Raising Boys & Girls

Whitney and Alex Kimerling, co-founders of Hootenanny Games, delve into the importance of family play. Whitney transitioned from a law firm to create screen-free games during COVID, while Alex brings experience from the game industry. They discuss how unstructured play enhances kids' emotional health and why adults need play too. The Kimerlings share their game designs that foster connections and core memories, along with recommendations for promoting fun and laughter in family life, emphasizing that simple moments can create lasting joy.

Journalist Leland Vittert, author of the memoir Born Lucky, shares his journey with autism and the pivotal role his father played in his life. He recalls his early diagnosis and how his father adapted him to the world instead of changing him. Leland discusses the resilience built through challenges and his father's inventive teaching methods for social skills. He emphasizes the importance of parental support in overcoming obstacles, leaving listeners with a message of hope that dedication can lead children to thrive despite their challenges.

In a thought-provoking discussion, experts highlight the essential social skills kids require today, including civility, empathy, and the art of reciprocity. They delve into the impact of screens and cultural influences on children's relationships. Practical suggestions emerge, like modeling respectful disagreement and creating face-to-face interactions. The conversation emphasizes building connections, combating loneliness, and nurturing deep friendships at home. Listeners are inspired to implement small, intentional changes that can significantly improve their children's social experiences.

Dr. Gary Chapman, bestselling author and counselor known for his Five Love Languages framework, joins Sissy Goff and David Thomas to discuss ways to help children feel deeply loved. He explains the importance of identifying each child's primary love language and how it influences behavior. The conversation delves into nurturing different love languages among siblings, recognizing when a child's 'love tank' is low, and practical strategies like family mealtimes to foster connection. Gary also offers insights on adapting love languages as children transition to their teenage years.

Justin Whitmel Earley, an author and former lawyer, shares insights from his book, The Body Teaches the Soul. He discusses how everyday habits—like breathing and technology use—impact spiritual and familial dynamics. Justin emphasizes small changes over drastic efforts to combat burnout and anxiety. He introduces concepts like 'pause prayers' to enhance patience in parenting and underscores how children absorb the habits they observe in their parents. With practical advice, he encourages families to make meaningful transformations together.

This heartwarming discussion offers 10 practical tips for families to navigate the holiday season with joy and connection. The hosts address the big feelings that arise, providing tools like calm-down kits and code words to ease anxiety. They emphasize creating gentle rhythms instead of strict schedules and encourage emotional check-ins. Acknowledging grief and managing gift overload are also key topics, reminding everyone that the holidays can be more manageable than magical. They even share a cherished family tradition and a comforting prayer for gift-wrapping moments.

Sissy and David share insights from their Enneagram parenting discussions and how listener feedback shaped their journey. They emphasize that there's no one-size-fits-all in parenting and celebrate the unique strengths each type brings. From the integrity of Ones to the joy of Sevens, they highlight actionable tips for nurturing kids of all types. The conversation also includes recommendations for further learning and ends with a heartfelt benediction, reminding parents of their integral role and the support available to them.

Join therapist and Enneagram teacher Jill Phillips, alongside lawyer and author Hunter Mobley, as they dive into the transformative power of the Enneagram in parenting. They discuss how understanding motivations can enhance compassion and reduce reactivity in relationships. Hunter shares insights from his book on self-discovery, while Jill offers strategies for connecting with children based on their unique needs. The duo emphasizes the importance of slowing down, modeling self-awareness, and finding hope in the ongoing journey of growth for both parents and kids.

Join singer-songwriter Hillary Rector and musician Andy Gullahorn as they explore the unique perspectives of parenting as Enneagram Nines. They discuss the balance of being adaptable and calm while facing challenges like delayed emotions and voicing needs. With heartfelt anecdotes, they highlight how their traits help foster nurturing family environments and suggest ways to gently encourage their children to express themselves. Their insights offer a warm invitation for parents of Nines to embrace both the strengths and growth opportunities in this journey.

Discover the calming presence of Enneagram Nines and why they are magnetic in parenting. Sissy and David explore the strengths of Nines, like empathy and adaptability, while also highlighting challenges such as conflict avoidance and procrastination. Learn practical tips for Nine parents to use their voice, establish boundaries, and nurture their children's independence. They emphasize the importance of emotional safety and offer encouragement for navigating parenting with grace and quiet leadership.