The Patrick Madrid Show

Original Air Date: 08/20/24 Patrick dives deep into a real-life story of heartbreak, family dynamics, and difficult boundaries. He hears from Mary in Chicago, who shares her emotional journey dealing with an unfaithful ex-husband and the impact on her children. Patrick talks about forgiveness, self-respect, and the importance of maintaining boundaries, especially when dealing with toxic behaviors and difficult relationships.   Patrick continues his conversation with Job from the end of the previous hour. He tells Patrick, “There was a tremendous amount of infidelity on my wife part (who's in the public eye) and I slapped her.  My children hate me.  We are separated but we don't have an annulment.  I don't know how to approach her.  How do I get through to my kids that I'm the good guy?” (00:38) Mary - My son is cut off from his father.  We've been divorced for 30 years.  I've not dated, but my ex-husband was a repeat adulterer.  How could my son honor his father in this situation? (11:29) Don - I've read recently that many Catholics are not registered to vote in the elections and those registered don't bother to vote.  I heard from a priest that it's an obligation for Catholics to vote.  Where does this come from? (17:38) John - The NAVY Seals are hunting drug cartels in Venezuela and they withheld last rites from a drug dealer unless he gave up important information. (21:04) Monica - My ex-husband turned 3 of my 4 kids against me.  How often does that happen? (31:30) Lynette – My husband wants to separate. He’s not interested in counseling. What can I do? (38:58)

Original Air Date: 04/10/24 Mary calls in and shares the heart-wrenching struggles of her 40-year marriage where she feels utterly alone. Patrick explores the complexities of being a supportive spouse amidst apathy and addiction, and the emotional toll it takes when change seems out of reach.   Bernardo - How do the fruits of the spirit and the gifts of the spirit work together in the spiritual life? Why does the number very sometimes? (03:24) Ruben (8-years-old) - How can I help take care of my sibling who will be born in July? (09:39) Sam - I am a new Catholic. I used to be Protestant. At Mass, when communion started, I knew I was in mortal sin and felt a feeling that I would go to hell in this state. How can I overcome my weaknesses? Melody – I’m an Evangelical Protestant who believes in the Real Presence of the Eucharist. Why does the Catholic Church say it requires a priest to consecrate it? (31:35) Mary - I am struggling with my marriage. I have been doing everything I can, but I am too the point where I am wondering if I need to separate from my husband. What should I do? (43:04)

Original Air Date: 04/10/24 Are you wrestling with life's hardest questions, yearning for encouragement, or seeking real-world advice grounded in faith? Patrick tackles tough situations like Mary's struggle with her husband's alcoholism and explores avenues for hope, such as canonical separation and organizations like Mary's Advocates. Discover how others, like Amy and Brad, find strength in prayer, community support, and the courage to involve family in their trials. Remember, whether it's dealing with addiction or praying for your children's return to faith, you're not alone.   Patrick continues his conversation with Mary from the end of the previous hour. (00:21) Amy - I had the same situation as Mary with my husband and I stayed close with Christ. We went through separation and he did go through recovery and he cleaned up his act. (07:01) Brad - I am in a similar situation as Mary. Maybe she can get her adult kids to help with the situation? (10:25) Patrick shares practical advice for helping keep your kids on the right track (18:00)  George - I am going through the same situation accept I am in her husband's shoes. My advice is for the husband to fix it NOW. I work hard, but I had a drinking problem. I am going through a divorce now. (25:41) Linda - Several years ago, my children stopped going to church when they went to college. I started texting them Catholic bits and now both of my kids are back in the Church. (34:06) Ann - My dad was a violent alcoholic. We convinced mom to leave the house before he killed her. It wasn't until my dad realized that she was serious about leaving that he turned his act around. He quit cold turkey and they were back together again. Sylvia - I understand what George is going through. I am a recovering alcoholic. I put my family through a lot, but there is hope. (46:15)

Original Air Date: 04/10/24 Are you unnerved by the idea of a cashless society? Today, Patrick ponders whether it's a step towards totalitarianism or just a change in currency mediums. He tackles the mark of the beast and privacy implications, discovering a balance between caution and freedom. In a world swamped with pessimism, Patrick shares advice on overcoming media-induced anxiety—counseling a focus on faith, family, hobbies, and unplugging from the news cycle.   Patrick shares a powerful scene from the movie Days of Wine and Roses where a husband admits to his wife that he’s an alcoholic and that she is too, and they need to stop drinking to survive Steve - How many degrees of separation are needed to use deadly force to protect my family? (05:42) Jorge - I need some guidance on everything that is happening in the world today and in our Church (25:46) Joey - Killing out of self-defense: Do you think that counters what Thomas Aquinas said? Francie - I would like to support the woman whose kids are fallen away. My children all fell away from the Church. I have been lukewarm Catholic but then I had a conversion and prayed really hard. Tony - My kids do martial arts. When they walk into the dojo they bow before they enter and before they leave. We bow in Church so is it confusing for kids to bow before the master? (45:42) Al - God does have an angry side to him. If the government decides to do digital currency, we have a right to defend ourselves.

Original Air Date: 03-21-2024   Patrick comments on yesterday’s show with Ken Hensley about “Salvation outside of the Catholic Church” (02:25) Andrew – Can a Catholic take communion at a FSPX church? (25:46) Fred - What is the etymology of “Holy Spirit”? We used to call it “Holy Ghost”, but why did it change? (29:56) I have a tough relationship with my Father so how can I honor a bad man? Maria - If someone is not sick, can they still get the sacrament of the anointing of the sick? (37:59)

Original Air Date: 03-21-2024   Elizabeth (email) – Comment about yesterday’s show and the topic of “Do Protestants go to hell”? Erin - I haven't seen a deepening of my faith while listening to Relevant Radio. I feel like I see people growing but I am not growing. I don't know what to do. Can you help? (04:28) Cyrus and Patrick share incredibly touching emails offering prayer and support for Erin (25:21) Nick - That was the most powerful moment I have ever heard on Relevant Radio. I think we should all pray for her! (33:55) Jenny - I had an abortion myself and I wanted to share a resource: “Silent No More” (39:16) Jeff - I have walked a mile in Erin’s shoes and the support I see from you and the listeners is the reason I support Relevant Radio. (44:22)

Original Air Date: 03-21-2024   Cyrus and Patrick share more incredibly touching emails offering prayer and support for Erin (00:32) Michelle - I have had clinical depression most of my life and medication has helped me a lot. (10:38) Douglas - Erin can turn the tables on the Devil by helping other woman not have abortions. (13:20) Augustine 8-years-old - how can I be a good brother for my sister? (15:05) Marisol 11-years-old - Do miscarriage children go to heaven? Dr. John - As the head of the crisis pregnancy center, there is such a need to address the underlining issues of abortion. (22:41) Robert in Australia – My dear friend passed away and he did receive the last rites (30:43) Christopher - Who can administer the anointing of the sick? (37:39) Julie – What can I do if a care giver doesn’t want to give the anointing of the sick to an elderly family member? (38:23) Kelly - How do you keep Holy the Sabbath while trying to fundraise? My daughter has a fundraiser on Sunday. (44:12) Bill - I felt so good after going to confession! (46:25)

Original Air Date: 03/12/24 George connects with Patrick in a deeply personal conversation about his struggles with addiction and his earnest efforts to reconnect with his faith. George's poignant story reflects the challenges many face in discussing religion with loved ones and finding solace in their local church communities. As George seeks to renew his spiritual path, Patrick emphasized the ever-present hope and redemption that await all of us, no matter our past. We're not just a show but a community, standing together in support and prayer. To George and to all our listeners grappling with similar battles, remember that transformation is possible, and you're not alone.   Patrick shares an email about using the phrase “Oh my God” as a prayer Mike - I have a medical answer for how Jesus cured a blind man. Angela (email) – No one gets a pass to talk bad about my faith Eleanor (7-years-old) - Can Angels still sin?  George – What’s the best way to study the bible and to become a Christian? (21:49) Patrick shares a fascinating email from a North American Exorcist priest who warns of the spiritual dangers of tattoos (39:45) Email – Why would anyone say that the Blessed Virgin Mary is the Devil?

Original Air Date: 03/12/24 We dive deep into the moral implications of prenatal testing, and discuss the heavy decisions expectant parents face when confronted with potential genetic disorders. We hear powerful testimonies - from Nora's choice to celebrate the life of her now-healthy daughter despite medical pressures, to heartfelt confessions about the pain of not acting quickly enough to prevent our loved ones from having abortions. With compassion and conviction, Patrick affirms the intrinsic value of every life, and the importance of providing support and accurate information to those grappling with these profound choices. This hour is a testament to the strength found in informed and caring counsel - a beacon for life in the often stormy seas of uncertainty.   Cyrus shares some of the flood of emails coming in from listeners praying for George (who called in the previous hour) *Sophie - I have a good friend who isn't Catholic and they got results that their child might have Trisomy 13 and they might get an abortion. How do I talk to her about that? (04:08) Katie - My friend just went through this same thing. My friend had an abortion and I want to encourage Sophie and everyone else to speak up about this. Marie - My parents were told that I was going to be born with a number of medical problems and I’m now 25-years-old and perfectly healthy. (21:25) Bridget - The one thing that people need to remember is that the abortion is very painful. How do you want that baby to die? (35:24) Nora – I was told my baby girl would have down syndrome and we were encouraged to abort. She was born without down syndrome.  (40:05) Can I take communion at the Lutheran church?

Original Air Date: 03/12/24 We hear powerful testimonies about the value of life, with listeners sharing moving stories of resisting genetic testing and choosing life against daunting medical recommendations. Patrick also explores the beauty of motherhood and affirms its dignity in the Catholic Church.   Norma – My friend was told her baby would have a heart problem, but the baby was born with no health issues (03:28) Gina - Women were given this gift to have children and when they can't it's really hard on them. Why don't Catholic women know how amazing this gift they have been given is? Tom - A doctor told my wife that she should get an abortion and I when I told him no, he said he would call the police because it was just between the doctor and the woman. (09:56) Justin - What did you mean by gay show tunes in mass? I am a music minister at my church and I don't know what you mean. (13:41) Anna - My in-laws are not Catholic and just got divorced. My mother-in-law wants to come over and stay the night with her new boyfriend. What should do? Mark - Our Bishop asked us to stop singing “Gather Us In” Maria - I was pushed to get genetic testing and I heard a story where a doctor aborted a baby that had nothing wrong with it Joe - My friend is Calvinist and I told him I would go to church with him but I couldn't take communion and that if he went with me he shouldn't take it at my service either. Yvonne - I went to a democratic convention and I'm wondering why Catholics vote for things like abortion but will still go to mass? Lisa - 90% of babies with down syndrome are aborted. We had a daughter with down syndrome and she is our pride and joy (41:31) Jeff - I have been going to AA for 43 years and want to encourage George to start going. “Trust God. Clean house. Trust others.” (44:21) Esteban - If a marriage is annulled, is it true that they can get married again after that?