The Patrick Madrid Show

Are modern wedding festivities going a bit overboard?    So, Bridget wrote in with some concerns about how weddings are celebrated today. She's not thrilled with bachelor and bachelorette parties in exotic locations, brides hiring professional stylists, and couples asking for cash instead of gifts. Bridget thinks these trends miss the true meaning of marriage.     Here's Patrick Madrid's opinion:   🔸 Special Day for Both: While we often hear about the bride’s special day, it's equally important for the groom. The whole "fairy tale princess" idea might be a bit much, and our culture loves to take things to extremes.   🔸 Beautiful Celebrations Are OK: Everyone wants a lovely wedding. Even in the Bible, weddings were joyous, grand occasions. Think about the Wedding at Cana (John 2) where Jesus turned water into wine. It was a massive, multi-day celebration!   🔸 Watch Out for Instagram Influence 📸: Those extravagant bachelorette parties in far-off places? Blame it on social media influencers. But let’s be real, expecting bridesmaids to shell out for airfare and hotels is a bit much. Why not save that money for the wedding itself?   🔸 Bachelor Party Shenanigans: Fancy bachelor parties can sometimes lead to less-than-Christian behavior. Maybe we should think about simpler, more meaningful ways to celebrate.   🔸 Asking for Money: Sure, wedding registries are handy, but outright asking for cash can feel a bit tacky. Back in the day, some couples did a fun “dollar dance” at the reception where guests pinned money to the bride and groom’s outfits. It was a playful and less demanding way to help out the newlyweds.   Weddings today come with a lot of pressure and high expectations. It’s important to keep the focus on the sacrament and God’s role in this sacred union.   What do you think? Have weddings gone overboard, or is this just the new normal?

Patrick dives deep into why the Church teaches against contraception within marriage. He discusses how the marriage act is primarily ordered toward procreation and why any form of contraception misuses this sacred act. Patrick uses insightful analogies and references key documents like Pope Paul's encyclical, Humane Vitae, for clarity.   Breakdancing update UK censoring online content Travis - I wanted to comment on the riots and arrests happening in the UK. I think the prime minister is in with the world economics people. We have the same people here in the USA and we need to remember that we were founded on Christian values (12:43) Shannon - Can my husband put scary animatronic decorations in the yard? (14:02) Patrick on why the marriage act’s primary purpose is procreation (27:18) Susan - What is our relationship with people in purgatory? (40:20)

Patrick tackles the extravagance of destination bachelor and bride parties and questions the demands for cash gifts instead of traditional presents. Patrick explores the rich, meaningful traditions of weddings from biblical times and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing wholesome values over social media trends.   Email – What do you think of destination weddings or other outlandish weddings? (01:18) Scattered Spider, a group of young English speaking hackers, are causing some damage (13:36) Robin (email) – I’m a lector at Mass and someone interrupted me when I was praying Helen (email) – Should we ever call someone evil? (29:21) Debbie - What to do in a family situation where my daughter in law is having conversations with my other daughter's husband's family, as my daughter's husband is divorcing her?

Patrick discusses the importance of choosing the right anniversary date for a papal blessing, the nuances of marital honesty, and the significance of participating in Mass responses.   Christina - When it comes to celebrating anniversaries, which one should we celebrate? Our Civil Anniversary or our Co-validated marriage in the Church which as 3 years later? (27:01) Gabe - If you didn't tell a spouse that you had a credit card, and the spouse found out about it, would that be considered lying? (04:01) Patrick in Trenton, NJ - The usher took the gifts up to the altar and dropped the Eucharist’s on the floor and they still used them.  What do you think? (16:35) Christine - I feel Patrick is muddying the waters out there regarding the connection between IVF and abortion.

Patrick Madrid tackled a rather intriguing question on his show recently: Is it a sin to take something from the trash at work? Let's dive into this moral conundrum together!   Check out the full hour where they talked about this!   Lee writes in, "Patrick, I love your show. Is it a sin if you steal from the trash at work? I mean, like there's something you're supposed to throw away, but you keep it instead."    Patrick’s advice? To avoid even the appearance of theft, ask your supervisor! Here's the scenario: You see something that's destined for the trash, but you think it could be useful at home. Simply ask, "Hey, can I take this instead of throwing it away?" This way, you're transparent, and you don't have to worry about any repercussions.   Think about it: You work at Panera, and there's a ton of leftover bread and pastries at the end of the day. You know it's headed for the dumpster. Patrick suggests that if the company's policy is to throw it out, technically, you could be seen as stealing if you take it. But what if you asked first? "Hey, boss, can I take these muffins home for my kids?" If they say yes, you're in the clear!    Patrick also points out that just because a rule seems ridiculous, doesn't mean you should break it. Even if it’s wasteful to throw away good food, if it’s against company policy to take it home, you should respect that. Rules, even silly ones, are part of the agreement when you're employed.   Cyrus chimed in with a personal story – he’s taken food home that was supposed to be trashed. He admits he never felt guilty because the food was literally going to waste. Patrick’s take? If there's no explicit policy against it, and you ask permission, you're good. But if the policy says "No," follow it.   Patrick brings up a creative workaround: What if you throw the food in the dumpster as required, then retrieve it after? Though this sounds sneaky, technically, you've fulfilled the company’s requirement. Still, asking upfront is the best route.   Paul from Phoenix adds an interesting twist, suggesting that God's laws on wasting food might be more important than man's. It’s a compelling point, but Patrick cautions that violating policies could lead to bigger issues, like the company facing lawsuits or getting shut down, which could harm many more people.   In the end, Patrick advises that transparency and respect for rules are key. If you're ever unsure, just ask! It's always better to be clear and upfront rather than taking risks that might not only cost you your job but also create bigger problems for others.   So next time you’re tempted to rescue something from the trash at work, remember: Ask first, stay honest, and keep it ethical! 

Patrick dives into the pressing issue of cell phone addiction and its impact on our relationships. He shares insights from Simon Sinek, who highlights the psychological message sent when phones take priority over personal interactions. Patrick discusses simple strategies to mitigate this, such as putting phones in airplane mode and keeping them out of sight during important moments. It’s all about being present and giving full attention to those who matter most.   Virginia Removes More Than 6,000 Non-Citizens From Voter Rolls (02:37) Mark “Ain’t But 2 Genders” Robinson has a new definition for D.E.I. (14:59) Patrick talks about cell phone addiction (17:38) Jason - Change in election laws: it sounds promising but you need to distinguish between the enactment of law and the enforcing of law. We need to be careful. (26:25) Randy - I think the bible speaks to a lot of issues happening in our political culture. I don't see why you are just focusing on abortion? (33:57) Sandra - I have seen more posts that are in favor of abortion. I find it very disturbing that people think abortion is so necessary. How can I debunk that idea? (40:31) Ramona - My granddaughter is getting confirmed and I was asked to be a sponsor. What are my responsibilities and what can I get her? (49:53)

Patrick tackles a deeply profound and personal question about faith, marriage, and spirituality. He discusses the complexities of annulments, spiritual communion, and living in line with Catholic teachings. This conversation dives into the struggle between love and devotion, and the hard choices that come with adhering to one's faith. If you're seeking insight into living a faithful life despite difficult circumstances, you won't want to miss this powerful discussion.   Email – My wife’s previous marriage is not annulled and I refuse to divorce her. I know I’m living in sin, so I don’t take communion but find getting blessed by the priest is enough for me. (02:51) Bob – The prayer of lament Lola - My son wants to join the army and his recruiter is a lesbian. I told him to find a different recruiter because she was lesbian. Is that okay? (12:06) Audio: Harsh words from Douglas K Murray - The age of victimhood and grievance is over - but sometimes, the harshest truths are also the most inspiring. (20:34) Audio: Naftali Bennett responds to Piers Morgan’s question, “Isn't 40,000 dead Palestinians enough?” (23:58) Terence - 1913 in the Catechism talks about responsibility in the catechism. I think participation is the main thing. (32:13) Andy - I don't think voter suppression is a real thing. (40:40) Matt - My niece in has an atopic pregnancy but they can't find the child so they offered her an abortion drug. She refused it, and the hospital is refusing to do exploratory surgery. Do you have any advice?

Patrick speaks with Elijah from Lexington about a fascinating and deep topic: the beginning of human life and the concept of ensoulment. He discusses different beliefs, including a rabbinic view that the soul enters the body after 40 days. Patrick shares his perspective, grounded in the idea that life begins at conception, where body and soul come into existence simultaneously. It's a powerful conversation about faith, science, and morality.   Alfredo - Harris Persecuted David Daleiden when he was showing the videos exposing Planned Parenthood’s abortion procedures. (01:11) Christine – The Lamenting: The story of King David and how remorseful he was, he took his contrite heart and offered it to God. (05:28) Jean - Talking about driver licenses for voting, there are states that provide licenses to illegals, so how does that work for voting? (15:35) Chris - One party is going radical, and another party is trying to save the country.   Neither party is perfect but abstaining is not an option. (16:42) Julie - My daughter two years ago had stage 4 endometriosis. Lee Ann – Voting and Ectopic pregnancies  Elijah - I was talking to a rabbi and he explained to me that when the baby is in womb, it's not human.  When baby is born, that baby is not human till the baby passes 7 weeks old. (34:26) Jesse - For the Sorrowful Mysteries, the 2nd one where he's scourged and the fruit of the mystery is purity, what's the connection between the purity and the scourging? (36:55) Teresa - I went to confession and asked the priest about voting. He recommended to vote for the party that helps the poor and needy.  (41:45) Mary - Isn't it a fair to vote for the side that would clearly result in the smaller amount of abortions?

Patrick dives into the quirky world of 'mouse jigglers,' remote work hacks, and the ethical dilemmas of faking productivity.   Abigail (email) – When we die and go to Heaven, do we forget those who are going to hell so that we don’t miss them? (00:41) Frank (email) – What accent do you use when you speak Latin? (04:40) Kathy - I visited several basilicas and went to Assisi. Can I get a plenary indulgence without knowing? (08:26) Jake - If you don't believe in the true presence of the Eucharist, can you still go to heaven? (11:18) Mouse Jigglers: Bosses Bust Workers Who Fake Computer Activity (20:35) Email – Does one need to work continuously to not be considered a “mouse jiggler”? Update on the Japan earthquake Email – Is it sinful to “steal” from the trash at work? (43:39)

Patrick dives deep into the moral dilemmas surrounding food waste and charity. He discusses whether it is a greater sin to throw away perfectly good food or to take it against policy to help those in need. Patrick shares firsthand experiences from restaurant workers and volunteers at the St. Vincent de Paul center, debating the ethics of food distribution.   Teachers Union humiliates a mother for asking about gender theory being taught to children (00:36) Paul – It’s not bad to steal food if you can feed starving people. (07:31) Sarah - I am in an abusive marriage. Is it okay in the Catholic Church perspective for me to stick up for myself if I am being abused? (15:32) Mike - I was a former restaurant manager. We had the rule so that people wouldn't make food wrong on purpose in order to eat the food later on. (24:30) Patrick reads emails in response to the topic of stealing/donating food to feed those who can’t afford it (36:37) Steve – The organizations that give away food are very organized (41:24) Keith - Food that is out of temperature should not be given to other people as a matter of food safety.