

Raising Lifelong Learners
Colleen Kessler
The Raising Lifelong Learners podcast helps homeschooling parents encourage their differently-wired kids to learn, explore passions, cultivate creativity, and become fascinated by the world around them. Join host Colleen Kessler -- educational consultant, gifted specialist, author, and speaker -- for interviews, audioblogs, tips, and encouragement to help your differently-wired kiddos become lifelong learners -- children who know that they can find the answers to anything they want to know if they can just view their world with play, passion, and fascination.
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Apr 16, 2025 • 34min
The Power of Connection in Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kids
In this episode, we dive deep into the power of connection and how it can transform your homeschool and family life. Homeschooling, especially with differently wired kiddos, comes with its set of challenges, and prioritizing connection over perfection is the key to a thriving environment where your children feel safe, seen, and valued. Key Takeaways: The 'Why' Behind Connection: It's not just a nice-to-have; it's neurologically necessary, especially for our neurodivergent kiddos. Real-Life Connection Strategies: From morning cuddles to evening debriefs, we're sharing practical ways to weave connection into your day without overwhelming yourself. Overcoming Challenges: Sensory overload, power struggles, perfectionism, and parental guilt—these common roadblocks don't stand a chance against the strategies we cover. Become a Student of Your Child: Learn unique ways to tune into your child’s needs and how those small, consistent moments can make all the difference. Plus, our upcoming Family Connection Challenge in The Learner's Lab will provide fun activities and prizes to help reinforce these principles in an engaging way. Remember, your presence and effort are so much more valuable than you might think. You are already doing an incredible job just by showing up, listening to resources like this, and loving your kids in the best way you know how. Keep an eye out for new courses and coaching programs, perfect for your family. Stay tuned for more information by joining our newsletter if you haven’t already—it’s the best way to ensure you’re up-to-date with the latest resources and support. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It’s a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today’s Episode Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Building Strong Family Teams | Tips for Connection and Collaboration Homeschooling Success | The Role of Strong Family Connections The Power of Connecting with Your Kids in Homeschooling A Different Kind Of Family Togetherness: Ideas and Encouragement For Connecting With Our Kids RLL #102: A Conversation about Connection with Shawna Wingert RLL 10 Sarah MacKenzie: Building Connections Through Books Inspire a Love for Learning at Home Developing Confidence in Differently Wired Kids Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Apr 2, 2025 • 28min
Cultivating Leadership Skills in Homeschooling
This week's episode is all about cultivating leadership skills in our kiddos, especially those amazing outside-the-box thinkers. We dive into a type of leadership that’s less about rallying a group and more about creativity, kindness, and empathy. We go over ways to nurture these qualities in your homeschool environment and everyday family life. This is part of our focus for the month in the Learner's Lab, where leadership takes center stage. Key Takeaways: Why Leadership Matters: Discover how leadership skills enhance problem-solving, empathy, and adaptability, crucial for every child, especially in neurodivergent families. Homeschool Activities: Try fun activities like planning field trips and hosting family meetings to foster leadership in children. Perfect for practical application at home! Creative Leadership: Explore how homeschool settings provide the perfect environment for kids to experiment and build resilience without external pressures. Resources Galore: We have a treasure trove of resources, including books, movies, and unit studies, plus four years of activities in the Learner’s Lab to enrich your homeschool journey. Also, don’t miss our upcoming EQ Quest in The Learner's Lab, where your family can dive into emotional intelligence activities centered on leadership. It's a fantastic opportunity for you and your kids to learn and grow together. Keep an eye out for new courses and coaching programs, perfect for your family. Stay tuned for more information by joining our newsletter if you haven’t already—it’s the best way to ensure you’re up-to-date with the latest resources and support. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It’s a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today’s Episode Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Why Play Matters | Unleashing Lifelong Learning Through Play What Does a Gifted Child Look Like? Embracing Child-Focused Learning | A Guide for Homeschooling Neurodivergent Children 100 Hints That Your Child May Be Gifted Fostering Teamwork | The Power of Collaborative Learning in Homeschooling Delight-Directed Learner Turned Published Author | A Conversation with Millie Florence Cultivating Commitment and Follow Through Why Gamified Learning Works So Well For Gifted Children The Power Of Inquiry Based Learning For Gifted Children Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Mar 27, 2025 • 28min
Understanding Impulse Control in Gifted and Neurodivergent Kids
We're diving into an essential topic in this week's podcast episode that's sure to resonate with many of you—developing impulse control in our neurodivergent kids. As we know, impulse control can be particularly challenging for gifted, twice-exceptional, and neurodivergent kiddos. Let's break down why our unique learners face these challenges and talk practical strategies to support them in everyday scenarios. Key Takeaways: Create a Flexible Learning Environment: Shorter lessons with frequent breaks help cater to brains seeking novelty. Role-Playing Social Situations: Practice different responses to improve social impulse control. Calm Down Spaces: Designate a quiet corner with sensory tools for emotional regulation. Gamify Focus: Turn attention skills into a fun challenge to encourage progress. Keep an eye out for new courses and coaching programs, perfect for your family. Stay tuned for more information by joining our newsletter if you haven’t already—it’s the best way to ensure you’re up-to-date with the latest resources and support. Don’t forget, The Learner’s Lab is also a fantastic resource for in-depth strategies, activities, and group coaching sessions that can further aid your journey in supporting your child’s development. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It’s a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today’s Episode Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Psychomotor Overexcitabilities And Gifted Children: What You Need To Know Psychomotor Overexcitabilities: Helping Your Child Thrive Managing Your Child’s Intensity During the Holidays 100 Hints That Your Child May Be Gifted Knowing If Your Child is Gifted Play-Based Learning In Your Homeschool: It’s More Than Just Board Games Moms With ADHD Homeschooling Children With ADHD Motivating Your Child With ADHD: 7 Tips For Your Homeschool Homeschooling Tips For Wiggly Kids ADHD And Your Homeschool: An Overview Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Mar 12, 2025 • 41min
Inspire a Love for Learning at Home
Explore how to nurture a love for learning in children through curiosity and adaptability. Discover the importance of fostering a growth mindset to embrace challenges and encourage continuous exploration. Learn practical tips for creating an engaging home environment filled with books, art supplies, and science tools. Focus on your children's passions to guide their learning journeys, allowing for self-directed projects that ignite their curiosity. Keep the process of learning alive and inspiring!

Mar 6, 2025 • 27min
Understanding Executive Function Skills in Gifted and Twice-Exceptional Children
In this episode of the podcast, we dive into what executive function skills actually are, likening them to a control center or the CEO of your body. These skills encompass planning, organization, time management, task initiation, working memory, and self-regulation, among others. But why do so many gifted and neurodivergent kids struggle with them? The answer often lies in asynchronous development. Different parts of their brain mature at different rates, leading to a brilliant child who can solve complex math problems, yet forgets their socks. But rest assured, executive function skills can be taught and strengthened over time! Key Takeaways: Visibility Matters: Use visual schedules and step-by-step breakdowns for tasks. This makes intangible routines more tangible for your child. Teach Time Awareness: Utilize visual timers and create consistent routines. Games like "Beat the Timer" can make learning time fun rather than stressful. Incorporate Breaks & Movement: Allow your children to move around, use brain breaks, and include snacks to reset focus. One Task at a Time: Present tasks singularly to prevent overwhelm and foster success. Keep an eye out for our upcoming course on executive function skills, perfect for you and your child to work through together. Stay tuned for more information by joining our newsletter if you haven’t already—it's the best way to ensure you're up-to-date with the latest resources and support. Don’t forget, The Learner's Lab is also a fantastic resource for in-depth strategies, activities, and group coaching sessions that can further aid your journey in supporting your child's development. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It’s a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today’s Episode Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Strengthening Executive Function Skills: A Conversation with Sarah Collins Strengthen Executive Function Skills The Best Books for Teaching About Executive Functions Skills 7 Executive Functioning Activities for Small Children RLL #84: Exploring Education and Executive Function with Seth Perler The Unmeasured Executive Functioning Issue RLL 20: Helping Your Kiddo with Executive Function Skills Struggles | A Listener Question RLL LIVE | Improving Executive Functions Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Feb 12, 2025 • 37min
Understanding Asynchrony in Gifted Children
Explore the intriguing concept of asynchronous development in gifted children, where advanced cognitive skills clash with emotional intensity. Discover how this unique blend requires innovative parenting and teaching strategies. Learn to adjust expectations, celebrate strengths, and provide tailored educational experiences beyond traditional methods. The importance of connecting with intellectual peers and fostering emotional growth through effective strategies is emphasized as essential for nurturing these exceptional learners.

Jan 29, 2025 • 24min
Developing Confidence in Differently Wired Kids
This week, we wrap up our series on the 6 Cs of Homeschooling Success from Colleen's new book, The Homeschool Advantage. In this final episode, we dive deep into the power of Confidence and how to nurture it in our kiddos. Key Takeaways: Encourage the Willingness to Try: Confidence begins with the courage to take risks and step out of comfort zones. Emphasizing the effort over instant understanding encourages kids to keep trying new things. Develop Persistence and Grit: Persistence, or "grit," is crucial for sticking with long-term goals even when facing challenges. Providing a safe space for failure and growth helps build resilient, capable adults. Model Confidence Through Action: Our kids are always watching us; showing how we handle setbacks and take risks teaches them valuable lessons. Praising effort over intelligence and asking reflective questions help them learn from mistakes and build self-belief. Dive into this episode to learn more about fostering confidence in your homeschool journey! Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It’s a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today’s Episode Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell The Powerful Relationship Between Confidence And Learning In Our Homeschools A Deep Dive into The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Embracing Child-Focused Learning | A Guide for Homeschooling Neurodivergent Children The Importance of Happiness in Homeschooling | A Guide for Parents Embracing Play for Teens | Growth and Resilience Delight-Directed Learner Turned Published Author | A Conversation with Millie Florence Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Jan 17, 2025 • 25min
Embracing Creativity in Homeschooling
In this week's episode, we dive deep into a favorite topic—creativity. This episode is all about how to nurture and develop creativity in your children, teaching them to think outside the box and develop innovative solutions to everyday problems. Here's a snapshot of what to expect in this episode: Key Takeaways: Understanding Creativity: Creativity extends beyond just the arts and can be applied in science, business, and problem-solving. Nurturing Creativity: It's important to create an environment at home that supports and encourages creative thinking. Creative Thinking in Action: Creativity impacts children's perceptions of themselves positively as creative individuals. Listen to the episode now and explore how you can cultivate a culture of creativity within your homeschool. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today’s Episode Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. The Anxiety Toolkit Fostering Creativity and Critical Thinking | A Conversation with Puzzlemaker Eric Berlin Unleashing Childhood Creativity in the Homeschool Environment Creative Thinking Activities for Kids RLL #90: Cultivating Creative Writers with Celeste Davidson Great Resources for Curious & Creative Homeschoolers Finding Peace in a Life Filled with Intensity: Managing Overexcitabilities in Smart and Creative Kids RLL 06 S.D. Smith: Cultivating Creativity Through New Stories with an Old Soul Inspiring Creativity in Kids Raising Creative Kids | Upcycled Finger Puppets Raising Creative Kids | Simple Prompts to Spark Imagination Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

Jan 8, 2025 • 25min
The Role of Critical Thinking in Homeschooling
In today's episode, we chat about the fourth C of homeschooling success: Critical Thinking. This indispensable skill is more relevant than ever in our fast-paced, information-saturated world. Here’s a glimpse of what you can expect from Episode 267: Key Takeaways: Definition and Importance of Critical Thinking: Understand what critical thinking truly means and why it's crucial for our kids to develop this ability. Engaging Your Kids: Learn practical strategies, such as asking open-ended questions, storytelling, and integrating games and play to foster critical thinking at home. Real-Life Applications: Discover how discussing literature and everyday situations can build your child’s ability to analyze, evaluate, and form independent judgments. Respectful Parenting: Create an environment that values curiosity and respects differing opinions, setting the stage for lifelong learners who are confident to question and innovate. Listen to the episode now and explore how you can cultivate a culture of critical thinking within your homeschool. Get the Book For a deeper dive into these transformative concepts, don’t forget to grab my new book, The Homeschool Advantage, where you can explore chapter six and beyond. It's a fantastic resource filled with actionable advice for homeschool educators. Links and Resources from Today’s Episode Our sponsor for today’s episode is CTC Math The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed. Ultimate Growing Unit Study Bundle Building Strong Family Teams | Tips for Connection and Collaboration Building Strong Family Bonds | A Conversation with Andee Martineau Strengthening Bonds | Building Family Routines and Rituals The Importance of Happiness in Homeschooling | A Guide for Parents Homeschooling Success | The Role of Strong Family Connections Fostering Teamwork | The Power of Collaborative Learning in Homeschooling Homeschooling with Clarity, Confidence, and Calm | A Conversation with Michelle Brownell Helping Our Kids Self-Regulate with Sarah Collins The Anxiety Toolkit Connect with Colleen You can find Colleen on Twitter @ColleenKessler, Facebook @RaisingLifelongLearners, Instagram @ColleenKessler

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Dec 4, 2024 • 32min
Rethinking Content | Transforming Education Through Homeschooling
This discussion dives into the real meaning of 'content' in homeschooling, advocating for teaching kids how to think and explore rather than just memorize facts. It emphasizes the importance of personalizing education to align with each child's interests, fostering curiosity and engagement. The conversation also reflects on the limitations of traditional education methods, encouraging parents to model lifelong learning and embrace unique learning journeys. The overall message? There's no perfect curriculum; it's all about what fits best for each family.