What Would Love Do?

Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest?? My coaching clients tell me all the time that when a guy goes silent – even when the chemistry is awesome – they have a difficult time not jumping to conclusions, such as, “He doesn’t like me; I hit a nerve; I did something wrong”. You know the routine. But those thoughts are really made up stories or assumptions. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Having amazing chemistry with someone does not mean you’ll have a successful long-term relationship. Chemistry certainly helps with the physical side of a relationship but if you want a long-term partner, you’ll both need to dig deeper and share your values and dreams to build a solid foundation. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why fear, frustration, and silence can manifest in a relationship and how to work around those emotions. Let’s talk about…Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest?? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Does His Silence Mean It’s Over & He’s Lost Interest?? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

He’s Pulled Away | AVOID THIS MISTAKE! Doesn’t it seem odd that two people can have two very different definitions of a relationship? The dating world is confusing these days, mostly because it’s so easy (and acceptable) to hook up instead of committing to someone. In the olden days people were expected to get married before having sex; nowadays it’s acceptable to have multiple partners throughout one’s life. If and when your guy pulls away, it’s important to realize that you are not the sole reason for the change. How was your communication? Did he have past trauma or baggage that was difficult for him to let go of? Did you have the same idea of what a relationship and commitment looked like? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to handle those feelings of blame when a guy goes silent on you. Let’s talk about…He’s Pulled Away | AVOID THIS MISTAKE! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post He’s Pulled Away | AVOID THIS MISTAKE! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

When A Man Sends You MIXED SIGNALS, Here’s What He’s Thinking Mixed signals are tough to break down because there can be any number of reasons why your guy is acting this way. But it boils down to lack of communication and lack of awareness of what he REALLY wants in his life. It’s all too easy to hook up these days and some actually give their hearts away too quickly and get hurt when the relationship ends. Because of this hook up culture, there’s more value put on outward looks and image than on personal values or communication. When we’re so distracted with who we can sleep with next, it distracts us from identifying what we want out of a real relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to interpret mixed signals and how to avoid giving mixed signals yourself. Let’s talk about…When A Man Sends You MIXED SIGNALS, Here’s What He’s Thinking Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post When A Man Sends You MIXED SIGNALS, Here’s What He’s Thinking appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

3 KEYS To Identifying If He’s Your Soulmate or Your True Love Some midlifers will argue that ‘true love’ and ‘soulmates’ are figments from Hollywood movies. Nobody falls head over heels in love and devotes every waking moment to their beloved…or do they? Finding true love is certainly possible but it takes going DEEP with conversations. The more you learn about the inner hopes and dreams of your partner, the more you’ll want to help make those things come true. When he shares, then you’ll be more comfortable sharing and you just might discover a new, deeper connection that makes you want to stay with him forever. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about doing the hard inner work so you can open yourself up to love and deep conversations with your partner. Let’s talk about…3 KEYS To Identifying If He’s Your Soulmate or Your True Love Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 3 KEYS To Identifying If He’s Your Soulmate or Your True Love appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Need THIS To Fully Commit To A Woman w/@manisfriedman I am honored to have Rabbi Manis Friedman as my guest today. He is a world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher who uses the ancient wisdom of Torah/Kabbalah plus modern wit to captivate audiences around the world. In this special conversation, we’re chatting about marriage. As you might guess, this is a complex subject but we dive into the nitty gritty of why people don’t take marriage seriously and why people lose themselves in marriage. Rabbi Friedman goes so far as to say we are in conflict with our souls because the soul wants connection but human nature wants autonomy and independence. It’s really a fascinating conversation that I didn’t want to end! Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about all things marriage and how you can embrace what it truly means to have a meaningful lifelong partnership. Let’s talk about…Men Need THIS To Fully Commit To A Woman w/@manisfriedman Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Men Need THIS To Fully Commit To A Woman w/@manisfriedman appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

He Wants To Move On and You Feel Crushed, How Do You Heal? Think back to the break ups in your life. How did you handle your emotions? What lessons did you learn from that relationship? In the movies, the women are often on the receiving end of a break up and they gravitate toward eating too much ice cream. While that might be funny in the movies, a break up in real life is not so light-hearted. Overeating is certainly a coping mechanism for some but as you can guess, it’s not a healthy thing to do. Be aware that there are ALWAYS lessons to be learned in every aspect of life, even in your breakups. Notice any patterns between your last few relationships. Are you attracted to a certain type of guy? Remember…you don’t have to settle for only one type of guy. Set your standards and don’t be afraid to say NO to any guy who doesn’t meet those standards. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about recovering from a break up and how to co-create a relationship so both people can feel fulfilled. Let’s talk about…He Wants To Move On and You Feel Crushed, How Do You Heal? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post He Wants To Move On and You Feel Crushed, How Do You Heal? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Letting Go: How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship… Breaking up is never easy, no matter what level of relationship you’re in. Everyone’s emotions are raw and it can be a very confusing time figuring out if you really want to break up or if there’s still a way to stay together. Ultimately, each person needs to address if their needs are being met and they need to be honest with themselves about what those needs are. We alone are responsible for our own happiness; we can’t depend on someone else – a partner or friend – to make us happy. That line from Jerry Maguire, “You complete me,” isn’t true. Depending on someone else to make you happy or to ‘complete you’ is giving your power away. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about knowing the signs that your relationship is shifting and how to recognize when it’s no longer salvageable. Let’s talk about…Letting Go: How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship… Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Letting Go: How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship… appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Is He Afraid Of Love? Do THIS To Build Intimacy With A Man Parenting is a difficult and confusing job. Most parents do the best they can given the tools and knowledge available at the time; yet so many adults can trace dysfunctional lessons back to their childhoods. In fact, our personalities and limiting beliefs are ingrained by the time we’re 8-9 years old based on the lessons learned from the adults in our lives. But this isn’t about parent shaming or blaming others for lack of intimacy. Understanding our childhood lessons can help highlight where we need to work on ourselves so that we can welcome a partner into our lives and be willing to share the best of us. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about creating intimacy with a partner and how to change debilitating childhood lessons. Let’s talk about…Is He Afraid Of Love? Do THIS To Build Intimacy With A Man Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Is He Afraid Of Love? Do THIS To Build Intimacy With A Man appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Why Men (Over 40) Choose You Over Other Women Life is better with company. I firmly believe that we are NOT meant to be alone. Humans need  connection and intimacy and we all remember how isolating it was to be alone during the pandemic shutdowns. But this doesn’t mean jumping from one relationship to the next and just settling for whoever comes along. We are all worthy of finding that partner who will love us until our dying days; who will be excited to spend time with us and want to dive into deep conversations about our heart’s desires. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about healthy relationships and why so many people don’t recognize unhealthy behaviors in relationships. Let’s talk about…Why Men (Over 40) Choose You Over Other Women Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Why Men (Over 40) Choose You Over Other Women appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

If You Do THIS To A Man, Will It Sabotage Your Relationship? When you’re serious about finding a long term relationship, it’s important to talk about attachment styles. Understanding your own behavior goes a long way to making sense of a guy’s behavior. Understanding your own love attachment style is the first step to NOT sabotaging future romantic relationships. Attachment styles occur based on your past experiences, including those from your childhood. Every single day from the moment we’re born our subconscious is learning lessons about relating to others. From our parents, siblings, and extended family  to school teachers, sports coaches, and peers at school, ALL of these lessons (whether right or wrong, good or bad) get ingrained into our personality. It’s no wonder by the time we hit the midlife years we don’t know what to do in relationships! That’s a lot of information to decipher. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about attachment styles and how to determine which style is yours. Let’s talk about…If You Do THIS To A Man, Will It Sabotage Your Relationship? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post If You Do THIS To A Man, Will It Sabotage Your Relationship? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.