REALIFE Conversations for Christian Coaches

Teresa McCloy
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Jan 10, 2024 • 25min

DWM EP264 - A New Years Prayer

In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, I share a heartfelt New Year's prayer for the year 2024. We talk about the challenging holiday season and the heavy emotions I carried into the new year. We dive deep into our aspirations for the new year, focusing on living each day to the fullest for God's glory while staying open to the unexpected. It's important to be present and notice the people around us, whether at home, work, or in the extraordinary moments we encounter. We discuss my commitment to find stillness each day and to carry out my work with purpose and impact, ultimately striving to grow and live each day as a practice for an extraordinary 2024. Throughout the episode, I share with you my thought process behind each stanza of the prayer, along with my struggles and aspirations. As you listen, consider how you can also embrace intentionality and purpose in your everyday life. Enjoy.   On This Episode: 00:00 Discussion on business, faith, family, and community. 05:57 Diagnosed with Hashimoto's leads to lifestyle changes. 08:52 Prayer for living each day to fullest. 10:39 Embracing present, planning for the future. 16:06 Connect, engage, hug, listen, be still, care. 19:19 Work with purpose, impact others positively. 22:11 Establishing routine, creating and ingraining new habits.   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.therealifeprocess.com/prayer2024 https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join https://www.onelifemaps.com   Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   FREE RESOURCES: Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   OTHER RESOURCES:   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   My Book Link My new book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   LifeMapping Tools Would you life to discover Life Mapping tools to help you recognize and respond to God in your Story. Check out these tools here https://www.onelifemaps.com/   JOIN OUR COMMUNITY & CONNECT WITH ME: Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram – teresa.mccloy LinkedIn – teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®. The REALIFE Process® is dedicated to equipping others and providing community, training, tools and resources,in order to cultivate bothpersonal and professional development and growth. Teresa’s mission is to see individuals and groups grow in self awareness, develop sustainable rhythms, and increase their influence and impact at the intersection of faith and work in their everyday life story.
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Jan 3, 2024 • 16min

4 Quick Questions for 2024 - Ep263

In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, we do some reflection. We navigate the delicate balance between diving right into work and taking some much-needed downtime following the holiday season. I share with you my own personal approach, reflecting on years past, and give you four significant questions that have guided my own reflection process. This framework will help with your own introspection as your transition into 2024. In this episode, you will also learn about a brand-new community we are launching in January 2024, providing you with a wealth of free, diverse content covering business, life, faith, and more. Here's to a wonderful 2024 for you and your family. Enjoy.   On This Episode: 00:00 Reflective, downtime needed; invite to new community. 05:40 Proud of time with new grandson, business growth, reevaluating tolerances. 09:07 Reflect on best parts of typical weekly routine. 10:39 Cherishing weekends, community time; seeking meaningful conversations. 13:42 Reflect on proud, tolerating, best, and wishes.   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join https://www.onelifemaps.com Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   FREE RESOURCES: Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment. FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do. OTHER RESOURCES: Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   My Book Link My new book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   LifeMapping Tools Would you life to discover Life Mapping tools to help you recognize and respond to God in your Story. Check out these tools here https://www.onelifemaps.com/ JOIN OUR COMMUNITY & CONNECT WITH ME: Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram – teresa.mccloy LinkedIn – teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®. The REALIFE Process® is dedicated to equipping others and providing community, training, tools and resources,in order to cultivate bothpersonal and professional development and growth. Teresa’s mission is to see individuals and groups grow in self awareness, develop sustainable rhythms, and increase their influence and impact at the intersection of faith and work in their everyday life story.
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Dec 27, 2023 • 20min

Life Changing Conversations Matter – EP262

In this episode of the "Doing What Matters" podcast, we dive into the importance of life changing conversations and their impact on personal growth, relationships, and business endeavors. There is a transformative power in these conversations. They have shaped my journey and led to significant changes. There is a level of vulnerability in initiating meaningful conversations, but they can foster trust and deeper connections with others. During our conversation, I'll give you some thought-provoking insights and practical advice on how to cultivate these life changing conversations and harness their potential to bring about positive change. We'll talk a bit about the life mapping tools you'll find at https://www.onelifemaps.com. It is my hope that this episode serves as a source of inspiration for you to embrace vulnerability, practice active listening, and identify the life changing conversations that have shaped your life, ultimately empowering you to pursue what truly matters. Enjoy.   On This Episode: 00:00 Life mapping tools shaped my work, process. 02:23 REALIFE Maps and oneLifemaps.com. 04:41 Realizing the power of stillness and reflection. 11:00 Realife Process dreams and plans new things. 12:23 Being vulnerable initiates deeper, life-changing conversations. 17:10 Reflect on life-changing conversations, use life mapping. 19:20 Search for them, back next week. Enjoy!   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join https://www.onelifemaps.com Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   FREE RESOURCES: Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   OTHER RESOURCES:   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   My Book Link My new book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   LifeMapping Tools Would you life to discover  Life Mapping tools to help you recognize and respond to God in your Story. Check out these tools here https://www.onelifemaps.com/   JOIN OUR COMMUNITY & CONNECT WITH ME: Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®. The REALIFE Process® is dedicated to equipping others and providing community, training, tools and resources,in order to cultivate bothpersonal and professional development and growth. Teresa’s mission is to see individuals and groups grow in self awareness, develop sustainable rhythms, and increase their influence and impact at the intersection of faith and work in their everyday life story.
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Dec 20, 2023 • 19min

My Christmas Gift to You! - DWM EP261

In this intimate and personal episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, I share a tradition I have upheld for the last few years - sharing a Christmas song that I wrote over three decades ago. With the Christmas season upon us, it is my hope that this tradition will inspire and resonate deeply with you. Through the song titled "I Wonder", we reflect on the emotions and thoughts of Mary and Joseph on the night of Jesus' birth, and how I've related to their humility and ordinariness in my own life. Be present in the moment. Seek out the moments this Christmas season and reflect upon the deeper meaning of the holiday. I hope this episode provides a moment of pause and reflection for you amidst the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season. Merry Christmas.   On This Episode: 00:00 Teresa shares her Christmas song reflection. 03:25 God chose simple, ordinary people, giving hope. 08:54 Experiencing new wonders as grandchildren bring joy. 10:30 Reflecting on the extraordinary in ordinary life 16:03 Imagine, hope, and gratitude for the extraordinary.   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join   Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   FREE RESOURCES: Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   OTHER RESOURCES:   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   My Book Link My new book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   LifeMapping Tools Would you life to discover  Life Mapping tools to help you recognize and respond to God in your Story. Check out these tools here https://www.onelifemaps.com/   JOIN OUR COMMUNITY & CONNECT WITH ME: Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®. The REALIFE Process® is dedicated to equipping others and providing community, training, tools and resources,in order to cultivate bothpersonal and professional development and growth. Teresa’s mission is to see individuals and groups grow in self awareness, develop sustainable rhythms, and increase their influence and impact at the intersection of faith and work in their everyday life story.
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Dec 13, 2023 • 18min

Ep260 - Choosing a Guiding Word

In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, I share my insights on the powerful practice of choosing a guiding word or phrase to set the tone for the year ahead. As a business owner and someone passionate about living a purpose-driven life, I give you a step-by-step process for selecting a word that resonates deeply and helps to guide your personal and professional journey. I've been doing this in my life and business since 2015 or 2016. And, there is a difference between setting a guiding word/phrase and making traditional New Year's resolutions. There is a deep internal discernment involved in the process. We discuss the importance of listening, discerning, and anchoring yourself to your chosen word. Come join me in this intentional practice for the upcoming year. Visit https://www.therealifeprocess.com/word2024 to access a free resource that complements this episode and aids in the process of choosing your guiding word or phrase for the upcoming year. Then, tune in to this episode to discover how you can use a guiding word or phrase to shape your 2024.   On This Episode: 00:00 Podcast host shares personal and helpful practice. 06:15 Seeking growth, deeper faith, evolving business stages. 09:29 Reflecting on a guiding word to grow. 11:06 Research, choose, resonate, scripture, connect, claim 14:33 Encouragement to choose a guiding word for 2024. 18:13 Returning next week with more on priorities.   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join https://www.therealifeprocess.com/word2024   Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   FREE RESOURCES: Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   OTHER RESOURCES:   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   My Book Link My new book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   LifeMapping Tools Would you life to discover  Life Mapping tools to help you recognize and respond to God in your Story. Check out these tools here https://www.onelifemaps.com/   JOIN OUR COMMUNITY & CONNECT WITH ME: Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®. The REALIFE Process® is dedicated to equipping others and providing community, training, tools and resources,in order to cultivate bothpersonal and professional development and growth. Teresa’s mission is to see individuals and groups grow in self awareness, develop sustainable rhythms, and increase their influence and impact at the intersection of faith and work in their everyday life story.
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Dec 7, 2023 • 21min

Three Ways to Purchase with Confidence - DWM Ep259

In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, I discuss the importance of making purchasing decisions with confidence, especially during the holiday season. We reflect on the pattern of expressing gratitude on Thanksgiving followed by a surge in purchasing during Black Friday and Cyber Monday. I also share my experiences of making unnecessary purchases. You'll get practical tips on defining needs, conducting thorough research, evaluating options, and pre-deciding purchasing boundaries. By sharing my insights, I aim to empower you to make mindful purchasing decisions that align with your genuine needs and priorities, ultimately creating a sense of confidence and peace in the decision-making process.   On This Episode: 00:00 Thanksgiving gathering, Black Friday shopping, consumer irony. 06:05 Be mindful of budgeting and unnecessary purchases. 08:30 Assess business needs and priorities for growth. 11:10 Consider maintenance, updates, cost, and budget before purchasing. 16:37 Holiday coach certification program with value add. 18:02 Consider pausing and making confident, intentional purchases.   FREE RESOURCES: Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   OTHER RESOURCES:   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   My Book Link My new book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   LifeMapping Tools Would you life to discover  Life Mapping tools to help you recognize and respond to God in your Story. Check out these tools here https://www.onelifemaps.com/   JOIN OUR COMMUNITY & CONNECT WITH ME: Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the founder and creator of the REALIFE Process®. The REALIFE Process® is dedicated to equipping others and providing community, training, tools and resources,in order to cultivate bothpersonal and professional development and growth. Teresa’s mission is to see individuals and groups grow in self awareness, develop sustainable rhythms, and increase their influence and impact at the intersection of faith and work in their everyday life story.
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Nov 29, 2023 • 21min

Discovering Pieces of your Story - Ep258

On this episode of the "Doing What Matters" podcast, host Teresa McCloy explores the power of connecting the dots in our life stories. As we approach the end of the year and the holiday season, it's a perfect time to reflect on our experiences and gain insights into ourselves. Teresa shares her own story of a recent vacation with her family and the realization she had about how her father influenced her love for adventure and travel. She reminds listeners to stay curious about their own stories and to be open to learning more about themselves and their connections. Teresa recalls a childhood memory of her father buying a small wooden boat and taking the family on trips to the lake. This sparked her love for travel and adventure, which she had always attributed to her father's work ethic. However, during their recent trip, Teresa realized that her father's desire for adventure and new experiences was just as influential. She connects the dots between her own longing for travel and her father's influence, leading to a greater understanding of herself and her desires. Teresa emphasizes the importance of reflecting on our stories and making connections. She introduces the "my life map now" tool from oneLife Maps, which helps individuals uncover the value in their life stories and see themselves through new eyes. By staying open to learning and resolving past hurts or celebrating successes, we can continue to grow and uncover new aspects of ourselves. Teresa encourages listeners to be curious and approach holiday gatherings with a different perspective, looking for opportunities to gain new insights. For those who have never documented their story, Teresa suggests checking out oneLife Maps and their series of maps that guide individuals through the process of connecting the dots in their life story. Teresa also mentions that in the new year, The REALIFE Process will be launching a community with free resources for further exploration of personal stories. By connecting with others and engaging in conversations about our stories, we can deepen our understanding of ourselves and find support and inspiration along the way. As the holiday season unfolds, she concludes by encouraging everyone to remember that there is value in each person's story and that by connecting the dots, we can find meaning, purpose, and grace in our lives.   00:07 Welcome back to the Doing What Matters podcast. Join us in living from rest, not rush. 04:37 Memory and genetic connections shape our behavior. 08:02 Fun memories, small boat, water skiing, fishing. Retirement in Florida. 12:29 Dad's work ethic taught me to play. 14:22 Reflect on story, resolutions, past hurts, adventures. 18:23 New community launching in January, more interaction.   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   Become a REALIFE Process® Certified Coach!   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   My book, Do What Matters, is now available! My book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   Join the Community! Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process® and an ACC Certified Leadership & Life Coach through the International Coaching Federation. She partners with her clients as a coach, consultant, and professional speaker to discover how to do what matters in their life and business. Teresa is the author of Do What Matters: Live from Rest, Not Rush, Using the REALIFE Process®
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Nov 22, 2023 • 23min

DWM Ep257 - How to Make a Plan for 2024

In this episode of the Doing What Matters podcast, host Teresa McCloy shares her annual tradition of taking a whole day to plan for the year ahead. Teresa emphasizes the importance of living from rest, not rush, and how this planning exercise helps to create a life that truly matters. She walks listeners through the step-by-step process of planning for the year and offers practical insights and tips that can be applied to any business or personal life. Teresa starts by highlighting the significance of community and the power of doing life together. She expresses her gratitude for the listeners who join her on this journey and sets the stage for discussing the planning process for the year ahead. Using a giant 8 by 5 write-on wipe-off calendar, Teresa and her team spent several hours mapping out the events and appointments for the upcoming year. They color-coded different aspects of their business and marked reoccurring events, vacations, retreats, and marketing activities. This visual approach allowed them to see the big picture and set the foundation for their plans. Teresa emphasizes the importance of the "jar of pickles" analogy, where the big rocks are the essential elements that need to be placed in the jar first. By identifying these critical events and aligning them with their vision and goals, Teresa and her team were able to prioritize and ensure that they have a solid plan for the year ahead. She encourages listeners to order a big calendar to gain a visual perspective and begin the process of mapping out their own big rocks for the year. By taking action now and getting ahead of the planning process, they can enter the holidays and the new year with confidence and a clear direction for their businesses and lives. Lastly, Teresa provides a sneak peek into an upcoming community platform launch in January. Listeners are invited to join the community mailing list to be the first to receive updates and access to free content. This new platform will offer resources and support for those who want to live from rest, not rush, and use the real life process framework for creating a meaningful and purposeful life. In conclusion, Teresa's annual planning tradition serves as a reminder of the importance of intentional and strategic thinking. By dedicating time to plan for the year ahead, individuals and businesses can gain clarity, set priorities, and create a roadmap to success. So go ahead, order that big calendar, and start filling it with your big rocks for 2024. Your future self will thank you for it.   01:59 Plan for next year, fill calendar with events. 04:49 Schedule and events organized, color-coded for efficiency. 09:59 Bringing everything together to serve clients. 11:47 Calendar organized, confidence to move forward. 18:01 Summary: Use calendar to plan and prepare. 21:26 Join now for free content in 2024.   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   Become a REALIFE Process® Certified Coach!   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   My book, Do What Matters, is now available! My book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   Join the Community! Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process® and an ACC Certified Leadership & Life Coach through the International Coaching Federation. She partners with her clients as a coach, consultant, and professional speaker to discover how to do what matters in their life and business. Teresa is the author of Do What Matters: Live from Rest, Not Rush, Using the REALIFE Process®
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Nov 15, 2023 • 22min

Who Needs To Be On Your Calendar? - DWM256

In this episode of Doing What Matters, host Teresa McCloy dives into the importance of building meaningful relationships and creating intentional spaces for connections in our lives. As a believer, entrepreneur, and recovering workaholic, Teresa shares her personal journey of living from rest, not rush. She reminds listeners that if they're tired of the constant grind and crave a settled and meaningful life, they're in the right place. Teresa reflects on her recent travels and experiences, highlighting the importance of choosing how we spend our time. She emphasizes her preference for avoiding the word "busy" and instead focuses on making intentional choices that enrich and fulfill her. During her travel, she led a retreat for her church's core leadership team and spoke at a community event in Florida. Teresa recognizes the value of stepping outside of our comfort zones and seeking new relationships and connections. One of the key insights Teresa gained from her recent experiences is the danger of becoming siloed in our own circles. She encourages listeners to approach relationships with open hands and to be intentional about nurturing connections in various areas, such as family, friends, work relationships, community, and long-term friendships. She shares her own journey of expanding her network and the joy she found in connecting with new people. Teresa also emphasizes the importance of nurturing these relationships and being open to where they may lead. Teresa acknowledges that loneliness is a prevalent issue in today's work culture, especially for those who work from home or are entrepreneurs. She encourages listeners to be proactive in seeking connections and not falling into isolation. She shares her personal approach of regularly reviewing her calendar and intentionally making time for people blocks. Whether it's family, friends, colleagues, or new connections, Teresa believes that healthy relationships are vital to a fulfilling life. In conclusion, Teresa invites listeners to join the new REALIFE Process Community, an online space where like-minded individuals can connect, access resources, and support one another in living a more purposeful and intentional life. She explains that the community will cater to various interests, from entrepreneurship to spiritual formation, and will provide opportunities for deepening connections and finding support in a community setting. Teresa concludes by reminding listeners to be open to the extraordinary moments that arise from personal connections and to keep seeking meaningful relationships.   01:20 Practical tools, inspiring stories, community, restful living. 04:55 Shorter time in business mastermind, lost friend, seeking new relationships. 09:19 Seeking pre-determined time for meaningful relationships. 13:23 Reconnecting with old friends brings joy. 17:21 Build great, healthy communities. Join RealLife Process Community. 19:27 Join the new Real Life Process community.   IMPORTANT LINKS:   https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join   Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   Become a REALIFE Process® Certified Coach!   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource!   Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment.   Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do.   My book, Do What Matters, is now available! My book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com.   Join the Community! Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE.   Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates.   Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy   About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process® and an ACC Certified Leadership & Life Coach through the International Coaching Federation. She partners with her clients as a coach, consultant, and professional speaker to discover how to do what matters in their life and business. Teresa is the author of Do What Matters: Live from Rest, Not Rush, Using the REALIFE Process®
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Nov 8, 2023 • 36min

Can I really lead myself? The answer is yes! - Ep255

Welcome back to another episode of the Doing What Matters podcast! I'm your host, Teresa McCloy, and I am thrilled to have Kathy Goller joining me today. Kathy Goller helps people who are stuck, stale, or starting something new, to get confident about their strengths and clear about what matters most so that they can live with purpose and make a greater impact on those they serve. With 20+ years of personal and leadership development experience, Kathy accompanies individuals and activates groups with deep listening, powerful questions, and creative processes. Based in Western New York and serving nationally and internationally, Kathy founded Teal Horizon Coaching LLC in 2022 to help others lead their whole lives with purpose. In this episode, Kathy shares her inspiring journey from feeling adrift after losing her job during the pandemic to discovering her passion for coaching and presenting. She believes that self leadership is not just about making intentional decisions but also about leading oneself according to values and priorities. Kathy's expertise lies in using tools like the CliftonStrengths assessment and the Enneagram to support her clients in developing their self leadership skills. During the conversation, Kathy emphasizes the importance of self leadership in effectively leading others. She highlights a personal experience from her teenage years that had a profound impact on her own leadership development. This experience revealed to her the power of intentional leadership and ultimately shaped her career path. Kathy also discusses her coaching business, TL Horizon Coaching, and how she helps her clients overcome overwhelm and get unstuck. She introduces the concept of self-leadership as a core element in creating a rule of life. In addition, Kathy shares her plans for new offerings in the future and the exciting launch of a community where she and other coaches will be available to provide resources and support. Join Teresa McCloy and Kathy Goller as they delve into the realm of self-leadership and discover how leading oneself can unlock wholeness and purpose. Stay tuned for more extraordinary moments in ordinary days, and make sure to catch the next episode of the Doing What Matters podcast.   00:02:42 Pandemic led to career change, coaching practice. 00:07:04 Common journey, loss of routines and friends, rebuilding 00:10:37 Focus and avoid distractions in business growth. 00:14:22 Investment, business model, apply principles, project limitation. 00:16:12 Business model focuses on smaller groups. 00:19:18 Teal represents self-leadership, wholeness, and purpose. 00:24:38 Self leadership is foundation for wholeness/purpose. 00:27:24 Group leadership skills rely on self-leadership. 00:31:00 Overcome overwhelm with free training videos. 00:33:38 Launching new community in 2020, join now.   IMPORTANT LINKS: https://www.tealhorizoncoaching.com/overwhelm https://www.therealifeprocess.com/ https://www.therealifeprocess.com/join   Coach Certification Link https://www.therealifeprocess.com/   Become a REALIFE Process® Certified Coach!   FREE Download: 4 Steps to Simplify Your Calendar Ready to uncover more time on your calendar? This FREE download will help you remove what doesn’t matter, so you have space for what does. Click here to get this FREE resource! Take the FREE Intro to Needs & Values Assessment Ready to discover what uniquely matters to YOU? CLICK HERE to take our FREE Intro to the Needs & Values Assessment. Get to know the story behind the REALIFE Process® through our film, Rested Success! CLICK HERE to watch the 15-minute documentary film where you’ll hear Teresa’s story, how the REALIFE Process® began and developed, plus how our Certified Facilitators are using the Process in the work that they do. My book, Do What Matters, is now available! My book, Do What Matters, is available NOW! Banish busyness and discover a new way of being productive around what truly matters. Learn more at DoWhatMattersBook.com. Join the Community! Become part of the FREE REALIFE Process® Community! Connect with Teresa and other podcast listeners, plus find additional content to help you discover your best REALIFE. Check out our YouTube Channel! Prefer to watch AND listen? Check out our YouTube channel for the podcast episode on video! Make sure to subscribe so you get all the latest updates. Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy, on: Facebook - The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram - teresa.mccloy LinkedIn - teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy: Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process® and an ACC Certified Leadership & Life Coach through the International Coaching Federation. She partners with her clients as a coach, consultant, and professional speaker to discover how to do what matters in their life and business. Teresa is the author of Do What Matters: Live from Rest, Not Rush, Using the REALIFE Process®

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