The Michael Sartain Podcast

The guests are Tristan Darian (IG: https://www.instagram.com/tristandarshan/), Fulfillment Director at Men of Action and co-host of Access Vegas, and Casey Herszog, (IG : https://www.instagram.com/casey.herzog/) Head Coach at Men of Action. Both have coached thousands of men, specializing in helping clients overcome limiting beliefs, take action, and build powerful social circles. 00:00 – Limiting Beliefs Are Holding You Back 01:02 – Why Most Men Stay Stuck 02:15 – Conforming Kills Ambition 03:08 – No Shame, No Progress 04:29 – Stop Settling for Less 05:20 – Regret Comes Later 06:31 – Take Action Instead of Overthinking 07:20 – Fear of Change Holds You Back 08:13 – Thinking Isn’t Enough 09:03 – Why Guys Sabotage Themselves 10:20 – Take More Action 11:12 – What the New You Would Say 12:24 – Smart Guys Sabotage Too 13:16 – Business Solves Problems 14:08 – You Look Like You Don’t Matter 15:20 – Red Pill Made Men Quit 16:12 – Game Isn’t Just for Looks 17:06 – Clubs Aren’t Working Anymore 17:59 – Why You Never Got Her 19:16 – Dating Market Is Tough 20:06 – Too Good Isn’t Always True 21:24 – Just Take a Step 22:13 – Everyone Gets That Text 23:00 – Therapy Doesn’t Solve It 24:22 – Action Is How You Win 25:24 – Belief Comes After Action 26:04 – Inner Game Isn’t the Answer 27:18 – Confidence Comes From Action 28:31 – Some Courses Are Scams 29:28 – Do It Even If You Don’t Want To 30:58 – Build Confidence Through Action 32:17 – Real Change Happens Fast 32:45 – Inner Game Comes From Reps 33:32 – Build Social Circle Quickly 34:23 – Proof Through Social Media 35:23 – Weak Confidence Breaks Fast 36:21 – Disrupt Her Expectations 37:11 – What Good Photos Look Like 38:39 – Your Feed Looks Lonely 39:47 – Preselection Actually Works 40:40 – How a Ring Changes Perception 41:29 – Bad Advice From Good-Looking Guys 42:25 – Apps Favor Top Guys 43:35 – Cold Approach Isn’t Enough 44:30 – How Casey Started 45:43 – Social Circle Builds Over Time 47:03 – Getting Results Gets Easier 47:54 – Start With a Few 48:41 – You Build the Environment 49:53 – Show Your Value 50:36 – Not Everyone Wants Models 51:02 – When Things Run Smoothly 51:45 – One Girl Doesn’t Always Satisfy 52:39 – You Don’t Have to Sleep With Them 53:30 – Why She Wants to Open Things 54:22 – It’s Harder to Keep Her 54:52 – Culture Can Hold You Back 55:37 – Don’t Be Affected 56:26 – Most Guys Care Too Much 57:13 – Respect Individual Differences 58:05 – Your Mom Can’t Guide You 58:33 – Playing It Safe Doesn’t Win 59:26 – Talking to Women Helps 59:52 – Stop Valuing Useless Opinions 01:01:00 – Most Advice Is Bad 01:02:01 – That Common Advice Doesn’t Work 01:03:33 – Change How You See Yourself 01:04:39 – Do What’s Needed 01:05:56 – Why Trying Hard Works 01:06:54 – You Might Not Be Ready Yet 01:08:07 – Build Confidence Through Reps 01:09:20 – Success Doesn’t Equal Results 01:10:13 – Game Beats Money 01:11:02 – Some Guys Still Fail 01:12:45 – Poor Skills Ruin Chances 01:13:30 – Don’t Ruin It With Instagram 01:14:56 – Real Coaches Help 01:16:16 – Use Your Time Better 01:17:02 – Drinking Hurts Your Game 01:18:12 – Most People Don’t Support You 01:19:06 – Real Testimonials Matter 01:20:00 – Why They Use This Program 01:21:09 – Digital Changes in Dating 01:22:07 – You Don’t Need Alcohol 01:23:00 – Drinking Lowers Your Chances 01:24:42 – Don’t Drink During the Program 01:25:34 – Stop Caring What They Think 01:26:32 – Alcohol Doesn’t Help Confidence 01:27:29 – Ditch the Crutches 01:28:26 – Confidence Comes Naturally 01:29:01 – Be Clear and Assertive 01:29:44 – Give Yourself the Green Light 01:30:32 – Act Now, Don’t Wait

​ @COUSINJAYLIVE  is a viral content creator and founder of the Dream Squad, known for his comedic skits, pranks, and collaborations with the Nelk Boys. Beyond entertainment, he’s now leading a streaming content house in Miami and rebranding to show more of his real, thoughtful personality. ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs ———————————————————— 00:00 - Intro 00:47 - Growing Up in Sacramento & Power Slap Talk 01:40 - Creative Childhood & Painting 02:24 - High School, Football & Early Life 03:30 - Being Black, Confidence & Superpowers 04:30 - Stuttering, Speaking Power & Becoming a Creator 05:38 - Getting Girls With Confidence & Humor 06:31 - Advice for Introverts & Social Power 07:38 - Eye Contact, Masculinity, and Simp Avoidance 08:46 - Origin of the "Cousin Jay" Persona 09:44 - Haters, Fake Fans & Real Ones 10:55 - Therapy, Struggles, and Growth Through Content 12:09 - Creators That Inspired Him: DDG, The Minorities 13:10 - Dinner With Idols & Surreal Moments 14:18 - Doing Man-on-the-Street Before It Was Cool 15:18 - Viral Grandma Kissing Clip in Croatia 16:10 - Picking Up Girls in Country Bars 17:17 - Handling Hate When Dating Publicly 18:22 - Why He Keeps Relationships Private Now 19:34 - Starting the Love Series: Looking for His Person 21:00 - Fans Trying to Steal His Girl, Dark Side of Fame 22:02 - TikTok, YouTube, and What Platforms Like 23:06 - Getting Banned Over a Nipple Slip 24:21 - YouTube AI & Content Deletion Drama 25:26 - Rebranding to “Real Cousin Jay” 26:21 - He’s More Than Just the Flirty Guy 27:31 - On the Effect He Has on Women 28:22 - BBL Girl Analogy & Not Abusing His Looks 29:33 - Low Stimulus vs High Stimulus Women 30:17 - Modern Dating & Cold Approach Challenges 31:34 - What Makes a Man Stand Out in 2025 32:40 - Social Media Addictions & Dating Detox 33:45 - Most Controversial Prank He Did 35:00 - Getting Demonetized for Controversial Content 36:30 - AI Catches the Slip, YouTube Ban Hits 37:12 - Channel Reset: Posting The Real Him 38:05 - Rebuilding His Image From Scratch 39:17 - Haters Who Still Watch 40:22 - What Makes a Content House Work 41:34 - Streaming Houses in Miami & Creator Culture 42:48 - Fresh & Fit, John Zerka & The Miami Creator Scene 44:08 - Story About Being Shadowbanned & Life Reflection 45:34 - 2% of Friends Stayed, Found His People 46:31 - What He Posts on TikTok, IG, and Snap 47:15 - Editing Content for Each Platform 48:00 - Why Holding Women Accountable Gets You Banned 49:20 - Makeup & Tampons Theory Behind Platform Bans 50:31 - His Podcast with Seem That Never Took Off 51:44 - Launching Dream Squad Podcast Solo 52:30 - Voice Power & The Importance of Speaking Up 53:40 - Why He’s Making Music Next (Lil Nas X Lookalike?) 54:50 - EDM, Tech House, and DJ Mentors 56:06 - John Summit & Disco Lines Taught Him DJing 57:21 - Doing What Others Won’t Do for Content 58:18 - Why His Content Stands Out: No Fear, All Action 59:40 - Dream Squad: Where He Wants To Take It 1:00:45 - People Still Misunderstand His Brand 1:01:42 - WNBA vs YMCA Guys Debate 1:02:34 - Cold Approach Tips 1:03:22 - Power in Identity 1:04:10 - Speaking Deep 1:05:12 - Spotting Clout Chasers 1:06:35 - Phone Behavior Test 1:07:38 - Men Getting Softer? 1:08:25 - AI Influencer Era 1:09:14 - Just Delete Socials 1:10:12 - Strike Reality 1:11:15 - Male vs Female Rules 1:12:30 - Too Real For Platforms 1:13:42 - Building From Scratch 1:15:12 - Streaming Tips 1:16:25 - Shoutout to His Team 1:17:40 - Cousin J Media 1:18:52 - Advice for Creators 1:20:00 - Start With What You Have 1:21:33 - Gear Setup 1:22:44 - Lighting Is King 1:24:18 - Skateboard Camera Story 1:25:21 - iPhone Only Setup 1:26:30 - Audio + Light Balance 1:27:42 - Streaming Over Longform 1:29:05 - Building Outside YouTube 1:30:10 - Be Consistent 1:31:25 - Don’t Fake Tate Energy 1:32:38 - Own Your Flaws 1:33:55 - Dropped School Day 1 1:35:00 - Writing A Book Next 1:36:18 - Donating, Not Flexing 1:37:34 - Running & Pickleball Goals 1:38:44 - Golf & Hobbies 1:40:00 - Where to Find Him 1:41:22 - Active on TikTok 1:42:19 - IG, Snap, Discord 1:43:30 - Patreon Journey 1:44:50 - Joe Budden Motivation 1:46:12 - Final Thank You 1:47:40 - Weekly Podcast Plans 1:48:50 - Voice Talent Reveal 1:49:43 - Speed Dating Idea 1:50:22 - Final Message

Dr. Chris Khorsandi (IG: docvegas) is a renowned plastic surgeon and founder of VIP Plastic Surgery in Las Vegas. He blends aesthetics with psychology, aiming to align inner identity with outer appearance. ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs ———————————————————— Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:34 Helping launch the podcast idea 02:45 Power of long-form media 04:09 Freedom vs media narratives 05:50 Learning through guests 07:38 Curiosity & encyclopedias 08:46 Social media & comparison 10:22 Internet transition era 11:43 Rise of AI & tech 13:10 AI blackmail concerns 15:24 Quantum computing & privacy 16:35 Celebs, image & truth 17:43 Childhood in Staten Island 18:30 Lessons from father 20:30 Medicine over construction 21:25 College & med program 22:36 Class-hopping post-delay 23:08 Bartending & human nature 23:58 Self-image & mirrors 25:32 Aging & identity 26:56 Surgery & soul alignment 27:56 Beauty analysis upbringing 28:40 Plastic surgery vs psychiatry 30:25 Closure in surgery 31:57 Artist’s insight & direction 33:08 Therapy vs surgical impact 34:25 Male vulnerability 35:25 Hunting & bonding 36:48 Schizophrenia & labor 37:47 Sunlight & serotonin 39:57 Human biology vs modern life 40:51 Non-verbal communication 42:15 Telepathy & instincts 43:28 Lost primal senses 44:18 Darwin & offense 45:32 AI & post-scarcity 48:13 Testosterone & competition 50:09 War & social constructs 51:05 AI & rewriting history 52:54 Struggle & emotional escape 55:05 Collective sociopathy 56:18 Obedience & psychology 59:08 Shadow self & violence 1:01:08 Masculine suppression 1:01:45 Controlled aggression 1:03:10 Black Pill Mentality 1:08:36 Beauty & provisioning 1:10:45 Status vs attraction 1:12:32 Men Vs Women Mating 1:14:19 Male Loneliness 1:16:07 Validation vs performance 1:18:45 Transplants & confidence 1:22:40 Black pill VS Red pill VS Blue pill VS Mode 1 1:25:51 Black Pill leads to Passport bros 1:29:38 The Big 3 Pillars 1:32:22 Everyone get rejected 1:33:10 Pre-selection 1:33:50 The Gumar Story 1:37:37 Las Vegas is the closest thing to ancient Rome 1:42:29 Appearance Is Vital 1:45:00 Implants VS organs transplants VS Fat Transplants 2:00:34 Fat Injections 2:06:05 Higher Quality Fat In Different Ethnicities? 2:07:34 Would people get paid to do Liposuction? 2:11:54 the gift of life 2:13:07 the value of self image 2:16:46 Dying is an act of process 2:18:05 Gratitude & outro

CJ Sparxx is a multi time cover model and playmate. She’s the co-host of @insideonlyfans. She called herself the “sober bikini model” and shares her story of sobriety with her fans. you can follow Cj on youtube :  @cjdoingthingz  or on instagram :https://www.instagram.com/cjsparxx ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— Youtube Timestamps: 00:00 – CJ returns to the podcast 01:40 – Moving to Vegas 03:43 – Starting testosterone therapy 06:00 – Effects on energy and sleep 09:40 – TRT vs. hormone pellets 13:50 – Celebs and steroid use 17:00 – Ozempic and double standards 20:00 – Fake fitness plans online 24:00 – Changing beauty trends 29:00 – TikTok and realness 32:00 – Love for the '90s Playboy look 36:00 – CJ’s religious background 42:00 – Talking with religious parents 47:00 – Spirituality and identity 52:00 – Bible interpretation issues 57:00 – Science vs. creationism 01:03:00 – LGBTQ divisions 01:06:00 – Disneyland TikTok drama 01:10:40 – Pushing content boundaries 01:14:00 – Conservatives and expression 01:18:30 – Outrage and algorithm 01:22:15 – Balancing real and curated 01:26:40 – Dealing with hate online 01:30:55 – Growth vs. integrity 01:35:20 – Career shift to podcasting 01:39:10 – Judgments in influencer life 01:42:45 – Thoughts on motherhood 01:47:10 – Freedom and legacy 01:51:00 – Dating in the spotlight 01:55:30 – Being seen vs. being known 01:59:10 – Choosing aligned partners 02:02:40 – Instagram vs. reality 02:06:20 – Advice for modern women 02:10:50 – Growth and future goals 02:14:00 – Authenticity and impact #michael #michaelsartain #michael_sartain #michael_sartain_podcast

After 8 months of absence from the podcast, I would like to welcome my guest. Dr Orion Taraban, Psy.D. (IG: @psyc.hacks ) is a clinical psychologist in private practice and the creator of PsycHacks, a popular podcast devoted to relationships and personal development. He's the author of a new book, The Value of Others. He's got over 800,000 subs on YouTube. ———————————————————— 🔥 Steal my blueprint for attracting signed models and attending VIP-only events in 21 days... Without dating apps or late-night cold approach: https://www.moamentoring.com/opt/yt 📈 I'm looking for world-class talent to help me create a world of fulfilled men ($30k+/mo job openings): https://www.moamentoring.com/jobs 💯 Affiliate marketer? Our affiliates can make up to six figs! https://www.moamentoring.com/affiliate If you liked this video you might also like: ———————————————————— Timestamps Of course. Here is the complete list of timestamps and chapter titles, formatted for easy pasting into a YouTube description: 00:00 - Introduction and welcome back to the channel 01:18 - Praise for Orion Taraban's ability to discuss controversial topics 02:52 - The concept that all relationships are transactional 04:16 - Applying the transactional model to the parent-child relationship 05:39 - Why relationships based on a value calculation aren't offensive 10:02 - The profitability of catering to women 10:24 - Discussing why successful women might be unhappy 14:47 - Gender norms being enforced by women more than men 22:08 - Using AI models for podcast research 24:11 - Conclusion and book promotion 25:39 - The concept of cuckoldry and its lack of a female equivalent 26:25 - The role money plays in dating and relationships 28:12 - The "two women" concept 32:21 - The difference between talking and communicating 35:25 - Why men need to provide value in a relationship 38:29 - Why successful women often date mediocre men 41:14 - Double standards in the sexual marketplace 43:52 - The reasons behind failed marriages 47:39 - When men are at their peak 49:21 - Should a man "grind out" his 20s? 53:22 - When should a man settle down? 55:11 - The art of subtle negotiation in relationships 01:00:38 - Thoughts on "right person, wrong time" 01:05:32 - How to improve dating skills 01:11:30 - How dating changes after age 40 or 50 01:15:49 - How to know if someone likes you for you 01:25:21 - Why men should have more criteria for women 01:30:08 - How to test a potential partner during the dating process 01:42:47 - When to consider getting married 01:53:49 - How to maintain attraction in a relationship 01:54:09 - The importance of "frame" in a relationship 01:58:00 - Expecting your partner to fill too many roles 02:03:35 - How to get your needs met outside of a relationship 02:22:08 - Using AI for podcast research 02:24:11 - Conclusion and book promotion michael_sartain_podcast

Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks and author of "Men's Work," discusses the pressing issues facing men today. He highlights the imbalances in modern dating fueled by social media and the pressures that come with societal beauty standards. Connor also addresses the failures of traditional therapy in helping men and advocates for more effective, connection-oriented solutions. The conversation dives into the complexities of masculinity, emotional safety, and how personal challenges can motivate success while examining the evolving landscape of relationships in a digital age.

Kashif Khan, a genetic expert and author of "The DNA Way," dives into the fascinating world of personalized medicine based on individual DNA. He discusses the impact of genetics on hormonal health, the hidden effects of hormonal birth control, and the urgent need to address male and female hormonal balance. Khan also explores dietary influences on cognitive health, emphasizing the importance of personalized nutrition. With insights into peptides, stem cells, and the struggles for accessibility, this conversation sheds light on modern health challenges and innovative solutions.

In this engaging discussion, Casey Zander—a dating coach with over 500,000 YouTube subscribers—shares his unique journey from fitness coaching to becoming a dating expert. He delves into the power of authentic content, revealing how genuine connections outweigh polished production. Casey also discusses the complexities of attraction, social dynamics, and the often-overlooked role of emotional intelligence in relationships. He emphasizes overcoming analysis paralysis in dating, embracing resilience, and understanding the intricacies of sexual market value.

Dr. Orion Taraban, a clinical psychologist and creator of PsycHacks, dives into the shifting dynamics of modern dating. He discusses the price valuation of sex and the paradox of dating apps, where digital interaction contrasts with declining marriage rates. Exploring the complexities of attraction, he highlights how societal status and financial dynamics affect relationships. Taraban also examines the influence of testosterone on behavior and the emotional responses to infidelity, revealing intriguing insights into contemporary romance.