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A Note from James: A fascinating guy, Chris Anderson has run the TED Talks for over 20 years, and he's the author of the new book, "Infectious Generosity". We talk all about the benefits of generosity - not only for the entire world but for you, the generous individual - and all of his adventures along the way with TED. Episode Description: In this engrossing conversation, TED curator Chris Anderson speaks about his new book, 'Infectious Generosity', and explains how it reframes generosity as a beautiful self-fueling cycle that can do good for the world in the connected age. Anderson shares insights about human psychology, the new science on generosity, and the psychological benefits of being generous. He draws upon personal experiences and shares inspiring stories of ordinary individuals displaying extraordinary generosity. He also presents a novel concept of forming 'generosity groups', highlighting how collective efforts can enable community development and create a global impact. The conversation also delves into the power of storytelling, the true significance of community, and how we can learn from the generosity showcased in various 'Blue Zones' around the world.Notable Topics: the contagious nature of generosity, shifting trends on the internet towards positivity, the link between generosity and longevity, and the idea of 'group efforts' generating significant community change.Episode Timeline (timestamps may not account for ads):00:00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Chris Anderson00:01:43 Discussing the Impact of TED Talks00:02:50 Exploring the Concept of Infectious Generosity00:03:15 The Connection Between Gratitude and Generosity00:04:59 The Role of Generosity in Happiness00:06:01 The Power of Generosity in Changing One's Perspective00:08:05 Discussing the Fear of Innovation00:09:07 The Need to Take Back the Internet00:11:59 The Shift from Social Networking to Social Media00:12:34 The Power of Generosity in Building Brands00:17:32 The Impact of Generosity on Reputation00:20:50 The Role of Generosity in Viral Content00:23:28 The Potential of Generosity in Changing Internet Culture00:24:09 Exploring Unique Ways to Practice Generosity00:32:02 The Power of Unreported Stories00:32:55 The Virality of Good News00:33:44 The Impact of Negativity00:34:33 Understanding Our Instincts00:34:55 The Influence of Media00:35:27 The Slow Progress of Good Things00:37:07 The Power of Positive Stories00:37:48 The Shift Towards Good News00:38:20 The Challenge of Changing Media Trends00:38:59 The Potential of Positive Media00:40:38 The Impact of Personal Stories00:42:50 The Power of Generosity00:44:54 The Infectious Nature of Generosity00:48:42 The Role of Community in Generosity00:55:39 The Potential of Local Initiatives01:02:13 The Future of Infectious Generosity ------------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever books are sold!Join the You Should Run for President 2.0 Facebook Group, where we discuss why you should run for President.I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltuchershow.com------------Thank you so much for listening! If you like this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe to "The James Altucher Show" wherever you get your podcasts: Apple PodcastsiHeart RadioSpotifyFollow me on social media:YouTubeTwitterFacebookLinkedIn See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

One of the smartest people in history, the author of Losing the Nobel Prize and Think Like a Nobel Prize Winner - and he did almost win the Nobel Prize. Maybe he will one day do it. -  Professor Brian Keating, physicist extraordinaire!We've divided this conversation in two because first, I was really curious about black holes, wormholes, and the beginning of the universe. So we talk about that and he answers some of my questions, which I'm sure some of you might have as well, once you hear them. Next Friday, we have part two on just the weird things he's seen on college campuses lately. We also talk in general about when it is worth giving up on a goal or a life path. Here's part one, all about the mysteries of the cosmos with Brian Keating!------------Discussion on IQ and Intelligence [00:01:30]: The interview begins with a discussion about the perception of high IQ and its social implications, comparing it to questions on platforms like Quora.History of the Alphabet and Rosetta Stone [00:02:33 - 00:03:59]: They explore the history of the alphabet, particularly its Phoenician and Hebrew origins, and delve into the story and skepticism around the Rosetta Stone.Webb Telescope Discovery and Black Holes [00:03:59 - 00:05:44]: The conversation shifts to a recent Webb Telescope discovery of a massive black hole, discussing its implications for our understanding of the universe and the concept of primordial black holes.Concepts of Space-Time and Black Holes [00:05:44 - 00:08:01]: Keating explains the idealized form of a black hole and the inseparability of space and time in the context of Einstein's theories.Relationship Between Time and Gravity [00:08:01 - 00:12:37]: They discuss the complex relationship between time and gravity, particularly how it is influenced by the presence of massive objects like black holes.Theories of the Universe and Dark Matter [00:12:37 - 00:17:03]: The interview covers various theories about the origin and nature of the universe, including speculations on dark matter and its potential origins.Einstein's Theories and Mercury's Orbit [00:17:03 - 00:29:50]: Keating elaborates on Einstein's contributions to physics, particularly how his theories explained the peculiar behavior of Mercury's orbit.The Ether Theory and Propagation of Light [00:29:50 - 00:35:04]: The discussion turns to the historical ether theory and its role in understanding the propagation of light, leading to Einstein's revolutionary ideas.Wormholes, Black Holes, and Universe Theories [00:35:04 - 00:40:23]: They explore the concepts of wormholes and black holes, discussing various theoretical models about the universe, including multi-dimensional theories.Limits of Light Speed and Einstein's Relativity [00:40:23 - 00:44:19]: Keating and Altucher delve into why the speed of light is a fundamental limit and how Einstein's theory of relativity explains this.Future Research and Discoveries in Cosmology [00:44:19 - End]: The interview concludes with discussions on future research directions in cosmology, including the search for primordial waves of gravity and the oldest signals from the Big Bang.------------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever books are sold!Join the You Should Run for President 2.0 Facebook Group, where we discuss why you should run for President.I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltucher.com/podcast.------------Thank you so much... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

"How is it possible to bring order out of memory?"This quote begins Beryl Markham's West with the Night, the memoirs of the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic from East to West."I should like to begin at the beginning patiently like a weaver at his loom. I should like to say this is the place to start. There can be no other, but there are a hundred places to start."Today, James and Cal Fussman return for another episode of "Hooked on the First Line", where they each bring to the table books that had them hooked from page one.Cal Fussman and James Altucher engage in a deep exploration of the art of writing, examining how first and last lines, personal experiences, and storytelling techniques shape a writer's work and influence the reader's experience. They discuss specific examples from literature, including the works of Ernest Hemingway, and relate these concepts to broader themes like memory, personal growth, and the diversity of writing styles across different fields.-----------Episode Summary:Importance of First and Last Lines in Writing [00:00:30]: The discussion begins with the significance of the first and last lines in writing, their impact on readers, and the challenge of competing with modern distractions.Reflections on Personal Life and Chess [00:02:18 - 00:03:56]: Personal anecdotes about past relationships, chess playing, and the influence of sports and activities on personal growth are shared.Discussion on George Foreman and Muhammad Ali [00:03:56 - 00:09:10]: They delve into the lives and careers of George Foreman and Muhammad Ali, discussing their iconic fight and their impact on their careers and personalities.Peak Ages in Different Professions [00:09:10 - 00:10:54]: The conversation shifts to the concept of peak ages in various professions, including sports, mathematics, and writing, and the importance of experience in artistic fields.George Foreman's Career and Personal Transformation [00:10:54 - 00:14:30]: Fussman recounts George Foreman's career, his comeback in boxing, and how he transformed his public persona.Writing Craft and First Lines [00:14:39 - 00:16:11]: The discussion focuses on the art of writing, the importance of first lines, and how it sets the tone for a story or a piece of writing.Cal Fussman's Personal Writing Experiences [00:16:11 - 00:19:21]: Fussman shares his experiences with writing, particularly on significant events like 9/11, emphasizing the importance of both the first and last lines in storytelling.Analysis of Hemingway's Work and Other Literature [00:19:21 - 00:22:55]: The conversation shifts to Ernest Hemingway's work and his thoughts on other writers, including "West with the Night" by Beryl Markham and analysis of various books and their opening lines.Exploring Memory and Storytelling [00:22:55 - 00:28:51]: The interview touches on the themes of memory, storytelling, and how writers use their experiences to craft narratives.Discussion on Business Books and Writing Styles [00:28:51 - 00:57:12]: The dialogue expands to include different writing styles and the importance of craftsmanship in writing across genres. After a discussion about journaling, Cal discusses Harry Crews and his memoir "A Childhood: The Biography of a Place". They explore how the principles of storytelling and narrative structure apply to various forms of writing, including business and self-help genres."A Time of Gifts" by Patrick Leigh Fermor [00:45:10]: Fussman describes Fermor's journey from Holland to Constantinople in 1933 and the impact of this journey on the world and literature, noting that it took three books to capture the experience. The second book mentioned is "Between the Woods and the Water," detailing Fermor's travels from Hungary to Romania,Discussion on Business Books [00:54:25]: Towards the end of the conversation, Fussman reflects on business books, contrasting them with fiction, which... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

?Jay tricked me... So as you know, Jay Yow is the producer of this podcast.  We were talking casually and he asked me about a lot of different things I've been obsessed with ever since I was a little kid and this "Power of Obsession" has driven my entire life for better and for worse.We're just casually talking about it and then I realized he's recording, so we made an episode about The Power of Obsession... You kind of hear in the beginning, I didn't want to do an episode on it. But, then I realized,  this has been an interesting thing for me, and this aspect, this Power of Obsession, has had an overall very positive effect on my life.So here we go-the Power of Obsession. ------------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever books are sold!Join the You Should Run for President 2.0 Facebook Group, where we discuss why you should run for President.I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltucher.com/podcast.------------Thank you so much for listening! If you like this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe to "The James Altucher Show" wherever you get your podcasts: Apple PodcastsStitcheriHeart RadioSpotifyFollow me on social media:YouTubeTwitterFacebook ------------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever books are sold!Join the You Should Run for President 2.0 Facebook Group, where we discuss why you should run for President.I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltuchershow.com------------Thank you so much for listening! If you like this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe to "The James Altucher Show" wherever you get your podcasts: Apple PodcastsiHeart RadioSpotifyFollow me on social media:YouTubeTwitterFacebookLinkedIn See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

?What a great book! For anyone who's ever been interested, even for a second in the personal development/ inspirational category, this book, Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential by Brian Johnson... You have to visually see this book. It's 451 chapters, a thousand pages. It's almost like a little cube, but it's very fast to read because every chapter is just one or two pages and it's well done.It interweaves all these hundreds of stories and different authors and philosophers into one cohesive strategy for living your best life. The word Arate means, essentially, everyday living the best life. And this book is about how to do it.  There are hundreds of stories and examples.It's also Brian Johnson and his own stories, and we talk about it from various perspectives. In the very beginning, we're talking about how his son is super-interested in chess, which is coincidental to me. So we talk about how he's using Arate with his son, but then we dive into so many different subjects about what it means to activate your heroic potential.One of the funnest podcasts that I've done, I really recommend listening to this one. Thanks!Heroic | The Social Training PlatformAreté: Activate Your Heroic PotentialBrian Johnson (heroic.us)-----------Episode Summary[00:01:30] - James Altucher's chess journey and the improvement in his chess rating.[00:02:25] - Discuss chess, learning from the game, and dealing with losses.[00:04:54] - Brian Johnson talks about his son Emerson's chess training and the importance of physical fitness for mental performance.[00:06:03] - The role of energy and preparation in various fields, including chess and business.[00:07:11] - James Altucher and Brian Johnson discuss the importance of physiology in cognitive performance.[00:10:32] - Conversation on the impact of exercise and mental health.[00:13:10] - Discussion about the impact of positive affirmations and mental preparation.[00:16:22] - Emphasis on learning from mistakes and adopting a growth mindset.[00:17:38] - Introduction to Brian Johnson's book "Arate" and its significance.[00:19:37] - Discussion on various techniques for self-improvement.[00:21:04] - Brian Johnson explains why he is invited to speak at significant events, including with the U.S. Special Operations Command.[00:23:27] - The concept of "antifragile confidence."[00:26:27] - How to maintain and follow a personal protocol for success.[00:30:29] - Anecdotes about helping others develop their personal protocols.[00:33:31] - Specific examples of protocols and habits for high performance.[00:37:28] - The significance of doing tasks even when you don't feel like it.[00:39:26] - Differentiating extrinsic and intrinsic motivation.[00:41:31] - Brian Johnson's approach to synthesizing wisdom from various authors.[00:44:28] - Discussion on resilience, growth mindset, and the concept of 'grit'.[00:48:30] - The importance of doing and applying knowledge.[00:49:32] - Crafting a personal checklist for success.[00:54:07] - The role of physical fitness in various professional fields.[00:57:06] - The impact of posture and physical presence on performance.[01:00:01] - Brian Johnson's creative process and inspirations for his book.[01:00:01] - Brian Johnson talks about his creative process and inspirations for his book "Arate".[01:08:10] - Book release information and plans for additional volumes.[01:17:56] - Closing remarks, future engagements, and appreciation for the interview.What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line,... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

?So much happening in crypto last yesterday. There was a flash crash, of Bitcoin when there was rumors that the Bitcoin ETF might not happen. But there's a lot of other news, a lot of other catalysts for big moves in crypto.  I brought on my good friend and super crypto expert, Omid Malekan. Omid is a professor of crypto at Columbia business school. He's written two books, The Story of the Blockchain, and his most recent book - which is a great book, I highly recommend it - Re-Architecting Trust, The Curse of History and the Crypto Cure for Money Markets and Platforms. He also was one of the first people to help guide Citigroup, the largest bank in the world on the topic of crypto.We talked about everything from the Bitcoin ETFs to the convergence of crypto and AI to the Ethereum upgrade, and all sorts of other catalysts for Bitcoin and crypto in general. So, a lot of topics. Here it goes! -----------Episode SummaryCrypto Writing and Teaching [00:01:30]: Malekan discusses his focus on writing about crypto and his fully enrolled class after a hiatus??.Crypto's Disruptive Nature [00:02:42]: He reflects on the fundamentally challenging, confusing, and disruptive aspects of crypto??.The Future of Money [00:04:14]: The conversation touches on the surprising lack of foresight in sci-fi literature regarding the future of money, despite advancements in other technologies??.Evolution of Money [00:05:50]: Altucher points out that major evolutions in money, such as the use of gold as currency, were always unexpected??.Crypto's Initial User Base [00:06:46]: Malekan agrees that all major monetary evolutions were unexpected and discusses how crypto's initial user base was tech-savvy, leading to some resistance as it became mainstream??.Expansion of Crypto [00:09:15]: The discussion covers the expansion of crypto beyond Bitcoin and Ethereum, highlighting the growth of the field since 2017??.Ethereum's Use Cases [00:11:04]: Malekan points out that Ethereum has opened the door to many new use cases, far beyond what was initially envisioned??.Killer App of Decentralized Cloud Computing [00:12:37]: He speculates on the potential 'killer app' for decentralized cloud computing, emphasizing that the best applications may not have been seen yet??.Digital Identity [00:14:03]: Malekan discusses the potential for blockchain in managing digital identities and the convergence of crypto and AI??.AI and Blockchain Intersection [00:16:51]: The conversation touches on the intersection of AI and blockchain, including decentralized computing for controversial AI models??.Advanced Cryptography for Data Protection [00:20:20]: Malekan highlights the need for advanced cryptography for secure data sharing and training AI models on encrypted data??.Complexity of Crypto Transactions [00:21:05]: The complexity and difficulty of buying Bitcoin, especially for non-tech savvy individuals, are discussed??.Challenges in Evolving Crypto [00:25:05]: Malekan points out the paradox at the core of evolving crypto, balancing decentralization with user-friendliness??.Radical Decentralization and ETFs [00:26:39]: The conversation shifts to the radical decentralized dream in crypto and the conflict it creates with the emergence of ETFs??.Crypto and Tax Laws [00:33:26]: Malekan discusses how new tax laws involving crypto are indicative of the government recognizing crypto as a legitimate form of payment??.Global Nature of Crypto [00:33:56]: The global nature of crypto is discussed, highlighting its potential as a global financial system and the reluctance of some US government officials??.Current Events and Crypto [00:35:04]: Altucher segues into current events, discussing the weaponization of the dollar and the potential of crypto as a global reserve currency??.Imminent Approval of Crypto ETFs [00:36:09]: Malekan talks about the imminent approval of crypto ETFs and the impact it may have??.Involvement... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dive into an episode featuring the remarkable Soulaima Gourani, a masterclass in resilience and ambition. From her dramatic escape at 13 to dominating Silicon Valley, Gourani's story is a rollercoaster of triumphs and trials. Discover how a troubled childhood fueled her rise in the corporate world, leading to prestigious roles at IBM and Hewlett Packard, and her bold ventures in the tech startup scene. It's more than an interview; it's a journey through adversity to success, offering priceless insights for anyone dreaming big. Tune in for an unmissable episode that's both a heart-tugging narrative and a playbook for aspiring entrepreneurs and dreamers.Twitter: Soulaima Gourani on TwitterLinkedIn: Soulaima Gourani on LinkedInHappioh: A platform focused on business solutions. You can learn more about it at happioh.com??????.-----------Early Struggles and Fundraising for Startup [00:01:30 - 00:03:10]Gourani discusses her admiration for Altucher's podcast, which supported her during her startup's fundraising phase, marked by personal challenges and rejections.Traumatic Childhood [00:04:04 - 00:07:21]Gourani recounts her tumultuous childhood, including running away from home at 13, her father's bankruptcy and abuse, and her family's multiple relocations.Education and Early Career Moves [00:07:32 - 00:13:45]Despite being kicked out of school, Gourani completed her education. She discusses her early career, including jobs in the hospitality industry and moving to Switzerland to work as a waitress.Career Growth and Success [00:17:04 - 00:20:01]Gourani's career growth included working in tech, scaling a software company internationally, and holding high-profile roles in large corporations.Entrepreneurial Ventures and Personal Life [00:20:01 - 00:22:32]She talks about her entrepreneurial ventures, starting several companies, moving to Silicon Valley, meeting her husband, their family, and the importance of her support system.Challenges as a Silicon Valley Founder [00:31:33 - 00:35:46]Gourani shares the psychological pressures and challenges of being a tech startup founder in Silicon Valley, including fundraising and dealing with rejections.Current Ventures and Reflections [00:53:55 - 01:03:40]The interview concludes with Gourani discussing her current startup, a software company, and reflecting on the lessons learned and experiences gained throughout her life.-----------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever books are sold!Join the You Should Run for President 2.0 Facebook Group, where we discuss why you should run for President.I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltucher.com/podcast.------------Thank you so much for listening! If you like this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe  to "The James Altucher Show" wherever you get your podcasts: Apple PodcastsStitcheriHeart RadioSpotifyFollow me on Social Media:YouTubeTwitterFacebook ------------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this engaging episode of the James Altucher Show, James and "Jay The Engineer" offer a reflective and insightful discussion on the lessons from 2023 and the unpredictable nature of what lies ahead. Tackling topics ranging from the complexities of global politics to the nuances of personal growth, they share thought-provoking perspectives on navigating a world full of uncertainties. This conversation goes beyond a simple year-in-review; it serves as a guide to understanding and embracing the unpredictability of life and times.The episode takes an intriguing turn as James questions the effectiveness of traditional New Year's resolutions, suggesting instead the creation of a personal manifesto for 2024. Drawing inspiration from Viktor Frankl's quest for meaning and his own life experiences, James presents a compelling argument for setting life-enriching quests over conventional goals. This episode is not just a talk; it's a motivational call to action for listeners to rethink their approach to personal development and to seek out fulfilling adventures and meaningful pursuits in the year ahead.Ronny Chieng On Why We Need an Asian President (youtube.com)---------Reflection on 2023 and Thoughts on 2024:James reflects on the challenges of 2023 and discusses the unpredictable nature of 2024, touching on geopolitical issues and the state of the world. [00:01:00] - [00:05:52]Unpredictability in Politics and Life:James delves into the unpredictability in politics, including presidential election predictions, and how it mirrors the unpredictability in life. [00:05:52] - [00:12:16]New Year's Resolutions and the Concept of Meaning:James expresses skepticism about New Year's resolutions and introduces the concept of finding meaning in life, drawing from Viktor Frankl's experiences. [00:12:16] - [00:24:18]Goals vs. Quests:The discussion shifts to differentiating between goals and quests, with James explaining how quests are personal adventures that add value to life. [00:24:18] - [00:36:37]The Value of Experiments and Self-Help:James talks about the value of experiments in life and discusses the nature of self-help, emphasizing personal experiences and storytelling. [00:36:37] - [00:48:45]Creating a Manifesto for 2024:The conversation concludes with James urging listeners to create a personal manifesto for 2024, focusing on meaning, purpose, quests, and goals. [00:48:45] - [00:53:02]-----------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the Line, is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever books are sold!Join the You Should Run for President 2.0 Facebook Group, where we discuss why you should run for President.I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltucher.com/podcast.------------Thank you so much for listening! If you like this episode, please rate, review, and subscribe  to "The James Altucher Show" wherever you get your podcasts: Apple PodcastsStitcheriHeart RadioSpotifyFollow me on Social Media:YouTubeTwitterFacebook  ------------What do YOU think of the show? Head to JamesAltucherShow.com/listeners and fill out a short survey that will help us better tailor the podcast to our audience!Are you interested in getting direct answers from James about your question on a podcast? Go to JamesAltucherShow.com/AskAltucher and send in your questions to be answered on the air!------------Visit Notepd.com to read our idea lists & sign up to create your own!My new book, Skip the... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

James sits down with renowned author and psychotherapist Amy Morin for an enlightening 80-minute conversation that delves deep into the human psyche, relationships, and the essence of mental strength. Amy, celebrated for her bestselling book "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do," shares her profound insights into the dynamics of personal growth and the intricate workings of couple relationships. This episode is not just an interview; it's a journey through the complexities of the human mind, peppered with personal anecdotes, professional experiences, and the wisdom Amy has gained through years of counseling and writing.The conversation seamlessly navigates from the unexpected twists in Amy's career, including how her book's success was propelled by unforeseen press, to the intricate details of relationship dynamics and therapy. James and Amy explore the deep-seated challenges individuals and couples face, discussing everything from grief and loss to the impact of social media on relationships. They also delve into the importance of continuous personal and mutual growth within partnerships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the nuances of mental strength, the art of nurturing relationships, and the journey of self-improvement. It's a compelling blend of professional insights, therapeutic wisdom, and relatable storytelling that promises to engage, educate, and inspire listeners.13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do: Fix What's Broken, Develop Healthier Patterns, and Grow Stronger Together.13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't DoAmy Morin, LCSW   (amymorinlcsw.com)----------Episode Summary:1. Initial Discussion on Book Sales and Bestseller Lists:* [00:01:00] to [00:02:10]: Discussion on Amy's book, its sales, and its performance on bestseller lists.2. Unexpected Press and Impact:* [00:02:10] to [00:03:13]: Conversation about the unexpected press from Rush Limbaugh and the impact on book sales.3. Therapy and Personal Challenges:* [00:03:13] to [00:11:58]: Amy and James share their experiences with therapy and personal challenges, including grief and loss.4. Therapist's Perspective:* [00:11:58] to [00:12:10]: Amy discusses her perspective as a therapist and her experiences with different types of patients.5. Mentally Strong Couples:* [00:12:10] to [00:15:34]: In-depth discussion on Amy's book about mentally strong couples and the unique challenges in couple relationships.6. Writing Process and Marketing Books:* [00:15:34] to [00:20:29]: Amy talks about the challenges in writing and marketing books, and the importance of marketing post-publication.7. Relationship Dynamics and Therapy:* [00:20:29] to [00:23:37]: The conversation shifts to dynamics in couples therapy, common issues, and therapy experiences.8. Characteristics of Strong Relationships:* [00:23:37] to [00:24:38]: Amy outlines what makes a relationship strong, including good communication and empathy.9. Social Media and Relationships:* [00:24:38] to [00:25:46]: Discussion on the role of social media in portraying relationship happiness and its actual implications.10. Maintaining Relationships:* [00:25:46] to [00:27:00]: Emphasizing the importance of remembering why partners fell in love and avoiding unrealistic expectations in relationships.11. Personal Growth within Relationships:* [00:27:00] to [00:28:29]: Concluding with the importance of personal growth and not taking partners for granted in relationships.12. Expectations and Challenges in Therapy:* [00:28:29] to [00:32:03]: Discussion about expectations in therapy, challenges faced by therapists, and managing different situations in couples therapy.13. Scripts for Difficult Conversations in Relationships:* [00:32:03] to [00:36:25]: Talk about creating scripts for difficult conversations in relationships, helping couples navigate complex issues more effectively.14. Using Emotions in... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In his conversation with Nick Gray, James Altucher explores practical advice for enhancing social interactions, particularly in the context of hosting gatherings. James, who often feels out of place at social events, seeks insights from Nick, an expert in hosting successful small-scale parties. Nick shares his transformation from disliking traditional parties to excelling in organizing intimate, engaging events. He highlights the importance of having a small core group to initiate the event, creating a well-balanced guest list, and engaging activities like icebreakers to break the ice.Nick introduces his NIC(K) formula - Name tags, Icebreakers, Cocktails/mocktails only, and Kick-out time - essential for a smooth and enjoyable event. They discuss strategies to prevent awkwardness in social settings, the role of vulnerability in forming connections, and avoiding 'trauma dumping' in conversations. Nick also provides insights into improving networking experiences at conferences, illustrating his methods for more effective interactions.The conversation goes beyond party planning logistics, encompassing broader themes of human connection and interaction. James and Nick's exchange sheds light on the nuances of socializing and the impactful nature of well-planned gatherings.Check out Nick's book: The 2-Hour Cocktail Party!-----------Episode Summary:Introduction and Social Challenges at Parties (00:01:30 - 00:02:01): James Altucher opens the conversation by sharing his difficulties in socializing at parties and expresses a need to improve his skills in this area.Nick Gray's Background and Dislike for Conventional Parties (00:02:01 - 00:02:38): Nick Gray explains his initial aversion to typical networking events and his journey towards creating more meaningful and comfortable social gatherings.Hosting Personal Parties in Small Spaces (00:02:38 - 00:03:35): Nick shares how he began hosting parties in his small apartment in New York, mixing neighbors and new acquaintances, focusing on creating a welcoming environment.Concept of the Core Group for Party Planning (00:03:35 - 00:05:14): Nick introduces the idea of a 'core group' as a crucial element in party planning, ensuring a successful and comfortable gathering.The Ideal Size and Diversity for a Good Party (00:05:14 - 00:05:59): The discussion covers the optimal size for a party (16 to 22 people) and the importance of diversity in the guest list.Effective Icebreakers and Introductions (00:05:59 - 00:06:40): Nick discusses the role of icebreakers and introductions in making parties enjoyable and less awkward, especially for introverts.James' Experiences with Hosting and Party Challenges (00:06:40 - 00:08:20): James shares his experiences with hosting neighborhood parties, discussing the challenges he faces as an introvert.Importance of Pre-Announcing Party Activities (00:08:20 - 00:09:37): The conversation shifts to the significance of informing guests about party activities in advance to avoid surprises and discomfort.Crafting Effective Icebreakers for Large Gatherings (00:09:37 - 00:11:33): Nick provides insights on creating engaging icebreakers for large groups, emphasizing quick and meaningful interactions.Ending Parties on Time and Party Duration Preferences (00:11:33 - 00:14:19): Nick and James discuss strategies for ending parties at a scheduled time and share personal preferences on party duration.What Makes a Good Party and Conversation Ending Techniques (00:14:19 - 00:15:52): They explore what constitutes a successful party for hosts and guests, including tips on how to gracefully end conversations.Nick's Personal Hosting Experiences and Party Advice (00:15:52 - 00:19:01): Nick reflects on his own party hosting experiences and offers advice on ensuring a pleasant experience for every attendee.Engaging Icebreakers for Different Stages of a Party (00:19:01 - 00:20:32): The discussion... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.