
Understanding Emotions
How do we become more emotionally intelligent? How do we set boundaries? Join me in this podcast as we explore every corner of our minds. Our mission? To live the most healthy and happy life possible.
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Apr 3, 2024 • 1h 4min
Columbia Professor: Leadership, Emotional Intelligence, Stoicism, Escaping Death | Chuck Garcia
Chuck Garcia is the founder of Climb Leadership International and coaches executives worldwide on public speaking, emotional intelligence, and executive presence. His clients include many of the world’s best and biggest companies. He is a motivational speaker, Amazon bestselling author of A Climb to the Top, and teaches at Columbia University. Chuck is also a passionate and accomplished mountaineer who has scaled peaks all over the world. He formerly spent twenty-five years in leadership positions at Bloomberg, BlackRock, and Citadel Investment Management. His new book, The Moment That Defines Your Life was released on February 6th and distributed by Simon & Schuster.
00:00 Trailer
00:51 Introduction
02:17 Conversation starts
02:41 Chuck's Life-Changing Experience on 9/11
07:51 From Wall Street to Mountaineering: A Career Transformation
09:02 Family Perspectives and Emotional Aftermath
11:29 Embracing a New Career Path: The Journey of Teaching and Coaching
14:34 The Power of Mentorship and Learning from the Mountains
19:14 Does academia fail to create inspiration?
23:54 Stoicism Meets Emotional Intelligence
33:28 Navigating People Pleasing and Niceness
34:55 The Pitfalls of Trying Too Hard
35:52 Eulogy Virtues vs Resume Virtues
37:47 The Power of Genuine Connections
39:26 Cultural Differences in Communication and Assertiveness
40:46 Embracing Nonconformity: Lessons from Churchill and Gandhi
49:16 Emotional security vs courage
50:42 Building Credibility, Trust, and Respect in Your Career
54:15 Public Speaking and Communication
59:59 Final Thoughts: Changing Yourself to Change the World
01:02:55 Wrapping up

Mar 26, 2024 • 14min
Bryan Johnson: "Nothing matters in life without mental health" "Make health your #1 priority"
In this episode, I talk to Bryan Johnson about mental health, social connection, and more.
Free guide on emotional intelligence: https://newsletter.sankalpgarud.org/52waysguide
Bryan Johnson is the world's most measured human. Johnson sold his company, Braintree Venmo, to PayPal for $800m in 2013. Through his Project Blueprint, Johnson has achieved metabolic health equal to the top 1.5% of 18 year olds, inflammation 66% lower than the average 10 year old, and reduced his speed of aging by the equivalent of 31 years.
Johnson freely shares his protocols and data publicly for everyone to use. Project Blueprint, is an endeavor to achieve humanity and earth scale cooperation starting within Self.
0:00 Trailer
00:40 Bryan's Introduction
02:57 Does mental health matter to Bryan?
03:59 Relationship between mental health and physical health
05:10 Bryan's relationship with death
06:45 Maintaining gratitude for life in the absence of death
09:12 Lessons from religious upbringing
10:18 Bryan's take on relationships
11:50 Making health a priority

Mar 19, 2024 • 1h 29min
Psychology vs Politics Expert | Happiness, Morality, and Big Political Ideas That Shaped The World
Free guide: 52 Ways to Be More Emotionally Intelligent https://newsletter.sankalpgarud.org/52waysguide
In this podcast, I talk to Sanat Sogani on the intersection between psychology and politics. We discuss a range of issues from the history of political theory to morality and Buddhism. I hope you find this discussion engaging.
Sanat Sogani is a PhD student in Political Theory at the Central European University in Vienna.
(00:00) Introduction
(02:24) Psychology and Politics discussion begins
(05:35) What is politics
(11:36) Key Ideas of Politics
12:36 Plato and Socrates
13:24 Aristotle
14:28 Hobbes
15:55 Rousseau
17:33 Hobbes vs Rousseau
18:23 Kant
19:36 Marx
20:31 Rawls
21:41 Feminism
22:15 Nancy Fraser & Elizabeth Anderson
24:00 Confucius and Eastern Thinkers
26:52 Which thinker influenced Sanat the most?
27:57 Is Rishi Sunak Kantian?
29:46 Buddhism, Religion and Atheism
34:51 Where does religion go wrong?
35:38 Deontology vs utilitarianism
38:51 The trolley problem
41:18 Trolley problem in the pandemic
42:04 Buddhist philosophy
43:47 Is growth limited to a few?
45:47 The problem of psychopathy and bad actors
46:23 Problems inherent in Buddhsim and any belief system
48:39 Liberalism
50:16 Is political theory useful in day to day life?
54:32 Arriving at political conclusions through psychological premises
55:02 Agency and mental health
57:49 Intersection of psychology and politics
01:00:27 Status and social hierarchies
01:04:50 Morality
01:09:43 Sankalp's views on where morality comes from
01:11:02 Jonathan Haidt's Moral Foundation Theory
01:14:20 Marriage
01:19:25 Conform or Rebel: How to Decide?
01:22:18 Protests
01:24:05 Books & resources to learn political theory
01:25:25 Left - right spectrum
01:28:06 Wrapping up

Mar 3, 2024 • 45min
UE #61: The risks and dangers of meditation
In this episode, we talk about the risks of meditation practice.52 ways to be more emotionally intelligent (free guidebook): https://newsletter.sankalpgarud.org/52waysguideFinancial times podcast: https://www.ft.com/content/b3ec8e57-5cf9-4f96-9267-56c3bcd9c10200:00 Introduction03:06 Announcement04:00 Motivation (Untold: The Retreat Podcast)06:16 What are meditation retreats08:23 Categories of meditation related problems11:34 Psychological problems stemming from physical problems11:59 Sleep related disturbances15:39 Nutrition related problems19:37 Socio-psychological Problems23:00 Cultlike elements in meditation28:09 Critical Thinking29:04 Political Polarisation29:57 Mental Health Problems30:10 Psychotic episodes31:31 The purpose of meditation36:12 Perfectionism37:33 Insights40:52 Reaching out for help and potential pitfalls42:36 AftershowWebsite: sankalpgarud.orgListen on Spotify/iTunes/RSS/Web PlayerSign up for the mailing list!Please share the podcast using the links below. If you wish to contact me for feedback/suggestions/comments, please get in touch using this contact form. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jan 5, 2024 • 14min
UE #59: The four attachment styles
In this episode, we talk about the four attachment styles. This is a audio excerpt from my YouTube video on the same topic! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Nov 28, 2023 • 1h 25min
UE #58: How to Stop Being Nice - Conversation with Dr Aziz Gazipura
In this episode, we discuss how to stop being nice. This is an episode with Dr Aziz GazipuraFree guide: https://newsletter.sankalpgarud.org/52waysguideWebsite: sankalpgarud.org Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oct 23, 2023 • 31min
UE #57: How to deal with unpleasant emotions
In this episode, we talk about how to deal with negative emotionsWebsite: sankalpgarud.orgListen on Spotify/iTunes/RSS/Web PlayerSign up for the mailing list!Please share the podcast using the links below. If you wish to contact me for feedback/suggestions/comments, please get in touch using this contact form. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 17, 2023 • 41min
UE #56: The Epistemology of Emotional Intelligence (and what qualifies someone to be an expert?)
In this podcast, I talk about the epistemology of emotional intelligence. Website: sankalpgarud.orgListen on Spotify/iTunes/RSS/Web PlayerSign up for the mailing list!Please share the podcast using the links below. If you wish to contact me for feedback/suggestions/comments, please get in touch using this contact form. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 5, 2023 • 14min
UE #55: How to build self-esteem
In this epidose, I discuss self esteemInstant Emotional Intelligence WorkbookWebsite: sankalpgarud.orgListen on Spotify/iTunes/RSS/Web PlayerSign up for the mailing list!Please share the podcast using the links below. If you wish to contact me for feedback/suggestions/comments, please get in touch using this contact form. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 31, 2023 • 36min
UE #54: How to be Confident - Deep Dive
In this podcast, we discuss confidence.Get 52 ways to be emotionally intelligent guidebookListen on Spotify/iTunes/RSS/Web PlayerSign up for the mailing list!Please share the podcast using the links below. If you wish to contact me for feedback/suggestions/comments, please get in touch using this contact form. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.