The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten
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Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
Join my secret FB group for talk about relationships, sex & more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!
Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com
Join my secret FB group for talk about relationships, sex & more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!
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Nov 22, 2023 • 26min
Puberty And Menopause Are Two Normal Stages Of Life
Often, people forget that life is filled with stages, and an inability to accept change is associated with depression, anger, and poor relationships. In this episode, I discuss something you may not have examined in depth, and you may well leave with a changed perspective on life stages!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "People Used To Prioritize Their Marriage More" Is Entirely Wrong!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Nov 20, 2023 • 18min
When You Can't Deal With Your Wife's Changed Feelings About Sex
Many guys want their wives to say only a set number and type of things about sex, which cannot include "I am not as into sex anymore," or "I used to do other things in bed when I was younger that I no longer have any desire to do," or "After menopause I don't feel any desire." If you need your wife to lie to you about being excited about sex when she isn't, then she learns to "handle" you as she does with the kids, and stops respecting you. And also: what can you say to promote an open and honest conversation and relationship?
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "People Used To Prioritize Their Marriage More" Is Entirely Wrong!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Nov 18, 2023 • 19min
Why Most People Don't Regret Divorce
I don't often see clients who regret at not being with an ex anymore, although of course there are a lot of feelings of sadness and regret about the divorce as a whole, and particularly about its impact on kids. Why most people don't feel regret at leaving an ex, and what characterizes the 6% of people who remarry after divorce!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "People Used To Prioritize Their Marriage More" Is Entirely Wrong!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Nov 13, 2023 • 15min
Why Therapy Hasn't Worked For Your Sexless Marriage
All the reasons that therapy hasn't helped your sexless marriage yet! What to look for in a therapist, how to support therapy adjunctively with other things, the philosophy of many therapists that is counter to ever directly addressing sex, and the surprising-to-some fact that therapists are not trained in anything related to sex at all in grad school.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "What Does Aromantic Mean?"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Nov 10, 2023 • 20min
The "Sex Is Special" Philosophy Really Bites Married Couples In The Ass
Practice makes perfect makes sense in every arena... including your sex life! Then why does this seems counterintuitive to many women... especially the ones who learned that "sex should be special"? One reason is that when you are told never to have sex before marriage and sex is so special and sacred... you end up thinking that every instance of it should be special and sacred too. That just doesn't work with a long term marriage, decreased libido and responsive desire! Listen for more.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "What Does Aromantic Mean?"
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Nov 6, 2023 • 15min
When You're Successful At Everything Except Relationships
Many of my most highly successful clients are confused by the fact that they are able to excel in all arenas... except their marriages. Today I'll discuss why this happens, why it's not as unusual as you think, and why you should never fall into the trap of blaming your partner for it.
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Let Me Clarify, Of Course A Healthy Family Is Somewhat Child Centered"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Nov 4, 2023 • 18min
Stop Taking Things Personally
One major issue that many people have is caring too much about what others think. One huge way that this manifests is taking the actions of others personally. Today I discuss why you do this (hint: family of origin), how it impacts you negatively, and how to stop!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Let Me Clarify, Of Course A Healthy Family Is Somewhat Child Centered"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Nov 1, 2023 • 15min
Is Your Partner Asexual?
What asexuality is, how it's different from what people think it is, and how this information can shed new light on issues in your intimate relationship!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Let Me Clarify, Of Course A Healthy Family Is Somewhat Child Centered"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Oct 26, 2023 • 17min
Why Is Your Wife So Stressed By Teenage Kids?
Teenage kids and why they make your wife so upset! Includes: hormones on both sides, control, anxiety, age, and more!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Some Guys Think "Treat Em Mean, Keep Em Keen" Works"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
Oct 24, 2023 • 20min
Why Some Guys Spend Way Less Time With Their Wives Than You Do....But Those Wives Aren't Mad Like Yours Is
This is such a simple fix that you won't even believe it if you don't try it. Can't say much more without a spoiler so listen to the episode! Note that it will counter anything you heard from the manosphere!
Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes! Most recent subscriber episode: "Why Some Guys Think "Treat Em Mean, Keep Em Keen" Works"!
For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members, go here! It's $4.99/mo.
For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/
For therapy or life coaching, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com.
Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ
