Sex and the Psyche
Kim Kaplan Productions
Sex and the Psyche is hosted by clinical sex therapists, Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz. Married with two children, Jenni and Daniel, take listeners behind the scenes on how they talk shop on a deeper level as they conceptualize the intersection of relationships, sex, and psychology. With over 16 years of helping couples and individuals enhance and optimize their sexual function, pleasure, and knowledge of human sexuality, Sex and the Psyche covers the issues that affect most everyone from desire discrepancy, erectile issues, painful sex, porn obsessions, premature and delayed ejaculation, and healing from affairs among many other topics.
As a husband-wife team and co-directors of 'The Intimacy Institute for Sex and Relationship Therapy', Jenni and Daniel share their expertise from real life scenarios, bringing a unique angle to understanding relationships while offering listeners helpful communication skills through thoughtful and intelligent conversations designed to help connect the more complicated dots for manifesting a more satisfying and sustainable sex life.
As a husband-wife team and co-directors of 'The Intimacy Institute for Sex and Relationship Therapy', Jenni and Daniel share their expertise from real life scenarios, bringing a unique angle to understanding relationships while offering listeners helpful communication skills through thoughtful and intelligent conversations designed to help connect the more complicated dots for manifesting a more satisfying and sustainable sex life.
Episodes
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Nov 16, 2022 • 1h 2min
S1E10: Episode 10: Low Stress Sex - The Role of Mutual Masturbation
Kim and Dr. Skyler's conversation focuses on "Lazy Sex" and why it works, how to get there, and how mutual masturbation can be really gratifying in a number of ways. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 9, 2022 • 1h 6min
S1E9: Episode 9: LGBTQ Sex and Relationships
Kim and Dr. Jenni discuss sex and relationships within the LGBTQ community and have an important discussion with two Transgender women, Kayla and Khilynn about thier sexual experiences and the myths that surround the Transgender community when it comes to sexual relations. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 2, 2022 • 1h 2min
S1E8: Episode 8: Sex & HIV and Other Chronic Illnesses - Co-Creating a New Normal
Our guest Shelley Stinson is the Director of Project Empowerment at UCSF Benioff Children's Hospital Oakland. An HIV Prevention program for black cisgender and transgender women designed to improve their emotional wellness and other issues related to living with HIV. This became a very enlightening discussion surrounding not only HIV, but other illnesses and offers some great advice on how to grieve the old and create the new. Plus some fun conversations around our own sexuality and where a lot of this information applies to our own daily lives. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 26, 2022 • 1h 7min
S1E7: Episode 7: Sex and Relationships - Let's talk "Out of the Box"
Savannah joins Kim and Dr. Skyler in a very open discussion about the different types of sexual relationships, from serial monagamy to zoophilia and everything in-between! We definitely jump out of the box on this one!! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Oct 19, 2022 • 55min
S1E6: Episode 6: Let's Define Kinky Sex- Beginner, Intermediate and Advanced Ways to Play
Explore the intriguing world of kink with a focus on BDSM basics and its varied components. Learn about roles, contracts, and the vital importance of consent and safe words. Discover the therapeutic side of kink, including how safe scenes can aid in healing past traumas. Savannah shares her personal experiences and introduces beginner-friendly toys for those starting their journey. The conversation navigates both the joys and risks of kink, ensuring you understand the spectrum from light play to more advanced practices.
Oct 12, 2022 • 1h 2min
S1E5: Episode 5: Permission For Pleasure - Why and How Sexual Shame Develops
Leaning in to our sexuality can feel awkward, especially if you've developed feelings of sexual shame, or have suffered any type of sexual abuse, among many different reasons for not allowing yourself pleasure. In this episode we learn what it feels like to surrender to pleasure, and understand the different forms that pleasure can come in. Spoiler Alert- It doesn't always have to be in the form of sex! We also introduce Savannah, our Modern Pleasure Reviewer who has some fantastic products for anyone who is ready to give themselves Permission for Pleasure! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Oct 5, 2022 • 1h 5min
S1E4: Episode 4: Mismatched Libidos - Why This Happens and How To Solve It
Explore the complexities of mismatched libidos and the dynamics behind them. Discover how emotional connections and personal responsibility play crucial roles in arousal. Hear Kim's insights from a playful weekend with her husband George, and how their interactions shifted energy. Learn about the importance of authentic consent versus obligation in intimacy. The discussion also touches on the value of scheduled 'sex dates' and practical touch strategies to enhance desire. Finally, George shares his perspective on navigating these changes.
Oct 1, 2022 • 59min
S1E3: Episode 3: Madonna-Whore Complex - What Is It and Why Does This Happen?
The Madonna-Whore complex is a psychological term that describes the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship, and it’s more common than you think. In this episode we learn about why this happens, and take part in an exercise that Dr. Skyler uses to understand more about objectifying your partner in a positive way.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 1, 2022 • 50min
S1E2: Episode 2: Obligatory Sex: Why it Happens, and How Much Sex is "Normal"?
In this episode, we discuss the common occurrence of obligatory sex. Why it happens, why it shouldn’t happen, and why you don’t have to feel obligated to please your partner sexually. Understanding the negative narrative discussed in Episode 1, we learn how that impacts our sexual relationships and why it builds resentment among couples. We also discuss the difference between obligation and "gift" sex, and why playfulness is a key component to avoiding sexual obligation.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 27, 2022 • 57min
S1E1: Episode 1: The Big Bad Narrative of Good Sex
What is “Good Sex”? How many times a week should you have sex? Society, Hollywood, and our own past experiences can influence bad narratives when it comes to sex. In this episode, Kim and Dr. Skyler discuss the many harmful narratives that can limit us to achieving our own personal sexual growth and discover how to turn the negative narrative into a positive sexual outcome! FkmO0Z2uc24y7B9FX26jSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
