
Raising Boys & Girls
Welcome to the Raising Boys and Girls Podcast with Sissy Goff, David Thomas, and Melissa Trevathan. In each episode of this podcast, we’ll share some of what we’re learning in the work we do with kids and families on a daily basis at Daystar Counseling Ministries. Our goal is to help you care for the kids in your life with a little more understanding, a little more practical help, and a whole lot of hope. So pull up a chair and join us on this journey of raising boys and girls.
Connect with us at raisingboysandgirls.com.
Latest episodes

Apr 17, 2025 • 43min
Ep 265: Praying Scriptures for Your Children with Jodie Berndt
Jodie Berndt, author of the Praying the Scriptures series, shares her insights on the importance of prayer in nurturing children and family bonds. She discusses how to help kids connect with Scripture at various life stages, from early intervention to parenting teenagers. Jodie also delves into the balance between parental influence and faith, offering guidance for grandparents. Listeners can expect engaging techniques to foster spiritual conversations and learn how prayer can enhance both parenting and relationships.

Apr 15, 2025 • 52min
Ep 264: Parenting Through the Frustration of Life Not Being What You Thought (& Your Kids Too) with Cleere Cherry Reaves
We are so excited to have Cleere Cherry Reaves on the show today as she shares all of the amazing, truth and grace-filled things she’s putting out into the world! We loved talking with her about what it looks like to parent through the frustration of life not being what you thought it would…and maybe you’re kids, too! We have a feeling you’re going to laugh (and maybe cry) and love this episode just as much as we did!Cleerely Stated. . . . .Preorder Owen and Lucy today! Grab your tickets today for the Raising Capable Kids Conference with David Thomas, Sissy Goff and special guests!Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share!Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube!Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . .If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsors:Wayfair: Shop the best selection of home improvement online. Get renovating with Wayfair. Head to Wayfair.com right now.Geviti: Use code RBG for 20% off your first three months of membership. Just visit GoGeviti.com to learn more about how you can start optimizing your health without leaving home today. Location based restrictions apply. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 10, 2025 • 35min
Ep 263: Repenting Families and the Power of the Table with Trillia Newbell
Join Trillia Newbell, an author and speaker known for her insights on faith and racial reconciliation, as she shares her journey from journalism to writing impactful books. She discusses the power of family meals in nurturing relationships and the importance of repentance within a family. Trillia emphasizes how gathering around the dinner table can celebrate diversity and foster connections. Delve into her thoughts on parenting, spiritual development, and the critical balance between health and community engagement.

Apr 8, 2025 • 59min
Ep 262: Helping Kids Build Faith that Lasts with Cameron Cole
Did you know that nearly 70% of youth who grow up in the church don’t return after high school? Well, we certainly want to change those numbers…as does our friend Cameron Cole! Cameron is a father, author, and the founding chairman of Rooted Ministry, a ministry we believe in wholeheartedly. In this episode, Cameron talks about helping kids build faith that lasts. If you have kids of any age, this conversation with our friend Cameron is a must-listen! Rooted Parent PodcastHeavenward: How Eternity Can Change Your Life on EarthThe Jesus I Wish I Knew in High SchoolGospel Catechisms for Young Children and TeenagersBaby's Hug-a-Bible: A Soft and Cuddly First Introduction to Favorite Bible Stories. . . . .Grab your tickets today for the Raising Capable Kids Conference with David Thomas, Sissy Goff and special guests!Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share!Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube!Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . .If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsors:Function currently has a waitlist, but they are offering my audience the chance to skip it!Head to functionhealth.com/RBG or enter code RBG when signing up to skip the waitlist!Hiya Health: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/RBG. This deal is not available on their regular website. KiwiCo: Get up to 50% off your first crate at kiwico.com, promo code RBG. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 3, 2025 • 54min
Ep 261: A Parent Perspective on Autism Spectrum Disorders with Julie Rau
April is Autism Awareness month. As you may know, one in 36 children have been identified with Autism Spectrum Disorder, according to the National Institute of Mental Health. Talking about not only how to understand but how we can help these amazing kids has never been more important. In this episode, we’ve got a wise parent in the trenches, who also happens to be Sissy’s step-sister helping us learn more about what we can do to support the kids and families in our lives who are living with this diagnosis. We also have a podcast playlist on our website on Raising Neurodivergent Kids, on the resource tab, for more help from other parents and professionals. Aspergers ExpertsRaising Neurodivergent Kids Playlist. . . . .Grab your tickets today for the Raising Capable Kids Conference with David Thomas, Sissy Goff & Special Guests!Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share!Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube!Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . .If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsor:Geviti: Use code RBG FOR 20% off your first three months of membership. Just visit GoGeviti.com to learn more about how you can start optimizing your health without leaving home today. Location based restrictions apply. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 1, 2025 • 44min
Ep 260: Milestone Eleven - Mercy with Melissa Trevathan
How many of you have middle schoolers? We are so excited to be moving into the milestone of Mercy, in our Are My Kids on Track series. And this week, our favorite Bible teacher for middle schoolers—or any schoolers—is back, Melissa! In this episode, she talks about how we bring the Gospel to middle schoolers (or kids of any age, really), right where they are. This is one you’re not going to want to miss!Thy Mercy, My God by Sandra McCrackenEp 62: The Power of Vintage Values with the Daystar ParentsGrab a copy of Are My Kids on Track? to follow along with us through the season!Are My Kids on Track? Spotify Playlist. . . . .Grab your tickets today for the Raising Capable Kids Conference with David Thomas, Sissy Goff & Special Guests!Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share!Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube!Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . .If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsor:Wayfair: Give your home the refresh it needs with Wayfair. Head to Wayfair.com right now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 2025 • 41min
Ep 259: The Ages and Stages of Spiritual Development with Jess Wolstenholm
In a captivating discussion, Jess Wolstenholm, VP at Minnow and executive producer of the Laugh and Grow Bible for Kids, shares invaluable insights on children's spiritual development. She emphasizes the importance of age-appropriate faith-based content that nurtures curiosity and fosters family engagement. The conversation touches on innovative animated Bible series, practical tools for integrating faith into daily life, and the significant role parents play in guiding their children's spiritual journeys. Tune in for practical wisdom and heartfelt stories!

Mar 25, 2025 • 51min
Ep 258: A Masterclass in Parenting Teenagers and Helping Kids Discover their God-given Identity with Elisabeth Hasselbeck
It is always a happy day when we get to sit down with our dear friend, Elisabeth Hasselbeck. On today’s podcast, we’re talking about her newest children’s book, God’s Masterpiece and helping kids discover their God-given identity (plus some inside scoop on parenting teens!). Go buy all of the kids in your life a copy of God’s Masterpiece TODAY! It’s the sweetest and so filled with grace and truth, just like Elisabeth! If you enjoyed this episode go check these out!Ep 16: Parenting with Faith, Hope, and Survivor Skills with Elisabeth HasselbeckEp 106: Raising Kids Who Turn Into Great Grown-Ups. . . . .Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share!Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube!Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . .If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsors:Hiya Health: Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/RBG. This deal is not available on their regular website. Function: Function currently has a waitlist, but they are offering my audience the chance to skip it! Head to functionhealth.com/RBG or enter code RBG when signing up to skip the waitlist! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 20, 2025 • 33min
Ep 257: Singing Scripture and Developing a Faith Foundation for Young Kids with Randall Goodgame
Have you seen or listened to Slugs and Bugs? We are BIG fans. Sissy’s nephew, Henry, made us listen to Tractor, Tractor almost every day of his toddlerhood. And…Sissy even got to guest star on an episode in Season 2 called Modern Kid. We’re so grateful for this incredible resource from our talented friend, Randall Goodgame, who joins us on the podcast this week! Randall shares so much wisdom on Singing Scripture with Kids and helping them develop a faith foundation. Parents of littles, you’re going to love this one…and want to download the show today!Scripture Hymnal. . . . .Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share!Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube!Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . .If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsor:Nurture Life: Head to NurtureLife.com and use code RBG for 55% off your first order. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 18, 2025 • 30min
Ep 256: Three Things Every Girl Needs to Know and More with Kari Kampakis
It was such a treat to have our friend Kari Kampakis back on the podcast. We are asked often about devotionals for teenagers…and Kari is one of the voices we trust most in that department. You and your teenage girls will glean so much from this conversation and her new book, Yours, Not Hers: 40 Devotions to Stop Comparisons and Love Your Life.If you enjoyed this episode, check these out!Ep 64: Navigating the Tough Seasons of Motherhood with Kari KampakisEp 160: Parenting Teenagers and Beyond with Kristen HattonEp 207: Strengthening the Mother/Daughter Connection with Sandra Stanley/Allie Stanley CooneyRaising Girls Spotify Playlist. . . . .Sign up to receive the monthly newsletter to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share!Go behind the scenes and watch our podcast on YouTube!Download a copy of the Raising Boys and Girls Feelings Chart. Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at raisingboysandgirls.com. . . . . .If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our Advertise with us form. A special thank you to our sponsor:KiwiCo: Get up to 50% off your first crate at kiwico.com, promo code RBG. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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