages everyone to become their own erotic alchemist.

Dive into the world of full body oral play, where every inch of the body is an opportunity for pleasure! Discover how communication about desires can deepen intimacy and unlock new erotic experiences. Explore the art of kissing, emphasizing the power of vulnerability and engagement. Learn about intriguing practices like analingus and the significance of embracing unconventional sensations. Whether you're in a committed relationship or navigating the complexities of polyamory, this discussion enhances connection and fulfillment in your intimate life.

Dive into the intriguing world of sexual pleasure and the often misunderstood refractory period. Discover how ejaculation and orgasm differ, and challenge cultural myths that hinder erotic experiences. The hosts encourage a redefinition of what satisfaction means, promoting a more inclusive view of intimacy after ejaculation. With a focus on genuine connections over conventional performance metrics, this discussion invites a deeper understanding of sexuality and the joy of exploration.

Want to last longer in bed so you can keep the pleasure going longer? Want to satisfy your partner and offer the kind of endurance they crave? You are not alone! We get a ton of emails from people wanting to make sex last longer and experience more satisfying intercourse. This Best Of Episode is […]

Discover how stamina goes beyond physical endurance in intimate moments. Uncover the mental aspects that influence pleasure and learn to shift focus from performance to enjoyment. Embrace personal growth in your sexual identity while exploring techniques for mindful body awareness. Delve into the importance of pauses and sensation in building connections. Enhance your experiences with practical strategies that help reduce anxiety and promote deeper intimacy.

How we offer and give our time, gifts and attention matter in all of our relationships. And when we cultivate the skillset of becoming responsive givers of erotic pleasure we are able to offer our lovers more specifically what they want and enjoy and can then offer more sexually satisfying experiences to our lovers. In this […]

How do you like it – Tough, or Tender? For many of us, what we truly crave is an exquisite blend of Tough & Tender, Rough & Romantic, Intense & Intimate. Tough & Tender don’t have to be opposite ends of a spectrum or mutually exclusive – we can revel in the delicious combinations of […]

Join us in conversation with Dr. Ina Park, author of Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs In this essential episode we cover how to talk about sexual safety without stigma, the real risks and rewards we navigate as sexually active adults, and how we can all create a healthier, […]