Havilah's Podcast

From the Mountain Mover Conference in Moses Lake, WA comes today’s episode where Havilah talks about how the storms we live through in our lives makes our message more impactful. We can preach about God when we are safely on the shore, but it’s in the storm that true trust and relationship is forged with God. This message was recorded in October and is a timely word spoken over people in this specific season of personal and global tumult. You’re not alone and Jesus lived life on earth to show us how to do it best. Stay tuned we have business focused episodes coming up and a prophetic series we have in the works! You’re going to love it ALL! If you haven’t already, please subscribe and leave us a review! It will bring hope to others and help this get into the hands of people just like you who need encouragement and solid, biblical teaching. We love and appreciate all of your support, social posts and tags and reviews! It means more than you know! Join our email list which is where we always drop the news first for any open enrollments, special events or sales we have on our courses or studies. You can do that by clicking the link here.  Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

This week in the final episode of the Marriage Is Series, Havilah chats with Clint Davis who talks about trauma within a marriage and what to do if there has been a betrayal or trauma within the marriage. What do you do if your marriage is ‘broken’? Covid has done a number on marriages. Pastors report seeing more divorces in the past year than they have in all of their cumulative years in ministry. Why? Clint explains that up until covid and the lockdowns we had maladaptive coping skills and were able to distract ourselves until we were all given no where else to turn but our homes. It either drove people closer or the wheels came off. Listen in as Havilah and Dr. Clint discuss how we try to put bandaids over bullet holes, how important community is for healthy feedback to know whether or not your situation is truly abusive, and how to heal from betrayal trauma. Clint Davis is an Army Veteran who has a Bachelor's in Psychology from Louisiana Tech University and Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary. He is an ordained minister and Licensed Professional Counselor trained in EMDR for trauma, Restoration Therapy for couples and families, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) and is also a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). Clint owns Clint Davis Counseling and Integrative Wellness where he has a team of Mental Health Professionals, Doctors,  Chiropractors and Dietitians who help people recover from trauma to the mind, body, and spirit. He is also currently the Director of Recovery for The Hub: Urban Ministry that works to fight against poverty and human trafficking. He is married to his wife Jacie and has two sons Grady (6) and Jude (3). https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/asking-why/id1527892108 Facebook and Instagram @clintdaviscounselingllc www.clintdaviscounseling.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Ben and Havilah take this episode on together as they share their story of how they almost didn’t get married (whaaat??) how to navigate different callings, what to do if it seems your spouse is unsupportive of your calling and how to partner together. Marriage is contending and fighting together for what matters. Hear practical tools to go after the calling on your life without negating the call on your spouse's life and learn how to contend side by side for the things of the Kingdom! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Certified Master Sex Coach Rebekah LaRobardiere has a degree in Psychology and is on the show talking with Havilah about why marriages are struggling sexually especially in the covid season. Listen in as they talk about what is ‘normal’ what is not, what part we as individuals play in our sexuality, how our perspective and beliefs about sexuality affects how we show up in our marriage, how to improve intimacy and your sex life in marriage and a few myths that you might not have known! As a bonus, Rebekah has a special journal that will help you in your journey you can find here if you’re interested! Also don’t miss Havilah’s LIVE Masterclass TOMORROW, October 14, 2021 to give you the keys to be a powerful communicator and get you ready for the stage! Kick fear in the face so when God calls you to communicate next you will be able to step confidently into what He has for you! Register HERE. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Havilah has been getting so many messages and emails about marital struggles. She wants to get you resources and help in the best way she can! One of the things that has been so helpful for Havilah has been Connection Codes. Listen in as Havilah interviews Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, creators of the Connection Codes Courses. It applies not just to marriages but to parent/child and family relationships, work relationships, roommates and friendships. We are hardwired for connection and identity. How our brains work and how our bodies are triggered by what happens in the brain are all factors in how we experience one another and the world around us. Get ready to take notes because this will help you immensely in whatever relationships you’re struggling with! They are offering an exclusive code: home25 for Havilah’s community to give you 25% off their course! Click HERE to get the discount!  BONUS: Free 3-Day Course is happening right now and link is here: 3-day course and follow them on Instagram here. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Enjoy this message Havilah preached earlier this year at the She Conference. The Church is usually in one of two camps when it comes to spiritual warfare: the devil is everywhere or we ignore the devil. The war is already won, but we still have to know how to fight in the battles that come our way in life. Enjoy this profound teaching as Havilah breaks down how to fight a very real enemy who is coming to steal, kill and destroy the purpose and call on your life! You are meant to live the abundant life so you can know if you’re feeling mentally, emotionally or spiritually depleted it’s because your enemy is stealing from you. Listen in as Havilah restores your hope with a now message for you in this season. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Enjoy this message Havilah preached in San Jose earlier this month at the Unique Conference. Your call is too great and your purpose too essential to be deterred by offense. Shake the dust of offense off of you so you can go into your promised land free and clear! You don’t want to take the offense of the desert in with you to the next season and land God has sent you into. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

Havilah has so many things she wants to catch you up on today! Remember when the Cunnington’s started asking God if they were in the right place back in June? Remember when they visited Nashville? Tune in to hear their new thoughts on this and where God is leading them. Havilah shares the importance of really leaning into what God has for them instead of doing it and then asking for blessing in it. Waiting sucks, we get it! But waiting on God is never a bad idea. Havilah shares encouragement if you’re in a season where you don’t know what’s next and you’re longing for something different. What you have control over is today! So let’s focus on the one thing you can do to give God glory TODAY. You won’t want to miss the BIG NEWS that came out of a meeting with a few Bethel leaders recently and how it affects everything else in their world. Did someone say new home? Havilah is excited to dive head first into something new and we hope you stick around for the ride! P.S. Make sure you go back and listen to our Boundaries Series we did last month! P.P.S. Join Havilah for her brand new FREE event “Created For More: Defining Your Boundaries, Knowing God’s Voice, and Dreaming His Way” by saving your spot HERE! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

In today’s podcast with special guest Danny Silk, Havilah and Danny discuss how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Listen in as they talk about common themes that are experienced in ministry like how no one has taught Christians to say no to one another or how to be unhappy with one another. It sounds funny, but it’s true. We have been taught that people pleasing is ‘Godly’ and having people upset with us means we did something wrong. But is that true? Find your answers to the questions of what is AND IS NOT healthy in ministry and how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Also: Don’t forget to sign up for Havilah’s FREE EVENT: CREATED FOR MORE event at: https://www.thetruthacademy.com/created-for-more Get clear on boundaries and how to maintain them, how to chase your dream God’s way and how to hear God’s voice in every circumstance in your daily life! We are taking all of your most-asked questions and rolling it into a 3-Day exclusive event where Havilah will teach you everything you need to know about how to live your purpose and remove the blocks that stand in your way! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com

How do you set Boundaries in your workspace and still work with integrity? Having boundaries in the workplace is the kindest thing you can do for your employers. When you figure out your YES’s - your core values - your NO’s will get really clear. Your boss doesn’t burn you out - YOU burn you out. You train your employers what access they have to you. That doesn’t make you a bad employee it makes you more reliable and trustworthy. Boundaries are FOR us, not AGAINST someone else. Showing up like a spiritual grownup means you set boundaries, which is showing up more obediently to God. We serve God and not man; a fear of man will likely result in boundary issues in the workplace. Being clear on the boundaries of your role and duties, your boss’s role and duties and what hours you will be able to work to produce with excellence and bring maximum value to your role and responsibilities is foundational. Then, sticking to it and not allowing guilt or shame to run the show is the key to maintaining boundaries in your work! What did you think of this episode? Let us know in our socials! Can’t wait to hear from you on Facebook and Instagram - tag us in your stories + posts! @truthtotable @havilahcunnington