The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
Join my secret FB group for talk about relationships, sex & more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!
Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
Join my secret FB group for talk about relationships, sex & more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!
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Jul 29, 2023 • 17min
You Know As Little About What A Fun Date Night Looks Like For Your Wife As She Knows About What Fun Sex Looks Like For You
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: how can you compromise in a healthy way in your sex life?
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For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
So many guys don't really know what a fun date looks like to their wives, just as many women don't know what fun sex looks like to their husband! In this episode I discuss why dates often go awry, how to fix this, how to empathize, and why men and women get each other so wrong while having the best of intentions!
Jul 28, 2023 • 19min
Be Nicer And Your Wife, If She Is At All Healthy, Will Love You More
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: how can you compromise in a healthy way in your sex life?
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
I'm so sick of guys saying women don't want nice men. Healthy women definitively want kind, helpful and caring men. The few women that want narcissistic assholes generally have Borderline Personality Disorder and an abuse history that makes them feel "at home" with guys who mistreat them. Thankfully this is a very low percent of women. Most guys have to be nicer, as do most women. Listen for an infusion of common sense.
Jul 24, 2023 • 21min
If You Think Everyone Is An Idiot... It May Be Depression
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: what if you want your wife to go back to work and she won't?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
There are many symptoms of depression aside from feeling sad. This podcast goes through many of them that people aren't as aware of, like irritability, cynicism, getting your feelings hurt a lot, lack of motivation, lowered creativity, not liking music much anymore, and the list goes on! Also listen for which I recommend first, meds or therapy (answer may surprise you).
Jul 22, 2023 • 19min
Why Do Dates Find You Boring?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: what if you want your wife to go back to work and she won't?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Many people don't have much luck with dating, and feel that it's primarily because they are "boring." On this episode, we discuss what boring means, how to be less boring, and what people find "interesting" in a romantic partner. Hint: it's not how many countries you've traveled to!
Jul 20, 2023 • 18min
How Can You Learn About Healthy Relationships If You Grow Up With A Single Parent?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: what if you want your wife to go back to work and she won't?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
I have gotten this question a few times, from those who are the single parent in this situation and want to know how it will impact their kids, and from those who grew up with a single parent but are trying now to work on their own marriages in the absence of seeing a relationship template growing up. Here, we discuss the various effects I've seen on clients of growing up with a single parent!
Jul 16, 2023 • 17min
When You Want To Stay Single After Divorce... Or When You're Ambivalent About Dating So Your Kids End Up Hating Your New Partner
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: what the hell should you expect from therapy anyway?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Some readers ask, if it seems like a lot of work and bother to date after divorce, does this mean I am avoidant attachment and unhealthy? No, it means that you are happy single. If you truly feel like a relationship is more trouble than it's worth, do not date or try to remarry. Here's who usually feels this way, why, and why it's okay to admit it. Also, halfway through the episode, we turn to women who are ambivalent about dating after divorce, and how this impacts how their kids end up feeling about the new partners they introduce them to!
Jul 14, 2023 • 18min
When Your Partner's Happiness Makes You Uncomfortable
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: what the hell should you expect from therapy anyway?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Some people become genuinely uncomfortable in the face of their partner's happiness. Who is like this, why, and how can you understand and change? We cover family of origin, resentment, depression and more!
Jul 12, 2023 • 22min
Men With Difficult Childhoods Become Either Assholes Or Scaredy-Cats And These Two Groups Don't Understand Each Other
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: what the hell should you expect from therapy anyway?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
In my Facebook group, I came up with this idea and a guy said it taught him something new about men! So here is an expansion of this idea. It touches on: the father/child relationship, your marital misunderstandings, career performance and the female equivalent of ball busters or fainting ladies!
Jul 8, 2023 • 17min
Why Isn't Your Wife Down For A Quickie Anymore?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: how often, how, and why should couples have close, connected conversations?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Most dudes that follow me know the importance of foreplay but some men out in the wild still don't. If your wife is 20 this shit may fly but at 40 it cannot. Here's why!
Jul 6, 2023 • 19min
Do You Deserve A Happy Marriage?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recently: how often, how, and why should couples have close, connected conversations?
For my secret Facebook group, go to Facebook.com/drpsychmom and click on blue subscribe link!
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. If you need help with intimacy, my sexologist that can work in all states and internationally: https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/heather-ray-certified-sexologist!
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
If you grew up in a dysfunctional home, it can seem like you don't deserve a happy marriage... or to be happy at all. Here's why this is WRONG and how to convince yourself that you do deserve a good relationship!
