Embracing All of Me

Join me for an intimate conversation with bisexual English poet Nicholas Cairns, whose raw insights illuminate the intersections of grief, isolation, and the expansive possibilities of Bi joy. Discover how Nick turned to poetry to navigate personal loss—particularly the death of his father—and to process isolation. Learn how embracing his bi+ identity not only fueled his artistic journey but empowered others seeking representation and how he went from anonymous faceless writer to putting a name and face on his work. Nick reveals how creative expression can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. If you’re looking to explore the power of poetry through an identity-focused lens, the complexities of grief, and the possibilities of living authentically, this episode offers hope and inspiration. Tune in and celebrate the limitless potential of Bi joy and human connection.Check out Nick's work on InstagramBuy 100 Small PoemsDownload the free worksheet "Externalizing Through Lists" to make a worry list or memory list discussed in this episode.Are you interested in using the art of writing for personal development? Fill out the ⁠Interest Form⁠ for the upcoming book "Embracing All of Me: Identity-focused Writing & Self Discovery for Bi+ & Pan Men," so you don't miss it. Follow us on ⁠Instagram⁠.

Dive deep into the mental health needs of bisexual and queer communities of color with Dr. Tangela Roberts, a psychologist and researcher at the University of Buffalo. In this illuminating interview, Dr. Roberts shares her insights on identity development, the dual tracks of representation and policy, funding gaps that disproportionately affect bi+ individuals, despite being the majority of the LGBTQ+ population, and reveals how systemic barriers shape both healthcare and educational experiences for queer youth. Discover how embracing all parts of one’s identity can foster resilience, counter feelings of isolation, and fuel personal growth. From debunking damaging myths to championing intersectional research, Dr. Roberts offers practical steps for accessing community for the first time, finding supportive care, and affirming your full, authentic self. Tune in for expert guidance and actionable strategies! Dr. Tangela reminds us that embracing ourselves can feel scary while we try to anchor ourselves in a world that systemically diminishes bi+ voices and people of color as agendas. https://www.instagram.com/talk2drtangi/Are you interested in using the art of writing for personal development? Fill out the Interest Form for the upcoming book "Embracing All of Me: Identity-focused Writing & Self Discovery for Bi+ Men, so you don't miss it. Follow us on Instagram.

Join host Ross Victory for an illuminating interview with bisexual Mexican American author Aaron H. Aceves, whose novel, This Is Why They Hate Us, boldly explores queerness, culture, and coming-of-age in East Los Angeles. In this inaugural episode, hear how Aaron channeled his personal experiences—straddling multiple identities and grappling with self-discovery—into a story that brings raw honesty and humor to themes often left unspoken. Discover how writing became Aaron’s path to embracing his own bisexuality, why he’s passionate about creating nuanced characters who challenge stereotypes, and how subverting tropes adds depth and authenticity to YA fiction. Whether you’re new to LGBTQ+ literature, an aspiring writer yearning to tell your truth, or simply curious about the magic of identity-focused storytelling, this episode offers an inspiring roadmap to owning your voice. Tune in for a candid look into Aaron’s writing process, insights on representation in publishing, and the surprising ways fictional characters can become our greatest teachers. Visit Aaron's site to learn more about his writing and future projects www.aaronhaceves.comLearn more about Embracing All of Me at https://rossvictory.com/embracingallofmeFollow us on Instagram!

Embracing All of Me is a digital house for identity, futurism, language, and self-reunion—centered on bisexual and bi+ people of color worldwide, and anyone craving depth without the noise. Here, we explore the path toward embracing all of ourselves without spectacle. We discover identity without performance through conversations with writers, scientists, pastors, and creators imagining new ways to be whole. If you’ve ever wanted depth without spectacle, or be interested in the "how" someone breaks through fear to find purpose, belonging, and joy - this is your place.Follow the pod, rate it, save your favorite episodes, and share with someone who needs this.Discover more rooms in the house we're building at EmbracingAllOfMe.org