
The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
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Latest episodes

Oct 21, 2024 • 15min
"You Can Always Have More Kids But A Good Man Is Hard To Find" Hard No
The discussion kicks off with a look at the tricky balance between a husband's needs and a mother's innate instincts. Parenting challenges take center stage as the natural tendency of mothers to prioritize children is examined. The importance of nurturing romantic relationships amidst early motherhood is highlighted. The conversation also dives into the complexities of parental priorities, weighing children's emotional needs against parental desires, all while cautioning against choices that could create family discord.

Oct 17, 2024 • 19min
"Masking" Is Also Known As Being Flexible Within Loving Relationships
On the internet, people are reading that if you have any type of neurodiversity then your brain is just different and you shouldn't be expected to "mask" to try and "pass" as neurotypical. This makes some people say they are neurodivergent so all touch or intimacy is off the table. Wait what? Listen for my take on this idea.
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Oct 15, 2024 • 14min
Do You Ignore Your Wife's Drinking Because It's When You Get Laid?
And what does this do for your marriage and especially your kids? Related to a prior episode on when your wife is only fun when she drinks. And also: what's the analogue for women whose husbands drink?
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Oct 13, 2024 • 16min
"I Have A Great Idea"... aka How To Communicate With Enthusiasm So That Your Wife Responds Well
If you communicate in a negative, sulky, passive, or anxious way, then it's no wonder your wife responds poorly. With this one magic phrase, you can transform your dynamic, or at least put it on the right track! All about how to communicate differently and how you can set your wife up to succeed!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "I Don't Want To Get Divorced Because I Would Lose Half My Money."
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Oct 11, 2024 • 19min
When Your Wife Stops Trying As She Ages
Some guys are upset that their wife no longer dresses up or gets her hair dyed... here's a whole episode going deep into this idea and potential ways to think about it.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "I Don't Want To Get Divorced Because I Would Lose Half My Money."
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Oct 7, 2024 • 16min
Look At How Your Partner's Parents Treat Each Other To See How They Will Treat You
Common sense advice that many people ignore in favor of "but they saw what NOT to do!" Today's episode dives into why pattern recognition is important... and then a twist ending!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Understand Why Your Wife May Take Deaths Harder Than You Expected."
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Oct 4, 2024 • 15min
When You're Trapped In The "Victim-Perpetrator" View Of Your Previous Relationship, You Can't Move On
Recovering from a tough breakup can be incredibly challenging. The emotional journey involves grappling with grief and reflecting on past feelings. Exploring the victim-perpetrator dynamic sheds light on how blame can hinder healing. It emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding one’s role in relationship patterns. By confronting these issues, individuals can foster personal growth and ultimately move forward in a healthier way.

Oct 2, 2024 • 17min
Each Partner Doing What They Are Best At Separately.... The Commonsensical Approach To Marriage That Has Fallen From Favor
Explore the resurgence of traditional marriage roles, where partners shine by leveraging their strengths. The conversation delves into how modern expectations can clash with these roles, especially in child-rearing dynamics. It highlights the mental health challenges that often affect household responsibilities, particularly for primary caretakers. This insightful discussion encourages couples to embrace their individual strengths for a more harmonious partnership.

Sep 28, 2024 • 15min
When You Don't Notice Your Partner Isn't A Good Fit Because Of Other Variables
If your needs are being met by other people/activities during dating, you may not realize that your partner isn't as good of a fit as you imagined! Then when these external variables change, you fall squarely into the disillusionment stage. What do I mean? Listen to find out.
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Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "How Seeing Your Parents In A Honeymoon Stage Impacts You."
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ

Sep 26, 2024 • 15min
"Good Mom" And "Good Wife" Are Often Opposite
There's a huge difference between how a woman acts before and after kids, which is evolutionarily mediated! Listen to ensure you aren't expecting contradictory things... the mom you wanted your kids to have but the girlfriend she used to be.
Buy my newest book! Couples You Meet In Counseling: 7 Common Relationship Dynamics That Sabotage Closeness: https://amzn.to/3WQoA8X
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "How Seeing Your Parents In A Honeymoon Stage Impacts You."
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go https://www.facebook.com/groups/376126477688726/?mibextid=uJjRxr! Or click blue subscribe button on www.facebook.com/drpsychmom. It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ