

Decisions, Decisions
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Episodes
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Oct 1, 2025 • 31min
You've Got Decisons: Betrayed & Confused
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 29, 2025 • 1h 6min
Ep. 440: Grits & Legs (ft. Deante Kyle)
In this episode, Mandii and the crew dive into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes raw realities of dating, podcast fame, and everything in between. They kick things off with the problems TikTok has created for younger audiences before jumping into those awkward moments at functions when someone you’ve slept with might be in the room. Deante opens up about his own dating life, the pressures of having “pod groupies,” and how fame changes the dynamic. The group debates honesty, bi-sexual men being cut off, and even a “This or That” on white women vs. Candace Owens. Later, they touch on the agendas of passport bros, being with fans, and if 10s are really worth it compared to a solid “cool 7 or 8.” Things get deeper as they explore trauma, fame, and whether a past experience can stop you from taking someone seriously. Of course, it wouldn’t be complete without heauxtry, Dyckman basketball talk, and the We Listen & We Judge segment—this time, a celebrity edition. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 24, 2025 • 29min
Roots, Stones, D***s & Bones
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 22, 2025 • 54min
EP. 439: Why You Need A Medium Ugly Man (Ft. Rosy)
This week the ladies are joined by Rosy of the Say Less podcast! Rosy almost brought Kaz to the show, but instead we kick things off with a fun catch-up—including plans to see Chris Brown live. From relationship status updates to the perks (and pitfalls) of being single, we dive into expectations, emotional availability, and even the chaos of dating rosters. Things heat up with a brand-new icebreaker, “Truth AND Date,” leading to wild dares, fantasies, and more than a few NSFW moments.' OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 17, 2025 • 37min
You've Got Decisions: The Grind To Healthy Commitment (Ft. Brianda & Wolf)
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 15, 2025 • 1h 4min
Ep. 438: Thick Threads & Three Strokes (ft. Persephanii & Patrick Cloud)
This week the ladies are joined by Persephanii & Patrick Cloud of the Thick Threads podcast! From joking about breasts and body positivity to Patrick’s funniest bedroom stories, it gets wild. The crew dives into awkward moments in the bedroom, BBW party stories, and our truth or dare that has the team perplexed. Persephanii shares what it’s like being constantly sexualized because of her breast, while Mandii and Weezy debate pleasure, relationships, and even the wildest “would you rather" scenarios. Things get even messier in Homie Court, where cheating, secrets, and outrageous discoveries—like catching a man selling mouth on Craigslist—come to light. By the end, you’ll be laughing, shocked, and wondering how anyone could cheat on Persephanii. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 10, 2025 • 32min
You've Got Decisons: He's an Inmate..I'm a CO..HELP! (Ft. Deante)
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 8, 2025 • 1h 14min
Ep. 437: Spilled Tea & Ex-Flings (Ft. AlexxMedia)
This week, Mandii and Weezy sit down with AlexxMedia to catch up on Mandii’s LA trip, talk about relationships, ghosting, and when to keep it honest. They get into adding a “third,” why nobody was actually looking for a throuple, and a wild session of Truth or Dare. After that the crew gets into the Tea App leaks and how anonymous gossip can stir things up, plus a debate about running into old flings and why you probably shouldn’t send “well wishes” to an ex. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 3, 2025 • 31min
You've Got Decisons: Am I Moving on Too Fast?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 1, 2025 • 1h 31min
Ep. 436: Babies, Breakups & Big Secrets (Ft. SK & MyLin)
Mandii and Weezy are back with a wild, unfiltered episode featuring SK & Mylin. From open relationship debates and cheating scandals to co-parenting struggles, raising kids, and keeping the spark alive after 12 years, this one gets deep, funny, and messy all at once.The conversation dives into love, sex, pronouns, sperm insemination, parenting dynamics, and navigating homophobia, all while keeping the laughs coming with outrageous stories about celebrity encounters, wild birthday drama, and unexpected confessions. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.