What Would Love Do?

How Childhood Traumas Affects Our Love Choices with Sabrina Rising I’ve had the pleasure of working with Sabrina Rising personally and am thrilled that she agreed to come on this episode to help explain that what we experience in our childhood directly affects our adulthood. Sabrina is an intuitive guide who helps people transform their lives and align with their innermost desires. She’s been helping people for nearly 20 years. My purpose for working with Sabrina was professional; I wanted to get some clarity around my business and before I knew it, we were diving into my childhood. It’s wild to think that by the time we’re 8 years old, we have learned lessons from our parents and other adults that shape our whole personality. THIS is where the personal development work comes in! No matter what we’ve experienced, there is opportunity to change our thinking and our beliefs to achieve a better version of ourselves. Our parents do the best they can with the knowledge they have at the time. But if WE don’t like the direction our lives are taking, WE are capable and responsible for doing the work to make the changes we want. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about NOT settling for the status quo and how understanding our childhood experiences can shine light on why we make certain choices as adults. Let’s talk about…How Childhood Traumas Affects Our Love Choices with Sabrina Rising Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post How Childhood Traumas Affects Our Love Choices with Sabrina Rising appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

6 “NICE GIRL” Habits ALL WOMEN Must Break! Many people in this midlife age range grew up being told to be ‘nice’ to others. How often did you hear “Nice girls wouldn’t do that,” or being forced to apologize to a sibling or friend because the words you said weren’t “nice.” Now as an adult, I hear these phrases and think about how ‘being nice’ means not showing your true self to others. It’s the same as hiding behind a mask because you’re not using your voice to say what you feel. When you stifle your thoughts like this, you’re giving your power away and allowing someone else to dictate how you act and what you say. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to show your authentic self to others and how to drop the people-pleasing habits that everyone can fall into. Let’s talk about…6 “NICE GIRL” Habits ALL WOMEN Must Break! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 6 “NICE GIRL” Habits ALL WOMEN Must Break! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men (over 40) Have a Hard Time Opening Up Emotionally Until THIS Happens I talk a lot about being emotionally available or mature in relationships but it dawned on me recently (after a conversation with another dating coach contemporary) that many men don’t understand what that means. It’s hard enough knowing what you want in a relationship but to not understand how to be present emotionally for the partner in your life just adds confusion and frustration to the picture. Traditionally men don’t like talking about emotions; that’s often a lesson learned from childhood and it takes time and willingness to accept that emotional maturity is paramount to a long lasting relationship. When a man is emotionally mature and available, they are willing to look ahead and tell you where he sees the relationship going. When men avoid the question, it’s time to slow the roll and dive deeper into his emotions. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about recognizing emotional maturity and how to work through emotional avoidance with your guy. Let’s talk about…Men (over 40) Have a Hard Time Opening Up Emotionally Until THIS Happens Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Men (over 40) Have a Hard Time Opening Up Emotionally Until THIS Happens appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

4 Stages Men Go Through Before They’ll Commit Many midlife women feel like they’re in a rush to find their dream guy. And while I admit that you shouldn’t waste time on men who don’t have the same values you do, rushing a commitment from someone isn’t the best way to build a solid relationship. Some men need more time than women to build a trusting bond. A lot of men don’t do any kind of personal development or spiritual work, so it’s possible you’ll meet someone who isn’t as advanced in their growth as you are. That doesn’t mean it isn’t possible to commit but knowing these 4 stages will help you recognize if the relationship is progressing in the right direction. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to know when your guy is ready to ‘go all in’ with his commitment. Let’s talk about…4 Stages Men Go Through Before They’ll Commit Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 4 Stages Men Go Through Before They’ll Commit appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

5 Male INSECURITIES That Women NEED To Know Insecurity is not just a woman problem…men suffer from insecurities, too. Heck, it’s safe to say that ALL humans suffer from some kind of insecurity! This is not something to be ashamed of; it’s a fact of life but it hinders how we act with each other. Add in our awful communication skills and we have the belief that being insecure is something to be ashamed of. This vicious belief cycle is why we put masks on ourselves to hide the insecurities that plague us. These masks don’t allow others to know the real person and we’re actually cheating ourselves by not presenting our authentic self to the world. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how men internalize their insecurities and how women can recognize insecure behavior. Let’s talk about…5 Male INSECURITIES That Women NEED To Know Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 5 Male INSECURITIES That Women NEED To Know appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Love Women Who Do THIS! Secrets To A Happy Relationship Have you ever been in a healthy, happy relationship where you felt equally loved by your  partner? We all have these ideas of what this type of relationship looks and feels like but often times you don’t really know that’s what you’ve found until your deep into it. Relationships bring up all kinds of emotions, from the lust of a first meeting to complacency of being together for decades. Certain things about your partner may trigger old childhood wounds. Even relationships with our parents aren’t always happy and healthy, so who’s really able to give us good insight into what we’re striving to find? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to keep the flame alive and how to recognize when you’re with an emotionally mature man. Let’s talk about…Men Love Women Who Do THIS! Secrets To A Happy Relationship Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Men Love Women Who Do THIS! Secrets To A Happy Relationship appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

10 Sneaky Ways Men Use Women Commitment can be confusing for midlife men. When you’re younger, most men understand there’s a commitment to help raise children and provide for a family. But in the midlife years – aka after baby making – many men shy away from commitment for any number of reasons. If you couple this confusion with the women who want a man at any costs, you now have a recipe for disaster. The men are confused about what their partner wants. The women are lowering their standards because they just want a man in their lives. Very often neither person knows how to effectively communicate their needs and desires. Can you see how this scenario is unstable? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about improving communication skills and recognizing when a man is not ready for commitment. Let’s talk about…10 Sneaky Ways Men Use Women Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 10 Sneaky Ways Men Use Women (Warning: Harsh Reality Check) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

When A Man Pulls Away, Never Do THIS! Do you remember the television show Seinfeld? Specifically the episode about George and his theory of opposite day. He always felt like he was down on his luck in everything he did so he figured, why not do the opposite of his natural instincts. Naturally, it worked and he was loving life! You’ll find other advice gurus who suggest that when someone pulls away from the relationship, you treat it like no big deal. Move on, life your best life, and find someone new. What these people are forgetting is the emotional strain caused by a partner pulling away and you’ll often find women wanting closure. In this case, do the opposite of your natural instinct and tell this guy exactly how you made him feel…then go live your best life. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to handle an emotional breakup and how to heal, especially if you don’t get your closure. Let’s talk about… When A Man Pulls Away, Never Do THIS! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post When A Man Pulls Away, Never Do THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

The Power Of Walking Away From A Man Changes His Behavior Think back to your childhood and your parents. Did they fulfill the stereotypical gender roles of the father being the head of the household while the mother was the submissive housewife? For many generations, this is just the way society raised their children. The men seemingly had more power than the women. Starting in the late 1960s and progressing through today, women are more aware of the power they hold over their own lives and within their relationships. It wasn’t a fast-paced societal change but women were realizing they didn’t need a man to care for them. They were interested in pursuing careers instead of being full time moms. They voiced their opinions instead of staying silent. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how women can fully embrace their power and find men who respect and appreciate a strong woman. Let’s talk about… The Power Of Walking Away From A Man Changes His Behavior Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post The Power Of Walking Away From A Man Changes His Behavior appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

If You REALLY Want To Know How He Feels About You, Do THIS Emotional intimacy is different from physical intimacy. In today’s hook up dating culture, kissing and sex are seen as very benign, almost like they’re no big deal. That’s quite a 180 degree turnaround from decades ago where it was frowned upon to have premarital sex. In the past, you developed an emotional intimacy FIRST before the physical intimacy developed. Nowadays many women get emotional intimacy confused with physical intimacy. They think because someone wants to make out and have sex that they have a real connection. Sadly, men who think sex is no big deal are just having fun and not thinking that physical intimacy equals commitment. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the differences between emotional and physical intimacy and how to talk with your guy about his views on sex and intimacy. Let’s talk about… If You REALLY Want To Know How He Feels About You, Do THIS Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post If You REALLY Want To Know How He Feels About You, Do THIS appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.