

Raising Lifelong Learners
Colleen Kessler
The Raising Lifelong Learners podcast helps homeschooling parents encourage their differently-wired kids to learn, explore passions, cultivate creativity, and become fascinated by the world around them. Join host Colleen Kessler -- educational consultant, gifted specialist, author, and speaker -- for interviews, audioblogs, tips, and encouragement to help your differently-wired kiddos become lifelong learners -- children who know that they can find the answers to anything they want to know if they can just view their world with play, passion, and fascination.
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Mar 6, 2025 • 27min
Understanding Executive Function Skills in Gifted and Twice-Exceptional Children
In this episode of the podcast, we dive into what executive function skills actually are, likening them to a control center or the CEO of your body. These skills encompass planning, organization, time management, task initiation, working memory, and self-regulation, among others. But why do so many gifted and neurodivergent kids struggle with them? The answer often lies in asynchronous development. Different parts of their brain mature at different rates, leading to a brilliant child who can solve complex math problems, yet forgets their socks. But rest assured, executive function skills can be taught and strengthened over time! Key Takeaways: Visibility Matters: Use visual schedules and step-by-step breakdowns for tasks. This makes intangible routines more tangible for your child. Teach Time Awareness: Utilize visual timers and create consistent routines. Games like "Beat the Timer" can make learning time fun rather than stressful. Incorporate Breaks & Movement: Allow your children to move around, use brain breaks, and include snacks to reset focus. One Task at a Time: Present tasks singularly to prevent overwhelm and foster success. Keep an eye out for our upcoming course on executive function skills, perfect for you and your child to work through together. Stay tuned for more information by joining our newsletter if you haven't already—it's the best way to ensure you're up-to-date with the latest resources and support. Don't forget, The Learner's Lab is also a fantastic resource for in-depth strategies, activities, and group coaching sessions that can further aid your journey in supporting your child's development. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don't forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Strengthening Executive Function Skills: A Conversation with Sarah Collins Strengthen Executive Function Skills The Best Books for Teaching About Executive Functions Skills 7 Executive Functioning Activities for Small Children RLL #84: Exploring Education and Executive Function with Seth Perler The Unmeasured Executive Functioning Issue RLL 20: Helping Your Kiddo with Executive Function Skills Struggles | A Listener Question RLL LIVE | Improving Executive Functions Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Feb 12, 2025 • 37min
Understanding Asynchrony in Gifted Children
Explore the intriguing concept of asynchronous development in gifted children, where advanced cognitive skills clash with emotional intensity. Discover how this unique blend requires innovative parenting and teaching strategies. Learn to adjust expectations, celebrate strengths, and provide tailored educational experiences beyond traditional methods. The importance of connecting with intellectual peers and fostering emotional growth through effective strategies is emphasized as essential for nurturing these exceptional learners.

Jan 29, 2025 • 24min
Developing Confidence in Differently Wired Kids
This week, we wrap up our series on the 6 Cs of Homeschooling Success from Colleen's new book, The Homeschool Advantage. In this final episode, we dive deep into the power of Confidence and how to nurture it in our kiddos. Key Takeaways: Encourage the Willingness to Try: Confidence begins with the courage to take risks and step out of comfort zones. Emphasizing the effort over instant understanding encourages kids to keep trying new things. Develop Persistence and Grit: Persistence, or "grit," is crucial for sticking with long-term goals even when facing challenges. Providing a safe space for failure and growth helps build resilient, capable adults. Model Confidence Through Action: Our kids are always watching us; showing how we handle setbacks and take risks teaches them valuable lessons. Praising effort over intelligence and asking reflective questions help them learn from mistakes and build self-belief. Dive into this episode to learn more about fostering confidence in your homeschool journey! Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don't forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell The Powerful Relationship Between Confidence And Learning In Our Homeschools A Deep Dive into The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Embracing Child-Focused Learning | A Guide for Homeschooling Neurodivergent Children The Importance of Happiness in Homeschooling | A Guide for Parents Embracing Play for Teens | Growth and Resilience Delight-Directed Learner Turned Published Author | A Conversation with Millie Florence Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Jan 17, 2025 • 25min
Embracing Creativity in Homeschooling
In this week's episode, we dive deep into a favorite topic—creativity. This episode is all about how to nurture and develop creativity in your children, teaching them to think outside the box and develop innovative solutions to everyday problems. Here's a snapshot of what to expect in this episode: Key Takeaways: Understanding Creativity: Creativity extends beyond just the arts and can be applied in science, business, and problem-solving. Nurturing Creativity: It's important to create an environment at home that supports and encourages creative thinking. Creative Thinking in Action: Creativity impacts children's perceptions of themselves positively as creative individuals. Listen to the episode now and explore how you can cultivate a culture of creativity within your homeschool. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don't forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Fostering Creativity and Critical Thinking | A Conversation with Puzzlemaker Eric Berlin Unleashing Childhood Creativity in the Homeschool Environment Creative Thinking Activities for Kids RLL #90: Cultivating Creative Writers with Celeste Davidson Great Resources for Curious & Creative Homeschoolers Finding Peace in a Life Filled with Intensity: Managing Overexcitabilities in Smart and Creative Kids RLL 06 S.D. Smith: Cultivating Creativity Through New Stories with an Old Soul Inspiring Creativity in Kids Raising Creative Kids | Upcycled Finger Puppets Raising Creative Kids | Simple Prompts to Spark Imagination Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Jan 8, 2025 • 25min
The Role of Critical Thinking in Homeschooling
In today's episode, we chat about the fourth C of homeschooling success: Critical Thinking. This indispensable skill is more relevant than ever in our fast-paced, information-saturated world. Here's a glimpse of what you can expect from Episode 267: Key Takeaways: Definition and Importance of Critical Thinking: Understand what critical thinking truly means and why it's crucial for our kids to develop this ability. Engaging Your Kids: Learn practical strategies, such as asking open-ended questions, storytelling, and integrating games and play to foster critical thinking at home. Real-Life Applications: Discover how discussing literature and everyday situations can build your child's ability to analyze, evaluate, and form independent judgments. Respectful Parenting: Create an environment that values curiosity and respects differing opinions, setting the stage for lifelong learners who are confident to question and innovate. Listen to the episode now and explore how you can cultivate a culture of critical thinking within your homeschool. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don't forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Ultimate Growing Unit Study Bundle Building Strong Family Teams | Tips for Connection and Collaboration Building Strong Family Bonds | A Conversation with Andee Martineau Strengthening Bonds | Building Family Routines and Rituals The Importance of Happiness in Homeschooling | A Guide for Parents Homeschooling Success | The Role of Strong Family Connections Fostering Teamwork | The Power of Collaborative Learning in Homeschooling Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell Helping Our Kids Self-Regulate with Sarah Collins The Anxiety Toolkit Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

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Dec 4, 2024 • 32min
Rethinking Content | Transforming Education Through Homeschooling
This discussion dives into the real meaning of 'content' in homeschooling, advocating for teaching kids how to think and explore rather than just memorize facts. It emphasizes the importance of personalizing education to align with each child's interests, fostering curiosity and engagement. The conversation also reflects on the limitations of traditional education methods, encouraging parents to model lifelong learning and embrace unique learning journeys. The overall message? There's no perfect curriculum; it's all about what fits best for each family.

Nov 21, 2024 • 36min
Nurturing Communication Skills in Your Homeschool
In this episode of the podcast, we explore the importance of nurturing communication skills at home. From weekly family meetings to a powerful personal story about her daughter Logan's experience with anxiety, Colleen shares invaluable insights on how open dialogue can build stronger relationships and boost children's confidence. Discover how communication entwined with empathy is essential for thriving in today's world, and get tips on fostering these skills in homeschooling and digital environments. Plus, get a sneak peek into next week's topic—the third C, Content! Key Takeaways: Weekly Family Meetings: Discover how traditionally held weekly meetings can foster mutual respect and support. Building Communication Skills: Learn why open dialogue and active listening are essential for relationship building, deep engagement with material, and confident growth. Social Media & Digital Etiquette: Get tips on helping your children navigate the online world responsibly, using real-life examples. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don't forget to grab Colleen's new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Building Strong Family Teams | Tips for Connection and Collaboration Building Strong Family Bonds | A Conversation with Andee Martineau Strengthening Bonds | Building Family Routines and Rituals The Importance of Happiness in Homeschooling | A Guide for Parents Homeschooling Success | The Role of Strong Family Connections Fostering Teamwork | The Power of Collaborative Learning in Homeschooling Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell Helping Our Kids Self-Regulate with Sarah Collins The Anxiety Toolkit Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Nov 13, 2024 • 29min
Raising Successful Children | The Power of Collaboration in Homeschooling
In this episode, we explore the importance of collaboration as a foundational skill for our children. From understanding the science behind our social brains to practical homeschooling tips, this episode is packed with valuable insights and inspiring anecdotes. Key Takeaways: The Six Cs:Dive into the six key skills identified by Dr. Kathy Hirsch Pasek—Collaboration, Communication, Content, Critical Thinking, Creativity, and Confidence—that foster lifelong learning. Storytime:Listen to Colleen's heartfelt story about her daughter Molly's innovative approach to a homeschool science project, illustrating the power of collaboration. Practical Tips:Discover ways to build collaborative skills at home, whether or not you're involved in a homeschool co-op, including creative projects, family meetings, and pretend play. Sneak Peek at Next Week Next week, we'll be focusing on Communication, the second of the six Cs. Colleen will discuss how this vital skill acts as a cornerstone for effective collaboration and how we can foster strong communication abilities in our kids. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don't forget to grab Colleen's new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Building Strong Family Teams | Tips for Connection and Collaboration Building Strong Family Bonds | A Conversation with Andee Martineau Strengthening Bonds | Building Family Routines and Rituals The Importance of Happiness in Homeschooling | A Guide for Parents Homeschooling Success | The Role of Strong Family Connections Fostering Teamwork | The Power of Collaborative Learning in Homeschooling Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell Helping Our Kids Self-Regulate with Sarah Collins The Anxiety Toolkit Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Oct 31, 2024 • 31min
Overcoming Sleep Struggles: Tips for Neurodiverse Families
In this week's episode, we dive deep into a topic that's a challenge for many families: sleep. Whether you're homeschooling neurodivergent kiddos, navigating giftedness, twice-exceptionality, or simply dealing with heightened anxiety, quality sleep is essential—and tricky to achieve. Key Takeaways: Establish Consistent Sleep Routines: Structure is essential for signaling our brains to wind down. Even simple routines like a warm bath, brushing teeth, and reading can make a substantial difference over time. Optimize the Sleep Environment: Tailor the bedroom setup to your child's sensory preferences. From using white noise machines to experimenting with bedding textures, creating a sleep-friendly environment is foundational. Addressing Anxiety and Screen Time: Tools like worry boxes, guided meditation, and limiting screen time before bed can significantly reduce nighttime anxieties and help improve sleep quality. Here's a challenge for you -- try to shake up your family's sleep routine, then share what's working! You can share and tag us on social media or hit reply to this email. Let's celebrate improved habits together! Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Do Gifted Kids Need Less Sleep? {Establishing Better Sleep Habits} This is Why Your Gifted Child Struggles to Fall Asleep 100 Hints That Your Child May Be Gifted The Anxiety Toolkit Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Oct 17, 2024 • 28min
Why Play Matters | Unleashing Lifelong Learning Through Play
In this episode, we dive deep into the power of play and why it matters at every stage of childhood! Whether you're homeschooling or just juggling parenting, incorporating play can ignite a lifelong love of learning and create magical moments of discovery. From mealworm mazes to Viking bread, we explore how playful learning leads to unexpected adventures and lasting knowledge. So, gather your kids, embrace the fun, and let's make learning an exciting journey together! Tune in now and discover practical tips and heartwarming stories that will inspire you to add more play into your routine. Key Takeaways: Importance of Play: Play is crucial at all stages of development, not just early childhood. It supports critical thinking skills, creativity, problem-solving, and social and emotional development, which are essential for both neurotypical and neurodivergent children. Incorporating Play into Homeschooling: Play should be integrated into homeschooling to make learning enjoyable and effective. This can range from using building blocks and sensory bins for younger children to strategy games and creative projects for older kids. Adaptation of Play with Age: Play evolves as children grow. For young children, it might involve sensory play and role-playing. For older kids and teens, it can include activities like strategy games, creative hobbies, and physical activities. Educational Benefits of Play: Research indicates that playful learning is more effective than passive instruction. It allows kids to retain more information through hands-on, engaging activities. Social and Emotional Learning: Play enhances emotional intelligence and social skills. It helps children manage emotions, develop empathy, and understand different perspectives, which is especially beneficial for neurodivergent children. Unstructured vs. Structured Play: Both unstructured play (imaginative play, free play) and structured play (board games, organized sports) have unique educational benefits. Unstructured play fosters creativity and imagination, while structured play helps reinforce concepts and critical thinking. Play as a Gateway for Neurodivergent Kids: Playful learning can help neurodivergent children grasp difficult concepts more easily. For instance, kids with dyslexia might benefit from interactive word games, while children with dysgraphia could engage in playful handwriting exercises. Family Bonding through Play: Engaging in playful activities as a family strengthens bonds and creates lasting memories. This could be through family game nights, outdoor adventures, or creative projects done together. Resilience and Perseverance: Embracing play, even when it deviates from expectations, models resilience and perseverance for children. It demonstrates that it's okay to enjoy the learning process and adapt to different situations. Continual Offering of Play: For children who resist play, it's important to keep offering and introducing new playful activities. Over time, they may find something that resonates with them, making learning more engaging and enjoyable. Here's a challenge for you -- reflect on your week's learning adventures and share them on social media (don't forget to tag us!) or with us directly through the Learner's Lab. Let's celebrate curiosity and lifelong learning together! Links and Resources from Today's Episode Our sponsor for today's episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Embracing Play for Teens | Growth and Resilience Benefits of Keeping It Playful With Teens How a Return to Outside Play Will Help Our Kids Thrive with Ginny Yurich Play-Based Learning In Your Homeschool: It's More Than Just Board Games The Importance Of Play For Your Entire Family Enjoy Your Kids: Play, Live, & Love Intentionally Teaching Kids to Play with Others The Learning Game | A Conversation with Ana Lorena Fabrega Magnificent Music Games The Ultimate Guide To Using Games In Your Homeschool Great Geography Games to Czech Out Games to Get You Moving Math Games to Multiply The Fun! Games to Help Improve Your Kid's Emotional Intelligence Games to Help Kids Control Their Anger Games to Help Your Kids Learn Mindfulness at Home Learning with Games | Blocks Rock! Nature Themed Games Your Kids Will Love Amazing Science Games Your Kids Will Love One Person Logic Games that Rock Family Night Game Guide Top 25 Board Games Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler


