Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

What pleasure and intimacy could you unlock if you integrated more toys into your partnered play? Many of us have surefire pleasure tools that we use solo and yet don’t bring into the bedroom with our lovers, leaving big parts of our erotic potential behind. In this episode, we invite you to begin integrating toys […]

Join us for a rousing and stimulating conversation about the magic and myths of masturbation! For this episode we are in conversation with psychologist and professor Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons and Danielle Bezalel, host of the podcast SexEdWithDb to talk about The Magic Wand Study. This study confirms what many of us know deep in […]

Many people report having the best sexual experiences while on vacation – but you don’t have to wait for an expensive vacation to enjoy all the benefits of Vacation Sex! In this episode, we unpack the essential elements of VacationSex and propose a plan to bring the pleasures home by planning more sexy staycations! From […]

Dive into the wild world of primal play, where freedom and raw expression are celebrated! Explore what it truly means to unleash your inner creature and break free from societal norms. The conversation highlights the joy of authentic connections, the emotional layers of intimacy, and how to embrace your deepest instincts. Practical exercises encourage listeners to express themselves fully, blending primal instincts with daily life. Join in to discover how primal play can transform both sexual interactions and personal expression!

What is Taboo to You? Where do Taboos come from and how do they function in your erotic imagination? Even the word “taboo” has a fascinating cultural history to explore! Join us on this free podcast episode to explore the thrills of transgressing taboos, discovering what happens when we speak the unspeakable, find connection rather […]

Service Topping is a verb – one we can ALL flex as a way to pleasure and lavish the people we care about! Service Topping is all about giving FOR the pleasure of the recipient, focusing all of the attention and intention on the needs, wants and desires of the recipient. Service Topping can include […]

Dive into the intriguing Dual Control Model of Arousal, which redefines how we understand sexual desire. Balancing turn-ons and turn-offs is crucial, much like managing a car's gas and brake. Explore personal factors that enhance or inhibit arousal, highlighting the importance of environment and communication. Learn how to cultivate erotic spaces, especially for mothers, amidst everyday distractions. The conversation even tackles how to shift focus from past trauma to present pleasure, offering practical strategies for deeper intimacy.

Thinking about a threesome? Discover the emotional dynamics and the importance of open communication to ensure everyone's comfort. The hosts share personal stories, emphasizing the potential for growth and intimacy. They also discuss navigating relationship dynamics, the need for honesty, and the beauty of shared experiences. Plus, learn about aftercare and emotional check-ins to enhance the intimate connections. Don't miss their classic guide on threesomes for more insights!

What creates amazing sexual chemistry, and can we actually cultivate it? Dive into the fascinating world of bed chemistry, where the hosts explore how connections evolve over time. They challenge the myth that initial attraction ensures lasting satisfaction and invite listeners to reflect on their own relationships. With insights on navigating emotional challenges and redefining romantic satisfaction, this discussion encourages everyone to become their own erotic alchemist.

Dive into the world of full body oral play, where every inch of the body is an opportunity for pleasure! Discover how communication about desires can deepen intimacy and unlock new erotic experiences. Explore the art of kissing, emphasizing the power of vulnerability and engagement. Learn about intriguing practices like analingus and the significance of embracing unconventional sensations. Whether you're in a committed relationship or navigating the complexities of polyamory, this discussion enhances connection and fulfillment in your intimate life.