The balance between effort and surrender can be a tricky one to strike—we often feel the need to fix issues as soon as they come up. But in reality, surrendering to challenging times can actually have the opposite effect.On this episode of Building Resilience, we go over how we can achieve that balance between effort and surrender—where transformation and growth often occur. We’ll talk about the pitfalls of overexertion, the challenges of relinquishing control, and highlighting how balancing "grit and grace" can lead to sustainable success. Links:Ep.186 - Grit and GraceResources:  The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives. My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connections Membership---join the waitlist! Build resilience and foster growth through nervous system regulation and community support.It's Not Just Your Thoughts, It's Your Nervous System (with a Creative Twist)---A free workshop to map your nervous system and create a calm toolkit with simple, creative techniques. No artistic skills required!Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Words are a powerful thing—not just the ones we speak to others but the ones we say to ourselves. Words can shape our thoughts, which control our emotions, which ultimately drive our actions. They hold the power to lift us up or tear us down, sometimes in just a moment. But what if we could use words to build resilience, foster growth, and create a life filled with hope and possibility?On this episode of Building Resilience, I’m giving you a hack of mine—my list of "resilience-building words." These 10 simple yet impactful words can help shift your perspective, calm your nervous system, and keep you moving forward even in challenging times. This week, I challenge you to notice the words you use and try incorporating some of these resilience-building words into your vocabulary. You might be surprised by how much power they hold.Links:Ep. 68: The Amazing RaceResources:The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives. Connections Membership---join the waitlist! Build resilience and foster growth through nervous system regulation and community support.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.It's Not Just Your Thoughts, It's Your Nervous System (with a Creative Twist)---A free workshop to map your nervous system and create a calm toolkit with simple, creative techniques. No artistic skills required!Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you living a rich, fulfilling life, or are you waiting for the "right time" to enjoy it? Many of us are stuck saving for a future that may not come or waiting for the perfect moment to create memories. But what if the key to resilience and joy is found in living fully right now?On this episode of Building Resilience, I dive into the insights from the book Die With Zero by Bill Perkins. This transformative book challenges conventional thinking about wealth, health, and time, urging us to maximize life experiences while we can. I explore concepts like time buckets, memory dividends, and finding the balance between saving and savoring life. Resources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---join the waitlist! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Additional Resource:Die With Zero by Bill Perkins on Amazon– A must-read to rethink how you live and enjoy your life.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever felt a pull between staying safe in what's familiar and venturing into the unknown? It's a common experience to wrestle with the tension between who you've been and who you're becoming. As we step into 2025, how can we navigate this journey with trust, intention, and resilience?On this episode of Building Resilience, we'll get into the concept of your past, present, and future selves as your travel companions on the journey of life. I share a powerful visualization to help you better understand the roles these "selves" play, and how each can support your growth. You'll discover how to thank your past self, trust your future self, and navigate your present with compassion and courage. It's not too late to sign up for my free workshop, It's Not Just Your Thoughts, It's Your Nervous System (With a Creative Twist)! Join me on January 2 and 3.Resources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---join the waitlist! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever noticed how gratitude can transform even the toughest moments? It’s not just about saying “thank you” or counting blessings—it’s a profound practice that connects us to resilience, hope, and joy. But how do we lean into gratitude when life feels heavy, or when challenges arise that seem insurmountable?On this episode of Building Resilience, we get into the concept of deliberate gratitude. I share personal stories and practices, from meaningful holiday traditions to life-changing experiences that taught me the power of gratitude, even in adversity. We’ll talk about simple, actionable ways to cultivate gratitude, explore its impact on the nervous system, and discover how it can be a source of healing and connection.It’s not too late to sign up for my free workshop, It's Not Just Your Thoughts, It's Your Nervous System (With a Creative Twist)! Join me on January 2 and 3.Links:Ep. 110: The Zone of ResilienceResources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---join the waitlist! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Creativity isn't just for artists --- it can be an amazing tool to help calm your nervous system and expand your resilience. When life feels overwhelming, unlocking your creative side might be the unexpected solution you need.On this episode of Building Resilience, I’m teaching about the power of creativity for nervous system health. I'll explain how creative activities can signal safety to your brain, reduce stress by lowering cortisol levels, and reconnect you with joy and playfulness. Plus, I share practical strategies for incorporating creativity into your daily life --- even if you don't consider yourself a creative person. From five-minute creativity breaks to mindful practices, I’ll give you some simple ways to nurture your nervous system through creativity.Links:Workshop: It's Not Just Your Thoughts, It's Your Nervous System (With a Creative Twist): Sign up for free!Resources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---join the waitlist! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all know the stereotypes: the controlling mother-in-law, the aloof daughter-in-law. Why is this relationship often painted as inherently difficult, fraught with tension and unmet expectations? And what if it didn't have to be that way?On this episode of Building Resilience, I'm joined by LeAnn Austin, a master-certified life coach who specializes in helping women create more connection and fun, particularly with their daughters-in-law. Together, we explore the often complex dynamics of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship. Leann shares insights on expectations, communication styles, and the importance of connection. As Leann says, "You either love someone, or you don't understand them." Guest Links:Visit Leann Austin's website: leannaustin.comCheck out her podcast, Lovin My Daughter-in-LawGrab Leann's Connection Blueprint and One Question Guide at leannaustin.comFollow Leann on Instagram: @leannaustincoaching Resources:The "Memory Matters" course: cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution": a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress. Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform: it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram, or find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So often, we get caught up in managing symptoms, treating disease, and reacting to challenges---but what if the key to lasting wellness lies in flipping that script? What if, instead of focusing on reducing danger, we focused on increasing safety and resilience to heal ourselves.On this episode of Building Resilience, I explore the profound impact of adopting a wellness-centered mindset. We'll dive into how our language shapes health experiences, why the nervous system plays a pivotal role in resilience, and practical strategies to prioritize health and wellness over illness and disease. Drawing from concepts like salutogenesis, I share insights into how small changes in focus---like reframing our language and investing in daily nervous system resets---can lead to transformative growth.  Don't miss the upcoming "Doodle Your Nervous System" workshop on January 2nd and 3rd at 1 p.m. Eastern. Join me for a fun and interactive session where you'll explore creativity as a tool to reset your nervous system. Bring your favorite art supplies, and let's get doodling! (Replays will be available for a limited time)Links:Ep.127 - Affect LabelingResources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---join the waitlist! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happiness often feels like an elusive goal, something we're constantly striving for but never quite reaching. Is it about material wealth, ticking off life's achievements, or something deeper? And how do we cultivate it in a world that often feels overwhelming?On this episode of Building Resilience, I delve into the science of happiness, drawing from the groundbreaking research of Ed Diener and Robert Waldinger. Together, we explore the myths and truths about happiness, examining how perspective, connections, and aligning with personal values contribute to a fulfilling life. I share actionable insights about the power of micro-habits, gratitude, and finding purpose in everyday moments. Whether you're looking to deepen your relationships, prioritize what truly matters, or just embrace more joy in your life, this episode has something for you.Links:Ep. 110: The Zone of ResilienceResources:  The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.  The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.   My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Your nervous system shapes your daily life behind the scenes. It’s easy to overlook, but your nervous system is the hidden powerhouse behind your responses, emotions, and capacity to handle life’s challenges. When you understand and take care of it, it can unlock a whole new level of resilience and clarity.On this episode of Building Resilience, I sit down with two incredible guests, Lexie Hill and Erin Wallen, who share their transformative journeys in nervous system regulation. They discuss practical tools and techniques for nervous system resilience, including "game day tools" for in-the-moment regulation. From understanding the power of the vagus nerve to realizing how a regulated nervous system can enhance relationships, Lexie and Erin reveal why this knowledge is essential for thriving, not just surviving.Guest Links:Connect with Lexie Hill on her website and Instagram.Connect with Erin Wallen on Instagram or other socials.Resources:The "Memory Matters" course---cherish and protect your memories, they're invaluable.The Advanced Nervous System Resilience training---join the waitlist! Dive deep into understanding the nervous system and its role in our lives.My video series, "The 30 Second Burnout Solution"---a lifeline for those grappling with stress and burnout, especially compassion fatigue and secondary traumatic stress.Connect:Could you do me a favor? Please leave a review on your preferred podcast platform---it helps me reach more and more people. I'd also love to hear any insights or questions you have.You can also pay me a visit on Facebook or Instagram. You can also find me on my website and book a mini session with me! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.