

Decisions, Decisions
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
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Nov 3, 2025 • 1h 3min
EP 445: Let Me Get In Your Unruly Womb (ft. Shelah Marie)
This week the ladies sit down with author and Curvy Curly Conscious movement leader Shelah Marie for a conversation packed with transparency, accountability, and a whole lot of softness. Shelah opens up about her new book “UnRuly,” the importance of emotional safety in relationships, and how healing isn’t always gentle but it is necessary. They get into navigating public perception in marriage, when “pick me” energy is intentional, and why Black women deserve tenderness without having to earn it.Getting into why her and her husband Ace Hood look like a Hedo Couple.The controversy again of Ayesha Curry and her relationship with Steph and being desired. Plus, the crew dives into boundaries, shooting your shot as a couple, and why showing your body doesn’t mean you don’t value your mind. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 29, 2025 • 31min
You've Got Decisions: Is My Boyfriend Gay?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 27, 2025 • 1h 8min
Ep. 444: Bringing Your Sub Outside Of The Bedroom (Ft. Kasha & Christopher)
This week on Decisions & Decisions, Mandii and Weezy sit down with Kasha and Christopher for a deep dive into ethical non-monogamy, power dynamics, and what it really means to share control. From using submission for structure and rewards, to role-play stories (yes, including a wild nurse fantasy 👀), this episode blends humor, honesty, and insight into how trust and communication shape their unique relationship. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 22, 2025 • 25min
You've Got Decisions: This White Guy Kept Me On Read?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 20, 2025 • 1h 10min
Ep. 443: The MF Read
This week ladies are SOLO in ATL with Mandii figuring out her next moving plans, Weezy getting into Cartography and the status of NYC real estate. After figuring out buying an apartment, the ladies break down the problem with the “American Dream”, women ruining their own dating expectations, and Weezy’s horrible journey finding a replacement braider. Get ready, because Mandii & Weezy go into the comment sections, and show you why you gotta stop playing with them. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 15, 2025 • 32min
You've Got Decisions: Am I a Hater or Bitter? (ft. Eddin & Wolf)
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 13, 2025 • 1h 12min
EP 442: Roses & Break-Ups (ft. Serayah)
This week, the ladies are joined by actress, model, singer, and co-lead of Netflix’s Ruth & Boaz, Serayah! The ladies dive right into celebrity encounters—from Babyface sightings to Mandii catching Doja Cat live. Weezy shares a hilarious Thanksgiving moment involving Babyface, and Serayah opens up about recording with iconic figures and the grace that Beyoncé carries in the industry.Things get spicy when Serayah is challenged to give an R&B hook using random words, leading into a hilarious debate on “The Womanizer” and whether roses are officially overstimulated and need to be retired The crew then breaks down relationships, faith, and commitment—from Wolf waiting a year to make it official to Serayah’s role in Ruth & Boaz and the tension Weezy couldn’t handle in the movie.We close with a powerful conversation on what it looks like for a partner to “show up” in your efforts, followed by co-parenting, high-value dynamics, and the moment Serayah found out she was pregnant DURING filming. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 8, 2025 • 40min
You've Got Decisions: Envious & Inspired but SINGLE AF (Ft. Jasmine)
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 6, 2025 • 1h 2min
EP 441: Back Hair & Seggs Robots (ft. Dustin Ross)
This week Mandii & Weezy are joined by comedian Dustin Ross of The Friend Zone podcast. From debating which city has the “best hoes” to reflecting on gratitude and truth-or-dare confessions about surprising turn-ons. The trio dives into hygiene talk — from back hair and toe polish debates to teaching men how to step up their grooming game. Things get even wilder with the “Dare of the Week” as nursery rhymes get a freaky remix, plus Mandii’s plans for her own seggs robot spark chaotic (and toy-filled) convos you won’t forget. Dustin keeps the energy rolling through heauxtry stories, relationship reflections, and brutally honest takes on dating dynamics.OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 1, 2025 • 31min
You've Got Decisions: Betrayed & Confused
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


