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Have you ever wondered if your dating standards are too high? In this episode, we’re breaking down the critical difference between preferences and standards, and how understanding this distinction can transform your dating life. Many Christians find themselves stuck, unsure if their preferences are holding them back from the relationship God has for them. This conversation offers clarity on how to navigate these feelings, while examining what truly matters in a lasting, God-centered relationship. We dive into the common struggle of opposites attracting and then clashing, and explore how to redefine the "list" of qualities you've made for a partner. If you've ever questioned whether a relationship is missing something or felt frustrated with God's timing, this episode will help you reassess your approach and better align your relationship goals with His plan. You’ll gain fresh insights on what constitutes a nonnegotiable standard versus a negotiable preference, while also learning to trust God's timing in the process. Whether you’re currently dating or preparing for a future relationship, this conversation offers practical advice to help you find balance between maintaining your standards and being flexible with your preferences. Tune in to discover how to reevaluate your “list” and gain clarity on what really matters when it comes to your dating life. Subscribe now to make sure you don’t miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/  ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:38) - Who is this conversation for? (2:22) - Standards vs. preferences (5:00) - Rapid fire: standard or preference? (7:17) - Opposites attract until they attack (8:42) - How your preferences might be holding you back (10:45) - How to redefine your “list” (14:20) - Date Well (15:17) - Reevaluating your preferences  (18:35) - What is actually a nonnegotiable standard? (25:27) - What about when a relationship is missing something? (30:57) - God’s timing for relationships ============================= ============================= Connect with us: ============================= ➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠ ➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠ ➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠ ➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com 

She left OnlyFans and found Jesus – now she’s on a mission to expose the truth. In part two of this compelling conversation, former OnlyFans recruiter Victoria Sinis continues her powerful testimony, revealing what happened after she walked away from the OnlyFans industry. Victoria opens up about the immediate challenges she faced, including backlash and doubts, as she transitioned from recruiter to advocate against OnlyFans. This episode dives deep into how Victoria became a vocal critic of the industry she once supported, sharing how her faith in God led her to a life of purpose and advocacy. Victoria discusses how God doesn’t waste any season, showing how He can turn the darkest experiences into a testimony of hope and redemption. We also explore what it means to radically rely on God, especially when stepping out of a life that was once lucrative but spiritually empty. Victoria’s story is a powerful reminder that God’s plan is always greater than what we can imagine, and His love is the key to true freedom. In this episode, you'll learn: The immediate aftermath of leaving OnlyFans How Victoria became an advocate against the OnlyFans industry The importance of trusting God in all seasons of life A message from an Ex-OnlyFans recruiter to the church Don’t miss out on this eye-opening conversation that exposes the dark realities of OnlyFans and offers hope for those seeking a way out. Subscribe now to stay updated on more life-changing testimonies! 🎧 Listen now and share your thoughts below 👇 ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:03) - Immediately after leaving OnlyFans (6:38) - Becoming an advocate against OnlyFans (14:39) - God doesn’t waste any season (15:55) - What it looks like to radically rely on God (22:30) - God has a plan for you is better than you can fathom (25:03) - Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter’s message to the church ============================= Connect with us: ============================= ➡︎ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc⁠ ➡︎ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/ ⁠ ➡︎ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev⁠ ➡︎ Website: ⁠http://www.moralrevolution.com 

She used to recruit girls to do OnlyFans, but then she met Jesus. Now she’s exposing the dark side of the porn industry.  In this eye-opening conversation, former Only Fans recruiter Victoria Sinis pulls back the curtain on the dark side of OnlyFans. She shares a candid look into her life as a recruiter, revealing the deceptive tactics used to lure women into the OnlyFans world. Victoria discusses the illusion of fulfillment many girls chase, only to find themselves trapped in a cycle of exploitation and false promises. The interview takes a powerful turn as Victoria recounts her radical conversion and encounter with God, which opened her eyes to the evil she was part of. Her testimony is a powerful reminder that God's love can bring transformation and healing even in the darkest places. Victoria’s story shines a light on the truth behind OnlyFans agencies and the marketing strategies that keep girls ensnared. She offers a powerful message to those struggling in the OnlyFans lifestyle, sharing how she broke free and found true purpose and fulfillment through her relationship with Jesus. Listen now to hear how Victoria’s life was changed forever and to gain insight into the hidden realities of the OnlyFans industry. This is just part one of her incredible journey. Subscribe now so you don’t miss part two! 🎧 Listen now and subscribe so you don't miss part 2! ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (2:35) - How Victoria started working for an OnlyFans agency (4:14) - Misconceptions around OnlyFans (6:35) - How redefining language is dangerous (7:42) - How the party life of drugs and alcohol leaves you empty (11:41) - What is OnlyFans? (14:17) - How an OnlyFans Agency really works (16:08) - Average wage of Only Fans workers and how the enemy distorts our vision (23:40) - Behind the curtain of marketing for Only Fans (29:45) - A day in the life of an OnlyFans Recruiter (32:15) - Shattering the illusion of fulfillment (36:12) - How her agency recruited girls to OnlyFans (38:35) -  Victoria’s eyes were opened to the evil happening behind the scenes (42:03) - Victoria’s radical conversion and encounter with God (46:21) - How God meets us in the darkest places of our lives and loves us back to life (49:03) - A message to the OnlyFans consumer (53:12) - How girls get trapped in OnlyFans lifestyle ============================= Connect with us: ============================= ➡︎ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/  ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com 

Breaking up is never easy, but understanding the process can help you move forward. Breakups - it's the often unavoidable part of dating. They have to happen in all but one of your dating relationships, but could you do it in a way that doesn’t leave you scarred or wounded? We’re here to help you break up in such a way that it leaves you both with a clear sense of closure and freedom to move on as healthy and whole as possible. In this episode, we dive into the complexities of ending a relationship and how to heal afterward. We cover…   👉 The fear that surrounds breakups   👉 Good reasons to break up    👉 Lies we tell ourselves in the process   👉 How to break up well   👉 Taking a break vs a breakup    👉 How to set good expectations for the future   👉 How to recover after the relationship Join us as we offer support, insights, and encouragement to navigate the end of a relationship with grace and resilience. Looking for more tools for how to date well? Join our Date Well Community ➡︎  www.letsdatewell.com 🎧 Listen now and share your thoughts below 👇 ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= 0:00 - Intro 8:36 - Reasons for a breakup 15:39 - How feedback from friends can help your relational cycles 19:00 - The ebbs and flows of relationships aren’t a bad thing 24:00 - How to actually break up 36:55 - Prepare your mind with the goal of your breakup 39:22 - Taking a break vs a break up 42:19 - How to recover after a breakup  50:36 - A prayer for anyone going through a breakup  ============================= Connect with us: ============================= ➡︎ YouTube:@MoralRevolutionInc ➡︎ IG: @moralrevolution ➡︎ TikTok: @moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com 

It's time we stop talking about pornography as if only men struggle with it. Women are struggling with pornography too... but sometimes the motivators behind porn consumption for women are different than men. So why is no one talking about it?? Maybe the silence is due to shame, maybe it’s because it's viewed as a "man's issue," or maybe it's because it opens up parts of our past we don’t want to look at, but the cost of silence is keeping women in cycles of bondage. It's time to talk about it. In this episode, we sit down with Katy Harris who not only shares her journey with pornography, but how she now leads hundreds of women on the journey to freedom. This is a powerful conversation on the power of God's love to break through every chain – even pornography. Don’t forget to join our Finally Free Event (or watch the replay)  📆 Finally Free Event - Register here:⁠ https://www.moralrevolution.com/finally-free⁠ 

Sex. It's everywhere in our culture, but in so many instances the church is still too uncomfortable to talk about it.  Here at Moral Revolution, we’re committed to having the conversations that may make others uncomfortable, because we know God has a beautiful design for sex and sexuality. It’s a design that when an individual gets a vision for, their lives will never be the same.  On today’s podcast we’re joined by Mo Isom Aiken, a person who is unafraid to go straight to the heart of the conversation about sex, culture, Jesus, the Church, and how it all fits together. In this episode, Mo shares her personal journey and revelation about: 👉 Why “How far is too far?” is the wrong question 👉 The difference between virginity and purity and why they are not the same 👉 What deliverance from pornography really looks like 👉 How to actually know your value and live accordingly 👉 How God radically met her in the midst of her sin and transformed her life If you take away one thing from this conversation we hope it’s this: the safe, politically-correct, church answers you often settle for will no longer help in these conversations. It’s time to dig deep, and ask God what He’s really saying about sex and culture. Mo's bold testimony and unwavering faith offer a fresh perspective on God's original design for sex. Whether you're struggling with addiction, facing pressures in a relationship, or simply seeking clarity, this conversation is for you. ============================= Connect with us: ============================= ➡︎ YouTube: @MoralRevolutionInc  ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moralrevolution/  ➡︎ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moralrev ➡︎ Website: http://www.moralrevolution.com  ============================= Connect with Mo: ============================= ➡︎ IG: https://www.instagram.com/moisom/, https://www.instagram.com/5thwheelmissions/  ➡︎ Website: https://moisom.com/ ➡︎ Book: Sex, Jesus, and Conversations the Church Forgot: https://amzn.to/3Wl1iZM  ➡︎ Book: Fully Known:  https://amzn.to/4f74i3e  ➡︎ Book: Wreck My Life: https://amzn.to/3VXDJVq 

It’s not uncommon to hear of men struggling with porn, but it’s less common to hear men NOT watching porn anymore. Why does it seem to be so complicated to get free? Maybe it’s because we’ve been trying to do it the wrong way. In this episode, Aaron Zint, leader of the Whole Man Project, sits down and unpacks some key questions we knew were vital to this conversation.  👉They’re so many men struggling who don’t want to be, they think they’re working to get free…but why aren’t they getting free?   👉What are the key motivators behind why a man is looking at porn?   👉What purpose or effect does confession and prayer actually have in the process?  👉What should the freedom process really look like? What are milestones along the way?  👉What’s the difference between sobriety and freedom?  Resources Mentioned:  📖 Numb to Known Book  ⁠https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/numb-to-known⁠  📆 Finally Free Event  ⁠https://www.moralrevolution.com/finally-free⁠  💻 Online small groups for men → Aaronzint@gmail.com  ⁠https://aaronzint.wixsite.com/website/services-7

It’s becoming more and more coMmon for someone you know to “come out” as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or questioning. But what should a Christian’s response be?  What is the right language to meet someone with compassion yet hold a standard of truth? While discovering these, we realized there are many well-meaning Christians or pastors who think they’re saying the right thing, but cause more hurt and damage to the individual's healing journey. Caleb Boggan, Director of Pastoral Care at  CHANGED Movement, has gathered these top ten responses as “Failed First Responses” and helps us know what TO say instead.  RESOURCES MENTIONED:  Self Discovery Booklet: How Our Childhood Shaped Our Sexual Identity 👉 https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/self-discovery-book CHANGED Movement : Testimonies of individuals leaving LGBTQ Lifestyle 👉https://changedmovement.com/  Navigating LGBTQ:  👉 https://shop.moralrevolution.com/products/navigating-lgbtq

Pride Month hits and there's a spectrum of responses that hit our culture. Some think we should boycott every store with a rainbow flag on display, others think we should just love and accept everyone, and some are wondering why we're evening asking the question. Come join Elizabeth Woning, a oncegay pastor, who went to seminary openly gay and then encountered God and left the lifestyle. She shares with us insights on the LGBTQ experience, how the LGBTQ community has changed, and how we can love and hold a boundary. Get the Navigating LGBTQ Series at navigatinglgbtq.com.

We asked you your most pressing questions you wanted to know about sexuality. We compiled them and here's episode 2 of your raw unfiltered questions live on our podcast. Here's the top questions you asked: 👉 Is oral sex considered sex? 👉 In marriage, is oral sex considered a sin? 👉 I just got married, are there things that are off-limits, like BDSM? 👉 Are sexual fantasies okay if you're not looking at porn? 👉 Can someone struggling with porn connect deeply with their partner? 👉 What are some practical boundaries to have when dating and engaged? 👉 What hope do we have if we’re married but we sinned before we’re married? What questions do you have that we missed? Leave them in the comments below! Support the podcast: www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast