

Heart of Dating
That Sounds Fun Network
The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.
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May 5, 2023 • 53min
S10: Mini Man-sode 19: Sticky Eyes…Are Men More Visually Wired?
Join JJ as he tackles the question of if men are more visually wired and what to do with that knowledge. Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcastWant to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today! https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manualWant to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interestWant to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-libraryKait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQCome hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitness. . . . . A quick thank you to some of our friends!Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdatingCompassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 3, 2023 • 1h 15min
S10 Ep189: Body Image and Sexual Confidence: How to Overcome Insecurities in the Bedroom with Sydney and Josh Benson
Sydney and Josh Benson join Kait and JJ to talk about the link between body image and sexual confidence and how you can overcome insecurities in the bedroom.
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Want to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today!
https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manual
Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
. . . . .
A quick thank you to some of our friends!
Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating
Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?
We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.
http://compassion.com/heartofdating
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 28, 2023 • 52min
S10: Mini Man-sode 18: Sex Q&A for the MEN
Join JJ as he answers all of your burning questions about sex including how far is too far, boundaries, and what to do with sexual desire. Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcastWant to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today! https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manualWant to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interestWant to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-libraryKait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQCome hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitness. . . . . A quick thank you to some of our friends!Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdatingCompassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 26, 2023 • 1h 3min
S10 Ep188: Can Christian Women Be Sexy? With Amanda Pittman
Amanda Pittman joins Kait Tomlin to discuss if christian women can be sexy and dive into some nuances within the topic.
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Want to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today!
https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manual
Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
. . . . .
A quick thank you to some of our friends!
Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating
Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?
We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.
http://compassion.com/heartofdating
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 21, 2023 • 35min
S10: Mini Man-sode 17: Addison Bevere, Prayer and Words with God
Addison Bevere joins JJ to talk through prayer, knowing God’s voice, and inviting Him into our lives. Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcastWant to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today! https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manualWant to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interestWant to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-libraryKait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQCome hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitness. . . . . A quick thank you to some of our friends!Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdatingCompassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 19, 2023 • 1h 2min
S10 Ep187: Hot Take Our View on Lust and Modesty
Join us today as Kait and JJ unpack this loaded topic of lust and modesty.
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Want to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today!
https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manual
Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
. . . . .
A quick thank you to some of our friends!
Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating
Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?
We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.
http://compassion.com/heartofdating
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 14, 2023 • 46min
S10: Mini Man-sode 16: What Does Male Headship Actually Mean?
Join JJ as he goes step by step through scripture and reasoning to figure out what male headship actually means within marriage. Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcastWant to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today! https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manualWant to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interestWant to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-libraryKait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQCome hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitness. . . . . A quick thank you to some of our friends!Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdatingCompassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 12, 2023 • 55min
S10 Ep186: Debunking The Biggest Sex Myths with Dave & Ashley Willis
Dave and Ashley Willis join Kait and JJ to debunk the biggest sex myths incuding, sex will always be amazing, sex is easy and frequent, and I’ll always feel sexy.
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Want to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today!
https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manual
Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
. . . . .
A quick thank you to some of our friends!
Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating
Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?
We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.
http://compassion.com/heartofdating
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 7, 2023 • 37min
S10: Mini Man-sode 15: Female Friendships in Dating & Relationships
Join JJ as he talks though if men can have female friendships in dating and relationships. Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcastWant to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today! https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manualWant to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interestWant to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-libraryKait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQCome hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitness. . . . . A quick thank you to some of our friends!Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdatingCompassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 5, 2023 • 1h 10min
S10 Ep185: Marital Consent
Join Kait and JJ as they chat through what sexual consent looks like in marriage.
Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast
Want to join the Singles Ministry your church doesn’t have while getting access to monthly masterclasses? Join TSA today!
https://thesinglesacademyhod.com/plans/224595?bundle_token=aac55bc380a323b776655e1b717c0ef6&utm_source=manual
Want to WATCH the podcast? We’re now on YouTube!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw
Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest
Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!
https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library
Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:
https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ
Come hang with us on the gram:
http://instagram.com/heartofdating
http://instagram.com/kaitness
. . . . .
A quick thank you to some of our friends!
Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating
Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?
We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.
http://compassion.com/heartofdating
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices