

Whose Body Is It
Isabella Malbin
Untangle female empowerment myths with me Isabella -a former "liberal feminist"- so that you can help yourself and the women in your life that are most important to you — whether that’s your daughter, your sisters, or your best friend. You’ll find the answers and guidance you’ve been looking for — from instant access classes to personalized 1:1 support with yours truly. For more info on ways I can help you, head to whosebodyisit.com
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Dec 4, 2025 • 1h 8min
Free from Freebirth™ | Freya Kellet
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →In this episode, we explore how Freya Kellet—once deeply immersed in free birth society ideology—gradually reshaped her beliefs through working with women and during her pregnancy and birth of her son. Feeling the pressure of the invisible “judgment day” of whether her birth would be “successful,” she faced the emotional weight of being publicly vocal about free birth while privately navigating uncertainty. As she made peace with the possibility of interventions, even a c-section, Freya discovered a more grounded trust in herself. Her identity, her relationship with her son, and the health of her marriage would not be determined by the outcome of a single birth experience. Freya, the first student to enroll in the Radical Birth Keeper School in 2020, reflects on what drew her into unassisted childbirth online communities and how her views have evolved since. Our conversation dives into the nuance of free birth dogma versus unassisted birth supported by first-aid knowledge and contingency plans, the role of biomechanics, and whether home birth “failures” can really be blamed on a lack of surrender or inner work. We also share our reactions to the recent Guardian article and what it revealed about the loss of nuance within free birth spaces. This episode may challenge, trigger, or unsettle listeners but we’ve done our best to examine hard questions with honesty and compassion. Most importantly, Freya shares her biggest transformation: not just a shift in beliefs, but a profound change in how she relates to other women—especially birthing mothers, free from freebirth™.Freya's Birth StorySubstack Bonus: Isabella's Birth Work Journey, Grief, Regrets and Recs for Aspiring Birth Keepers (recorded March 2025)The Guardian Article ✦✦✦Follow Whose Body Is It on Instagram →Shop Activist Stickers →The BEST grass-fed beef sticks, skin care and more →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Nov 28, 2025 • 1h 16min
Sharpening Our Instincts: Breast Cancer, Boundaries & The Battle for Reality | Amy Sousa
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →Days before teaching her women and girls safeguarding class, Amy Sousa was given a stage-three breast cancer diagnosis. Suddenly confronted with the very realities she had long analyzed, Amy found herself facing the possibility of losing a breast and being urged toward a radical double mastectomy. Amy details why she refused, what her independent research revealed about treatment statistics most women never hear, and how she was told not to worry because she’d like her new saline breasts even better. Amy dismantles myths around survival rates for lumpectomy versus mastectomy and examines the broader glamorization of harm—how beauty, status, and even self-destructive medical choices are marketed as aspirational.In this episode we also explore how medicalization of our female bodies blurs personal boundaries and Amy discusses how this tension can serve to sharpen our instincts and strengthen collective resistance to men in women’s spaces. We reflect on moments of everyday courage recently demonstrated by Tish Hyman who went viral for confronting a man in the women’s locker room at Gold’s Gym in LA. We explore ways to hone our community responses and specifically what parents can do to keep their kids out of the trans cult. This episode calls listeners back to the wisdom of our mammalian instincts for both safety and procreation, and offer strategies for how to eat the transgender insanity from the inside out.Keep Your Kids Out of The Trans CultFollow Amy on FacebookFollow Amy on Instagram ✦✦✦Follow Whose Body Is It on Instagram →Shop Activist Stickers →The BEST grass-fed beef sticks, skin care and more →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Oct 30, 2025 • 1h 24min
What Every Woman Needs to Know about Endometriosis, Infertility & IVF | Dr. Naomi Whittaker
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →Know in 4hrs: Decide whether or not to freeze your eggs, do IVF or surrogacyDr. Naomi Whittaker joins us to expose what’s really happening inside the fertility and women’s health industries. As a Creighton-trained OBGYN and surgeon, Dr. Whittaker didn’t enter this field because she liked what she saw — she wanted to change it. Her personal story runs very deep: her grandmother died after a C-section in communist Poland, and decades later, Dr. Whittaker found herself confronted with the same unnecessary major abdominal surgery. We talk about the epigenetic roots of endometriosis, the rebranding of infertility as a “disease,” and the urgent need to prioritize safe over merely “effective” interventions.Dr. Whittaker also reveals the hidden economics of fertility care, everything from insurance reimbursement loopholes to the industry’s total lack of accountability for both maternal and infant mobility and mortality. She shares how women suffering from endometriosis can vet their surgeon, what dignified reproductive care should look like, and offers a compassionate message for women who regret freezing their eggs. For those struggling to conceive, she reminds us that the female drive to nurture and create extends far beyond procreation. This is an episode for anyone ready to rethink what real women’s healthcare could look like, when it’s grounded in truth, ethics, and humanity.Dr. Whittaker's ResourcesExplore the Restorative Reproductive Medicine AcademyFollow Dr. Whittaker on Instagram✦✦✦Follow Whose Body Is It on Instagram →Shop Activist Stickers →The BEST grass-fed beef sticks, skin care and more →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Oct 16, 2025 • 1h 13min
Deprogramming from Liberal Feminism: A Female Physiologist’s Personal Revolution | Sarah Louisignau
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →Know in 4 hrs: Decide whether or not to freeze your eggs, do IVF or surrogacy.Michigan-based female physiologist Sarah shares her journey from being a proudly non-monogamous, sex-positive liberal feminist to a woman reclaiming her body, fertility, and longing for motherhood. Raised by a single mother who helped shape her world view, she built her trauma healing practice based on an ideology that promised freedom but instead delivered disconnection — from men who truly respect women and from her female body. Sarah opens up about leaving the polyamorous world, witnessing the aftermath of the covid shots in her clinical practice, and facing backlash for simply using the word woman. After years of deprogramming and somatic-based healing, Sarah stands in her truth while continuing to support women of varying ideological beliefs who have been chewed up and spit out by the western medical model, and is ready to conceive for the first time at the age of 44, shedding the lies of overpopulation and climate doom and embracing motherhood as the most radical act of body reclamation. Learn more about Sarah's work Follow Sarah on Instagram✦✦✦Follow Whose Body Is It on Instagram →Shop Activist Stickers →The BEST grass-fed beef sticks, skin care and more →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Oct 2, 2025 • 46min
Perversions of Purity Culture, Liberal Sexuality, & The Pursuit of Embodied Truth | Tara Rae Behr
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →Classes for Ex-Liberal Women →ChatGPT confessions, critiques of pornified nEw aGe goddess culture & why I took down the German New Medicine episode // Substack BONUS →What does liberation feel like in the body and how do we know when we’ve mistaken violence or an ideology for freedom? In this episode, Tara Rae Behr shares her journey from an evangelical upbringing, where purity culture and child rearing looked like spanking and lots of shame, to almost leaving psychotherapy to pursue a career in “conscious sex work.” Like many women disentangling themselves from extreme religious upbringings, Tara wondered if there was something healing in re-enacting violence through sex or if liberation could be found by swinging to the opposite end of the spectrum. While confronting the scandals of evangelical leaders like Ted Haggard as well as her own mentorship with a BDSM “therapist,” Tara discovered that both purity culture and liberal pro-prostitution views of the body and sexuality are in fact distortions of true intimacy.Through MDMA-assisted therapy, Tara began recovering suppressed memories of childhood abuse, leading her to confront her parents and break ties with a BDSM mentor. In this deeply reflective conversation, Tara explores what it means to discern right from wrong outside of dogma, how much of her religious upbringing still informs her moral compass, and how she now envisions sexuality beyond objectification. Tara asks how we can befriend ourselves, reclaim intimacy with our own bodies, and reconnect with the Earth—instead of falling into the abyss of the transhumanist vision of the body as a forever modifiable machine. Tara's WebsiteFollow Tara on Substack & Instagram ✦✦✦Follow Whose Body Is It on Instagram →Shop Activist Stickers →The BEST grass-fed beef sticks, skin care and more →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Sep 18, 2025 • 1h 13min
Life After Islam: Choosing Humanity & Intuition Over Religious Doctrine | Yasmine Mohammed
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →What happens when your conscience and your religion are at war from the time you’re born? In this episode, author of Unveiled: How the West Empowers Radical Muslims, Yasmine Mohammed shares her harrowing story of growing up under the weight of religious indoctrination. From being told by her mother to promise she would kill non-believers, to being fed what she calls a “diet of Jew hatred,” Yasmine opens up about the everyday brainwashing that shaped her childhood and early womanhood. She describes how Islam demands the abandonment of humanity, and how the internal conflict between conscience and religious doctrine ultimately set her on a path of questioning and, eventually leaving Islam. We also discuss the rise of antisemitism and defenses of Islam since October 7, the Western liberal insistence that Islam is a “religion of peace,” and the troubling ways third-wave feminism romanticizes submission and abuse. Yasmine offers a candid critique of hijab, and recruitment of young women into Islam in North America and Europe. Yasmine shares her journey from being told the light she loved was “the devil” to now choosing her own guiding light. Yasmine speaks with raw honesty about her relationship with her mother, the accusations of Islamophobia she faces, and her ongoing resistance to brainwashing in all its forms.Yasmine MohammedClarity CoalitionFollow Yasmine Mohammed on Instagram, X & Facebook✦✦✦Follow Whose Body Is It on Instagram →Shop Activist Stickers →The BEST grass-fed beef sticks, skin care and more →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Jul 25, 2025 • 1h 7min
Everything you need to know about Transgender Ideology in Israel | Tal Croitoru
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →Substack bonus: Women aren't men without penises. My completely maddening phone call with the manager of a co-working & exercise space in Tel AvivDr. Tal Croitoru, is one of the only mental health professionals in Israel speaking out about the harms of transgender ideology. Tal, like many others, was sold on the idea that "trans" was simply a continuation of LGB and wouldn't stand a chance making it as an ideology in Israel, due to the religious population that generally values family, tradition, which on the surface seems incompatible with the notion that you can change sex. Well, things have changed in Israel in the last twenty years.Israelis with "gender claims", as Tal calls them, are being approved for surgical and hormonal interventions with little to no psychological screening. While official numbers are not being released, Tal’s research suggests everyone who asks for “gender affirming care” is approved. Lawsuits over “correct pronoun” use have begun, with courts compelling the use of wrong sex pronouns. Sexual harassment claims have been used against companies and women who use male pronouns for males with gender delusions. Schools are beginning to institute the use of preferred pronouns, and doing so behind the backs of parents. Three males are now imprisoned with women in the (formerly) only women's prison in Israel. All of these violations are happening without any public debate. Tal is determined in her private practice, books and her own youtube channel to bring the truth of this ideology to the people of Israel.(In Hebrew) Interview with retired nurse from the plastic surgery department at Sheba Hospital talking about male castration4.5 year old boy gets semen frozen before chemical castrationSuperPharm Incident: adult male customer yells at female employee for calling him a manWoman Sued By Trans-Identified Male For “Sexual Harassment” After Making “Transphobic” Social Media PostsTal's BooksTal's YouTube Channel✦✦✦Inoculate your children against transgender ideology →Shop Activist Stickers →Shop Isabella's Favorites →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Mar 23, 2025 • 1h 20min
Recovering Our Instincts & Free Birth in the Age of Undue Influence(s) | Mary Lou Singleton
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →In this episode with Mary Lou Singleton, we explore her lifelong call to serve women in birth, and how she witnessed midwifery shift from an intuitive, woman-centered craft into a standardized profession shaped by regulation and Science™-driven conformity. We unpack the tensions between medicalized midwifery and the rise of free birth culture, the dogmas that have taken root on both sides, and the pressure some women feel when transferring to a hospital becomes framed as the ultimate failure. Mary Lou explains why she supports voluntary licensure, reflects on the role of heroism in midwifery, and highlights essential factors in homebirth risks— including breech, twins, and two key studies every woman should know.We also dive into the commodification of free birth “cool-girl culture,” the trend-following that can override a woman’s intuition, and what happens when neither medical nor radical birth spaces provide grounded, empowering risk assessment. Mary Lou shares guidance for women discerning whether free birth is truly aligned for them, how to reconnect with intuition, and what responsibility should look like for birth attendants. For aspiring birth workers, we discuss where real learning still happens, who is worth learning from, and the irreplaceable value of having a woman at your birth who is willing to climb Everest with you.Access Bonus Content Follow Mary Lou Singleton on Substack Check out Mary Lou's upcoming Herbalism courseMary Lou's Website Birthing From Within by Pam England Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin Unassisted Childbirth by Laura Shanley Physician- and midwife-attended home births Effects of breech, twin, and post-dates outcome data on mortality rates by Dr. Lewis MehlPerinatal death associated with planned home birth in Australia: population based study ✦✦✦Keep Your Kids Out of The Trans Cult →Shop Activist Stickers →Whose Body Is It Website →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Feb 26, 2025 • 1h 39min
Women's Communities: 12 Red Flags │ Serendipiti Day
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →Dipiti is back to discuss our top 12 red flags to look out for before joining an in-person or online women's community. Want more? Be sure to check out the bonus content available here to Whose Body Is It paid Substack subscribers. Included in the *Bonus Convo* Dipiti's intentions for joining BDSM communities Isabella’s intentions for joining radical feminism and birth liberation groups How Isabella managed to avoid moving to an in person community of “liked-minded women” The subtle process of loyalty becoming currency and favoritism Shedding light on why Dipiti and Isabella aren’t going back to a popular women’s festival When story telling is used as an implicit threat Is radical feminism a cult? How “self-responsibility / victim consciousness” frameworks can be weaponized How having a shared experience of losing friends / being ostracized for knowing what a woman is isn’t necessarily a strong enough foundation for a lasting friendship How participating in MLMs creates an extraction lens on everyone you meet aka new connections are prioritized on them becoming your downline $$$ How we deal with the guilt and shame of having promoted groups, companies, and influencers we’re no longer affiliated with The role of therapy after exiting cult-y spaces & narc abuse recovery How constantly trying to get to the root of things became a disability and an inability to see the bigger picture that warped our sense of reality Breaking the bubble of the fictional “us” & noticing exit patterns of former members of various online and in person groupsEpisode ResourcesConnect with Dipiti on InstagramWomen Who Run With The WolvesPonzinomics: The Untold Story of Multi-Level MarketingNarc Abuse RecoveryHow to Spot a Cult - BITE Model PDFOther Whose Body Is It episodes with Dipiti (Recorded in 2022) BDSM & Women’s Festivals episode with Dipiti(Recorded in 2023) What Has Porn Done to Us?✦✦✦Work with Isabella →Support the Whose Body Is It Podcast →Shop Activist Stickers →Whose Body Is It Website →Music //Time by ASHUTOSHMusic promoted by Free Stock MusicCreative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License

Feb 6, 2025 • 1h 9min
Menopause without Big Pharma │ Kimberly Ann Johnson
♡ Support the podcast by becoming a paid Substack subscriber →Today's guest, Kimberly Ann Johnson author of the best selling book The Fourth Trimester, works at the intersection of sex, birth, and trauma. Kimberly entered menopause in 2020 and, just as she had with postpartum and motherhood, began to explore this unique phase of female mammalian life with curiosity and spiritual sensitivity. The standard of perimenopause care -synthetic hormones commonly known as HRT - immediately struck her as out of order with her trust in female physiology. In this episode we examine the accusations of menopausal care negligence not just for refusing HRT, or radical ‘hormone-balancing’ diet regimens, but even down to beauty practices like face yoga and gua sha. Kimberly shares critical analysis of the pathology of women's reproductive life phases and suggests that menopause uninterrupted is the death rehearsal, inviting us to live more biologically.Kimberly's upcoming retreat, books & moreFollow Kimberly Ann Johnson on Instagram ✦✦✦The Medical and Legal Ethics of IVF, Surrogacy, and Other Commonly Used Assisted Reproductive Technology Master Class →Work with Isabella →Support the Whose Body Is It Podcast →Shop Activist Stickers →Whose Body Is It Website →Music //Time by ASHUTOSH Music promoted by Free Stock Music Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License


