Havilah's Podcast

If you follow Havilah on socials, you’re only getting half the story! In this episode hear Havilah give you the full story on what’s been going on behind the scenes for the Cunnington Crew. Hear the full story of Bear, and all of the other things that have been going on and that are upcoming! Attention podcast listeners! Save 15% on anything from our store all summer long. Use code SUMMER15 at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

God’s voice speaks to us from our future. He wants to lead you to the future He knows He has created for you! What does it look like to live a life you want to wake up to? How is your grief affecting your ability to go after your dreams? It’s time to get up! Ask yourself: What is my future self trying to tell me? Let's talk about the power of Spirit-led living and get you to a place where you can answer: when I leave this earth, do I know that I fulfilled my God-given potential? Listen in as Havilah unpacks how, when our future or our present is more compelling than our past, we will become the men and women we need to be to follow the voice of God. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Welcome back after a little break to our I Do Boundaries Series, episode 4!  We’re going to look at how boundaries are part of being a spiritual grownup! Part of being a spiritual grownup is understanding what is not only permissible for you, but what is actually helpful in your life. This week we will learn about how your beliefs, emotions, and decisions all belong to YOU and how that actually puts you in a position of power. Listen in as Havilah shares about how we can’t protect what matters most if we’re busy protecting our reputation and how living with Godly boundaries is understanding that you are not created to do all things. Listen in to understand fully how freedom awaits you through boundaries... - Start the free I Do Boundaries 15 day study HERE - Buy the book I Do Boundaries HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

In today’s episode we’re going to look at why boundaries aren’t just helpful but profoundly spiritual. Boundaries are a popular topic. But make no mistake, property lines have been an idea from the very beginning. He’s very passionate about boundaries. He knows that when we have ownership, love is protected. When we allow love to motivate us, we can live whole lives by clearly knowing where we end and others begin. His Kingdom works! God created boundaries for the sake of order, ownership and protection. God holds Himself to the same order, ownership, and protection. - Start the free I Do Boundaries 15 day study HERE - Buy the book I Do Boundaries HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Loving ourselves and others well begins with healthy boundaries! Just in time for Valentine’s Day Havilah shares what the big deal is about boundaries. Our world consists of boundaries. It’s easy to see them all around us. We’ve built fences, signs, walls, and hedges. We’ve created cities, counties, states and countries. We use them to clarify ownership. These lines help us know who owns what and where. Once we know who the owner is, we know who is responsible. The owner of the property is legally responsible. The non-owner isn’t. As our physical world has boundaries, so, too, our spiritual world. They are harder to see, but just as important. Boundaries don’t just keep the good in, but also keep the bad out. Listen to week 2 of our I Do Boundaries series as Havilah unpacks how boundaries keep us from harm and protect safe and healthy love. Start the free I Do Boundaries 15 day study HERE  Buy the book I Do Boundaries HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

The first of our I Do Boundaries series, Havilah begins to walk us through finding our power, finding out how to protect what matters most to us and to stop feeling bad about it. Being nice out of fear doesn’t work and people-pleasing will keep us stuck in the cycles of powerlessness that we are trying to break away from. Learn how to do the right thing, when the right thing won’t make everyone happy. Being at war with the internal narratives you have about people’s opinions of you and the affect/perceived control you have over it can be confusing. Good news: you don’t have to betray who you are to make others comfortable! Likely, being a good Christian girl isn’t what you’ve been taught it is. Where do your responsibilities end and others’ begin? Find out as you listen in to this week’s episode as Havilah begins to walk you through interrupting the pattern of making others happy and empowering you to live life the way God wants you to! Get ready to show up in the world as the powerful person He created you to be. Start the free I Do Boundaries 15 day study HERE Buy the book I Do Boundaries HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Jason Vallotton about developing a healthy inner dialogue. Jason is a husband, dad, pastor, counselor and leads a Men's Ministry called Brave Co. Tune in to hear the keys Jason shares to overcome the obstacles of life, develop a healthy game plan for challenges and become an expert and finding the help you need. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Lauren Vallotton about blended family. Lauren shares openly about the unique experience of stepping into a marriage as a step-parent. Tune in to hear the trials and success that have shaped the journey and what keys have been essential to stepping into such a unique role. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Rebekah LaRobadiere. Rebekah is a sex and relationship coach, wife and mom. Tune in to hear the very real and open conversation about sex, as Rebekah brings clarity to the confusion of what intimacy and a "great sex life" truly means, what lies and beliefs keep you from having a healthy sex life and how to talk about sex with your children. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com Resources: Getting The Love You Want: https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Love-You-Want-Couples/dp/1250310539 Website: https://www.rjlcoaching.com/

In today's Part 2 episode, Barry and Lori Byrne, Founders of Nothing Hidden Ministries, continue their discussion on cultivating a healthy marriage. This dynamic duo teaches us that the Holy Spirit uncovers what years of counseling may not have revealed. Their workshops globally have helped thousands of couples restore their marriage. Listen to these wonderful stories, and hear God’s heart for marriage! https://nothinghidden.com/ Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com