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Tamara Soles, PhD
A continuing education podcast where two therapists talk more than they listen. Each episode I have conversations with other therapists where we tackle topics with equal parts thoughtfulness and levity and the result is practical strategies to improve your practice and your everyday life. Why not listen and get CE credits at the same time? Visit the link in the show notes for details.
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Apr 28, 2023 • 49min
Mastering Private Practice Finances with Andrew Riesen
CE credits are no longer availableDo you get overwhelmed at tax time or find yourself digging through faded receipts that you intended to keep track of month-to-month? Self-proclaimed accounting nerd and CEO of Heard, Andrew Riesen joins me to help therapists master their finances! Whether you're a seasoned therapist or just starting out, we've got the financial considerations, mistakes, and mindset shifts you need to know.Highlights The most common financial mistakes made by therapists and how to avoid them Navigating separate bank accountsWhen to use software solutions and when to outsource your bookkeepingThe impact of money mindsetHow to reframe your finances to live a balanced and healthy life as a therapistAndrew Riesen is a mission-driven entrepreneur, financial accountant, and CEO of Heard, the financial back-office for therapists in private practice. Prior to Heard, Andrew worked at PWC, where he worked as a financial accountant, helped build an internal software incubator, and co-founded an affordable sales tax solution for small to medium-sized businesses. When not supporting mental health professionals in private practice, Andrew can be found exploring the nooks and crannies of the Pacific Northwest trail-running, cycling, or snowboarding, or at home with his nose in a book or journal.ResourcesHeard: Bookkeeping and Taxes for TherapistsConnectLinkedin @andrewriesenDr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagramDr. Tamara Soles is approved by the American Psychological Association and the Canadian Psychological Association to offer continuing education for psychologists. Dr. Tamara Soles maintains responsibility for the program. Verify with your State or Provincial governing body to ensure APA and CPA-approved activities are eligible

Apr 13, 2023 • 1h 1min
Supporting African American Families with Mercedes Samudio
CE credits are no longer available HighlightsThe unique mental health risks for African American ChildrenHow the false narratives around African American Families impact therapyFactors contributing to shame for African American FamiliesSteps therapists can take to reduce shameImplicit bias and how it impacts therapyShame proof parentingParental Identity Development ModelMercedes Samudio, LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist, bestselling author, international speaker, and visionary entrepreneur. She works with parents worldwide to develop a healthy identity with her revolutionary Parental Identity Development Model - incorporating her Shame-Proof Parenting framework to help reduce the shame parents experience as they raise healthy children. Mercedes is also trained in trauma-informed modalities, which she uses in her work with parents to help them heal the past traumas that can influence how they interact with themselves and their children. Outside of her professional life supporting families, Mercedes is married to her best friend and soulmate, and they live in sunny Southern California with their 3 fur kids (2 cats and a dog). You can learn more about her work at http://shameproofparenting.com.ResourcesEngaging African American Families TrainingMercedes' website- Shame Proof ParentingShame Proof Parenting BookImplicit Bias TestConnectMercedes Samudiohttp://instagram.com/mrs.samudio http://linkedin.com/in/mercedessamudiolcswDr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagramDr. Tamara Soles is approved by the American Psychological Association and the Canadian Psychological Association to offer continuing education for psychologists. Dr. Tamara Soles maintains responsibility for the program. Verify with your State or Provincial governing body to ensure APA and CPA-approved activities are eligible

Mar 30, 2023 • 55min
Mental Health Marketing with Steve Turney
CE credits are no longer availableWhether you're a therapist in private practice or growing your side hustle, this episode is for you! Listen as we discuss mental health marketing, how to rethink your messaging and why your message needs to reach the top of the bleacher seats! Steve Turney is the executive director of the Mental Health Marketing Conference, a two-day annual event that invites mental health professionals to connect, learn, build a community, and engage in potential collaborative opportunities. HighlightsWhy therapists struggle with marketingReframing marketing as messagingBranding as a promiseCommon marketing mistakesResourcesMental Health Marketing ConferenceConnectSteve Turney LinkedIn @steverturney Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagramDr. Tamara Soles is approved by the American Psychological Association and the Canadian Psychological Association to offer continuing education for psychologists. Dr. Tamara Soles maintains responsibility for the program. Verify with your State or Provincial governing body to ensure APA and CPA approved activities are eligible

Mar 15, 2023 • 48min
Overcoming Procrastination with Dr. Hayden FInch
CE credits are no longer availableReady to bid a final farewell to procrastination? In this episode, guest Dr. Hayden Finch shares the psychology of procrastination! From exploring the different types of procrastination to decoding the fascinating neuroscience behind it, we'll equip you with the knowledge and tools to help your clients (or yourself!) overcome the tendency to put things off. Plus, Dr. Finch reveals why procrastination is more than just poor time management and dives into the emotional roots of this sneaky habit. Dr. Hayden Finch is a licensed clinical psychologist, behavior change expert, and author. She is the CEO and founder of the Finch Center for High Functioning Anxiety and the author of “The Psychology of Procrastination” as well as the book “Habits: A 12-week journal to Change your habits, track your progress and achieve your goals”. Her mission is to equip people with the skills to master anxiety, discover self-acceptance, and find meaning in a busy life. HighlightsActive vs Passive procrastination Why we procrastinateThe Neuroscience of ProcrastinationEmotion regulation as an underlying causeNeurodiversity and procrastinationStrategies to improve procrastinationWhy time management strategies aren't enoughResourcesFree Procrastination PDF The Psychology of Procrastination: Understand Habits, Find Motivation and Get Things DoneConnectDr. Hayden Finchhttps://www.haydenfinch.com/Instagram @haydenfinchphd Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagramDr. Tamara Soles is approved by the American Psychological Association and the Canadian Psychological Association to offer continuing education for psychologists. Dr. Tamara Soles maintains responsibility for the program. Verify with your State or Provincial governing body to ensure APA and CPA approved activities are eligible.

Mar 2, 2023 • 52min
Self-Esteem with Risa Williams, LMFT
CE credits are no longer availableLearn the science-backed tools that therapist and author Risa Williams created to help clients boost their self-esteem and ultimately heal her own. Risa shares how surviving the highly competitive worlds of professional ballet and the Hollywood film industry and shifting into motherhood as a therapist helped her develop the practical strategies in her latest book, "The Ultimate Self-Esteem Toolkit"Risa Williams is a Los Angeles therapist and coach who specializes in anxiety reduction tools and time management techniques. Her latest book “The Ultimate Self-Esteem Tool Kit is out now. She's also the author of "The Ultimate Time-Management Toolkit" and The "Ultimate Anxiety Toolkit". Risa is a university professor and a wellness magazine writer. You can also hear her on her podcast, The Motivation Mindset. HighlightsThe Kindness BlanketThe research on self-criticism and self-soothingThe difference between naturally optimistic people and pessimistic peopleWhy people reject compliments How to shift negative self-talkThe power of microthoughts Using humor and playfulness to support self-esteemThe Neural Negativity BiasResourcesThe Ultimate Self-Esteem Tool KitThe Motivation Mindset PodcastConnectRisa Williams, LMFThttps://www.risawilliams.com/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/risawilliamstherapy/ Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagramDr. Tamara Soles is approved by the American Psychological Association and the Canadian Psychological Association to offer continuing education for psychologists. Dr. Tamara Soles maintains responsibility for the program. Verify with your State or Provincial governing body to ensure APA and CPA approved activities are eligible.

Feb 7, 2023 • 1h 2min
Hacking Deficit Thinking in Schools with Dr. Byron McClure & Dr. Kelsie Reed
CE credits are no longer availableHow do we end deficit based-educational systems that disproportionately harm minoritized students and move from what's wrong to what's strong? Dr. Kelsie Reed and Dr. Byron McClure join me to reframe deficit thinking and provide practical strategies to move toward strength-based, equitable schools. Dr. Byron McClure, D.Ed., is a nationally certified school psychologist and founder of Lessons For SEL. He uses research and human-centered design thinking to build empathy, ideate, and co-create equitable solutions, which put the needs of people first. While formerly serving as the assistant director of school redesign at a high school in Southeast Washington, DC, he reimagined social-emotional learning. With a focus on systems level change, he ensures students from high-poverty communities have access to a quality education. He has done considerable work advocating for fair and equitable practices for all students, particularly for African American boys. He has designed and implemented school-wide initiatives such as SEL, restorative practices, MTSS, and trauma-responsive practices. Dr. McClure speaks across the country and believes in shifting from what’s wrong to what’s strong.Dr. Kelsie Reed is a nationally certified school psychologist who works at the elementary school level in Maryland. She graduated from Loyola University Chicago with her PhD and was the recipient of two awards for her dissertation titled, “Investigating Exclusionary Discipline: Teachers, Deficit Thinking, and Root Cause Analysis.” Dr. Reed also received awards for her dissertation work through the Society for the Study of School Psychology & the American Educational Research Association. Dr. Reed is passionate about advancing educational equity for minoritized students, disrupting the school-to-prison pipeline, and identifying and implementing alternatives to suspension. She has presented at the community, state, and national levels on school discipline practices and disparities, published in various journal articles, book chapters, and community journals on topics such as restorative practices, school-based consultation practices, juvenile justice youth re-entry into schools, and school discipline reform.HighlightsWhat is Deficit Thinking?Reframing what's wrong to what's strongHumanizing our DataUsing Satellite Data and Street DataDoing Strength based observationsStrength-based MeasuresChanging Systems not individuals ResourcesStrength Based Collective WebsiteConnectDr. Byron McClureTwitter @schoolpsychlife Instagram @bmcclure Dr. Kelsie ReedInstagram @dr.kelsiereed and @sassy4socialjustice Twitter @drkelsiereed Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast

Jan 24, 2023 • 48min
Psychotherapy and Traumatic Brain Injury
CE credits are no longer availableDr. Tamara Soles welcomes guest Dr. Jen Blanchette who breaks down how psychologists may be better equippedto support TBI than they think. She shares how to leverage the core pillars of brain health and dispels myths around treatment forTBI’s. Dr. Jen highlights the importance of understanding the emotional “trauma" in a traumatic brain injury. Dr. Jen Blanchette is a licensed psychologist, neuro-coach, and private practice owner. Her specialization includes psychotherapy after brain injury incorporating cognitive rehabilitation, trauma therapies, and mindfulness approaches. Dr. Blanchette is the host of the TBI Therapist podcast which explores the intersections of mental health, trauma, and brain injury. She is a brain health consultant and coach for leaders, professionals, and athletes. With four degrees in psychology and deep knowledge of neuroscience she brings her knowledge to leaders and athletes to function at their best! HighlightsThe unexpected way Dr. Jen became an expert on TBIEmotion regulation and TBIUnderstanding the Trauma in TBIThe interplay between anxiety and TBI recoveryCognitive RehabilitationMyths in TBI treatmentResourcesFree Mini-Course on What they don't tell you after Concussion/TBITBI Therapist PodcastNeuropsychological Assessment 5th edition ("The Lezak")ConnectDr. Jen Blanchettehttps://tbitherapist.com/Instagram @tbitherapistFacebook https://www.facebook.com/theheartofbraininjury Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagram

Dec 15, 2022 • 47min
Rethinking Learning Differences with Dr. Bibi Pirayesh
CE credits are no longer availableDr. Tamara Soles is joined by Dr. Bibi Pirayesh to explore learning differences through a social justice lens and to understand how clinicians can better advocate for their clients. We also discuss ways to improve the recommendations of a psychological assessment report and the difference between unpacking a diagnosis vs understanding a child. Highlights- how are learning differences a social justice issue-how do politics play a role in educational biases and the school to prison pipeline-writing more collaborative recommendations-advocating for neurodivergent children-writing more inclusive and affirming IEP goalsResourcesDr. Bibi's YouTube channel @oneofonekids2115Dr. Tamara's IEP post https://drtamarasoles.com/IEP/Dr. Stephanie Nelson https://www.thepeerconsult.com/Hacking Deficit Thinking https://www.hackingdeficitthinking.com/ ConnectDr. Bibi Pirayeshhttps://www.oneofonekids.org/Instagram @oneofonekids_Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagram

Nov 22, 2022 • 1h 1min
Highly Sensitive Families with Natalie Brunswick
CE credits are no longer availableNatalie Brunswick joins Dr. Tamara Soles to discuss high sensitivity. Natalie shares the definition of high sensitivity and sheds light on the core features and how they relate to fear responses and heightened anxiety. As an OT and a psychotherapist, her insights on the sensory processing piece are incredibly valuable. The hosts also tackle a common clinical challenge- competing sensory needs between a parent and child. HighlightsWhat is High Sensitivity? What are the core features?How do anxiety and our fear response relate to high anxiety Mirror neurons and high sensitivityHigh sensitivity and sensory processingHow to navigate competing sensory needs between a parent and child ResourcesQuiz "Are you a highly sensitive parent"? Natalie's newsletter Elaine Aron's websiteConnectNatalie Brunswickhttps://highlysensitivefamily.com/https://www.instagram.com/highlysensitivefamily/Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagram

Nov 2, 2022 • 57min
Authenticity with Rachel Awes
CE credits are no longer availableWhat is authenticity? How do therapists both show up authentically while creating safe space for their clients to do the same? Can authenticity exist without self-disclosure? Should we be encouraging clients to be authentic in all spaces? These questions and more are explored in this episode with guest psychologist, Rachel Awes. Discover various ways of empowering clients to explore what it means to be authentically themselves. Rachel Awes works as a psychologist, art playgroundist, and author, who loves listening to the beauty in people and animals and all living colors—and she truly embodies color, as she is also an ambassador for the Swedish clothing company, Gudrun Sjoden. Her 4 published gift/self-help books are infused with loads of her colorful drawings, all designed to affirm the human heart. Her newest illustrated book The Relationship Book: A Soulful, Transformational, and Artistic Inventory of Your Connective Life is releasing end of year 2022. She lives in Saint Paul, Minnesota, with her husband and tortoises, complete with wild bunnies in her yard, and two dear sons (ages 23 and 26) living nearby. Her most tender and mighty hope is to hold up a mirror for many, reflecting a hearty truth of your boundless worth. HighlightsAuthenticity's origins as a sense of agencyAuthenticity and the therapeutic relationshipBalancing authenticity and self-disclosureThe Authenticity ParadoxPsychological Safety and AuthenticityNeurodiversity and authenticityTherapeutic interventions to explore authenticityResourcesIs it safe to be authentic at work? https://www.fastcompany.com/90732060/3-reasons-not-to-bring-your-authentic-self-to-workAuthenticity Paradox https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIjI3TmEzrsResearch on authenticity- https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/what-doesnt-kill-us/202007/can-therapy-promote-authenticity ConnectRachel Aweshttps://www.rachelawes.com/ https://www.instagram.com/rachelawes/ https://www.facebook.com/rachel.awes/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCa6-cfs1E2zD3_bEC4_bV6wHer 4th illustrated personal growth/gift/self-help book will just be available for pre-order Oct. 4, 2022 called "The Relationship Book: A Soulful, Transformational, and Artistic Inventory of Your Connective Life" at https://www.etsy.com/shop/rachelawes/ Dr. Tamara SolesInstagram @drtamarasolesTwitter @drtamarasolesFacebook http://facebook.com/drtamarasolestamara@thesecurechild.comdrtamarasoles.comSupport the ShowHelp us spread the word so others can enjoy it as well1. Leave a review on itunes/apple podcast 2. Share an episode on Social media. Be sure to tag me on it so I can see @drtamarasoles on facebook twitter and instagram


